Women are complaining that men don't approach them anymore

Zestyclose_Skin8760 · 2025-07-19T17:28:55+00:00

Good this is what they asked for

HunterRenegade09 · 2025-07-19T17:22:40+00:00

Good

Scrace89 · 2025-07-19T17:17:08+00:00

You could have stopped with “Women are complaining”. Let them.

KingdomOfAngel · 2025-07-19T17:44:48+00:00

"To be harassed is preferable than being totally ignored" https://x.com/LindyTasteful/status/1946265900547526999

uhm wtf did she just say!!

AigisxLabrys · 2025-07-19T17:33:08+00:00

“Touch a boob, buy a drink”

Goddamn, lady.

Relative-Rub1634 · 2025-07-19T17:27:17+00:00

And the problem is?

calmly86 · 2025-07-19T17:17:34+00:00

Oh no. It’s the very predictable response to the past three decades of women being angry with men for having the unmitigated gall to approach them.

Eden_Company · 2025-07-19T17:27:23+00:00

I think most women want someone hot enough to approach them on the right day. I've seen alot of people be receptive towards cold approaches. But I think on dating apps in particular it fails because that woman already has 300 matches. So can afford to treat everyone like garbage.

Rothbardy · 2025-07-19T17:14:03+00:00

Good. The more men ignore women, the better. Stop simping

randomusername1934 · 2025-07-19T17:58:30+00:00

Men, for Millennia: approach women in public spaces in order to talk to them
Women, suddenly: "Ugh! Stop coming up to us in public! It's scary and evil and you need to stop it!!!!!!"
Men: "Duly noted". Vast majority of men stop approaching women in public.
Women: "OMG! Why are no men approaching me in public now? Do you all just hate women or something?!?!?!?!?! I BET YOU'RE ALL REALLY SCARED OF ME!".

What do you think they expected to happen?

jessi387 · 2025-07-19T17:32:12+00:00

Honestly, compared to the myriad of problems that men have, I think not getting asked out isn’t all that big a deal

Dismal-Diet9958 · 2025-07-19T17:53:23+00:00

Start treating men with respect.

enragedCircle · 2025-07-19T18:14:27+00:00

"Touch a boob, buy a drink..." Riiiiight....

WonderfulCheck9902 · 2025-07-19T17:18:42+00:00

It is useful to raise awareness of how bad simping is for men's mental health. Against the dominant narrative that wants man to depend on the illusory feminine beauty, we should oppose a conception of man as an autonomous, independent and autarkic entity, free to forge its own destiny.

Otherwise, we will continue to be the accomplices of an inauthentic reality that educates men to be feminist earthworms from the cradle to the grave.

kugelamarant · 2025-07-19T17:37:46+00:00

The best part is when they are reaching 30's, suddenly all those bad boys are nowhere and the seek for those with stable income and a family man.

JimmyB264 · 2025-07-19T17:45:10+00:00

I HAVE A BOYFRIEND! might be part of the reason.

IAPiratesFan · 2025-07-19T18:09:46+00:00

They told us not to.

icedragon71 · 2025-07-19T22:18:37+00:00

Women are complaining that the RIGHT men don't approach them anymore.

If you're under 6 feet tall, 6 inch penis, and earn less then 6 figures, then they will still complain if you do go near them.

Ok_Advertising_9147 · 2025-07-19T17:27:42+00:00

Of all the issues, this is the one that makes me the most furious. If men aren't coming, WHY DON'T YOU?

Who said this is a man's obligation? Where is that? They just complain and instill male obligations and duties, but for them, it's always the ultimate freedom.

Agile_Ad_5896 · 2025-07-19T17:50:19+00:00

Oh, looks like women are the creeps once they're not worshipped. 😂

Icy-Friendship1163 · 2025-07-19T18:15:54+00:00

Its more like that chads dont approach them more than actual men.

apokrif1 · 2025-07-19T18:33:28+00:00

Do women approach men?

Tam_A_Shi · 2025-07-19T19:13:45+00:00

See, women have no idea how they want to be approached. “ just touch a boob “ would get us landed in jail 💀💀😭

obj_stranger · 2025-07-19T18:05:31+00:00

Eww, disgusting. I don't wanna "touch a boob" and I'm definitely don't want to "buy a drink" for you. I'd not mind if you buy me a drink though. Where are those women that Hollywood likes to portray?

Women in Hollywood: smart, strong, independent, leaders.
Women IRL: Can't split a bill on a date and afraid to make the first move and even if they decide to do the first move it's some sort of ambiguous hints or beating around the bush...

🤣🤣🤣

Smeg-life · 2025-07-19T18:13:24+00:00

These women are just femcells.

Society has changed and they have failed to adapt to it. They are evolutional failures that will drop off and wither away, and let society advance.

They need to adapt to modern society and embrace the throwing of patriarchal chains that bind them to see men in this fashion.

They are not mere objects to be chased, they need to cast out that internal misogyny and see them selves as free women.

Right, back to the garden, the raspberry's are doing well.

