The blue pill gives advice on how to get women, the red pill gives advice on how to get attractive women

Novadina · 2023-02-14T19:40:37+00:00

I mean… has anyone here followed the advice of TRP gotten a supermodel girlfriend when they could only get 400lb women before?? I’d love to what they actually changed to do that. I feel like the only change that could do that is if a guy was 400lb himself and was ugly only because of his extreme weight, then he lost the weight and got skin removal surgery and became a male model. Is that a common thing men for men who follow TRP? Like they just didn’t realize being morbidly obese was unattractive somehow, they had no idea why they could only get with women like themselves, who they weren’t even attracted to, but for some reason they really thought super models were very attracted to men so fat they can’t even use their dick… And then they read some red pill stuff that stated hot women actually prefer hot men and had a major epiphany?

4_gwai_lo · 2023-02-14T20:18:35+00:00

How do I land a 10 when I'm a 5?

Just be yourself, because no matter what you do, you won't succeed.

Lanzienator · 2023-02-14T20:38:31+00:00

If you want a hot woman....be hot. Yall need a pill for that?

LowCreddit · 2023-02-14T21:26:43+00:00

The blue pill doesn't work at all unless you rolled high tier DNA on your birth stats, and guys like that usually become Naturals, the guys TRP is trying to emulate. Even the guys who marry 400 lbs single moms in their 30s are stuck begging for birthday handies.

The reality is that once some women want you, most women want you. The best way to become a billionaire is to be a millionaire. The same goes for women. In sex, money, and power, the best way to get more is to already have some.

uglysaladisugly · 2023-02-14T18:50:37+00:00

Attractive very hypergamic and probably quite insufferable women.

The fact is, you base your game on how "women" as a whole are in your opinion. You'll get women who indeed are like that.

ReplyExtras · 2023-02-14T18:01:46+00:00

The average guy isn't going to land a supermodel no matter what he does. Might as well just be yourself in that situation. 🤷🏾‍♂️

EDIT: 'She's not going to f*ck you no matter what you do, so do whatever you want' is a more blackpilled way of saying 'just be yourself' and applies to average women as well as models.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-02-14T17:59:03+00:00

The RP gives some common sense wrapped up in selfishness to dudes who apparently didn’t grab any growing up. BP is just anything a RP believer disagrees with. Let’s not make it any more “profound” than it really is.

2023-02-14T18:17:51+00:00

The blue pill is foolish, the redpill is foolish.

uglysaladisugly · 2023-02-14T18:48:37+00:00

There is no blue pill....

januaryphilosopher · 2023-02-14T18:19:01+00:00

What women find attractive doesn't depend on their looks. Advice to be the most attractive you can be will work regardless of how a woman looks, but it will vary depending on their personalities (hence why red pill advice is good for getting low-quality manipulative women). A good-looking woman won't have any different tastes to other woman but may have more of an opportunity to be with a man who fits her tastes more exactly (who may well be a man who is just himself). A bad-looking women will still find the same men attractive she would if she looked great, she just may be more likely to have to settle for a man she finds less attractive.

BrummieAMN19 · 2023-02-14T19:11:34+00:00

Lol redpill tells guys just “focus on yourself and get money, ignore women in your 20s and women will come to you at 30 bro” and think it’s legitimate advice lmao. Like as if money makes you alpha or you need it to hookup with women or have a relationship. Even personality matters more

And their game tactics are underwhelming as fuck to bag a hot girl

MrsKetchup · 2023-02-14T18:57:53+00:00

Different strategies for different stages. People conflate Lust and Love, 2 stages of attraction with different dynamics.

Yes, you need to be attractive to date. But being nice and having a good personality matters also, for a relationship

However you might not get a relationship where personality matters more, without being initially attractive

Early-Christmas-4742 · 2023-02-14T19:54:08+00:00

Which asoect of RP differentiates?

Which part of BP suggsts there's no difference?

Which part of this argument is not a strawman?

NOTSM · 2023-02-14T18:12:50+00:00

It's awalt not aawalt.

