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Group of friends says I make other females feel uneasy and uncomfortable.

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April 14, 2020
117 upvotes

I just received a message out of the blue from one of the main guys in my social circle.

"Hey man, be aware that your actions/ messages/ words make females that we are all friends with feel uncomfortable and uneasy including my girl. This is me reaching out and letting you know, giving the benefit of the doubt at this point no harm no foul. But be aware how your actions are being perceived whether or not that was your intention."

Context: I haven't talked to or messaged any of the women in our group since the beginning of February and I have been in sparse contact with the whole group since the quarantine/lockdown started.

Any advice on how to handle this situation.

Update: His response didn't answer any questions, so I've asked for an example.

"People that we are friends with “females” feel uncomfortable by your actions at times including my girl. The way you reach out to them or interact with them in person. This is not a response to one specific incident but a multitude over time. I’m letting you know to be aware of your actions and how they can be perceived"

https://imgur.com/a/PB6O8rJ


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Title Group of friends says I make other females feel uneasy and uncomfortable.
Author z1stxfile
Upvotes 117
Comments 201
Date 14 April 2020 05:13 AM UTC (10 months ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/653707
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/g0zfsv/group_of_friends_says_i_make_other_females_feel/
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[–]gracienoob86 points87 points  (42 children) | Copy

Why not ask him to be more specific?

[–]z1stxfile[S] 75 points76 points  (41 children) | Copy

Yeah, I just sent a message, asking that. I went through all my messages from social media to text messages that involves any of the women inside the circle. Nothing is out of the ordinary, no boundaries crossed, nothing inappropriate or lewd. So I'm not sure what up.

[–]HiImMeee108 points109 points  (13 children) | Copy

Update later, its an interesting mystery

[–]Batman-von-Pepe155 points156 points  (5 children) | Copy

Plot twist: dudes girl is sweating OP and wants the D and his friend is trying beta shame game.

[–]theyearsstartcomin69 points70 points  (1 child) | Copy

Not his girl, but happened to me before when i made out with a friend of ours at a party. He told me i was putting out a bad vibe and making our group look bad etc etc

Obviously, i took this very seriously and reached out to her, thinking she had talked to him. She not only hadnt talked to him, she said it was really hot and had been waiting for me to make a move for a while. We hooked up for a few months after that. Dont now but stayed friends.

Turns out, dude was jealous as fuck and was tryna start shit

[–]RanaMahal25 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy

same shit’s happened to me. nearly identical situation lmao. “you’re making us look bad”, nope just turns out he’s jealous

[–]chocolatex7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

not even a twist

this is just the plot. OP should reach out to other friends see if they feel the same. My money is on :

[X] Doubt

[–]misfithustle4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

My thoughts exactly

[–]__dude__0072 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bingo!

[–]z1stxfile[S] 14 points15 points  (6 children) | Copy

Update: His response didn't answer any questions, so I've asked for an example.

https://imgur.com/a/PB6O8rJ

[–]Leaninuk21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy

If this is your "Friend" why would he be beating around the bush, he would just straight up say "Oh the way you touched ....", "When you said...." and trying to look out for you. Dudes either being told to say it by his girl, or being a straight up faggot

[–]HiImMeee14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

"a million different reasons" is deflecting it. My bet is he doesnt have a good enough reason to be sending you this

[–]when_its_too_late27 points28 points  (0 children) | Copy

Drop this friend asap and do what you want. Hes making shit up out of anxiety or jealousy. That's the most BS answer I have ever seen from a dude...no wait he's talking like a pussy.

I've talked to my bros man to man and have beat each other to blood before but in the end we didn't hide shit we would be straight with each other. This is some next level 0iq blonde texting.

Just for lolz you can send this screenshot to his girl or any of the other girls. Then watch them eat your friend alive for being a little bitch.

[–]BryceKA0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I feel like I’m barely red-pilled and I’d never give a response like that lol, if he can’t nut up and tell you what’s wrong that’s a problem. If he hangs out with girls and does their dirty work without knowing the reason that’s a problem too. Even if you did something wrong your friend is booty for not giving you anything to go off of. Can’t fix anything when you don’t know what’s wrong

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Broooo can we get an update?

[–][deleted]  (8 children) | Copy

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[–]FanaticMind82 points83 points  (2 children) | Copy

Too much? You shouldn't bring any

[–]Domebeers-3 points-2 points  (1 child) | Copy

no, you don't be autistic about it, but talking about it framed as seduction is a seduction move, can get you laid.

