Women that want to have babies today have to do one of these things: 1. Be lucky. Find the genetically and ideally perfect man that wants to commit. Since less than 20% of men are considered attractive and most of those men don't want to commit (because why would they if they have options?) then luck is rare. 2. Wait until the right man comes. This can be hard, as the man may never come or may never commit. They may lost her fertility before that. 3. Become a single mom (by insemination or random sex). They have to make all effort to raise the kids. The children are likely to be raised without a father there, so they can grow to be criminals or promiscuous. 4. Share the guy. Many women do this with serial monogamy but see point 3. 5. Be pregnant by a chad guy and make the beta pay. This was the preferred strategy for years. However, thanks to DNA we can find our grandma was a whore and divide our family. Women doing this are not playing smart, they are being dumb as genetic tests become widespread. They have to pray they are dead before they are found out. 6. Marry a normal, common man that wants a family. Most women will be unhappy with this because they have had sex with better men. It is a bittersweet decision. 7. Don't have children at all. About 80% of childless women wanted children, but now it is over for many of them. This may explain the population collapse we are experiencing in the West.