Women naturally tends to make things harder for men, while men naturally tends to make things easier for women

chamomilecloud · 2026-06-21T14:27:19+00:00

If a man does not text me back or show interest in courting me, he gets dropped immediately. Why would I waste my time with that?

Accomplished_Pack527 · 2026-06-21T13:59:02+00:00

Please enlighten us, what are the things men do to make things easier for women???

And what are the things women do to make things harder for men?

Otherwise your entire post is a whole lot of nothing.

-CherrySaint- · 2026-06-21T13:43:28+00:00

Gonna' need examples?

Reasonable_Mouse789 · 2026-06-21T13:45:42+00:00

Have you ever talked to a woman? What happens when you play “hard to get” towards a woman who’s better looking than you on Tinder? When women are taller than you, does ignoring them increase your odds of dating them?

Hint: approaching women and making things easier for them increases your odds. You’re giving terrible advice.

LillthOfBabylon · 2026-06-21T17:02:10+00:00

Women naturally tends to make things harder for men,

Guys here complain about being called entitled and then will say some shit like that.

When men and women behave so naturally towards each other, they become unattractive to each other

It's okay to not be heterosexual.

If you as a man adopts all the ways women currently makes things harder for men, then the women you want will find that attractive.

Then why are incels and redpillers so hated?

Victim complex.

Manipulative.

Always thinking emotionally.

Even other guys hate those traits in men.

ThatBitchA · 2026-06-21T17:14:08+00:00

What things have been made easier for me, a woman, by men?

AlarmingToe8503 · 2026-06-21T13:45:43+00:00

Sorry dude, but no. As a man who's naturally pretty reserved, women either just assume I'm not interested, or feel that there's "no chemistry". If I don't force myself to make things easy for her, things go nowhere. You just have two people sitting at a restaurant waiting for the other to make a move.

Mediocre-Touch-6133 · 2026-06-21T14:04:53+00:00

This sub is funny. Bunch of guys that have never been on a date giving their two cents about dating based on shit they see on twitter.

pie-mart · 2026-06-21T14:39:24+00:00

No, men despise "easy" women

The term "easy women" is an insult

Because men think women who make it too easy to get are insecure, low effort, and undeserving of love and romance

Only the women who expect men to put in effort get that effort.

Men disrespect the concept of an easy women cuz they enjoy the ego boost of proving themselves to women and "earning" it

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2026-06-21T14:02:15+00:00

So what, you want to reverse gender roles?

Are blue collar women really sexy to men?

Are submissive house husbands really sexy to women?

Bizarre take.

DMmeClownPics · 2026-06-21T14:10:12+00:00

Men absolutely do not find it attractive when women are proactive. At best they are flattered but still not interested.

Feeling_Ad_1034 · 2026-06-21T13:50:35+00:00

I think there does exist a subset of things that women make more challenging for men moreso than living with a man (at times), but there’s also that whole raising a child thing that they kind of excel at quite a bit, no?

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Fondacey · 2026-06-21T17:44:41+00:00

You seem to make it clear that your statement is value-neutral, am I right to understand that?

and if so, what is the point of assigning an all or nothing to what men and women do, especially when you're deliberately vaugue?

EugeneCezanne · 2026-06-21T18:56:45+00:00

If you as a man adopts all the ways women currently makes things harder for men, then the women you want will find that attractive.

I don't really know what you're talking about. But I think that whether attractive behaviors are harder or easier for you, it says more about your individual personality than gender dynamics.

Feeling_Ad_1034 · 2026-06-21T19:29:09+00:00

This makes sense: Men like a challenge. Women seek balance and comfort (naturally of course lol)

GGMcThroway · 2026-06-22T00:30:35+00:00

Of course. That's why women in relationships do more hours in chore labor per week than single women.

JollyBowler2510 · 2026-06-25T06:41:26+00:00

Then don't date women? Only date men? If you dont like how hard women make your life, don't get with one. Simple fix.

Outside_Memory5703 · 2026-06-21T14:54:39+00:00

Unhappy women in relationships and single women tired of men beg to differ

Title	Women naturally tends to make things harder for men, while men naturally tends to make things easier for women
Author	Training_Designer_41
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Date	June 21, 2026 1:41 PM UTC (1 month ago)
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It's okay to not be heterosexual.