[–]electricspresident12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

You don't need to bring it up at all!!!

It's tried and proven by the most veterans of guys around here

Anyone who wants to be saved will asked to be saved

And no the guy who just got out of a break up or the girl complaining why this jerk asshole doesn't like her are not ! People who need to hear some RP truths

In fact no one should hear it from your mouth ever

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Also if you bring up this stuff even lightly you’re going to be seen as a social retard

It’s impossible to bring up things like men’s rights without losing social standing in the process. It’s possible to bring up red pill concepts but you have to do so in a comical way and obviously remove all lingo from it

[–]wtfdoiaskfor11 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Ideally, you should never talk about any meta-social stuff. Like at all. People hate that for some reason.

You need to game without talking about game. If you talk about game even if slightly (and TRP is mostly game, apart from the self-improvement parts which allow you to game better), then people look at you as if you were an autistic retard. TL;DR don't do it

[–][deleted]  (2 children) | Copy

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[–]wtfdoiaskfor10 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Deep inside she knows tho. The fact that she's talking shit about her bf to you though may mean that (1) she wants you to take her or (2) you're her girlfriend

[–]fatbloop20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

Post a random screenshot of a chat so we can judge. Or update after your friend gives you more details.

[–]AlpacaStrap25 points26 points  (1 child) | Copy

Stop panicking and being reactive to this faggot, stay in your own frame.

What’s going to happen is you’re either going to live in his frame, only doing what he thinks is OK, like a beta bitch, or tell these insecure faggots to fuck themselves and upgrade your associates. If they were worth your time they wouldn’t give a fuck.

Don’t get attached to social circles. People come and go. If they don’t like you, replace em. Plenty of people out there.

Never let another man tell you what to do.

Respect yourself, cut contact, and find less insecure associates. Walk away with your self-respect, it’s only going to get worse from here.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Like this answer. But it only works if OP is normal. If he’s legit creeping chicks out he will burn down his social group without having another

[–]fadadapple5 points6 points  (12 children) | Copy

Update?

[–]z1stxfile[S] 22 points23 points  (11 children) | Copy

Nothing yet so far, just waiting on the dude to reply. When he does, I'll be sure to upload a screenshot of the chat.

Update: His response didn't answer any questions, so I've asked for an example.

https://imgur.com/a/PB6O8rJ

[–]SevereYam116 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy

Still nothing? I would tell him he better start correcting himself before you correct his fucking jaw

[–]StrongWamyn0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

lol, your over reactions must be fun to deal with :/

[–]CarlCarlton-1 points0 points  (8 children) | Copy

RemindMe! 3 days

[–]z1stxfile[S] 2 points3 points  (7 children) | Copy

Update: His response didn't answer any questions, so I've asked for an example.

https://imgur.com/a/PB6O8rJ

[–]when_its_too_late1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah an update would be awesome

[–]johnnysilentleo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Maybe it was Something you might have said?

[–]AngelxEyez73 points74 points  (7 children) | Copy

The key to the red pill working is to not let others know you are using it. You cant use rp lingo or ask too many questions to “test theories” (IF ANY)

Having a group of friends that includes women is the best way to meet other women.. (they see other women with you and it increases you SMV)

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

It takes a good amount of mastery to bring its teachings up with friends, even more with women, and not look like a weirdo in the process

Really don’t recommend the average person doing it

[–]LethalShade2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'd say friends is fine. Don't go all "yo these females only be trying to get value out of you, better be jacked or you'll be single for the rest of your life." more like "hey man, things with your girl don't seem to be doing too well. Let's go for a workout, you'll feel better. Haha yeah you feel better already and the sex life has improved? I'm glad brosky, let's keep doing, hit me up anytime."

[–]sandokanjungle0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Having a group of friends that includes women is the best way to meet other women.. (they see other women with you and it increases you SMV)

I have to tell this to my guy friend we never hang out with the women we fuck

[–]StrongWamyn0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

we never hang out with the women we fuck

That's weird man, why not? Me, I always hangout with my mom :/

[–]flying-backflip-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

That doesn't seem like an honest philosophy if you have to keep it a secret from everyone.

[–]AngelxEyez4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

You dont have to keep it a secret from everybody
but the mainstream world doesn’t accept these theories.

Its like having a cheat code, others playing the game don’t believe in cheat codes and aren’t happy you are using them. Dont try and force cheat codes or slip cheat code lingo into convos.

