I mean isn't hypergamy the moral thing to do if you're a woman ? I'll admit I don't understand the term at all, but with how it's talked about it seems like hypergamy is just about... a woman trying to be with a man who's "higher" or "better" than her in some ways ? So basically she'd be trying to be the woman of the relationship, and let the man be the man, and... duh... Like what's wrong with that ? What's the problem if she leaves, if she's just sparing you from not even being the clear man of the relationship ? Not even talking about the opposite where you get a boss babe or whatever, but also about equal relationships, that are also pretty bad compared to you being the man. What's wrong with sparing you of that atrocity ? If she can't even be a woman to you, she should just leave, because she knows even you want to leave her, you WON'T do it (like seriously, how many men have put up with relationships they hate but couldn't even leave their girlfriends for their own good). If you're a guy you're probably better than all women on Earth anyway, so it's not like you'd struggle with hypergamy except if you stumble upon the one or two women on the whole planet that can't get the right dynamic to work.