Lavish lady's liking lounge lizards lets lowkey lover lacerated. "Learnt low libido leads lame life" - lad's logical landing lacks lapses. Lofty long-lasting liaison's liquefaction launches literal liberty, leaving lassie lunatic.

Thinguy123 · 2022-01-19T08:00:13+00:00

lol Only in female land her answer is supposed to calm him down instead of adding the entire exxon valdez worth of fuel into the fire

She revealed her entire hand, her real mentality and she can't understand why it didnt work

Good riddance for the man, i'll buy him a beer if i see him around

moorekom · 2022-01-19T15:02:27+00:00

Story as old as time. Only difference is that now, women are writing and talking about them openly.

Let's fisk this a little more.

"I'm not attracted to him because of his success but because he's a smart knind man who I know would make a great father to the children we'd have together."

First of all, the man makes $600k a year plus investments. He's 35 years old and is already a multimillionaire. THAT is why a 33 year old post waller is with him. No other fucking reason. She's with him for his money. Full stop.

Second, this is how women talk about beta bux men they're using for money and commitment. "Smart" "kind" "great father". Not ONCE did she say she likes fucking him or even that she does fuck him at all.

Third: Note how the definition of "attractive" changes to mean whatever a woman wants it to mean at the time. Women do this because they want to attach virtue to their motivations. They also do this so you cannot ever question them about what they do or why they do it. It CANNOT be that she's with the guy because she's using him for his money and commitment. No, she is "attracted" to him.

That's the fourth point: Women demand the right to question men about whatever they want. And his answers better be satisfactory to her or there will be hell to pay. But whenever men want to know something, women start huffing and puffing and getting all pissed and indignant. "none of your business". "I don't want to talk about that."

Women do this because they know they're getting called out on their shit, and they don't want to face up and fess up. Women never ever want to be held accountable for what they say and do, or what they said and did. They don't want to be judged or rejected. They cannot handle judgment or rejection. They ESPECIALLY cannot handle judgment and rejection when a beta bux is doing the judging and rejecting. Women can understand a hot guy judging and rejecting them. But when a less attractive man she settled for is doing it? All fucking HELL breaks loose.

If her fiance were just some guy, OK, then yeah, maybe he doesn't get to ask about her past. He doesn't get to ask questions. But this man was going to be her husband. So if he's investing everything, he gets to ask whatever the fuck he wants and her answers better be satisfactory to him. If he is committing, he gets to know whatever the fuck he wants to know about her, and to find it out by any means necessary. If he is committing, everything about her at ANY time is very much his business. He's paying for it financially, emotionally, mentally, and psychologically, so it's his goddamn fucking business.

Notice how he found out: One of her bridesmaids had a social media page photo of this woman with a prior boyfriend. He asked a bunch of questions; she started getting huffy. One of her friends then spilled the beans and showed him pics of all this woman's prior boyfriends. And told him his bride to be was a "wild party girl".

And then he started putting 2 and 2 together.

-- he noticed how different he is from all her prior boyfriends.

-- he noticed that she doesn't make him feel attractive.

-- he noticed that she never has sex with him.

Then notice how she responded. "my tastes changed because I want to start a family". Yep. Uh huh. That proves it, motherfuckers. And no, her tastes didn't change. Her PRIORITIES changed. Otherwise, she wouldn't have talked about wanting to start a family.

Notice also how she talks about her friends. They betrayed her. Her bridesmaid having a pic of her with a past boyfriend on Facebook is a "betrayal". Her friend giving her fiance the lowdown on her past is a "betrayal". What does that tell you? "These friends were supposed to keep my secrets! These friends were not supposed to talk about my past! They were supposed to lie for me! They were supposed to make me look like the "good girl" I want to be now instead of the cumslut I really am!"

It tells you she wanted to lie to her fiance. It tells you she wanted to keep him in the dark about how she REALLY feels about him. It tells you she wanted to be free to use, exploit, and take advantage of him, bleed him dry of his money, and then divorce his dessicated husk.