People get upset. Use your cheat codes in peace and if anyone else wants them they can look them up themselves.

If they notice you playing the game well, maybe they will ask.

If the women notice you using cheat code lingo they may push you out of their server... try and hide your cheat code lingo so they dont.

Being preaccepted into their server will show a y new women who join that you are worthy of female attention, and you will have higher smv just by being associated with the group.

Dont kiss ass or be a simp, but dont slip up on lingo or act negatively towards them, they can be your golden key

[–][deleted] 114 points115 points  (26 children) | Copy

I'm gonna be the guy who goes against all other comments. Maybe you really did something that made others uncomfortable. Only way to find out is to ask for details.

I ran into the same situation. Girl in my group suddenly turned 180° against me. Which also created an awkward aura between me and some others of the group. I was honestly surprised at first, but immediately cut off any contact to her. I don't feel any negative emotions towards her. It was her choice to be that way.

In hindsight I can probably understand her point of view. She is very low IQ, and often mistakes my behaviour and jokes as insults. And maybe I was a little bit too harsh in some situations.

[–]Rage815064 points65 points  (23 children) | Copy

Based on your last paragraph I can definitely see that people would find you offensive 😂

[–][deleted] 24 points25 points  (22 children) | Copy

I have a hard time not being brutally honest and direct.

[–]izzyinjurious12 points13 points  (5 children) | Copy

That’s funny, I’m the same. I’ve learned not judging people helps a lot and not trying to save everyone. Be a bit more positive, but still joke around lightly as part of self amusement. People are starting to engage more, learned to stfu but be the life of a party in a good way. Still growing, but I can relate. Cheers.

[–]Thefreeman9113 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

My biggest issue seems to be my honesty without bounds. Average person takes anything that isn't positive as negative. Learning to STFU has honestly worked wonders for me. I've been told I can look too serious so I have been smiling/smirking more and to my surprise the results are excellent.

[–]DiskKiller22 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Most people who think they are brutally honest or “straight talkers” are either just inconsiderate assholes or socially challenged. Usually the latter. Nobody wants honesty anyway, let alone brutal honesty. Nobody likes negativity, even if it’s true. Just leave it.

[–]Thefreeman9111 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I fully agree with you, I have been perceived as an ass more times than I can count. Like I said though, shutting the fuck up has worked wonders for myself. I am not sure why the world is so sensitive though. Everyone seems to tiptoe around the truth but ultimately avoid it.

[–]DrGandu0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

In his book 48 Laws of Power, author Robert Greene warns the readers against being "brutally honest" because there simply is no justification behind it. You can claim to be honest for "their good" or "just being yourself" (JBY archetype coined by Rollo Tomassi), but you wouldn't be doing anybody any good. You'd end up hurting their pride and their sense of self.

If you really want to make a positive change, put an effort to reward good behavior and ignore bad ones. If you can't do this, then you don't do it out of caring for others.

If you do it to "be yourself", you're mimicking / emulating an RP behavior thinking it's right, but not understanding why. That is the complete opposite of what the RP preaches.

So you decide for yourself which course you're going to take. Or you could end up taking a completely new one.

[–]Thefreeman9111 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Appreciate this, makes me think of it completely different. I just cannot fathom why people would rather lie to themselves to "appear" kind than just be out with the truth.

[–]LethalShade2 points3 points  (12 children) | Copy

People have a way to disguise poor social calibration and lack of charisma. "Oh I'm just a very straightforward and honest guy.", no your social skills just suck.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (11 children) | Copy

It's cool that you all seem to know me IRL to make such judgements.

A lot of people get offended when I go my way and stand up for myself. They mistakenly think that this is some sort of personal attack towards them, just because I don't bend my believes to their opinion.

[–]LethalShade0 points1 point  (10 children) | Copy

You're making the same mistake, this is not a personal attack towards you. Just a generalization of that attitude. If you have charisma, you can say outrageous things and people will be fine with it.

If you're blunt and don't speak properly, people will get offended at the slightest thing that disagrees with their worldview. That's been my personal experience and that of anyone who studies social dynamics I would assume.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy

You can't please everyone. Usually the ones with low intelligence take the things I say too literal.

And that's fine. I am not seeking anyone's approval.

[–]wtfdoiaskfor12 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Usually the ones with low intelligence take the things I say too literal

Mr. Einstein.

You're autistic as fuck

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Butthurt because you fall into said category?

