Because if your own standards are realistic, you’d be getting what you wanted.

The very definition of an unrealistic standard is to only be satisfied and accept something that is above what you can achieve yourself.

So if you’re a man and you’re unable to get sex or relationships, then you can’t say your standards are not unrealistic. If they were realistic you’d literally be getting what you want.

You can’t blame you not getting what you want on somebody else’s standards being unrealistic, lol. “If women’s standards weren’t unrealistic then my standards wouldn’t be unrealistic therefore my standards are realistic because they’re only unrealistic because of somebody else’s unrealistic standards.”

Lol how ridiculous does that sound???

Not getting what you want? Stop blaming other people’s standards and check your own or rise to those standards yourself.