I hope this man never talks to this cunt ever again. And I hope you men take this as yet another object lesson in how women treat men, and how you need to protect yourselves.

I hope you especially take note of how this woman wrote about it in this euphemistic, passive aggressive, mealy mouthed, indirect way. She won't just come out and say he's a beta bux, she's a gold digger, and she's using and exploiting him. No, she'll say things like

--"smart, kind, good father"

--"none of your business"

-- "I'm not like that anymore"

--"my tastes changed because I want a family"

Ladies: You do not fucking get to tell your man that it's "none of his business". When you are getting married, "his business" is whatever the fuck he decides it is. If you don't like that, don't get married, and go pay for your shit yourself and do it all yourself. Or, go marry someone else you can use, exploit, and take advantage of. Or go back to the carousel and the jocks you love fucking.

You don't get to have it both ways. You want to fuck hot guys and then marry a beta bux? Expect to answer for it later. Expect to answer the questions and take whatever comes down the pike.

I also hope you ladies understand that you will get caught. You're seriously mistaken if you think your man will never find out. If he wants to find out, he will. And this man found out just like your old Uncle Al says happens. This happened as it usually does: one of her friends spilled the beans accidentally with a social media pic. And another friend sang like a canary and gave him everything from his bride to be's past. Ladies: We will find out. We always do. And you must answer for your pasts.

You will be held to account. You will be required to answer.

And you're just pissed that the jig is up and you can't get away with this shit anymore.

Thinguy123 · 2022-01-19T08:12:35+00:00

Oh my oh my, what do i spot in the wild

It shouldn't matter

It should not matter?

Come on guys, give her a break, her past should not matter, i mean it does, but it shouldn't, no one told her that her past can have consequences down the road, she just didnt knew, cut her some slack at 33 and she still doesn't understand,

But in all honesty? She fucked up since before this revelation, she took him for granted, the sex stopped, she rested on her laurels.

The guy is IT genius, she should know he isn't dumb, he immediately put 2 and 2 together as soon as he saw the pictures and the lack of sex.

She fucked up 10 years ago, and she fucked up now, and i don't need to be clairvoyant to know what's gonna happen 10 years from now

1500minus12 · 2022-01-19T08:34:56+00:00

Wonder if they’re both Asian seeing as he was upset over the guys being tall white jocks. She settled down with the smart Asian nerd after fucking white men in her prime.

Fancuku · 2022-01-19T09:13:13+00:00

She’s only upset that her lifetime long meal ticket got canceled.

HolyGourdofJerusalem · 2022-01-19T09:46:10+00:00

Forrest Gump said "I may not be a smart man, but I do know what love is."

This wise chap is not only a smart man, but he knows what love isn't.

Good for him, he just saved himself a ton of money, trouble and heartache, and possibly his life, considering how many men commit suicide when they get divorce-raped and lose their kids after Ms. Wild Party Girl goes back to her "true self" with the kind of guy she really wants.

Also note how the "friend" betrayed her...don't think for a minute those bridesmaids weren't jealous AF.

Crabs in a bucket... dude was so smart to walk. You can tell a lot about a person by knowing their friends, and the way their friends act. If her close friends are all social media narcissists and party animals, odds are she is too.

panzer22222 · 2022-01-19T09:22:34+00:00

I think the most important line was:

'I never have sex with him'

He likely would have been ok with all the rest but seeing that he gives her the most and gets the least. If she was 1/10 as freaky with him as she was with all the frat boys she would have been given a pass.

Impressive-Cricket-8 · 2022-01-19T07:45:27+00:00

This is why past matters. Lucky him that her tastes have changed and she's not the same girl she used to be, right? Marrying the girl of his dreams, who loves him for who he is... Despite not really being attracted to him.

He can only thank the female impulse to take as many photos as possible without any concerns for the evidence trail they fortuitously leave.

Flashy_Glove6208 · 2022-01-19T09:22:50+00:00

I told him it's (her past) none of his business

Every single guy I've been with was a tall white jock

I was a wild party girl

Yes, yes, yes :-)Kudos to the guy!. This post makes me smile big time :-)

The guy saw through her dual mating strategy just in time and handled this like a champ. He got RPed and saved himself and his life just in time.

