Easily bored by everyone I meet

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great_account · 2022-09-13T21:00:56+00:00

If you really open your mind, everyone has something interesting about them. If you approach everything like an anthropologist, you'll see how interesting and unique some behaviors are. There's magic all around you, you just have to be open to it.

reaprofsouls · 2022-09-13T21:17:50+00:00

I snooped on your profile. 33 y/o virgin following red and purple pill ideologies. Based on your posts you're jaded that women have an easier time getting laid than you and seem to be taking it out on them.

Honestly it's no surprise you are having a difficult time and I can't offer you any advice besides seek therapy. The way you perceive the world and interact with it is your problem, not the women.

palatine09 · 2022-09-13T21:45:07+00:00

If everywhere you go smells of dog shit, check your shoes.

jsbach123 · 2022-09-13T21:08:44+00:00

There's nothing wrong with not wanting women in your life.

Big23Island · 2022-09-13T20:47:11+00:00

You have a negative outlook on women, so your dating experience will be tragic.

jivan006 · 2022-09-13T22:28:03+00:00

You’re not bored, you’re angry at them.

You want to somehow appear smarter and better than them, and you think you’re the shit. That probably comes from the fact that they don’t want you, so (again), you try to appear bigger by being “bored”.

I’d suggest that you get a life sir.

brendamasiels · 2022-09-14T02:31:15+00:00

Can we just admire this beautifully obvious double standard?

He feels grossed by women with a body count over 10, because they let themselves be used. Oh but he hires escorts.

Have you thought that the type of woman you're looking for might not want a guy who has slept with even just ONE escort?

freespirit1963TJ · 2022-09-13T21:38:03+00:00

Why do the majority of these posts sound like, 1 guy sharing his limited experience, painting a generalized picture with a broad brush? I would stand to reason, is your experience in a school, workplace, a neighborhood, a group of friends? Because to make a statement like, I feel most girls by age 20 have slept with 10+ guys? So where does your data come from, guys who say they've smashed a bunch of girls? That's pretty reliable.🤣😅😂 If you are truly easily bored with most people.....and you're relatively young, it's going to only get worse

bape1 · 2022-09-13T22:29:03+00:00

If you’re a high quality man you will attract high quality women. Simple as that. Take a look at yourself and ask yourself if you deserve an intelligent beautiful woman.

sparklingwinepapi92 · 2022-09-13T20:56:40+00:00

You have three choices I see here:

Find a girl whose on the more socially conservative side. Church is a good place to start.
Change your attitude and enjoy the fact that women with high bodycounts are fucking amazing in bed
Take a vow of celibacy

purplehammer · 2022-09-13T21:32:06+00:00

Looking at your post history you really need to remove your head from your ass my dude.

Your presuppositions about women are entirely your problem, not a problem of girls.

As for the 10 body count by 20 remark, this is just laughable. Sure a (very) small minority of girls may have that but the vast majority won't. Hell i have meet many girls who were actually still virgins at 20. Im not talking fat ugly girls either, im talking normal decent looking girls who just did not want to give away something they held so preciously to any random fuckboy or desperate loser. My bet is you normally come across as the latter.

Coffee7777777 · 2022-09-13T21:25:47+00:00

Could you be into men?

Gmarlon123 · 2022-09-13T22:47:44+00:00

Only boring people get bored. Fun and interesting lives inside of virtually everyone and it takes a fun and interesting person to draw it out.

Principatus · 2022-09-14T02:30:39+00:00

r/SuddenlyBi

i_love_crazy_hobos · 2022-09-13T22:18:15+00:00

You have a negative outlook and this is the problem.

fortheweirdshit2 · 2022-09-13T22:19:30+00:00

Damn son.

1 - You are judging the quality of women based on their sexual lives ? How many people a woman has been with is really none of your business to begin with.

2- you are bored and see no point in temporary pleasure meaning you probably slept with your good share of women, so based on your logic you are not the quality of man they are looking for ? Thought about that ?

3 - instead of worrying about how many men they’ve slept with, why don’t you take the time to get to know the person, or are you afraid to find out that maybe you are the one that’s not interesting, or dare is at it, boring.

From this little post sounds like you are not mature enough to be in a relationship, so maybe work on that for a bit man.

Peace out

mohamede100 · 2022-09-13T23:20:49+00:00

uhhhh if you believe a women having multiple sexual partners says much about their personalities or value as human beings/future romantic partners i think that’s a you problem…

MomsSpecialFriend · 2022-09-13T22:42:30+00:00

You should consider therapy. That is not a normal thought process. Women are more than the men they slept with.

ignitedwolf9200 · 2022-09-13T21:34:59+00:00

How many women have YOU slept with?