[–]LethalShade0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I mean, up to you. If it's working fine then don't change anything. If their reactions have negative repercussions on your life then learn the smooth arts that I mentioned. It's a useful RP concept to master though.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You can't please everyone

[–]Rage81500 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

You confuse intelligence with culture and frankly it make you sounds unintelligent. Also you meant to say "take the things I say too literally" but I'm sure you knew that.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

How is intelligence correlated to culture in that context? You can find hundreds of mistakes in my texts. Learning and improving my english every single day as I didn't learn it in school.

[–]Rage81500 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

People from different cultures and backgrounds have different expectations regarding humor. If your humor is offensive to someone it doesn't automatically mean the other person has a low IQ and isn't capable of understanding your wittiness. It might in fact mean your own intelligence isn't capable of adjusting for your audience.

[–]breathintoyourballs1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Are you German ?

[–]Tramzh6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

autistic*

[–]wtfdoiaskfor10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That's a very convoluted way of saying "I'm autistic"

[–]Big_Homie_Mozi9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Details for sure but I’m glad someone else sees that side. Nothing against OP, if you did something fucked your wouldn’t have gotten a nice message. But the fact your friend reached out to you says something. I think you should have a talk with him and try and find out more about the uncomfortable thing. And once you get talking you can figure out what you’re doing wrong and rethink how you operate, and reconnect with your buddy.

[–]when_its_too_late3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dude I had an identical scenario. Cut contact. This broke up the group because I was the one holding it together and the other girls wouldn't hang out with out her. So I dropped all of them in one swoop. Especially after they went after my bro for dating a girl outside the group. They were jealous as all hell.

[–]drevil_23 points24 points  (2 children) | Copy

fuck it dude people come and go and you grow and change throughout your life. don't worry about it too much it sounds like you have beta male friends

[–]LongwellGreen8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

The thing is, if a dude is making girls uncomfortable, that creates problems for whole group. It can be the opposite of "beta male friends" when you have girls not wanting to hang out because of your creepy friend, which I've had. I had to send a similar message to a guy because he would be too forward and he was seeming creepy/desperate, and it wasn't about being a white knight. It was literally, stop being a fucking idiot and making all our women friends seem uncomfortable to the point where they don't want to be around you.

And all the comments here are missing that point. Why the fuck would I want a friend whose driving away girls to come out? Maybe...maybe it is a jealous guy telling him to watch himself. It's also just as possible that the girls in the group are actually annoyed/creeped out by him.

[–]SalporinRP4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

It can be the opposite of "beta male friends" when you have girls not wanting to hang out because of your creepy friend, which I've had.

This. If I had to wager I bet that OP was actually being creepy or way too forward because of his poor game.

[–]throwaway464336657748 points49 points  (6 children) | Copy

I went through some shit similar to this,one of the girls probably wants to fuck you and imposed the idea on others.So your friends realized it and trying to chop your balls off to keep their girls in line.

Extremely beta move,tell them you have no intention to do that.If they keep on persisting cut contact with them,otherwise they will find a way to fuck up your reputation and stuff(happened to me,can tell you if you want).

Or maybe you are being a total dickhead weirdo,think about the context.

[–]throwawayu432114 points15 points  (4 children) | Copy

otherwise they will find a way to fuck up your reputation and stuff(happened to me,can tell you if you want).

Would be interesting to hear more about it.

[–]throwaway464336657719 points20 points  (3 children) | Copy

Beta friend gets rejected,girl comes back to social circle,friend thinks he has another chance,girl tries to fuck me and starts cooking for me and shit,i didn't fuck her or escalate,boom beta friends hate me and start behaving passive agressive and gossiping and shit because I "hit on his girlfriend(other beta friends exact words)"and girl hates me because I didn't fuck her lmao

Thing is if you have high SMV or improve your SMV you will receive negative feedback.Like my old beta friends did nothing but eat unhealthy,sleep and play league of legends.The moment I stopped smoking cigarettes,started eating healthy,working out,reading and shit I became the "girl stealer"

Funny thing is one of them previously literally said "he has feelings" for another beta friends plate and tried to date her while he was cumming in her mouth,yeah.That didn't become a problem because he was ugly as fuck and had no chance of fucking her.