She'd cheat on him and divorce him for cash and prizes after locking him down with marriage & 1-2 children.

deckran · 2022-01-19T09:32:08+00:00

She sealed the deal with the "not your business" when asked about her past. She's going to marry this guy and presumably spent the rest of her life with him (unless it's the usual bait and switch divorce situation) and she's already openly keeping secrets from the start. A serious relationship built on lies. Good on the guy for realizing it and getting the hell out of there.

silly_birb_Banned · 2022-01-19T09:55:33+00:00

Love and desire are two different things for women.

She may have honestly loved him but never desired, otherwise she would have said "he's hot" instead of "he will make a good father"

SeriousMannequin · 2022-01-19T10:12:08+00:00

I was recently shown a similar match like this as well.

She was 27 and was ready to settle down. ^Totally not because she has visa problems, needed an immediate solution, and suddenly I was an attractive option for her.

Made a hard pass at that one.

DaddySkrags · 2022-01-19T08:44:27+00:00

"It shouldn't matter" - It matters because past actions are a reliable indicator of future behaviors. It doesn't take a clairvoyant to see had the man never made this discovery the story would be very different. It'd be 10 years later after having a kid she gets bored of him, starts fucking gym chad, divorces him after getting found out, skins him for every cent he's worth and uses the kid as a hostage.

Jake-Orion · 2022-01-19T10:57:51+00:00

He told me I'm not attracted to him because I never have sex with him and this proves it.

She can go ahead and spin it all she wants, but this statement is in fact the clear indicator she is NOT attracted to him. By reasoning, she should be having wild crazy sex if she is into him, yet, defying all logic, she refuses to engages in fun with a man she is in "love" with. Huh? All of a sudden sex is a sacred act at her convenience?

I would love to hear a logical explanation from the ladies, yet everytime it is asked, mute or queue the misogyny rebukes.

vegasbadboy702 · 2022-01-19T10:19:56+00:00

“I told him it’s none of his business” oh hell no. He’s about to marry her and she’s clearly been mum about her dating history if not flat out deceptive. It’s absolutely his business to know what he would be wifing up. Can you imagine any other area of life where that bs would work regarding a major contract. Example: “So is this house you are selling ever had issues?” “It’s none of your business. The past is the past”.

"It shouldn't matter" Well for her it shouldn’t matter because she wants her financial catch but sadly for men it absolutely matters about your dating past. The fact she still wouldn’t fess up after he first confronted her shows she knows it matters. He had to get the full scoop from a third party.

Lord_Kano · 2022-01-19T10:59:14+00:00

i hate when people say the past is the past

the past is a good indicator of the future and the person as a whole

if becky or chad has been in 16 relationships and cheated in all 16 of them i can assume they’d cheat in the next one lol

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2022-01-19T08:48:22+00:00

This post may be fake but there are plenty of similar stories that aren't. (look below)

Women keep unironically proving the alpha fux and beta bux thing over and over and over again that its hilarious at this point.

One of the most important posts in this sub linked below. If you don't think this is true just search for the 'women who settled for a man' posts. The 1000s of stomach churning answers ought to convince you.

https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/a661ud/psa_how_to_know_youve_been_settled_for/

Extension-Soil-620 · 2022-01-19T09:36:43+00:00

I love happy endings, good move from the guy, he can get a 20year old without a history no problem. (Im 32, and did the same, younger girls are way easier and not alpha widowed)

She said herself "he is a smart man", so he did a smart thing and ditched her for her past, because thats the best indicator for the future.

saberwarthog · 2022-01-19T10:33:27+00:00

oh yeah, once again a broad think she could keep the veneer of respectability & worth she created to latch onto her future betabuck...
Until he wakes up & discover that he didn't got even a taste of what she offered to the jocks that were there before him.

