Q4All How do women and men feel while giving head?

MyPasswordisPutin · 2018-03-14T14:32:53+00:00

I'm a woman. It's fine. How I feel during the act really depends on my mood and how horny I am. Sometimes I really enjoy it and relish his reactions and find it really hot. Sometimes I'm making a grocery list in my head. It really just depends.

Hairbrainer · 2018-03-14T13:47:22+00:00

I enjoy it. I feel completely in control, and it’s fun to make the woman squirm. Every so often I get a woman that tells me “you don’t have to do that” and I can confidently say that it’s because I want to. I find it attractive making a girl orgasm.

Most women I’ve been with either can’t finish from PIV alone or, admittedly, I don’t last long enough for them to. So because I want to get her off, giving head is a great alternative, and it prolongs the sex.

carefreevermillion · 2018-03-14T14:06:15+00:00

I like giving head, my boyfriend does not.

philomexa · 2018-03-14T14:31:45+00:00

I don't particularly enjoy it but I don't hate it either, they call it blow job for a reason.

F married to M

Uncommon_Sense_123 · 2018-03-14T14:48:09+00:00

Wife to a husband. Giving head is a joy. I become aroused when smelling my partner. I love the feel of my lips around his head, kissing his balls and rubbing his perineum.

When he cums in my mouth the warmth feels comforting. After he is finished, I lightly rub his pubic hairs and continue to lick off any drops. When there are no more drops the BJ is complete, and I will lay my head down a few minutes and cradle his sick against my cheek.

ContrasexualWoman · 2018-03-14T21:29:56+00:00

I'm female, they are male. I feel incredibly powerful and aroused when giving a blowjob. I mean, think about it... their most sensitive body part is in my mouth, where I have tremendous jaw strength and sharp teeth. It shows a lot of trust and vulnerability on their part, which is an amazing gift.

I like how dominant this position is, where I'm crouched over their prone bodies is addictive especially when I've tied them up beforehand. I'm the active one, I'm the one giving pleasure, I'm the one making them feel loved and desired in that moment, and goddamnit, I'm good at it. The rush of accomplishment and control you get after making your lovers cum just from using your mouth is fantastic.

sublimemongrel · 2018-03-14T15:01:39+00:00

I like doing it to my husband and he likes doing it to me so we’re good. We are very sexually compatible. How does it “feel”? It feels like you’re more in control of your partner’s pleasure. I will say when they just sit/lay there that can be a little off putting cuz you’re not getting cues as to whether they are enjoying it.

Eastuss · 2018-03-14T15:24:19+00:00

Licking vulva was always a top priority in life, even as a virgin.

Wife seem aroused by giving me head too.

MissNietzsche · 2018-03-14T15:38:22+00:00

19F

I enjoy giving. Like, really really enjoy. But I don't enjoy receiving.

Most guys are quite happy with that.

wigglyshark · 2018-03-14T16:02:08+00:00

Married woman to a man. I feel like I could talk about oral sex for ages, lol. Giving and receiving. I find it incredibly physically arousing, my husband doesn’t even have to touch me while I’m doing it for me to become all wet, hot and bothered. For me personally, it’s my favorite way to display my feminity and submission to him. Knowing how much he likes it makes me happy to do it.

My husband is also very giving in this regard, and due to me having absolutely no hang-ups about communicating what pleasures me and what I desire, he has become quite talented at it. I’m a stickler for fairness, however, so even though I enjoy giving, I think I would do it a lot less if he wasn’t as enthusiastic about returning the favor.

I’ve also been disappointed to encounter the thought (and I’ve surprisingly run into it a lot) that 69ing is for teenagers or the honeymoon phase of a relationship. We can spend over an hour just edging each other and going to town. It’s one of the most erotic things ever IMO.

ABC_Florida · 2018-03-14T17:48:05+00:00

When in the mood and am attracted to the guy and it's my initiation or suggestion, sure.

When not in the mood, or especially when a guy is trying to push me to do it - as in this situation it's super degrading, just not gonna happen, I'll stop it all and probably just walk out.

I've met two guys who were really pushy like this (and also really wanted to control where my hands go etc) - and they two happened to be very arrogant and selfish and that very event made them unattractive to me altogether.

Other fun naked experiences - nobody forced me to do anything, they did good things to my body, I did some things to theirs (do not remember their level of enjoyment) - and although time has passed, I still see them as pleasant people.

Imo it's not something you can ask your partner to do, even less so force him/her - people have different styles of communication, though - so what applies on me might not apply on all.

Cheers-

PS I'll also only take it from a guy that I'm sure I like, and doesn't ask disgusting cheesy porn-inspired questions.

Freethetreees · 2018-03-14T18:48:39+00:00

It depends on the size of the dick, really. Some dicks I could happily suck and play with all day, others make my mouth/throat/jaw uncomfortable the whole time. I do love the experience of pleasuring my man, but I hate the gagging and awkwardness that comes with it.

ABC_Florida · 2018-03-15T00:04:35+00:00

I'm female.