TRP doesn't differentiate by looks when it comes to female nature.

Capeninja · 2023-02-14T21:57:47+00:00

Honestly the blue pill won't even get some guys a 400 pound woman. Some guys are so out of line with the behavior that most women find desirable that they need to make big red pill changes. And after making these changes their prospects with women in general will improve.

Some-Web-1213 · 2023-02-15T02:13:43+00:00

If you can only get with a 4 there is no eye opening knowledge that will help you hack your way through the dating game and get with an 8.

wtknight · 2023-02-14T18:02:49+00:00

The Red Pill is mostly about how to attract a woman just long enough to have casual sex or perhaps third date sex with her, whether she is attractive or not. Most women aren’t going to stick around with a Red Piller once they find out what he believes, or if they vet him properly before having sex with him. Unfortunately, many women these days don’t vet men properly before having sex with them.

Safinated · 2023-02-14T17:54:18+00:00

Attractive, and also responsive to gender stereotypes and manipulation/game playing

ScrimmyBingusTwo · 2023-02-14T18:18:03+00:00

The blue pill only works if you're trying to get literally ANY woman

Even the bluepill fails at at that by emphasizing that it's personality and not looks which holds struggling men back. 400lb women still expect at least a 6/10.

obviousredflag · 2023-02-14T18:22:14+00:00

Both pills do not change the outcome. The daily success stories of sub-5 guys who got the model by following the red pill are a testimony to that.

noafrochamplusamurai · 2023-02-14T18:29:37+00:00

No......no it doesn't, redpill is advice for sex( most of the women you land are going to be average, you gonna be smashing 8+ types on the regular. Also redpiller alphas get cucked a lot) blue pill is more relationship building ( these guys get monkey branched a lot) . Betwixt these 2 styles there is a middle ground. The middle ground gets you the most success. However, if I were forced to pick between the 2. Blue pill is going to get you more success long term.

webernicke · 2023-02-14T18:19:24+00:00

The blue pill only works if you're trying to get literally ANY woman.

No it doesn't.

Any woman you attract while bluepilled is despite being bluepilled, not because of it.

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Impossible_You_8555 · 2023-02-14T19:36:12+00:00

Pua is how to pick up women, trp forgets you also have to be fun

Also I'd say bluepill advice isn't be yourself, the blue pill types I've meet try very hard to be blue pilled

SolidusMonkey · 2023-02-14T21:27:23+00:00

The blue pill doesn't give advice on how to get women. It gives advice on how to never ever make women feel the slightest bit uncomfortable or awkward in their lives, at the complete expense of the men receiving the blue pill advice.

KayRay1994 · 2023-02-15T04:18:03+00:00

the blue pill in itself isn’t an ideology - with that being said, i think its more “the blue pill will give men false hope and says one is enough as they are, and the redpill teaches men how to manipulate to get what they want” - the redpill is far worse if we’re gonna define both as ideologies because it causes active harm to others and the outside world, the ‘bluepill’, is, at the very least, entirely internal.

Again, both are heavily flawed for their own set of reasons - to be very clear the bluepill actively expressed a desire to avoid being your best self and ignores some key realities, but it isn’t nearly as externally volatile as a cult-like ideology based off some very misogynistic and sexist core beliefs (and before y’all come at me with “the red pill gives men motivation to work out, better themselves, etc” - if you need a misogynistic ideology to tell you to workout and get your shit together, re-evaluate your core belief system)

Mr_Chad_Thunderpenis · 2023-02-15T14:24:37+00:00

Well theoretically anyone can get a woman if they drop their standards and go for 1s and 2s. The whole purpose of the red pill is use it to your advantage and get a woman you are actually satisfied with.

ObviouslyAnAltAct · 2023-02-18T19:52:15+00:00

Wrong. The Red Pill teaches you how to get a woman. The Blue Pill teaches you how to keep her.

Title	The blue pill gives advice on how to get women, the red pill gives advice on how to get attractive women
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Date	February 14, 2023 5:49 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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