The funniest part is that she's mad at losing her winning lottery ticket, but not at her "friend" for revealing the rest of the truth...
(This friend didn't got her best interest a heart, or knew that the cat was so much out of the box that telling the truth wasn't much of a bigger problem.)

If she really was into him, she would have been all over him sexually, she would have fucked his brains out much more repeatedly to the point that when he saw those pictures of her past boyfriends, he would have though that he got at least the same deal, or something even better.
A man doesn't like to see that he got a worst deal while having to work more for it.

Llawgoch25 · 2022-01-19T10:55:35+00:00

Well that was a rollercoaster, went from "guy is overreacting" to "Christ, he's had a lucky escape" in just a few paragraphs

Profitglutton · 2022-01-19T11:24:03+00:00

Ooooh snap. She lost the easiest meal ticket she was ever going to have and one that was possibly once in a life time. She barely had sex with him, and once the ring is on her finger we know the story that would play out. She will almost never put out, use his money for all sorts of shopping trips, take advantage of his work schedule to screw the guys she really wants behind his back and maybe get pregnant by them.

She had it all made. A perfect, high earning target that would be exceedingly easily to cheat on and one single picture gave away her entire scheme. I think this man has grasped an inkling of the type of nuke he just avoided entering his life.

Vespasians · 2022-01-19T13:05:37+00:00

Lol love the bit with 'why would my bridesmaids show him that'. Crabs in a bucket. Hes the fucking king of catches and they saw a crack in the defence. How are you surprised?

polishknightusa · 2022-01-19T13:55:56+00:00

I’m not attracted to him because of his success but because he’s a smart kind man who I know would make a great father

Translation: He’s the “husband material” guy. Notice she never said he’s good looking? Poor guy. This dude just got the most brutal of red pills. He is the guy she settled for after she had her fun. He spent his 20s working his ass off, and probably getting friendzoned by girls like his fiancée, to get to where he’s at, and this is his reward. Wonder how many times he got told he was “husband material”. Wonder how many times women told him he’s “such a nice guy” and that he should “never change”. At least he got out before he was locked in. He’s saved himself from years of pain and thousands of dollars to get a divorce.

I’m so embarrassed and can’t believe he’s do this to me.

Yeah, I mean hiding your past from him up until you’re about to get married and refusing to even discuss it doesn’t even compare. I really wonder what she would think if she discovered photos of him with multiple hot women, or if she found a sex tape of him fucking some chicks brains out. The past doesn’t matter and it’s none of her business, right?

Note to any women lurking here: your past matters. If you end up marrying some guy like the one here, understand that he will find out about your past one way or another. Make better decisions now so they don’t bite you in the ass years down the road.

GutGraffiti · 2022-01-19T12:51:26+00:00

Damn, this chick must suck as a therapist.

1: Is not open in anyway and basically ask for trust while not giving it back.

2: Dosen't listen to him when directly telling her its a big deal for him but instead tries to scold and shame like a sibling walking into the others room.

3: Still refuses to admit it matters at the end.

4: When confronted directly with the issue of attraction and needing to feel desired by her husband she instead deflects to his role as a potential father. A totally different angle and factor of being a partner.

This is like if you were a chick and you were wondering why you can't get dudes to commit to you as a partner and then they start talking about how great of an ass you got. It may be a compliment intended but the topic redirection says a lot, intentional or otherwise.

It's literally "I know you got insecurity and concerns about this role but you're useful for this intended purpose so calm down" that don't work for a full rounded romantic connection. No one wants to be the tool to an end.

5: Dosen't even acknowledge that these insecurity and fears are her husbands own and instead tries to deflect to her friends "Betrayal" there was no bloody betrayal. No normal human being would think to hide something like that, especially from someone you're meant to be open with.

Girl, you're a therapist, you're entire job is about being open and asking others to do the same for you. How you messing this up. She straight up ain't listening because she's more concerned with her image of a type of partner to him than his feelings.

No wonder this guy cut off the wedding, how you can you not see this as her trying to play with your perception first and foremost.

