Been married 2 years next month, together for 3. Both in our 30’s. She says I don’t listen to her, prioritize or value her, respect her, didn’t help much with the baby, that I’m not trustworthy, that I get distracted cuz of my adhd and am forgetful, blah blah blah. It’s a load of bull shit as i have my own version of events to tell but she won’t hear any of it and just blows up and tells me that I did this to my self.

Anyways, we go to marriage therapy today which I had found and scheduled and she says she only wants to discuss coparenting and being friends. Well now I’m really worried as she has been saying she was done for a few months now and I figured it was just postpartum or that she just wanted me to change, which I have been doing a lot more for her over the past ~2 months but now it seems much more final. I was hoping to try to work things out for our child and don’t want her to grow up in a divided family and never get to have a normal childhood.

Anyways, I had all the money coming into marriage and we used almost all the money from my house that I had sold and finalized on our honeymoon to buy our house, will she for sure get half of everything? Seems pretty f*cked if after less than 2 years she is going to be several hundred thousand dollars richer because she feels like I don’t listen to her or treat her good enough.