I was pretty indifferent about going down on my first boyfriend initially. That eventually turned into dreading it, because if he wanted a blowjob and I didn't want to give one he'd neg me about it until I just went with it to shut him up. He also didn't return the favor at all, ever, and he didn't know how to receive a blowjob.

With my current boyfriend I'm absolutely loving it! Ironically the fact that he has never asked me for a blowjob, and he most definitely would never insist, makes me want to go down on him pretty much every time we're together. And it helps that he'll frequently returns the favor and knows how to react to a blowjob in a way that makes giving one exciting to me... I hope that makes sense.

S1imdragxn · 2018-03-15T15:43:22+00:00

Well it’s better than PIV most times

I’d rate getting a bj in the top 3 things of all time along with having vision and hearing

Giving I enjoy it but I wouldn’t eat most girls

[deleted] · 2018-03-14T13:44:35+00:00

I enjoy it. My fiance does not.

I mean... ?

belletaco · 2018-03-14T14:47:34+00:00

Happy to do it for my boyfriend, wouldn't do it for a one night stand. My boyfriend literally read a book on how to give good head and he is very into it, which is awesome for meeeee

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2018-03-14T15:59:50+00:00

i really enjoy it and find it supersexy and arousing, but im also usually like REALLY high when im doing it, so, yeah

[deleted] · 2018-03-14T16:21:39+00:00

Submissive and grossed out.

24 straight M

GoldPilot · 2018-03-14T17:19:39+00:00

I'm a male who seeks female partners (no LTR at the moment).

Going down is a confidence boost. It's one of my top moves. I'm not going to brag, but it's nice to have a sure thing in the ol' utility belt when you don't have experience or common ground with the person you're with.

It's also generally fun.

quotient_is · 2018-03-14T18:35:55+00:00

Woman married to a man. I'm really into it about 95% of the time. It's almost always satisfying and arousing, provided my jaw isn't acting up. He loves it, I love it, it's good for everyone involved.

I'm a bit surprised at how many people say they enjoy it because it makes them feel in control. I feel very submissive giving head. That's a significant aspect of why I enjoy it.

My husband likes to give it more than I like to receive it. He would probably do it every time, but I prefer the sensation of his fingers.

Artpop_ · 2018-03-15T00:12:23+00:00

Usually I’m in okay with it, it can be kind of fun, if his cock smells bad, it kinda sucks and I’m just waiting for it to end.

Doom_and-Gloom · 2018-03-15T11:41:28+00:00

Male. Have blown a couple trannies. It's certainly more intuitive than cunnilingus, but can also be cumbersome depending on how well-endowed your partner is.

sublimemongrel · 2018-03-14T16:35:58+00:00

Men do not give head.

Men eat pussy. Unless we're now calling cunnilingus "giving head".

yasee · 2018-03-14T16:05:44+00:00

Would like to receive, wouldn't like to give. If the only way to get is a 1:1 trade, I'd rather go without.

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Ezreal3 · 2018-03-14T15:38:18+00:00

Love giving women oral, sure wish it wasn't linked to throat cancer.

nemma88 · 2018-03-14T17:22:05+00:00

Pretty fun, exerting control over someones pleasure.

kandyapplez · 2018-03-14T21:03:58+00:00

giving head is a slight chore, nothing more. i love when he cums, but thats about it.

Ordinate1 · 2018-03-15T02:05:24+00:00

M with Fs.

I don't get a lot out of it (bad circumcision), but I enjoy the psychological aspect, especially if the F enjoys it.

I enjoy giving.

abaxeron · 2018-03-15T19:36:22+00:00

Straight male here. Fun to give when both are well-prepared (shaved and such), the sight of the dreaded glorious underboobs is lovely, but I became lazier with age and now prefer to use toys on partner.

Entropy-7 · 2018-03-15T22:30:25+00:00

A weird thing is that men like blowjobs because they feel like they are in control, while a number of women I have talked to like giving blow jobs because they feel like they are in control.

mistercheeez-o____O- · 2018-03-22T23:29:06+00:00

Het man. I love giving and receiving. Especially giving.

says_harsh_things · 2018-03-14T14:24:37+00:00

As long as its clean, Ill lick it all day.

crackrocksteady7 · 2018-03-14T16:13:01+00:00

i go down on my gf when my dick's had enough. I can give her so many orgasms that after about 20-30 minutes she tells me she wants to stop. at which point i grab her hands and hold them down and wrap my arms around her thighs tightly. she gives up fighting something like 15 seconds after every last orgasm when the refractory period is over and i'm building her back up again. hasn't safeworded out yet but she did say i've gotten her close to passing out a couple of times

Hungry_AF · 2018-03-14T16:29:22+00:00

Superior gender. I feel great great eating her out. But only when I am horny (didn't have sex for at least 24 hours).

Submissive partner. She seems to like it, she is very gentle, I'd say too gentle (death grip due to masturbation) and very shy, so no bj in public. But I'll teach her ;-)

Pope_Lucious · 2018-03-14T18:11:20+00:00

You gotta lick the pussy

Q4All How do women and men feel while giving head?

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Title	Q4All How do women and men feel while giving head?
Author	ABC_Florida
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Comments	115
Date	March 14, 2018 1:42 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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