Betas can be weird

[–]RanaMahal8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

One of my current plates was dating some guy in our friend group and then right before they broke up, she immediately jumped on my dick. As soon as the group found out she was single, one of my beta friends naturally decided it was “his time”. She actually straight up called him a beta boy in his DMs and said she was fucking me because i was “hot and fuckable” lmao. Now he hates me because i’m not “treating her right” by keeping her as a plate because she’s “special”.

God, Betas are free entertainment.

[–]throwaway46433665770 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

God, Betas are free entertainment.

Also my betas were trying to teach me how to get a chick lol

[–]RanaMahal1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

ah fucking perfection. you can’t write this shit better

[–][deleted]  (15 children) | Copy

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[–]hanzkloss17 points18 points  (1 child) | Copy

  1. Confront this dude in person 1 on 1 when quarantine is over. Guys who do this usually fold.

  2. He’s probably listening to his girl and her friends talk because he’s stuck indoors all day listening to chicks. He’s probably hearing how much of an “asshole” you are. Asshole here is code word for I want to fuck him.

  3. If you really did do something to cross the line with these girls you’d know. You will be outright rejected by them when quarantine is over and everyone starts hanging out.

[–]killerj66635 points36 points  (0 children) | Copy

Never speak to him again is such an extreme. At least use his insights to your advantage.

[–]rnsbrum16 points17 points  (4 children) | Copy

This. Just drop these losers. Why would you have such people in your life anyway? And why in the hell you have women in your group of friends? Women are for fucking or to be kept at a distance. No point in socializing with them.

[–]Dripshiro9 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy

How is it bad to have female friends you dumbass?

If you‘re young (14-30) it‘s nearly a must have to have female friends. You get invited too partys all the time from them and other girls see that you‘re chilling with girls > SMV goes up.

On said partys you meet new girls too which means higher chance to fuck more and other girls. You maybe meet her friends too and fuck some friends of hers too. The list of advantages goes on.

I can‘t believe how some people like you are this retarded lmao. „No point in socializing with them“ my guy do you COMMAND a FEMALE to let you fuck since you were 12 and they say all the time „yes daddy“ or what🤡 some youngins need to learn how to socialize with girls first before being the ultimate, i hate this word, „chad“

[–]rnsbrum7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

Are you fucking retarded? Did I say DONT BE FRIENDS WITH WOMEN? I said: DONT HAVE WOMEN IN YOUR GROUP OF FRIENDS! You don't hang with losers brah, you just don't. Your group of friends should be tight. Warriors in the battlefield, guys you would lay your life down for. Not some shitty cockroaches that are gossiping behind your back. Fucking kids these days man....

[–]Dripshiro3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

My bad then g. You don‘t have women in your inner circle of course

[–]Big_Homie_Mozi1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

This dudes not a white knight. Someone who gets worked up for something trivial and bitchy, for the sake of girls is a white knight. This dude is confonting the OP, calmly. White knights don’t do calm, they try n act like a knight fighting a fucking dragon

[–]HotWaffler30 points31 points  (4 children) | Copy

This isn't true. You just have the stereotype of a white knight in your head when typing this. I've met plenty that will play the calm route to make themselves seem more credible in their accusations.

[–]theyearsstartcomin9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

Its surprising how often dudes, even friends, will try to tear you down in pretty manipulative ways for literally nothing

[–]HotWaffler7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Oh no my friend. There's always something to potentially gain.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

We simply don’t have enough information to know if the guy is a white knight or a good friend trying to give OP a life line. It can very well go either direction

[–]holy_shroom0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

discount being that he is red pilled im sure he is aware of female fckary. which would make him more cautious. im guessing he is acting red pilled without knowing aka NOT kissing the ground these women walk on. so they are calling him a "a-hole" or somn sht. which really means they got the hots for him. so his friend is a jealous mangina and trying to be a white knight btch.

[–]RivenHalf4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is absolutely white knighting. He is swooping in to save the Maiden's in distress. This is text book WK behavior

[–]Niamke_Mode154 points55 points  (2 children) | Copy

Unless women are telling/projecting to you that they're uncomfortable, don't listen to those blue pill beta males. The purpose of the red pill is to teach you to think for yourself. If you don't see the evidence, it doesn't exist in your world.

[–]johnnysilentleo13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is also true I think OP should look back and try to remember the body language of the women in the group

[–]cfbovernfl-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

blue pill beta males.

Except the part where OP's friend is fucking a girl rn and OP isn't. Lol.

[–]throwawayu4321100 points101 points  (12 children) | Copy

"uneasy including my girl".

