It seems like this is all the middle class, paycheck to paycheck types of problems.

Yes girls like hot guys and money. Yes guys should try and look hot and get careers. All this babbling about emotional intelligence and dating with intent and all this I don’t see reflected at other class levels.

Perhaps I’m wrong.

Lower class people have sex and marry all the time.

Upper class marry and have sex all the time.

This really seems to be a completely middle class “issue”.

Specifically the middle class trying to rise out of lower class or just starting out. You need to be more realistic. Men and women both.