Men should want to have lesbian besties like women have gay besties

Electric_Death_1349 · 2024-06-20T11:24:55+00:00

Is this a joke, or do you genuinely believe that all lesbians are dungaree wearing bull dykes and all gay men are shrieking effeminate queens?

Whoreasaurus_Rex · 2024-06-20T11:17:19+00:00

Similar to how gay dudes turn straight women more feminine.

What the ever-loving fuck is this?

Lanaglu · 2024-06-20T11:01:09+00:00

I don't really get the point you're making, why do men need to hang out with lesbians?

I don't really what you mean by get away from straight women either, and that straight women doing stereotypical male hobbies is somehow bad? You haven't said what your issue is, do you feel straight women are harassing you to date them and it makes you uncomfortable? Or what?

Previous-Pea-638 · 2024-06-20T10:58:05+00:00

There are lipstick lesbians and masculine gay men... They might go under the radar but they do exist.

iSellNuds4RedditGold · 2024-06-20T11:30:22+00:00

Yuo vill eat ze bugs

Yuo vill live in ze pod

Yuo vill hav ze government mandated lesbian friend

And yuo vill be happy

throwaway1276444 · 2024-06-20T11:12:10+00:00

I had a lesbian bestie for about 2 years back when I was in my early to mid twenties. We met while working in a club. and hit it off. It was one of the best experiences ever. Opened me up to the lgbt crowd. We would go out after work, do pills together and go clubbing. My girlfriend did not mind, but has recently admitted that she felt a bit threatened. I had no intentions. She was just a mate.

Don't actually think it made much of a difference in term of me developing or learning something about myself. Just a good old time with a drinking partner.

Also getting bought free drinks by gay men was nice. Getting approached every time I went out was nice. Although my girlfriend did once get shoved out of the way so that this guy could dance with me. I quickly pulled her back and told him to move along.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2024-06-20T11:00:47+00:00

Do most lesbians even like straight men? It might not work both ways.

gntlbastard · 2024-06-20T13:01:56+00:00

Used to be that you had friends for the reason that they were your friends. Not for the reason that they could help you get your cock wet.

Pegmaster6969696969 · 2024-06-20T12:03:18+00:00

Lmao lesbians tend to be the most misandric creatures. If I ever get a lesbian friend is because I didn't realize she was a lesbian

addings0 · 2024-06-20T12:56:09+00:00

No. I doesn't work both ways, because men and women aren't the same. Queer people don't have that kind of structure or balance. It's a ' chips fall where they may ' sort of thing. There's a reason they call it hetero-normative, because there's a structure. And it's easy to identify the ' rules ' ( regardless of whom it does right by or not ) . Queer people are all about not doing that. And whatever social construct they make out of it, is something even they can't identify. That's why they keep inventing new memes and terms every second. Women ( hetero or lesbian ) aren't learning more about men, by befriending gay men. That's why they're drifting apart. Lesbians don't want to educate men. They want to avoid men, because it's easier to associate with women. They're only interested in convenient relationships. Men and women working together, isn't going to be convenient ( for either of them ) . Notice how gay men and lesbian women only associate at parades? There's a reason they party at separate clubs.

People don't value the platonic, and that's the real problem. And queer people even less. Lack of inhibitions and boundaries creates chaos. Whom you romantically associate with, carriers over into whom you'll be platoniclly associate with. Undefined love makes undefined choices and reactions. Many people don't value romantic bonds. Only value romantic encounters and experiences. Bonds involve both to have emotional endurance, effort, and evaluation through challenges ( like monogamy ). If you're indifferent about your relationship, then it's not a relationship.

shockingly_bored · 2024-06-20T14:11:29+00:00

Wanting a friend purely because of 'insert demographic characteristic here' is just fucking dumb, even if women do it.

Gold_Supermarket1956 · 2024-06-20T15:18:49+00:00

Gonna be honest I see more lipstick lesbians than I do butch lol

obviousredflag · 2024-06-21T09:33:58+00:00

Gay men are 4% of the population. Barely anyone has gay besties. Lesbians are 1%,... do the math.

Wattehfok · 2024-06-20T11:38:45+00:00

Or you could just have a mate who’s a lesbian and not be a fucken weirdo about it.

No-Rough-7390 · 2024-06-20T11:08:02+00:00

No thanks. In 34 years I’ve only met one lesbian couple that is fun. And even then, they cancel meeting up with the group a bunch.

They tend to be drags. Bill Burr had it right with his latest bit.

Wodanaz-Frisii · 2024-06-20T10:54:33+00:00

Problem is, lots of straight men take advantage of lesbians and sexually abuse them, trying to 'turn them straight' so many lesbians do not trust straight men.