Haha, I think maybe that's the clue here. Have you done any improvments the last months? Maybe mate-guarding. And I guess it's him who is the most uneasy about you.

Dude sounds like a total tool, to send a message like that.

[–]Zapche8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

If I was dude and I fucked with OP I’d defend OP like nah homie cool as hell lol

[–]Rememberthecodex0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm agreeing with you.

He is trying to create some distance from his girl.

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[–]__TheDon__29 points30 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah sending a message like that on Instagram is “totally normal”. Shows what a true protective masculine patriarch he is, rather than an insecure puss who’s tripping balls over losing his QuEen.

In all seriousness though, how are you justifying sending a message like that as normal?

[–]Rexile10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

We don't know if OP is after their buddy's girlfriend. Mate guarding in a situation like this is really unecessary, if OP was directly gaming that guys girl then it would be the right thing to let OP know the boundaries but otherwise it feels like the guy is insecure and tries to shame him.

[–]Snowaey9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

Yes, mate-guarding is the normal thing to do, IF YOURE BP AF LOL

[–]ieatsoggytoast-3 points-2 points  (1 child) | Copy

If someone was blatantly disrespecting me by trying to act like a tool to my gf i would set some boundaries.

[–]2319Skew2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I wouldn't call it out. It'd use it as a test for the woman. I would only call it out if it happened in person.

[–]throwawayu43210 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Who said anything about impressing this guy's girl except you?

Maybe OP has done improvements in the last month. If he hasn't really been in touch with the group, why was this message warranted?

This message is clearly sent by a tool. Try to modify OP's over text like that. Really weird

[–]G0rv16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

"make females [...] feel uncomfortable and uneasy including my girl"

Objection, hearsay.

Even if verified/endorsed by a first person, your response would still not induldge in a discussion (or even commenting) about her perception or feelings of what has taken place. Never go into her ballpark, stay in your own, i.e. only elaborate on or explain (you intentions about) your actions, e.g. "no harm/evil intended", to make them maybe less ambiguous. (As people are stupid, one must sometimes go far beyond what's reasonable to make things, your actions, impossible to misinterpret.)

(As others already commented. Never go into TRP lingo IRL with anyone ever. Ppl just start labelling you as a misogynist.)

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[–]major_hyman1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Give me an example of agreeing and amplifying?

I can’t talk to these cunts. It’s like there’s something wrong with me I just get mad because they are pathetic. They don’t let you get a word in and no matter what you say they twist and turn everything and get offended by the mere fact I have a dick and balls. I tend to just ignore them and not engage if I see an white knight who has a degree in gender studies.

[–]imfuckingbroke14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

Mate there’s no way these people are your friends. I can’t imagine my friends ever saying anything like that to eachother and if they did, they’d be berated for being an absolute soppy cunt

[–]dareealmvp30 points31 points  (5 children) | Copy

Situation 1: You actually creeped some girls out. Not a big deal. Women get creeped out just by the existence of men that aren't in the top 20%. But if they're actively defaming you and pitting your best friend against you, they're best stayed away from. They're talking shit about you behind your back which is itself a red flag. If someone makes you uncomfortable you ought to face that person and tell it to their face. Also what kind of a shitty 'best friend' takes the side of a hoe against a bro? Leave the group, not worth holding onto.

Situation 2: He's mate-guarding. Even worse 'best friend' and a group of 'friends' to be a a part of. Leave. IMO it's 100 times better to be virgin till the grave than mix with such toxic friends.

Just wait till they give you a reason as you've asked them for it as getting some closure is good. But if I were you, I'd leave in either scenario after hearing their reason.

[–]when_its_too_late10 points11 points  (3 children) | Copy

Situation 3: the girls are deciding up who sucks which ball and who gets the head. Friend tries to stop this because hes a white knight beta by saying "look don't fuck them they don't like you" when in reality they do.