Bob_and_Virginia · 2022-01-19T13:30:01+00:00

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OwenWentFullMGTOW · 2022-01-19T13:05:31+00:00

Not buying this story. There's something she's not telling us.

I don't think merely seeing her exes would be enough to push that guy over the edge. She talks about being "betrayed" by her friend. I think there are pics/video of Little Miss Innocent doing things with her exes that the tech guy could never dream of getting. And that's what her friend showed him. Naturally, he hit the roof.

But she doesn't want to mention that in her post because she knows exactly how that will sound to most people. So, she has to make everything seem as innocuous as possible.

mustangfrank · 2022-01-19T11:35:42+00:00

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ilovewahmen · 2022-01-19T10:37:52+00:00

Smart man. Courageous to be able to walk away just like that.

jymssg · 2022-01-19T11:04:38+00:00

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RuskinBondFan · 2022-01-19T13:34:15+00:00

I'm attracted to him because he's a smart kind man.

Sure buddy.

VeganKetoMan · 2022-01-19T11:31:28+00:00

He had enough RP awareness to realize that he was her beta bucks. He wasn’t down for that life so he threw her out on the street where she belongs

chankletavoladora · 2022-01-19T12:32:50+00:00

“Over something that shouldn’t matter”.

To you, obviously it matters to him. As it should. He’s a legend.

rickmackdaddy · 2022-01-19T16:25:38+00:00

“…I never have sex with him…” He just realized with whom you had lots of sex.

Lameador · 2022-01-19T11:20:26+00:00

Impressive, though I can't ask for more details due to rule 4. Top quality post. I would be very curious to see thread answers.

It seems obvious to me that neither SHE(33F) nor many western women commenters do even UNDERSTAND why the guy reacted this way. She even might be thinking that she is sincerely loving him.

On the other hand, the guy's situations is not that optimal either : I think he has to come confortable with the fact that he is a rich beta. While it's technically true that the most attractive part of him is in his pants, just below the waist, it does not change the fact that he seduces with his wallet and/or social status. I would advise he takes a more transactionnal approach to relationships.

Actually, their marriage could have been mended easily if, instead of saying "past does not matter" she went into"I love the whole of you and will *** your *** every day since pus*** is an important part of what I bring to OUR relationship".

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2022-01-19T14:11:04+00:00

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Mister_McDerp · 2022-01-19T10:35:03+00:00

Jesus christ that title. You've outdone yourself.

SpiritualEnema · 2022-01-19T16:11:21+00:00

Also, notice how her “friends” seemed all to eager to spill the beans on her. They must have been very jealous indeed of the thousand pound trophy marlin beta-bux that she had snagged. And I’m guessing they were all of similar dual mating strategy compared to this female.

Which shows another great aspect of female nature: When it comes time for her and her friends to start asking The Big Question all gloves are off. The competition for men like him must be fierce and at least one of them must have thought that she could be the one to snag him when he walked away, “because I’m not a skank like she is”. This of course is irregardless of the truth of that situation. Always remember, first and last, that women have their motives and they absolutely hate being discovered, and they absolutely hate each other too.

How much sex do you think this guy was getting from her?

houseoftolstoy · 2022-01-19T18:39:19+00:00

Now this is quite a find. I don't know how you keep it up with the titles, but you have done it again!

my ex is a senior software engineer/TechLead making 600k/yr

Now that is quite the pretty penny to earn! According to income percentiles, he is in the top 1% for earnings. She can say all she wants, but that fat paycheck is a large motivator for why she was ever in a relationship with him.

I told him the past was the past...[he] started asking me a bunch of questions. I told him it's none of his business.

Like hell it isn't! She wants this man to marry her and have a ~~lifetime commitment~~ contractual agreement which she can break at any time and get a lot financial benefit by ending. He has every right to ask these questions and get the full honest answer. Given that he is having all these questions now, this is all very new information and he now realizes that his fiance had quite a bit he was unaware of.

He told me that I never make him feel attractive and that I never have sex with him because I'm not attracted to him and that this proves it... I'm not the that same girl I used to be...we were just young and dumb and having fun.

