Would you date a women who has lost a significant amount of weight?

KayRay1994 · 2023-12-15T05:29:05+00:00

It shows serious hard work, dedication and commitment on her end. 100%

boom-wham-slam · 2023-12-15T08:06:54+00:00

Certainly more likely to after weight loss than before. 😂

exponentialtaxi · 2023-12-15T03:44:21+00:00

I'd be very impressed by this woman and would definitely look up to her

Downtown_Werewolf_44 · 2023-12-15T09:35:49+00:00

It would be a green flag, I like people with the kind of mindset necessary to "get things done".

In the opposite, I would never date a girl who would tell me that she just can't lose weight cause it's hormonal.

wtknight · 2023-12-15T03:35:22+00:00

Yeah, if I were single, sure. I admire a woman who has that kind of commitment and discipline.

SoulBadguy0408 · 2023-12-15T03:52:46+00:00

Works for me. I mean... hard to really say one way or another in a vacuum, but it's not a dealbreaker

WanabeInflatable · 2023-12-15T08:07:09+00:00

I would probably not. I prefer chubby women. Sagging skin doesn't look good too.

OTOH, I wouldn't date anyone at all, so my opinion can be disregarded. I'm married and if I divorce, I'm not going back on the dating market.

SecondEldenLord · 2023-12-15T09:06:09+00:00

Why not, sounds like a win to me and as a fitness fanatic myself, I highly appreciate such people.

Fun_Push7168 · 2023-12-15T18:55:59+00:00

I am currently. Though not so severe that anyone would really see it. I guess I occasionally in certain positions you can see her stomach skin is a bit loose but it's not really a big deal. We're talking probably 60lbs over three years though. No idea about 110.....

Honestly a lady with former fat girl syndrome is a humongous bonus. She's doesn't have any of the bullshit that always attractive women have internalized and has a very realistic view of intersex dynamics. Certainly better than former hot girl syndrome in any case.

macone235 · 2023-12-15T07:17:16+00:00

No, but good for her.

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Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-12-15T14:13:29+00:00

If she was a cool person? Yeah. I knew a lot of gum bunnies that weren’t in shape when they starts and gif hooked on the gym culture just as much as gum bros

rothkochapel · 2023-12-15T07:12:39+00:00

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SillyMushroomTip · 2023-12-15T12:41:46+00:00

I'm unsure, I had a few female friends lose weight in 100-125lb range. There personality drastically changed when more men were giving them more attention.

Typical_Samaritan · 2023-12-15T15:59:38+00:00

Stretch marks isn't an issue. The loose skin is. I don't find it attractive.

I actually had a work/brunch meeting with a friend and we talked about this very thing. She took offense to my answer. We are not friends.

2023-12-15T17:56:31+00:00

Why wouldn't I, she has shown that she actually cares about herself more than a lot of women appear to do so.

DesertShifter · 2023-12-15T04:55:30+00:00

Probably not, she'll have enough extra skin to function as a paraglider after that level of weight loss

MikeArrow · 2023-12-15T04:39:52+00:00

If she was ok being with me while I lost a similar amount of weight, sure.

Jake_Barnes_ · 2023-12-15T04:49:18+00:00

Fuck no… you know she’ll gain it back

No-Rough-7390 · 2023-12-15T12:08:21+00:00

Possibly. But also I’d be very wary and have a plan for if and when we had kids.

Icequeen343 · 2023-12-15T06:19:52+00:00

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coolycucumber · 2023-12-15T08:58:10+00:00

depends, is she hot. She needs to pass the boner test. If she is just a bundle of lose skin then I wont be attracted to her.

I dont go to gym 5 days a week and sustain on eggs to fuck ugly women

MalePsychopath · 2023-12-15T14:51:35+00:00

No. Reasons:
- loose skin and stretch marks - she will gain the weight back eventually

AlmostKindaGreat · 2023-12-15T19:53:23+00:00

It's unquestionably a positive in terms of character. Fitness and keeping close to an ideal weight is important to me, so we may have a shared interest.

I have a preference for thinner women so she will also just plain look and feel better to me. I don't care about stretch marks at all. Loose skin I don't love, to be honest. I don't mind some. I've been with some mothers and I don't care about some extra skin on the stomach. A bit more is a light turnoff but usually not a dealbreaker. It's way better than being fat, according to my preferences. Other men will feel differently and that's a good thing.

FromAuntToNiece · 2023-12-16T02:20:18+00:00

For some men this may be a turn off considering massive weight loss can result in loose skin and stretch marks. While other may not care or see it as a strength in character.

I'm in the second camp. She is doing her part, however unconsciously, to tackle head-on the male loneliness epidemic.

Acceptable-Truck3803 · 2023-12-17T02:50:52+00:00

Yes and no. But that much weight loss also comes with loose skin. I can deal with some of it, but being the Michelin man of loose skin is going to be a hard no.

I have some loose skin from weight loss (dropped around 80 pounds in 3 years) but have arrangements to have it removed later this year (lost the weight years ago).

Nothing compared to the obese to beast from YouTube however. Anything like this will require surgery to have it removed and a lot of recovery.

https://youtu.be/CpKDteQ3FIQ?si=UYIzRi51Qg-DeHB7

Dependent_Rub6287 · 2023-12-19T06:32:44+00:00

I mean, I'm happy for her. But... I can't force myself to be attracted to something I'm not. Sorry.

Let's just be friends.

safestuff987 · 2023-12-19T17:37:39+00:00

I'm marrying a woman who was overweight as a child/teen, but lost the weight as she approached her 20s.

In general, it's something I respect in both men and women. We should be encouraging and rewarding it.

Title	Would you date a women who has lost a significant amount of weight?
Author	Icequeen343
Upvotes	8
Comments	77
Date	December 15, 2023 3:19 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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