Mother seeks to ban boy & mother from public park; liberal folks on twitter make much fun of it.

bakedpotato486 · 2018-04-26T05:04:45+00:00

We live in a world where boys get everything and girls are left with the crumbs

This just boils my blood. How do people come to these conclusions? Does splitting everything evenly really feel that bad?

Fortunately Carolyn Hax, some Q&A advice columnist, had a half-decent response to it.

A: Carolyn Hax

Can I appeal to -your- better nature?

Goddess help us all.

Shooing off the mom and her boy was terrible. And justifying it as a cosmic correction? Wow.

That kid is a human being--not with privileged little man feelings, either, but with feelings, period. Perhaps even a disposition that fit better into your idea of girl behavior than one or more of the girls there. People are not widgets. And the adult you shooed off is a mom, possessor of the same crumbs you've been fed, no? So don't you think she would have just liked to hang with some fellow moms in the park while she was out with her child?

I mean, maybe not now. I'd avoid you thereafter if I were the one you asked to leave on these terms.

If you're going to have an exclusive gathering, then host it on private property.

And if you're going to accuse anyone of being "entitled," then ask yourself who was claiming possession of public space for her own purposes.

— APR 20, 2018 12:29 EDT

Some good comments in the discussion on the page too should you go to the original site.

Ghunter43 · 2018-04-26T08:42:09+00:00

"entitled to this girls-only time"

It's funny how these people arbitrarily set up a time for them and then feel entitled to it, THEN call the boy entitled as well. I just hope the kid's mom will realize this and bring more of his friends over.

RandyDanderson · 2018-04-26T08:23:08+00:00

We don't want to socialize with you because you baby came out a boy

boys are privileged.

You kinda have to pick one

heldonhammer · 2018-04-26T12:12:19+00:00

"Girls are left with the crumbs." The fact that this woman believes that she can keep a mother and her boy from a public park completely disproves that statement.

williamthewillwill · 2018-04-26T05:05:25+00:00

What an entitled cunt.

Akesgeroth · 2018-04-26T12:24:08+00:00

We live in a world where boys get everything and girls are left with the crumbs

She says, as she's refusing crumbs to the boy.

Lethn · 2018-04-26T08:13:02+00:00

I feel bad for this daughters. They're gonna grow up to be just as shitty as their mothers

Bluefish178 · 2018-04-26T04:36:12+00:00

r/fuckthesepeople

thisisme201413 · 2018-04-26T08:29:00+00:00

at what point did feminism become about occupying the playground

handklap · 2018-04-26T08:31:13+00:00

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jeff_the_nurse · 2018-04-26T11:59:32+00:00

Meanwhile, we have to be so catering to women that we have to let them into the Boy Scouts and onto boys’ high school/college sports teams and we have to make Father’s Day all about the single moms...

Electroverted · 2018-04-26T12:23:06+00:00

Damn, put yourself in that mom/son's shoes. Maybe they have a busy schedule, and this is only chance they get to come here. And now some women's lib hens are trying to chase them off the playground. All because her child is a boy. Yes, they absolutely do not want to include her because of that, and they're surprised when she's mad.

dazscrimpy87 · 2018-04-26T13:35:56+00:00

I’ve sort of been confronted with things like this except I’m the stay at home dad and I have daughters. When my eldest was just walking I would take her to parks and see women that I know knew me or recognized me and they wouldn’t even acknowledge us. Even their kids would steer clear of my kid just because she was with a dad. It broke my heart to see my kid get punished just because we aren’t in a traditional dynamic. Eventually she realized it and she would express the wish for me to work and for my wife to stay home. When we had my second daughter people seemed to be less apprehensive. Something about a guy having two kids makes it seem like he’s really “doing this,” rather than just a dude without a job.

I used to try to make friendships with stay at home moms but anymore I’ve found a stay at home dad who I talk to and there are a few progressive stay at home moms who I talk to when I take my kids to activities. We also take them to a church activity group where the women seem to be way more open minded than the ones in my neighborhood.

But I’ve given up on trying to be part of the “community” of stay at home moms in my neighborhood. I can’t stand them and their smug kids who ostracize mine.

StrawberryLetter22 · 2018-04-26T10:25:47+00:00

What a horrible group of parents Hahahaha

curlyconscience · 2018-04-26T09:48:47+00:00

Ha! I'd invite the whole local boy scout troop and every God damn kids rec team in the county and throw a party for boys and girls. If they want girl only play time with dolls and kitchens they should head home to their living rooms. Stuff like this makes me legitimately terrified to have sons at all ever.

2018-04-26T12:06:30+00:00

I would love to hold the door open for this woman...