As my flair will indicate, I am a Christian. As a Christian, I find premarital sex to be immoral and do not advocate for such activity. What I see here is not a woman who holds back on sex because she has these Christian morals (or other religious morals as Christianity is not the only religion that advocates for this type of restraint), but a woman who is tried to sell a false picture of herself to her fiance so that she could imply that she was "not that kind of girl." Well, she was that kind of girl, and for whatever reason, she is not that kind of girl for him.

Let us ponder this question: would he have agreed to be in a relationship with her in the first place had he known that she had the past that she had? From what we can see, that answer is no. Perhaps she would have had a better chance of having it work out had she been open and honest from the start, but we can assume the very reason she withheld that information because she suspected how that would have turned out. "I had quite a wild past of sex, but I am going to stop doing that with my relationships. Do you still want a relationship with me?"

This is exactly why young women are warned about not being promiscuous. Most men are not interested in committing to a slut. Especially not one that hid her past and thinks that the man she claims to be the most important to her is the one she is least giving to. Every woman who complains about that being "judgmental" or "slut shaming" needs to understand that making such choices can have lifelong consequences. Spare me the talk about hurt feelings now, it will hurt a lot more for a woman to be struggling to find a man who is willing to commit to her because she decided that instant gratification was more important than her future.

And now, this woman is paying quite the price for her past. Were those "losers" you had fun sleeping with worth it? I am sure that you thought that it was reassuring to tell your ex that you did not want to start a family with them. Even if she regrets her actions now (even if only for the consequences), she sure did not care enough back then to make different choices when they mattered most.

polishknightusa · 2022-01-19T20:13:18+00:00

This is one of the best type posts on this forum and that's saying something. From the wonderful observations below and reading between the lines above, it appears what happened is that she suckered in a beta bucks with the "religious, chaste girl" act and blue balls to get him to commit. Her lie was one of omission most likely. She appears to have scrubbed her own social media and gotten most of her friends to go along up to that point. This reminds me of the "born again virgin" episode of King of the Hill where Luanne gets a second baptism to be a virgin.

Considering she's a liar, we can't trust this but I get the sense that she was sincere that she wanted to do the "born again" thing if only because the "tall white jocks" probably have moved onto younger material and she's post wall and wanting to have kids.

Up until that photo he looked at, she had the fish hooked, line and sinker and was a hero for dual mating young party girls everywhere. That being said, life is tough in the bay area. Yes, salaries for tech geeks are higher, but the cost of living is also so high it's a lot like Manhattan: Long hours to commute an hour a day to a 1 bedroom crack shack costing $2000/month.

Based upon the analysis below, her ex-fiance is probably someone who could easily get an arranged marriage to a younger, chaste girl from the home country but he thought he found a unicorn and he's disappointed and angry.

aesthetic_anus_43 · 2022-01-19T07:44:55+00:00

God I hate alliteration

lavishrabbit6009 · 2022-01-19T13:45:02+00:00

Good on him. No one wants to be the clean up guy.

rickmackdaddy · 2022-01-19T16:25:46+00:00

“…I never have sex with him…” He just realized with whom you had lots of sex.

tiernach · 2022-01-19T16:23:27+00:00

Talk about dodging a bullet. Can you imagine if poor dude had married her and God forbid put a baby in her? 10 years from now she’s the same woman divorcing him taking half his shit and making Reddit posts about finding tingles again…

iamre · 2022-01-19T16:58:15+00:00

What a king. Good for him. She partied and got ran through by frat boys and now she's changed and no fun for him, just bills and kids. Glad he saw through her BS

2022-01-19T17:02:20+00:00

It's a good thing these bitches are so stupid...if she'd fucked his brains out for a while, she'd have gotten her hooks into him & divorce raped him a few years later.

plazmaa76 · 2022-01-19T14:35:50+00:00

He lucked out she would have let him get her pregnant then divorced him and went back to her usual Chad servicing.

bandook84 · 2022-01-19T14:13:04+00:00

Her own friends stabbed her in the back. This shows her real personality

2022-01-19T15:06:38+00:00

and they don't know what is going on with him.