Fun_Butterfly_420 · 2025-07-19T18:47:04+00:00

Damned if you do, damned if you don’t

2cats2hats · 2025-07-19T18:24:31+00:00

Cool. Chive on shall we.

Who wants a garbage mouth woman like her anyway....

Cuntbag42 · 2025-07-19T20:43:59+00:00

Until I start seeing real statistics about how alone women are, or how desperate to be asked out they are, one-off videos like this don't mean anything.

Yeah, you can quote me the "45% of young men aged 18-25 have never asked a woman out" statistic. That's very different from "x% of women have never been asked out".

The first data point indicates 45% of men are dateless. It doesn't tell you anything about how few women are dating; I suspect more are just moving on to women or the same men in more open-relationships in response.

AirframeTapper · 2025-07-19T19:10:07+00:00

Self inflicted! That’s what they say about the male loneliness epidemic lmao

Can’t make this shit up

mrkpxx · 2025-07-19T20:12:30+00:00

Not much has changed, except that the generation of women reaching middle age who are entitled and independent are now hitting the wall.

_WutzInAName_ · 2025-07-19T18:32:24+00:00

When men approach women, women complain. When men don’t approach women, women complain. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. That’s the trap most feminists try to set up for men, so that men always look bad. Like another person said, it’s Schrodinger’s catcalling—both too much and too little at the same time.

DownfieldBooch · 2025-07-19T18:35:41+00:00

So it turns out fish, do infact, need bicycles

DaMoobs · 2025-07-19T18:37:03+00:00

Women created a hostile environment for men and then complain that they're not showing up anymore

We're at a point where doing nothing(ie not approaching) is more rewarding than doing something (ie approaching)

Investing and focusing on ones self yields higher rewards than seeking a partner which yields more punishment than rewards

BlueMonk0369 · 2025-07-19T19:51:38+00:00

It's the same old game of "Damned if you, damned if you don't".

Lyon_King02 · 2025-07-19T22:49:51+00:00

Womp womp

ComparisonClean7249 · 2025-07-19T18:43:40+00:00

Sounds like a problem for females. When the sentencing gap goes away I'll begin to care.

Ok_Night_7767 · 2025-07-19T18:55:21+00:00

Yes ladies. Did no one teach you about cause and effect?

Ok-Consideration8724 · 2025-07-20T04:05:38+00:00

A woman who thinks she’s 8-9: “why won’t men come up and talk to me?!”

A man who’s an average 5: “hey how are you doing?”

Woman: “eww no! Fuck off creep!”

Man: 🤦‍♂️

lazymud68 · 2025-07-19T20:26:14+00:00

Treat men like shit, have double standards, relationships all about benefitting women, man always wrong, men are bad, woman is God, man serve and worship woman

What do they expect?

Late-Hat-9144 · 2025-07-20T00:52:02+00:00

"Women are complaining. "... and in other news, water wet and fire burns.

Former_Range_1730 · 2025-07-20T02:38:08+00:00

Lol! good. It's because the low tier men (the 80%) find that great video games and fantastic triple X media, is far more worthy of their time than the ocean of women who far overvalue themselves.

And the high tier men (the 20%) view most women as being too low tier to be worthy of approaching. So they stick with more attractive/worthy women, but even most of those women aren't good enough to marry. So they just have sex with several of them a week and on to the next.

YoungMiral · 2025-07-19T18:45:53+00:00

What’s there to complain about? Women are living in the best time of their lives in human history. This is basically Heaven for them. What’s there to complain about? It’s almost like the natural order of things are out of balance. Hmmm I wonder why.

sgt_oddball_17 · 2025-07-19T19:14:43+00:00

She's a 9 . . . until she speaks and instantly drops to a 3 . . .

Fragmented79 · 2025-07-20T03:14:43+00:00

“Women are complaining that ~~men~~ Chads don’t approach them anymore.” FTFY

Ball_Builder · 2025-07-20T16:15:48+00:00

Almost like if they acted even halfway polite when approached (and politely rejected men as well) then approaching women would be more socially acceptable all around!

Nope, instead you get to feel like a creep through the entire interaction and then face public ridicule.

ElevatorWestern5965 · 2025-07-21T14:44:19+00:00

I’ve been back in the dating pool for a few years. I’m a decent looking guy, with a decent job, a good house, etc.

Most of the women that try to match with me on hinge/bumble/etc have histories of drug abuse, live in objectively disgusting apartments, don’t have their lives together in general.

Whenever I do get a seemingly good match, the entitlement is ridiculous. Im expected to plan a “bachelorette” style date and drop a few hundred bucks on a first date.

Can’t win for losing in dating now.

ciaobellapgh · 2025-07-19T20:02:17+00:00

Because we've been told it's evil, unless we're perfect looking.

Awkward_Purchase9176 · 2025-07-19T17:56:36+00:00

I clicked on her Instagram and it's fake the x account might be fake, but I still can't believe this woman said that shit

shopinhower · 2025-07-20T06:28:08+00:00

Video games are far more rewarding.

themattmc13 · 2025-07-20T08:24:34+00:00

You told us to not approach, we listened.

