This poor woman 😭

DallasOMalley · 2020-09-30T21:56:29+00:00

Anyone else think he's cheating on her? Even some of worst LVM I've known have enough sense to show up for things like this. I mean, they know the bar's on the floor, so it's an easy win for them to pick up some fast food, come over, and zone out on the couch (the bare minimum, really).

This guy clearly gives zero shits, though, and this would've been a great opportunity for him to visit his other girlfriend.

loftycries · 2020-09-30T21:32:15+00:00

In the comments: “He called me a fattie when I recently put weight on, not knowing it was because of the cyst.” Ugh what a fucking asshole.

Thestral-glow6 · 2020-09-30T21:40:58+00:00

As someone who suffers with ovarian cysts and have had them rupture, I can assure you it’s the most painful and frightening experience, and she’s totally justified in feeling abandoned/hurt here.

He’s shown her what he really is. He’s not someone that can be relied upon, and I’d guarantee if she ever had an bad accident or was diagnosed with a serious illness he would not be there to support her.

She needs to dump his ass.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2020-09-30T22:59:17+00:00

It's pitiful how many women are out there who choke down every need, want, and expectation of a man because the man called her weak or dependent. Most men have no problems asking for coddling from women. It's absolutely a double standard.

Sage_Planter · 2020-09-30T21:46:05+00:00

This is a prime example of why sometimes it truly is better to be single. Yes, she'd still be going through a difficult medical crisis, however, she wouldn't be dealing with the added stress of her inconsiderate boyfriend being MIA. He's only made the situation worse, not better.

pm_me_your_molars · 2020-09-30T22:29:30+00:00

He isn't much of a communicator, unless it's him doing all the talking.

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lunatigre · 2020-09-30T22:47:55+00:00

A man that cannot show even the slightest concern or empathy over his partner being hospitalized is literally a liability. Showing care and support in such circumstances was part of the job and he is taking up that space for someone in her life capable of being that for her.

CountingDownTheDays5 · 2020-09-30T22:10:38+00:00

This is my new favorite saying, ask yourself if you should yeet or keep. Ask yourself he for the street? If so yeet him back to where he belongs.

whoreallycares32 · 2020-10-01T02:41:55+00:00

Let's not forget that when women get sick, men leave. POS babies.

Date:November 10, 2009Source:Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research CenterSummary:A woman is six times more likely to be separated or divorced soon after a diagnosis of cancer or multiple sclerosis than if a man in the relationship is the patient, according to a study that examined the role gender played in so-called "partner abandonment." The study also found that the longer the marriage the more likely it would remain intact.

Saitschik · 2020-09-30T21:39:52+00:00

An advocate for "standing on one's own feet" huh...

A person who isn't there for you during bad times is not a partner. Good that he showed his true colors, now she should leave...

2020-09-30T21:35:34+00:00

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AnniaT · 2020-09-30T22:21:25+00:00

I'm praying she dumps this selfish scrote!

pencilbride2B · 2020-09-30T22:42:50+00:00

This is so sad, glad she knew immediately that he was a LVM. But sucks that he couldn't even show up at her moment of need. Awful, wonder if there were other signs she missed out on before.

moxymoxalone · 2020-09-30T23:24:38+00:00

If she ever questioned his feelings for her, now she knows without a doubt that he does not love her or care about her well being.

Let the axe fall; block, delete.

2020-10-01T00:06:52+00:00

I just.. aaaahhhhhhhhggghh. I have pity for this woman but at the same time I just want to shake her and scream WHY ARE YOU WITH HIM, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD WOMAN, SCRAPE UP WHAT'S LEFT OF YOUR DIGNITY AND LEEAAAAAVVEEEEE.

It's so frustrating to see this shit over and over and over and over and over on Reddit/relationship columns.

Prinnykin · 2020-10-01T01:11:33+00:00

Ugh. I had an ectopic pregnancy and my tube ruptured. I was rushed to the ER in an ambulance and I nearly died. I got emergency surgery to remove my tube and I lost my baby :(

I didn't hear a word from my ex. NOTHING. He didn't even ask me if I was okay. Complete radio silence while I lied in a hospital bed dealing with it on my own. He was active and posting on Facebook but he completely ignored my messages for DAYS. He didn't help out with the cost of the ambulance or surgery either. I had to pay for it all. He said he didn't know how to deal with it so it was easier for him to say and do nothing...

aclick1999 · 2020-09-30T21:43:10+00:00

Thank god she still has her parents. What if he was her only 'support' or emergency contact? That should always be part of the vetting process. "Can this person come through in a pinch?" Anyone know how long they were dating?

2020-09-30T22:32:10+00:00

The comments are good... I hope?

cupcakedreamz · 2020-09-30T22:37:06+00:00

Was her original post deleted? I tried searching and can't find

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-09-30T23:10:56+00:00

She is too old to fall for this shit.

jayohday · 2020-10-01T06:31:33+00:00

Did someone inbox her about FDS? She needs.

KindlyPassenger · 2020-10-01T12:27:19+00:00

>wait it out for him to contact me

Calling on a man when you're tired or sick will really bring out their true colors

kayleeinthecity · 2020-10-01T05:17:18+00:00

blockedt

Title	This poor woman 😭
Author	loftycries
Upvotes	248
Comments	61
Date	September 30, 2020 9:30 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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