I love how she deflects all accountability.

NBA_MSG · 2022-01-19T23:17:58+00:00

"I now want an educated man like me, not the jocks I was with in college."

Wait, weren't these jocks at the same college as you???

PirateDocBrown · 2022-01-19T19:52:11+00:00

Never tell women you are rich. I let them wonder how I live so well, but don't work. Most of them think I'm a drug dealer. They can dream that I'm a bad boy.

jack_Me_hoffman · 2022-01-19T20:07:21+00:00

"From the streets she came and to the streets she shall return" - Lord Future

maddog3 · 2022-01-19T20:10:40+00:00

The moment anyone says that past is just the past so we should ignore it, is when they've already lost the argument.

I don't see these women lining up to have "reformed" just out of jail pedophiles babysitting their kids, because, well, it's all in the past right?

Fairwareprovidence · 2022-01-20T02:45:43+00:00

Bullet fucking dodged. Epic matrix style moves. Only issue I have is the guy gave her way too much information to respond to.

Bob_and_Virginia · 2022-01-20T03:00:08+00:00

Haha! I am having a big ol' laugh over here! Schadenfreude and all that.

Bob_and_Virginia · 2022-01-20T03:14:42+00:00

Read to the very end. She's still lying down to the very last few words.

Bob_and_Virginia · 2022-01-20T03:16:33+00:00

Let's say that this nerd dude didn't find out all this and went on to marry her and they "have kids", the kids are likely not to be his.

ChosenUndead92 · 2022-01-19T13:52:53+00:00

This is amazing, it really brought much joy of how aware this guy is. Real Chad!

snooo5285 · 2022-01-19T14:40:26+00:00

Everyone is surprised

really?

maruadventurer · 2022-01-19T19:07:41+00:00

Dear Lord.

"We were scrolling thru Facebook..." Who the hell does that kind of thing together? Weird.

"... my friend showed him pictures ..." The ole 'crab in pot' syndrome shows up yet again.

"... I am insanely attracted to him ... " But apparently you are not having sex with him? Either the man's observation is correct or Dual Mating Strategy is in play. Either way I smell veiled odor of Beta Buxxs in the air...

"... is educated like me ..." Lets see, he's in STEM. She graduated with an Art degree? Where the hell is the parity in that? If the woman was gifted she would be in all the studios pulling down $65k a painting not $65k doing social work.

Her 401k plan just went up in smoke. Sucks to be her. The dude dodged a big one.

EquivalentButton8107 · 2022-01-19T19:33:37+00:00

Why would women ever believe that they and they alone are exempt from the past predicting future actions or having influence on those actions. So bizarre

drunk_texan · 2022-01-19T22:12:15+00:00

Can I just compliment that alliteration??

vtec__ · 2022-01-19T23:19:58+00:00

GOOD FOR HIM, HE DODGED A BULLET!

2022-01-20T00:45:42+00:00

Salute to this man for finally picking up on the social media blackout phase. SMART. Women post their entire lives in social media down to what they ate for lunch on some random Tuesday. If she has a large gap in social media history, you already know why deep down.

veepalz · 2022-01-20T02:05:45+00:00

Really happy for this guy, he may be going through hell now but now hes walking away with one of the greatest gifts of all; freedom

Rayzor_debiker · 2022-01-20T09:32:26+00:00

The rich dude left her?? Hahahahha.

He really is smart.

Also, good post OP. I'm bookmarking this.

2022-01-20T13:33:33+00:00

Dude got lucky. Stay single bro.

LordFlakkko · 2022-01-21T04:15:54+00:00

This is why im hesitant of women whos ex's are completly different than me in looks. If she dates only whites but im next (im black) then if shes a black woman id wonder whats going on. Whyd she change? Anyone else like this?

jymssg · 2022-01-19T17:45:16+00:00

My fucking boy, dodged a bullet at the last second. I wish him the best

loneliness-inc · 2022-01-20T16:46:01+00:00

I can't believe my friend and bridesmaid would betray me like that

Yup. Just pass on the responsibility onto someone else.