EumenesOfEfa · 2022-09-13T22:13:49+00:00

OP, did you get your IQ professionally tested?

TruSiris · 2022-09-13T20:58:07+00:00

I really can't figure out why a woman's body count matters, at all. Mine is high as fuck and I kinda don't want someone who is inexperienced. Espcially for a ltr, I want that freak ass woman who devotes herself to me and me to her.

skaag · 2022-09-13T23:41:14+00:00

Most women are just not very mature before they hit 25. When I was in my early 20's I had a 36 year old FWB. She totally ruined me because after spending almost a year with her, I was no longer able to tolerate women under 30, and my personal rule was: definitely no women below 25 (even though at the time, I was 22 myself).

It's not so much the age as much as life experience. The longer you live, the more crap you have to deal with, and the more experience you have. The experiences make you who you are.

Are there exceptions? I have no doubt. Did I meet any? No, I have unfortunately NEVER met a woman below 25 who was absolutely interesting and intelligent and driven and resourceful and sharp and had the kind of life experience that I appreciated... but I chalk it off to bad luck, and I'm sure such women do exist.

mistandfury90 · 2022-09-13T22:08:10+00:00

Go gay then. You’d be doing us a favour. So tired of toxic men who hate women. Please please date/sleep with men if you can’t stand “modern” women. But newsflash: they sleep around even more 😂

ShameAffectionate15 · 2022-09-13T22:09:41+00:00

its smart to sleep around until one becomes special. Thats ur solution. To pout and complain before sleeping around will only end in more frustration. Perhaps u do so because of a fear of rejection.

Ey_you · 2022-09-14T00:44:44+00:00

Okay, there is nothing wrong with not wanting to be with certain types of people because of their sexual activities. We all have the freedom to chose.

However, you categorising all women like that is not useful to you nor anyone else. I can assure you that there are so many women around that age bracket who lead lives with very little male interactions of such nature and want only serious stuff. All coming from my experience. You are just looking in the wrong places dude.

I looked into your profile and you posting that you are still a virgin and seem to be bothered by it and commenting on photos of young women, is not something I'd say a man in a normal state of mind would do. Yes, men do like to look, but you reek of desperation. Yes, normal men do have their sexual preferences, just like women, but this is just your anger against the world and women talking.

Deal with your issues properly is what I would suggest.

blanc84gn · 2022-09-13T23:42:29+00:00

Simple. Stop watching porn

Skizznitt · 2022-09-13T23:55:08+00:00

Rofl I feel sorry for you.

deadgirlxoxo · 2022-09-13T22:59:08+00:00

Ok-Class-1451 · 2022-09-13T19:57:41+00:00

Only boring people are bored

Digitalidentity · 2022-09-13T23:14:20+00:00

If you don't like the culture that surrounds you, there are other parts of the world that can serve you better. Every place has its positives and its negatives. Do some research and you might find that the life you're looking for is actually within reach. Wherever you go, just be sure to bring a more positive outlook with you. Negativity is a stench you cannot hide, and one that will surely repel the kind of women you seek.

Late-Ad7665 · 2022-09-13T23:45:59+00:00

Maybe you are gay which is cool fly free my sparrow

Vladimir_Poontang24 · 2022-09-14T00:21:15+00:00

I feel like this sometimes too but when I look deeper it's because I'm scared of taking those next steps growing. It's easier to say everyone doesnt meet my standards in my head instead of admitting to myself I'm not in the place I want to be and need to keep working on myself. Ego protection is a deceptive mf'er

MrHound325 · 2022-09-14T01:46:40+00:00

Spoilers: it’s a you problem, not a them problem

xxslaying · 2022-09-14T03:01:06+00:00

Lol ur lame bruh

OTCplayboy · 2022-09-14T03:01:50+00:00

Sounds like you're the problem then

dilletante75 · 2022-09-14T03:09:50+00:00

JFC is this a post from 1830? Grow up and join the 21st century you absolute moron POS.

Naive_Limit_5906 · 2022-09-14T03:26:10+00:00

Ladies and gentlemen, him ✨

Feeling-Ebb2910 · 2022-09-13T22:53:31+00:00

Fap game going strong 💪

fatalcharm · 2022-09-14T00:51:24+00:00

They don’t objectify themselves, you just perceive them that way. The problem is with you, not others. You shouldn’t view others as non role playing characters in the movie that is your life, rather than individuals with their own lives.

