Let's say you have to choose between a Chad and a normal guy.On the other side of the board they are all equal. 1)In a one night stand 2)In a relationship By the way I am asking this because my girlfriend of 2 months,despite claiming herself to be called my girlfriend posted an instagram story of a guy who had written her a message like this:''Are all the girls of Uzbekistan this beautiful?''She had responded with :''much more beautiful,I'm the least beautiful''.Now I got mad,cause why the hell would she post such a story?!It seemed very disperectful to me but she told she just put it cause the story was not about her.Anyway I got really really mad and being that I'm insecure called her a bitch(I did not know why I did that,I even realized I was doing something wrong even when I wrote it,but I still did it.I think I may suffer from abandonement issues and I am considering therapy from it,since in every relationship I am very suspicious and do not trust people in general.And I left her to be honest.I just cannot trust her anymore,although when we met after the messages she is always smiling at me,and asked me to talk about it,when she does this she has the face of a retarded person smiling Now the thing is the guy is what could be considere as a Chad,well the only thing he has Chadlike is his height i think,but who knows,girls maybe like him and I am normal at best.Well I may have more charisma and wits but I think looks matter much more