[–]TWDfanuk16 points17 points  (2 children) | Copy

This, sounds like OP is getting attention from the girls including his friends gf and the friend wants to stop it

Or OP is just creepy as shit who knows

[–]when_its_too_late8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

I doubt it. Man if women got creeped out they would give a sign and unless the OP is blind as shit he would be able to tell that they avoid him to all hell. If they aren't avoiding him or "hanging out" behind his back then he's chill.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

1 is a big deal. It’s a giant deal. You shouldn’t care what any one girl thinks about you, but if you’re legitimately being weird enough for this message then you might have to re-evaluate a lot of things

2 is also possible though. Hard to say

[–]YouMotherFuclcer99 points100 points  (9 children) | Copy

Sounds like your friend is a white knight cuck with a degree in gender studies

[–]z1stxfile[S] 6 points7 points  (4 children) | Copy

Update: His response didn't answer any questions, so I've asked for an example.

https://imgur.com/a/PB6O8rJ

[–]electricspresident5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Whatever you do, do not admit that you been acting lame or creepy Also don't deny it either as that will put you on the defensive

Instead simply be non chalant. Remember DARE Google this sub for 'dare' to get the full understanding

[–]YouMotherFuclcer1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Try asking friends perhaps if they feel the same way. Odds are they do not and this soyboy is just insecure himself. If they do, find a new circle. Unless you directly hit on his girl there was no reason in the first place to even bring it up and the fact he wouldn’t even elaborate further just proves to reinforce the fact he’s the only one who thinks this way.

[–]LethalShade0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Depending on how close he is to you, call him and ask for clarification or if you're not that close just play a diplomatic "Hey thanks for bringing that to my attention, I didn't realize that was an issue and I'll keep it in mind."

This pretty much deescalates the situation and makes it disappear while keeping your social standing intact as you appease him without being submissive nor being agressive in return.

[–]muricanwerewolf10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I want to punch him in the head. I hate people who somehow become even more vague when asked for clarification. Like you’re going to say “ok then dude, I’ll just change everything about myself and hope that helps”. I have friends who are rough around the edges, and for every one who has somebody that’s uncomfortable around those friends there’s a specific behavior that causes that feeling, whether it’s being dismissive to women, or being too touchy feely when trying to pick them up, there’s something. This dude is giving you nothing, which doesn’t mean he’s got nothing, but it does mean he’s trying to fuck you off, and is not your friend.

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[–]RahLyt13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol I don't know but if any of my friends told me this:

This is me reaching out and letting you know, giving the benefit of the doubt at this point no harm no foul.

I would end the friendship right away, so I don't really think they're friends at all?

[–]theyearsstartcomin4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

and is comfortable setting boundaries with this dude who’s presumably shown interest in his girlfriend.

I see your point but disagree hes comfortable setting boundaries because hes using the womans feelings as the reason. If he was setting boundaries hed be like "hey man, i know my girls great, but i dont appreciate other guys hitting on her. Its disrespectful, especially from friends, and i wont tolerate it"

[–]hibloodstevia2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I am sure this is more about politics and hate speech. Also the gf is attracted to him.

[–]guifawkes8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

Don't talk about your past, present, or future strategies ever with anyone other than a trusted male friend/wing man. Be cunning.

And remember this proverb: "even a fool in his silence is perceived wise."

[–]guifawkes6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'd also respond to him with something like "good looking out, I appreciate it." Don't validate it wasn't further with questions like "what do you mean??"

[–]Endorsed Contributorbalalasaurus18 points19 points  (3 children) | Copy

Some of you find TRP then go full sperg and alienate everyone you know. Then you come here, get circlejerked into thinking you’re “muhAlpHa” and don’t learn a thing about social dynamics.

You can’t change your skin overnight when your circle has known you as you for as long as they have. Either learn to change gradually or find a new circle entirely.

[–]le_wolfe4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Some of you find TRP then go full sperg and alienate everyone you know.

This. I've done this myself and now know being an "asshole" is contextual. One needs to have a more nuanced approach instead of walking around with a big hammer.

But then what's a newbie to do besides fuck up and learn to know better.

[–]1DonaldBaelish0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Issue here is this has been said over and over and over.

Do not go full alpha ape when you’ve been a beta all your life and all of your friends perceive you as, well not exactly as someone beta per se, but as someone who isn’t the alpha they know from the movies, the alpha we people try and portray after reading 5 posts on TRP and rewatching Fight Club.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Always the endorsed contributors giving the worst advice

[–]pulsarmap2003 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Had a friend tell me this about his girl and her friends. Next night his girl was all over me. Ended all contact with her

[–]Karmanger5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Women tend to misunderstand men 99% of time, and they always characterize that misunderstanding as negative.

I see 3 possible scenarios,

Chances are you said something playful or were treating the women in the group as men and they didn't like it.

A girl in the friend group likes you and you "rejected her" (whether you are are aware of it or not) and she is bitching about you to the rest of the girls.

or

Your friends are coupled up and they(the girls) want more friends who are coupled up.