EastEndMontrealer1 · 2022-01-20T23:35:42+00:00

Love these posts that use alliterations as their titles

Guapscotch · 2022-01-21T03:44:43+00:00

Glad cryptobro made it out

SealTheSymbol · 2022-01-21T14:38:34+00:00

I love this sub. So much good info.

Zero-Milk · 2022-01-19T19:32:04+00:00

Someone re-watched V for Vendetta recently, I see.

thistlexthorn · 2022-01-19T22:19:26+00:00

Wayne? Is that you?

YungUrbanTurban · 2022-01-20T15:12:49+00:00

Trynna to be trophy but don’t have anything to show me, A warm body with a cold heart im used to bein lonely

Itsjustnickg · 2022-01-21T21:18:38+00:00

This isn't all of it. This story is on YouTube. There was an update. One of her friends showed her fiance an old sex tape and guess what was happening on the sex tape? ....... You guessed it! Things she had never done for him. But wait! There's more! According to her, she gives him plenty of sex which is twice a month. She also said he isn't entitled to her body and she would refuse to sign a prenup. SHOCKER! Let me see if I can find the YouTube link.

Nightowloldschool · 2022-01-23T12:19:08+00:00

Chad damaged female now looking for help to justify her past choices, good for the guy, this is why we need to spread the word

kingx85x · 2022-01-28T01:31:47+00:00

The main issue was that he knew that she wasn’t that sexually attracted to him and that probably was always nagging at him and seeing those other dudes that she dated just confirmed it for him and he couldn’t take it anymore. She messed up by not draining his balls consistently. He look at her in disgust after he saw those dudes and probably felt played, knowing that she wasn’t a virgin, she was barely f*cking him which made him feel like she didn’t really like him like that… If a man is about to secure your future the way he was, sex is the least you can do.

asdf333aza · 2022-01-28T11:46:26+00:00

This is truly a beautiful story.

And more guys should be aware of this crap. Chick's always try to scrub their social media clean when they're ready to settle down. Be on the look out.

And for female lurkers, this one of the things men want. This right here! Guys want to feel like you truly love them for them and not their success or achievement. They want to feel like you would be into them even if they were 10 or 15 years younger. Even if they were a geeky loser. And the best way to show that you are the type of girl who would have always liked them is to simply be with them during their growth or at least date someone similar. You can't date bad boy after bad boy and jock after jock and then say "I want a soft ware engineer now that I'm in my 30s". You can't bang white guy after white guy and then hit your 30s and be like "I want a nice Asian guy to make my parents happy". Absolutely disgusting. Almost nothing is more if a turn off to a guy. Men want to know feel like you want them and would have always wanted them.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2022-01-19T19:55:06+00:00

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hago4 · 2022-01-19T14:12:51+00:00

i assume you watch bojack horseman

HologramEventHorizon · 2022-01-19T17:16:24+00:00

There is a very simple solution to this problem, particularly for a guy as well off as this man was. It's called "a prenup."

Don't want this former party girl to divorce rape you? Get a prenup. A prenup can be as specific as you like - down to keeping assets separate, keeping the growth of separate assets separate as opposed to marital property, determining how much money hubby will give her as an allowance, a complete and total mutual irrevocable waiver of spousal support - you can literally craft your own divorce before you get married. The only thing (at least in Virginia) on which a prenup cannot bind a divorce court is the matter of child custody and support - but with his assets he can ask for, and will probably get, shared 50/50 parenting time, and guidelines are used to set child support.

If you don't want a girl with a past, then don't marry this girl. But if you don't mind her past (perhaps you have one as well) and your only concern is not to get divorce-raped, then have her sign a pre nuptial . Have her get her own lawyer to negotiate for her; but if she won't sign it on the terms you want, then call the marriage off. If she signs and the marriage goes forward, then you are protected.

Impressive-Cricket-8 · 2022-01-19T14:45:07+00:00

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