Women act like horny sluts with previous partners but if a guy wants his gf to act like a slut then he’s “porn brained”.

wtknight · 2026-01-04T17:03:38+00:00

Post locked due to OP being banned for "cope".

kmb218 · 2026-01-04T14:46:53+00:00

Where are you getting the information that having anal sex right after meeting someone, threesomes or blowjobs in bathrooms are a common thing among young women? I have met very few people who did something like that and those were mostly gay men.

Also, you say you want to do these things and try them out (so it should be something positive), yet in the same sentence you call it crazy kinky whore slutty shit. Why are you shaming people like that when it’s something you want to do yourself?

Lift_and_Lurk · 2026-01-04T15:01:35+00:00

Oh good it’s another Fear or Missing out from a dude that expects a person to know the future, know they are going to break up with a guy, already know what they like and don’t like, and know they are going to meet a guy that’s going to want to do things with her.

Cause that’s how life works

cb8585b · 2026-01-04T15:04:33+00:00

So you weren’t Chad in college and you’re not Chad now. Seems consistent, what’s the problem?

P.s. this post is porn brained.

SoftWaterHol4 · 2026-01-04T15:18:18+00:00

Why is "vanilla sex" so disappointing to a guy who's never had anything else? What is he comparing it to? Porn..? And if he is indeed comparing his gf's bedroom performance to porn and upset she isn't acting like a paid actress, then calling him porn-brained is quite accurate.

xKalisto · 2026-01-04T15:05:49+00:00

They probably tried it, found out they don't like it and that's why they aren't doing that anymore.

I think certain things look hot in theory, then I try them and they suck. So I'll pass.

kalashhhhhhhh · 2026-01-04T15:45:03+00:00

Most experimentation happens in a relationship.

MrTTripz · 2026-01-04T16:01:45+00:00

You seem to be confusing women with gay guys.

prettywords_ · 2026-01-04T14:44:02+00:00

If she learned she doesn't like that stuff why would she do it again?

autistic_cool_kid · 2026-01-04T15:03:28+00:00

Bruh my girlfriend is being her sluttiest with me long after college because I give her the right framework where she can express her sluttery

Idk where you see women doing what you describe, either we know very different women or the common denominator is you

sherehitewasright · 2026-01-04T14:58:33+00:00

Your post makes it abundantly clear you are the pornbrained man you claim is a feminist fiction eg your pornographic fantasies of 18-21 year old college girls, only phallocentricism in all the het sex references, the entitlement, misogynist slurs...

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-04T14:46:41+00:00

Ok a lot going on here.

The women who do have casual sex and “anal with a guy they don’t know” aren’t the same women who are deadbed rooming men.

Frankly the fact that this is your idea of women is kind of porn brained ngl.

Most people who have sex have it in relationships, hook ups and casual sex happen but isn’t THAT common. The few women who participate in it are few and they usually marry someone from their own circles, probably someone they also had casual sex with.

Lysa_Bell · 2026-01-04T15:23:33+00:00

I did a lot if slutty shit with lots of different people before I met my husband. I figured out what I liked. My husband did a lot of slutty shit with different people he was in relationships with. Now that we are married we are doing even more slutty deprived whore shit together. Idk where you get the idea that slutty people just stop being slutty once they are in a relationship or that slutty people dont get together with other slutty people. For the fomo reason you provided I would never have picked someone inexperienced. This is exactly why slutty people shouldnt be with inexperienced ones. Its misaligned values.

januaryphilosopher · 2026-01-04T14:51:24+00:00

And you know it's the same women doing these things how? Have you considered that different women are perhaps different? Occam's razor suggests that there's a group of kinky women that keep enjoying it and a separate group of non-kinky women who don't, instead of all women liking one type of sex then suddenly deciding they hate it for mysterious reasons.

UndeniablyGone · 2026-01-04T14:49:09+00:00

I like how you guys just make up shit out of whole cloth based off of some dumb shit you've seen online & now it's like gospel to you. You may not be porn brained or whatever the fuck that is, but you are absolutely chronically online. I'll tell you that.

ne0scythian · 2026-01-04T15:16:42+00:00

"He never got to go crazy and participate in wild shit. He wants to have the same fun albeit later in life."

I don't know if this is about you and your life specifically but there really is nothing stopping you from pursuing wild shit at any stage of your life if you really want to. Maybe your current partner might not want that but if all you want is wild sex then it's better to be honest with yourself and with her and move on with your respective lives.

Plenty_Independence8 · 2026-01-04T16:29:13+00:00

Or how about just vetting for women who want to do the same things you want? It's really not rocket science dude.

GattsUnfinished · 2026-01-04T14:51:40+00:00

There are a lot of women that like acting "slutty" with their boyfriends, stop making up horror stories in your head and touch grass dude.

mashedturnip · 2026-01-04T15:08:38+00:00

Hypothetical nerd man is free to be porn brained on his own and do exactly what she did with willing partners

Lemon_gecko · 2026-01-04T14:53:20+00:00

"Women in college will do all sorts of crazy shit." - not all women

"Suddenly now it’s “he’s porn brained” “stop being pushy” “she doesn’t owe you anything.”" - and your argument is what? That's it okay to be pushy? that she actually owes him that?

"But he HASN’T got the crazy stuff out of his system, he’s just being gaslighted by feminists into accepting he’ll never get to experience it." - cool argument. i knew a guy that came from money, he traveled a lot and could experience different stuff, hobbies that i can't do because of time and money. I think he should sponsor me, i'm entitled to it because what do you mean i can't experience it when he could.

stuffeson · 2026-01-04T14:55:50+00:00

In the public discourse I definitely think there is a certain degree of a double standard where womens sexual liberation and desires are usually hailed to the skies, while the male desires are usually demonized.

But I also think that men overall has more weird kinks.

But when it comes to what you do in a relationship it really isnt that complicated. Talk to your gf about what your / her desire is. And see if you can find stuff you wanna try together. And then understand that you might have some kinks that she doesnt want to do...

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Feeling_Ad_1034 · 2026-01-04T15:18:40+00:00

(obligatory acknowledgment that I understand that NOT 100% of women have done this)

When this happens it's typically because the woman has later decided she doesn't like the idea of threesomes, bathroom blowjobs, or random anal, so she decides "now I want to meet a guy who won't expect that from me"

She goes on dates and the guy sets the frame that he likes and respects her. If she wanted more of the bathroom blowjobs, she could simply go do that, but she's not. She's with this guy who totally doesn't think about sex that way!

So it makes sense it would feel like a bait-and-switch if she finds out the guy actually does want that stuff.

The solution is to BE THE GUY that gets the threesomes, anal, and (i guess) bathroom blowjobs (not for me, but I've checked off the other 2 a few times). Also, set the frame from date 1 with a girl that you're on a date with her because you think she'd feel good with her naked body under yours and you're interested in exploring that.

I've been on a lot of dates with women who had decided that week that they were now ready for Mr. "not porn brained" who is totally down to wait for sex and treat her like a princess. That's where the "Hey it was really great meeting you, you seem like a wonderful woman" line comes in handy, and you text a plate after she leaves.

Title	Women act like horny sluts with previous partners but if a guy wants his gf to act like a slut then he’s “porn brained”.
Author	Past-Shoulder-631
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Comments	159
Date	January 4, 2026 2:41 PM UTC (6 months ago)
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