How do some heterosexual men expect to have sex, while also shaming sexually active women/body count?

If you're a heterosexual man who doesn't value body count, then this doesn't pertain to you. I'm questioning the hetero men who like sex with women, but then shame their body count/sexually active behavior, and use that as a reason to justify a woman's worth, when yet the man is engaging in the same sexual behavior.

If every woman alive abided by the men's standard of having 0 BC, 3 max, then nearly every man would be getting NO sex, period.

I've heard some dudes say sexually active women are only for "recreational use" and she wouldn't make a good wife. But yet, why is it that HE can exchange in the recreational fun, but still consider himself husband material? If he abides by his own logic and values.

If we took these lads' logic and applied it to the reverse.. why do you think a woman worthy of marriage would want a man who uses terms like that? Fucks women, then judges them?