Subject-Storage4232 · 2025-07-20T08:46:39+00:00

If you want a man, approach him directly. Otherwise, just shut your mouth and stay in your lane.

New_Manufacturer5975 · 2025-07-20T09:43:04+00:00

Aww, are they dealing with the consequences of their stupidity? I don't feel any remorse for them. They get what they deserve!

shingaladaz · 2025-07-20T10:31:01+00:00

Literally told us to leave them alone.

So we do.

Primary_Parsley1037 · 2025-07-20T10:38:46+00:00

Wait is this actually happening? Makes me kinda happy ngl, some good news.

Yousaidyoudfighforme · 2025-07-20T12:08:33+00:00

Starve the beast

Epicael · 2025-07-20T20:26:43+00:00

What's stoping them from approaching us? If the really want a relationship they should be ready to do something instead of waiting and complaining because nobody knell to their will

Punder_man · 2025-07-20T22:14:54+00:00

Maybe they can ask the bears to start approaching them?

NoVeterinarian7438 · 2025-07-19T19:52:23+00:00

Ngl I genuinely never believe this. Unfortunately the people who say this have an insatiable desire for attention that cannot be quelled. It isn’t that men aren’t approaching them, it’s that they aren’t approaching them ENOUGH. Their appetite for validation keeps growing due to social media use and they want their online attention to match their in person attention

I don’t buy it at all

bpounder · 2025-07-19T21:54:41+00:00

Just because guys stopped approaching doesn’t mean women stopped getting laid, fellas. Chad and Tyrone are just picking up extra shifts nowadays. When women complain, they mean the guys they date, marry, and cheat on aren’t chasing. Women want variety more than men do. Chad isn’t the everyday dick, he’s the upgrade they sneak in when stable gets boring. That’s why they're complaining, if they even are.

vegatx40 · 2025-07-20T14:31:14+00:00

Bitches gonna bitch

Cindylynn43 · 2025-07-20T19:15:10+00:00

I don't blame men for not wanting to approach women. There are too many manipulative women. Feminist have shown their true colors. It's not about equality. It's about superiority. I feel for any man living in modern societies who have not already found a true partner to share their life with. The rules are constantly changing, and the mixed signals are a mind fu$%.

One_Adeptness_7610 · 2025-07-20T05:04:39+00:00

If women had the integrity their grandmother's and great grandmother's had, men would be a lot more inclined to approach them. As it is now, there's no reason want to.

bulimic_squid · 2025-07-20T06:26:51+00:00

My heart bleeds for them

Organic_Falcon228 · 2025-07-22T13:52:06+00:00

Women have been telling guys for years that they don't need men and have made themselves unapproachable. Now they're mad that they got what they asked for.

Less-Risk-9358 · 2025-07-22T16:30:15+00:00

I only initiate contact with professional escorts. No wasted time and actually much more cost effective in the long term.

Many_Alternative6563 · 2025-07-23T00:22:50+00:00

Correction: “Men that women want” are not approaching. They couldn’t care less about average dudes.

AbysmalDescent · 2025-07-21T04:17:07+00:00

This woman is effectively getting pissed at men because they are not doing something she isn't doing herself, effectively judging them for doing she isn't willing to do either, despite being in a much safer and more comfortable position to approach men first. It's all ego, entitlement and emotional immaturity, none of which will ever really get registered because of this social bias that whatever women want or feel is correct or warranted.

GofukYourselves · 2025-07-23T05:43:31+00:00

😂😂😂😂🤡🤡🤡🤡

Sam__Toucan · 2025-07-23T10:13:28+00:00

I suspect the issue for the people complaining is that men don't approach THEM anymore

ElectricalSoil546 · 2025-07-23T13:10:42+00:00

Well, consent is like tea……

Particular_Bit_1683 · 2025-07-24T11:43:04+00:00

I dont think anything is different, guys are still approaching girls from what i have seen.

WhereProgressIsMade · 2025-07-24T16:22:09+00:00

Even 30 years, I quickly learned as a teenage boy to not bother approaching unless she was already dropping hints and showing interest. Have women today forgotten how to do that?

DrewYetti · 2025-07-25T14:36:05+00:00

Women complain about men not approaching them? Good and as Bully McGuire would say, “I missed the part where it’s my problem.”

sissyhubby464 · 2025-07-27T01:36:54+00:00

And the sky is blue. Been happening for as long as I’ve been alive

AcanthisittaApart980 · 2025-07-27T18:40:58+00:00

she means attractive men, if it was you approaching her she would call the cops haha

Striking-Horror-6514 · 2025-07-20T15:47:05+00:00

I like when men approach me

RespectExcellent222 · 2025-07-20T16:53:16+00:00

No they’re not lmao

BatsfromBarcelona · 2025-07-22T23:12:11+00:00

This is a hilarious and sad thread. The Incels here react like characters from a dark, absurd comedy. .

Title	Women are complaining that men don't approach them anymore
Author	Awkward_Purchase9176
Upvotes	459
Comments	143
Date	July 19, 2025 5:09 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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