Arthuyo · 2018-04-26T05:00:20+00:00

Is this something you can link to?

revenueperadventure · 2018-04-26T16:23:35+00:00

We live in a world where boys get everything and girls are left with the crumbs

Where can I get some of those crumbs? They seem to be working out pretty well.

BlueOrange22 · 2018-04-26T19:15:36+00:00

a world where boys get everything and girls get crumbs

And this is what milieu control does, gives people a strong sense of moral high ground and permission to dictate over others based on false perception. Boys are less likely to attend university, more likely to be homeless, more likely to be unemployed, yet some vague belief that "boys get everything" gives this woman the idea that she has the right to deny a child space in a playground?

The anti-male sentiment fostered by the SJW movement is pure bigotry, and ordinary people such as this mother can fall victim to the psychological manipulation of it.

dogfightdruid · 2018-04-26T14:55:47+00:00

Boys are evil right? Keep treating them that way watch what develops.

iddco · 2018-04-26T17:57:23+00:00

As a father who has had the cops called on me TWICE because I had the audacity of being at the park with my child BEFORE they arrived, I can relate to the mother and son. These people are out there.

chambertlo · 2018-04-26T09:58:40+00:00

What.A.FUCKING.Cunt.

There should be a test in order to breed.

AcidJiles · 2018-04-26T12:26:14+00:00

I feel sorry for this mother, she has naively and stupidly bought into all the lies being pushed in MSM and online about the conditions and situation for women. It is going to be a hard awakening if she has a son and then realises that the world is a whole lot more complicated than has been presented and women are not the underclass in the West she has been told.

ferapy · 2018-04-26T13:47:15+00:00

The more stuff I see like this the less I get worked up b/c I can't help but think it's a troll account. Yes there are legitimate people like this but it seems like 50% of this stuff is troll garbage.

tricks_23 · 2018-04-26T11:11:10+00:00

For just one day I'd like to "revert" (and I use that phrase for the use of this notion) to what it would be like if men really did do all of this oppression, misogyny, etc and set back the clock. Take away their vote, dismiss genuine sexual assault as horseplay, pay them minimum wage and restrict their employment to admin type roles.

Just to say - "now look, this is how it could be. There have been great strides in equality, but isn't like that now, shit is equal. Stop fucking nitpicking and stop fucking whining and blaming men for everything"

It is these people who disproportionately influence a greater balanced society and happily ignore statistics where men are the worse off.

/rant over.

existentialisrisk · 2018-04-26T11:06:48+00:00

Fuck this women

2018-04-26T18:55:50+00:00

"Excuse me! Excuse me, ladies?" An average mother said loudly in the park to get the attention of the other caregivers. "Miss..." She trailed off to get the name of the mother asking her and her boy, Billy, to leave the park's name.

"Linda." The bleached blonde said meekly.

"Linda here has an issue with me and Billy interrupting your 'girl' time. I was wondering if any of you also had the same issue with Billy, my son, playing in the same space as your daughters?"

The group of women have a sudden look of confusion on their faces and slowly shake their heads.

"See Linda, no one gives a fuck. Now take your dainty little future 'goddess' elsewhere."

Surtysurt · 2018-04-26T11:29:46+00:00

A better approach would be to jump off a bridge

2018-04-26T11:30:28+00:00

Wow what a horrible piece of human garbage.

gmcalabr · 2018-04-26T15:34:17+00:00

A few things.

Boys and girls are physically much more similar until puberty. If the two are different, it's upbringing and societal, not biological. In which case the judgement call you're making that a child with a penis has a different upbringing than one with longer hair. That's as base sexist as things get.
Is mom-daughter time somehow more valuable than mom-son or dad-child time? In what way are the different combinations mutually exclusive? It feels a whole lot like this question comes from someone who's day is made worse by having males in view. I don't mean to sound like I think she'd commit all-male genocide if science allows women to reporduce asexually but it's really hard to see how she can be so bothered by the existence of men. Horrible attitude.
This is the big one to me, and I think it's where a lot of us on this site get really pissed off and even jump the rails. If your whole feminist viewpoint is entirely wrapped around the idea that women have things worse than men then it's likely that you percieve imaginary problems and provide and support flatly anti-male solutions. This lady is "being given leftover crumbs" from society and feels justified in hurting a little boy and her mom because of it. I, and I imagine many others here, feel really suck trying to make the super unpopular argument that women are not much (or any) worse off than men, it's just different. That's why I have little time for arguments based solely on "men have it worse" or "women have it worse". Be open minded. Fix an injustice. Simple as that.

2018-04-26T14:52:35+00:00

Patriarchy: Girls need to be protected and coddled because they are weak and incapable.

Feminists: Girls need to be protected and coddled because the patriarchy treats girls unfairly!

cranky-alpha · 2018-04-26T12:47:02+00:00

pretty sure if it had happened to my mom she'd have smacked her there.

