What's the point of 30+ women dating if their values already tanked in the dating market ?

SilentFroggy · 2024-12-23T21:53:49+00:00

fit,virgin,loyal,empathetic a 30+ woman

Sounds more valuable than the average 20yos

El_Hombre_Fiero · 2024-12-24T06:44:35+00:00

A fit, attractive 30+ year old woman will still have plenty of options in the dating market. Not as many options as a fit, attractive 20-year-old, but still plenty.

For your question, there is no guarantee to prevent someone from leaving you for someone younger. However, if you continue to be the best version of yourself and you bring value to the relationship, there's no reason why someone would want to leave you.

ConstantCode8637 · 2024-12-23T22:55:08+00:00

Their values aren't tanked. They date because they actually like men and want to have a loving and commitmented relationship with them. Do you not realize that one day all 20-somethings (who dont die) eventually make it to 30. So what are yall gonna do, think that your own wife or gf is less valuable, and dump her for someone younger? Pulling a Leo DiCaprio 😅

Let's be real- men of all ages love to claim that women in their 20s are the most desirable for dating, sex and settling down with, however younger women aren't checking for older men, and generally date age appropriate men, who are at most 2-5 years older than them, generally speaking.

Treating younger women as an all you can eat buffet, where any man can pluck up any girl is laughable. If men already have it hard getting a single date, and are jaded by the competitiveness of the dating market, why would men, in general, have pick of the litter of a group of women supposedly a majority of men want?

What do all of these older men have to compensate for the fact that she's passing up a bunch of young hot dick, for a dude who could be old enough to be her father?

Eater0fChildren · 2024-12-23T23:01:35+00:00

What are you asking? Why are older women trying to date? The same reason a guy who is 5'5 will still try dating even though his situation is suboptimal, how can he know his wife won't cheat on him for a 6ft+ guy?

InitialPaths989 · 2024-12-23T23:06:42+00:00

They haven’t tanked at all, if the woman has a career and they look attractive. Those older attractive life together ladies are more in demand for a relationship than young hot broke women. If she’s 37 and still looks good she can date 22-57 yr old men easily. Women don’t truly hit a wall until 50, that’s when even if they do maintain themselves well guys will still discriminate against her, she can still date just not in the top guys anymore.

ConstantCode8637 · 2024-12-23T23:00:52+00:00

Men should be worried less about women's ages and more about this

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ConstantCode8637 · 2024-12-23T23:02:08+00:00

What's the point of dating men, when many don't even like women?

Tren_troll · 2024-12-23T21:48:37+00:00

she will always be "less valuable" than a woman in her 20s with the same values.

Do you know many women with those values? If you go to the gym and do actual strength and hypertrophy training instead of the typical TikTok influencer bullshit, you are already in the top 1%. If you add a hobby that's not just activism or Starbucks, you are in the top 0.1%. Add one more positive trait of your choice and you have practically no competition anymore.

Women start with a high value in the dating market by default and can increase it to unfathomable heights by doing some very basic stuff. It's not that hard.

Myagooshki2 · 2024-12-23T22:22:52+00:00

Dude there are so many women in their 30s who will be picked I can't believe this is a question how can you possibly think that hot cool interesting women AGE 31 or something are now too old to date?

abaxeron · 2024-12-24T13:13:55+00:00

What's the point of 30+ women dating

Not having to hold a job, and orgasms.

What guarantees that one a woman is married, she won't be cheated on for a woman 10/20 years younger than her?

Nothing. Welcome to human condition. Estimated 2% of children in intact families of high paternity confidence are raised by men who falsely believe themselves to be biological fathers. Conception in a healthy woman is estimated to take 32 unprotected intercourses on average.

Pro-IDGAF · 2024-12-24T19:37:11+00:00

same thing for single men in their 30-40’s. i’ve known women that say all the good guys are taken in that range and they are single for a reason.

ConstantCode8637 · 2024-12-23T23:13:16+00:00

30s is the age when women can take the father AND son

ExcelsiorState718 · 2024-12-23T22:27:59+00:00

Most men can't cheat at any age most men over 30 can't cheat the average man doesn't have women lining up for him,most men have to settle and most men who want to get married will settle for 30+ women,the average age for marriage is 30 now.

If I wanted to get married and start a family I most likely have to do so with a 30+ woman unless I leave the US,and sure I can have sex with 23 year olds whenever for a price but they certainly aren't going to marry my old ass I'm not that famous or rich and neither are the majority of men.

Only the top 10 percent of men in looks can cheat like that it's not even about money at that point unless he's just out rite paying for it and that's something women should be more concerned with because that's the more common way to cheat,and if he's going to do that there's nothing you can do about it he saw something he wanted on the menu and he went for it

A humans value is more than their Chronological rotations around the sun. It's in their spirit personsinality it's in their small achievements and big accomplishments it's their unique and individual story it's how they love and who they love and its their own special contribution to the tapestry of humanity

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Zabadoodude · 2024-12-23T22:02:37+00:00

It depends on what she does to self improve and make herself more desirable. If she's exactly the same in every way except age, then yes the woman in her 20's will be more attractive. Especiallyto ypung men. That is honestly true for men as well. The reason many men can do better in their 30's is because they improved themselves.

A woman can do this too. Maybe she become more mature and emotionally stable. She could be kinder and more appreciative of her man. She might have a decent job, so she can contribute financially. Maybe she got a personal trainer and goes to the gym regularly, so she has a better body than most 20 year olds.

She can also go for older men. Many men in their 40's and 50's find women in their 20's are too childlike. Those young women probably don't want the old guys too, especially if they aren't rich. An attractuve woman in her 30's would be a perfect option for a man like that.

Title	What's the point of 30+ women dating if their values already tanked in the dating market ?
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Date	December 23, 2024 9:21 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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