This is worth a watch, maybe the outlook on dating for men is perhaps too pessimistic

Fabulous_HonestTea · 2024-07-05T17:23:54+00:00

I love how a literal grifter is never called grifter as long as he says all the female-approved muppet talking points.

Intelligent-Club8973 · 2024-07-05T15:32:52+00:00

“attraction in person” yeah, it works, if you look good

otherwise you are out of luck 😂

DissociativeRuin · 2024-07-05T16:28:17+00:00

Yep I get too much attention because women are getting more desperate. Little do they realize there’s literally nothing they can offer me lmao.

DarayRaven · 2024-07-05T17:04:57+00:00

So another Chris williamson ?

LevelCaterpillar1830 · 2024-07-05T15:31:07+00:00

Compelling argument. However, OBJECTION!

Have you considered that fearmongering makes money for grifters? Huh? What about them?

Do you want them to go starving?

driggsky · 2024-07-05T17:19:16+00:00

Dan bacon is pretty spot on. His videos helped me

Sometimes his flirts are a little aggressive but hes pretty level headed and treats women respectfully in his content. Hes just helping men actually know how to be a gentleman and smooth

TapZealousideal5974 · 2024-07-06T02:18:10+00:00

This guy is delusional. The weakening of community bonds and mass transportation and communication generally (not just dating apps) mean that men are increasingly replaceable, and women know it. This changes the whole dynamic of relationships.

Obviously, women can still feel attracted and excited to an individual man, but it's much more unlikely for to reasonably decide that a particular man really is good enough. Argumentum ad absurdum, but think about just how incredible different a man's experience today is vs. back in the 17th and 18th centuries. Back then, most women were restricted to their own class and largely location, too. They were introduced to a decent guy of her station in the local area, who looked and acted reasonably normal, they got married, that was it. There was little or no prospect for her to switch to another man and get a new LTR of any kind, since poaching other mens' women was socially not accepted so no-one would do it (openly). She could have an affair, but it wouldn't go anywhere at all.

Today, women have infinite options and can switch men with the figleaf of making abuse allegations (the nuclear option), or just saying he's lame or boring or has a small penis which are good enough reasons today (No fault I'm just not in love with you anymore).

Trying to be a meme Good Guy and have a decent marriage and family today is like paying to build a house on land you have no legal title and only a very tenuous social claim to.

Tailorblackcuscus · 2024-07-06T03:15:19+00:00

Everything in its proper perspective.

sprckets21 · 2024-07-05T16:04:03+00:00

Let me dispel this total myth right now that’s his premise. If you’re a normal cute woman the chance that you haven’t met a guy or many off dating apps or social media is nil. What women can get online has set the new standard for interactions with men in real life.

Women pause dating apps and get back on, they’re not usually active always on. So this whole men outnumber women in dating apps 5 to 1 is a lie. Hinge is endless with women, I swiped everyday for 9 months last year, I couldn’t get to the end of it. I don’t know a single girl under 35 that doesn’t occasionally try dating app.

What you need to do as a guy if you want dates, and this works well for real life game too, get an online presence, work on a cool instagram. My bed has never been lonely for 7 years now for one singular reason, my instagram. If women don’t know you, they need some sort of validation of who you are.

These-Grapefruit-914 · 2024-07-07T17:00:32+00:00

Is this another useless dating "coach"

-Kalos · 2024-07-05T21:45:07+00:00

Yeah I never used apps and my dating experience is nothing like people complain about online

AidsVictim · 2024-07-05T22:28:24+00:00

If you're at least moderately attractive and have the right social circles, yes the you can still get a relationship without any online interaction. The "problem" is that describes a minority of modern men.

Middle-Effort7495 · 2024-07-06T08:14:26+00:00

Women have plenty of orbiters IRL too. And thousands more on IG, and women without social media are basically non-existent.

Proper_Frosting_6693 · 2024-07-06T10:54:31+00:00

Dan does make a good point about the total users. Most women are not on dating apps! Most women are not looking to get ran through and mentally damaged by the Chads. They’re not all blue flies attracted to the electric ⚡️ light that will zap them ☠️ Therefore if guys make the effort IRL they do have a chance to meet decent women. I would consider a girl on tinder a hoe and a red flag for an LTR. Hinge or Bumble probably better but Tinder is just chasing Chad.

Opie67 · 2024-07-05T23:48:35+00:00

Dan Bacon is probably the best resource for hetero men out there. Surprised he's not more popular

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wtknight · 2024-07-05T22:14:12+00:00

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arsenalfc4life1500 · 2024-07-06T10:11:21+00:00

Excellent post!

SaBahRub · 2024-07-05T16:37:45+00:00

You miss out on 100% of the shots you don’t take

And also risk nothing by doing nothing

GhostXmasPast342 · 2024-07-07T02:45:50+00:00

Most women my age do not date at all. If you don’t hook up, married, children, and gave Hallmark happiness by 30, it’s over

lgtv354 · 2024-07-05T15:41:11+00:00

pessimist men are low value anyway so it changes nothing.

RevolutionsAgain · 2024-07-05T15:33:41+00:00

Most women might not be on dating apps, but most men refuse to leave the internet. Even if they go out and talk to them, being distracted by videogames and social media has left them without interesting skills, Physical attractiveness, and decent social skills.

We are living in the first generation to get panic attacks before making a doctor's apointment.

Title	This is worth a watch, maybe the outlook on dating for men is perhaps too pessimistic
Author	Evening-Barracuda740
Upvotes	21
Comments	133
Date	July 5, 2024 3:10 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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