DamagedByPessimism · 2024-06-20T11:24:52+00:00

Yeah, no.

Let men have male friends, women have female friends.

Men and women can’t be friends, as rude as I seem, that’s a principle I stabd on.

throwaway164_3 · 2024-06-20T11:04:09+00:00

Don’t know how many times this needs to be said but men and women aren’t interchangeable in their likes and preferences

Women prefer emotional intimacy via friends, gay besties etc

Men tend to be more comfortable as loners and bond through sport, activities etc. Not by gossiping with a bestie

XY is very different from XX in so many ways. It’s mind boggling how people ignore sex differences between men and women and treat them as equivalent

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-Shes-A-Carnival · 2024-06-20T11:08:07+00:00

lololll

TheRedPillRipper · 2024-06-20T11:16:11+00:00

do wonders for mens mental health

A key aspect of mental health is first acknowledging, then accepting reality. Both past, and present. Focusing then upon what one has control over, whilst letting go of what one can’t change.

Lesbian besties for sure can help in this process. They however, are not a necessity.

Godspeed and good luck!

SsRapier · 2024-06-20T12:55:10+00:00

2 of my 3 older sisters are lesbians, i guess it doesnt work at all

Commercial_Tea_8185 · 2024-06-20T13:36:11+00:00

All of my previous lesbian partners have been very feminine women. And while I might wear a suit or other kind of ‘masc’ clothing, im also feminine presenting with long hair etc.

I dont know what you mean by ‘guy stuff’ either lol

OkProfessional9405 · 2024-06-20T15:30:15+00:00

Most lesbians I know are pretty comfortable not spending time with men. I have a lesbian "friend" I know from a shared hobby and although we are always friendly and happy when we see each other, there's a clear boundary and I think she'd get weirded out if I started calling her or trying to hang out.

apresonly · 2024-06-20T17:03:14+00:00

lesbians don't want that

Tobor_Xes240 · 2024-06-20T17:32:01+00:00

Lesbian photogs and outdoorspeople are the ultimate gearheads. I volunteer with a few and am grateful they they let me borrow their Gucci shit for camping trips.

just_a_place · 2024-06-21T02:41:26+00:00

We don't "need" it, but funny enough, it does happen a lot. I have lesbian friends just because they're fun to hang out with and we get along because we have the same sense of humor.

Brilliant_Island8498 · 2024-06-21T22:08:13+00:00

Women with boyfriends would be way more insecure

_jay_fox_ · 2024-06-20T12:01:32+00:00

I have had an absolutely fine experience with all lesbians I've encountered, they are the nicest people. Same with gay guys. (I myself am bisexual.)

Perhaps something about being oppressed/victimised by society makes people better characters.

januaryphilosopher · 2024-06-20T12:54:49+00:00

When a straight man says he wants a lesbian friend specifically, it usually has something to do with watching lesbian porn. And what lesbian spaces? Just go and play golf and you'll see enough straight men.

Straight_Skirt3800 · 2024-06-20T11:18:40+00:00

It’s my experience that lesbians hate men usually and that lesbians are largely toxic and not mentally healthy. I’ve never met, worked with, or had any form of relationship with a lesbian that was healthy. They always have chaos around them.

I used to live in an apartment complex with mostly lesbians. I’ve never seen such chaos. Police always being called, huge fights, extreme shifts in moods. I had to move for my own mental health. Lesbians are not the way forward. They are mostly broken people in my experience.

FirmQuarter6623 · 2024-06-20T11:04:15+00:00

You need to kick them bitches the fuck out.

Acaciduh · 2024-06-20T12:01:04+00:00

My husband has a shit ton of lesbian friends - perks of being an athlete in college and playing coed softball later as much as the cliche is thrown it’s very true lol. Anyway yes he said they make the best wingwomen when single. I don’t think in the slightest they make you more masculine as he was already and still is very masculine.

I think it’s more having an opposite sex friend with no sexual desire or attraction. Also preselection - women like men they see other women are comfortable with and in my husbands case women can intro you to other women.

SaBahRub · 2024-06-20T14:50:36+00:00

Lesbians still don’t like misogyny and sexism

kongeriket · 2024-06-20T18:41:40+00:00

A healthy bond between straight men and lesbians would do wonders for mens mental health.

Absolutely not. Only someone who never met lesbians for more than a 5-minute chat would write this.

Are there lesbians who are nice people? Of course. But as a statistical norm, lesbians are violent misandrists. The stats don't lie (just check domestic violence levels in lesbian "marriages").

Title	Men should want to have lesbian besties like women have gay besties
Author	lostacoshermanos
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Date	June 20, 2024 10:50 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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