There is a very high level of narcissism in this post, you really need to start viewing other people as people, rather than props, if you want to feel satisfaction.

You need therapy, this is a level of narcissism that won’t clear up on its own. You need professional help to get past this.

I have to ask… What do you have to offer that makes you more interesting than others? Because you seem to be convinced that you are somehow more interesting than the people you try to seduce…

SleepyBeast89 · 2022-09-14T01:17:35+00:00

You need to get a fucking life mate. Who cares how many people she has slept with? Gtfo of here with that shit

MacAmmond · 2022-09-13T21:02:42+00:00

IMO, Focus on making you the best version of yourself. Once your career, values, physical and spiritual fitness is at an elevated level, you're then ready to worry about wifey-material women.

AK1010 · 2022-09-13T23:12:50+00:00

Welcome to clarity, now time to find real meaning in your life bud.

the_root_of_all_evol · 2022-09-14T03:27:19+00:00

go find a man then lmao 🤡🤡🤡

spacemangoes · 2022-09-13T20:28:43+00:00

Find some conservative girls from Eastern Europe and Asian subcontinent. Can’t promise the mental stimulation but they have less body counts

NewDay0110 · 2022-09-13T22:45:35+00:00

37M, divorced here. I empathize with your dilemma. Having been through a toxic marriage and divorce really changed my perspective on things. Dating takes a tremendous amount of personal energy. There are expectations of planning, paying, making the experience fun. And then when you get into a relationship there comes the expectation to keep it up. After years pass, it can feel like a treadmill with diminishing returns.

I'm not dating right now because I'm not in the right mental space for it - I'm really thrilled about things I'm building for my career and business. Being a dad takes up the rest of my energy. If you don't feel like meeting and sleeping with women is fun, then it's fine to put aside. It's only worth it if you enjoy it.

agjrpsl · 2022-09-14T00:25:30+00:00

You are not wrong m8. A lot of women and men end of cheating. Just go out and hook up wear condoms and be safe. Marriage is worthless these days. Adopt a child if you are able.

mayplemoo · 2022-09-14T01:14:25+00:00

seek therapy

kingpersnickety · 2022-09-13T23:21:01+00:00

Listen to Future. You’ll be fine.

Substantial_Big_3443 · 2022-09-14T00:24:57+00:00

Try men :)

mottsman87 · 2022-09-14T00:35:22+00:00

This hits.

simplyaguyonline · 2022-09-13T22:20:46+00:00

Oh yeah for sure. I agree, that's why I decided to get a life sized sex doll. They are awesome. I named mine Mandy. She's always in demand if you know what I mean. But it fixed all of my intimacy problems. I highly recommend them!

Good luck you king of awesomeness.

lifeintraining · 2022-09-13T20:12:10+00:00

Then marry a slut.

zapadz · 2022-09-13T19:44:15+00:00

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Nnk_pyro_maniax1 · 2022-09-13T23:33:18+00:00

Maaaan you hit the nail w/ this 1

lilllwops · 2022-09-13T23:46:06+00:00

Aye man it is what it is .. I dont understand the people calling u crazy or telling u to get help when you’re just giving your objective opinion on reality.. as a 21 yr old guy i highly agree i dont even remember the last women i met who told me she was a virgin lol (I dont think they exist anymore over the age of 18 in America atleast lol) but na fr tho to sum it up as short as i can. It is what it is. The same way girls dont like short guys or how even ugly girls have an abundance of men pursuing them, it is what it is.

BlackGlitterBomb_S · 2022-09-14T02:46:08+00:00

I think you need to rethink your idea of a quality partner. Judging by body count is pretty horrible.

TheArtsyRobot · 2022-09-14T01:02:39+00:00

Hmmm. Where is the first place your eyes go when you look at a woman?

introsetsam · 2022-09-14T02:39:53+00:00

Funny because as a 23 year old woman, not one singular girl I know has slept with more than 5 men

Aggressive_Soil_5134 · 2022-09-14T09:57:51+00:00

Bored by everyone you meet and your still a Virgin

Ir0n_Butterfly · 2022-10-09T08:03:47+00:00

You with the Madonna/whore complex needs to take yourself out. I guarantee you that even if you get with the most pristine, good-natured woman who has tailored her value in being of service to others and you will still be a seething ball of rage with her.

saw plenty of that growing up

Title	Easily bored by everyone I meet
Author	deznue
Upvotes	29
Comments	230
Date	September 13, 2022 7:42 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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