Tikylme · 2018-04-26T18:53:28+00:00

It's chilling, isn't it. The way they think. What they assume about the easiness of our lives, how they feel we owe them something. How they're always instinctively moving to shut us out, from cradle to the grave. How little we register as actual people with them. How our feelings don't even matter.

This is just one who's made the mistake of pushing her neck out too obviously, so even her "extreme feminist" friends on that website feel they have to disagree with her, (and thus probably feel they've done their good turn towards malekind for the decade, so can happily return to their own soft discriminations, conscience clear)

Not much really angers me anymore, cos I'm so used to it, but that poor mother and child. Fuck feminism.

2018-04-26T19:15:42+00:00

I guess 60%+ of college students being female means girls get crumbs and boys get everything. I guess more programs to aid females to get into college despite this inequality also means they are getting crumbs.

Lupinfujiko · 2018-04-26T19:20:23+00:00

Can I appeal to her better nature?

What an absolutely morally bankrupt ass backwards unexamined selfishly ignorant statement. Unbelievable.

Can someone not appeal to her better nature and suggest to her that boys are also people too?

Good heavens. And these people are mothers.

falsehood · 2018-04-26T21:40:45+00:00

This aggreviates me so much especially being Male with a Male son but I do have to ask if labeling everyone who does stuff like this a liberal actually accomplish anything? I'm an independent myself but I feel the liberal v conservative narrative doesn't really add anything here.

revenueperadventure · 2018-04-26T16:32:26+00:00

Say it with me, guys. WOMEN ARE THE PRIVILEGED CLASS.

tttulio · 2018-04-26T13:37:17+00:00

So, she wants to separate boys from girls from an early age? There are sharia law countries that do that...

deville05 · 2018-04-26T15:51:28+00:00

i wanna see the twitter responses to this

Pelikahn · 2018-04-26T19:05:26+00:00

Playground drama, too bad the woman who wrote this won't understand the irony of her using that title.

falsehood · 2018-04-26T21:14:45+00:00

It is the first step to complete sexual segregation and Jim Crow laws for men. As if we don't have enough already.

RedditIsMyCity · 2018-04-27T02:09:16+00:00

"Girls are left with the crumbs" this comment, this comment right here. Oh god, sure you may get 2 cents less a year, but we have harder prison, harder prison sentences, male rape victims not being taken seriously, men being denied restraining order for crazy stalker women, being straight up discriminated against in school by feminist teachers, not having male role models, having male genitals mutilation being completely legal, etc etc. This women is high on feminist lies and not only does it hurt the boy for being denied for having a dick, but also being an asshole to a fellow woman, which feminist think are the only worthwhile people. Actual feminism is great, but it's not necessary for the U.S. the other countries, yes, but for the U.S. It's the men that need equal rights, not the woman, they're already severally privileged yet they still want more. I just realized how long this rant is.

ilikemychickenfried · 2018-04-26T14:17:04+00:00

Good lord!

Leinadro · 2018-04-26T19:20:59+00:00

Does anyone have a link rather than just a screenshot?

Assuming this is some advice column of be curious to see what the response was.

Sam_Etic · 2018-04-26T19:30:13+00:00

This must be a troll.

cityhunter1987 · 2018-04-27T07:13:22+00:00

what a dumb bitch.

2018-04-27T07:27:13+00:00

I don't really have the words to respond to this.

2018-04-27T14:49:28+00:00

As a stay at home dad this really hit close to home as I've been made to feel unwanted at playgrounds by moms who felt uncomfortable with having an unknown man and his kids around theirs.

osashta · 2018-04-27T17:01:58+00:00

If this lady ever has a son herself, she'll hopefully realize what a fuckface she sounds like....hopefully...cause she might also continue being a shit, and drive her son to suicide.

QuantumPCMR · 2018-05-10T04:01:48+00:00

Yeah girls are left with the crumbs in Saudi Arabia and other Islamic sharia law countries but not in the us ya dumb bitch.

Soldier4Christ82 · 2018-04-26T17:12:22+00:00

Women like this don't even deserve crumbs. It's a public playground; if you want to have private girl time go somewhere private.

Hiddeboterkoek · 2018-04-26T15:04:20+00:00

Yeah, girls just get “crumbs”

Equal pay Equal rights Almost all ways custody Rarely lose kids in court Regardless of the situation all ways the victim Can hit men without being hit back Get charged less in all crime And the list goes on

“Crumbs”

sneakybadness · 2018-04-26T18:01:02+00:00

That, my friends, is a stupid cunt of a literal retard whore bitch

Title	Mother seeks to ban boy & mother from public park; liberal folks on twitter make much fun of it.
Author	falsehood
Upvotes	1722
Comments	180
Date	April 26, 2018 3:39 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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