[–]Houston2NYC3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dude is a simp. You don’t wanna be friends with this guy.

[–]muricanwerewolf13 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don’t know why anybody is trying to analyze this when there’s no fucking information here. We’d need to know what the OP actually did.

[–]AxP32 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

He seems like he packs power behind his punch. The women probably complained. It might be you starting to change that threatens them, or you came off too strong trying to act all RP over them. Probably both. At this point, you can either continue to fight for them to accept the new you, or ditch them. If you particularly value them, continue to fight, just be careful of not slipping back to old habits.

[–]TWDfanuk2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Have any of your girl friends mentioned any of this to you? or is it just the guy "friend"

Sounds like he's jealous and trying to sabotage to me

[–]playball20202 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

these are the kind of friends that will leave you because their woman asks for it.

leave these simps.

[–]friggandfrayed2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I’d bet my left nut you said something TRP related which is normal to you but Becky got drunk on their zoom happy hour last night and shared with the rest of the Girl Scouts that you were an asshole for making a comment about a woman or you said something “anti-feminist”. The gf went nagging onto your buddy, like, can he even believe you’d say something like that?! What’s wrong with him? You should talk to him. And here we are.

This is all bullshit.

[–]DevilishRogue2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

He is letting you know that others are talking shit about you behind your back and that they've given politically correct explanations for their justification for doing so that he feels neither capable nor justified in challenging.

An appropriate response would be "Thanks, but I haven't reached out to anyone - this sounds like wishful thinking and girl talk. You know what they can be like when they gossip."

[–]Taipoe1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like a white knight move from the dude. I would ask for details cause this is pretty out of the blue if the information you gave us is all correct. Havent hd much contact with the group and the guy just hits you up out of the blue, pretty sus. I’m willing to bet that the girls were gossiping about you and this is his beta male response

[–]jeffwingersballs1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just out of pure curiosity, can you ask your friend for anything more concrete?

[–]IntelligenceLtd1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I agree with everyone without the context its impossible to know but going on guesswork seeing as youre posting on this forum, if youre talking about redpill topics you not only have to remain totally calm but you have to have the understanding of the flaws of redpill philosophy and the charisma, charm and smarts to articulate their strong points in a way that makes them digestible for your average bluepiller. Ive been tripped up a lot of times by explaining concepts badly and it made me realise that I didnt have enough understanding of them myself, Im not exactly purple pill but there is a lot of idiotic people and opinions on here and a lot of red pill philosophy that lacks the nuance to explain a lot of things even if the basic fundementals of it are often correct. Sometimes people are so entrenched in their ways impossible to convert and people just dont want to hear it and if thats the case give it a rest at least for the time being and focus on the open minded or inadvertently purple pilled people if you want to proselytise and I recommend reading up on persuasion techniques.

[–]RivenHalf1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just another beta white knight trying to save the day. If these girls are so uncomfortable then why haven't they told you directly? Why do they need this guy as a mediator? Nope, drop the whole group, block their numbers and never contact any of them again. A red pill man has no time for such games. Fuck em.

[–]hawaiianboomerang1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

what a vague, beta, corner cutting call out. this friend of yours he always speaking in tongues? bro I'd call him out and ask him wtf is he talking about.

[–]_Kathekon_1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ask the girls directly at this point Your friend seems like a conflict avodiant uber beta based on that screenshot.

Castle tier mateguarding? Thats what Im thinking, based on what I see atleast. Cheers for the screenshot mate, haven't laughed that hard in a long time.

Need more info though.

[–]_Icarus_Reborn_1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'd be more concerned for him, who honestly refers to girls/women as females like that, except maybe the Incel community.

Him being vague is also a clue here. As others have pointed out 1. You're being to overt in trying to practice RP and it's giving off weird vibes or 2. You're actually pulling of RP theory, the girls are gossiping about you, possibly in a good light and your boy here is getting jelly and trying to put the stop on whatever it is your doing.

I'd ask for further details/clarity. And if he can't even give you one example, it's definitely the second one.

[–]ReaperX441 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That reply is so vague it's funny. Dude is nervous and threw a curve ball. Bitch is insecure as fuck. If there's really an issue, he should be more specific. What the fuck is up with these bitch made generation of pussies they call men nowadays?

[–]RPOpenUp1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Either you are spouting too much RP and giving too much unwanted advice.

Or this "friend" is just a beta being jeaulous of you and is trying to put you back in your place by scaring you. Either way. Get more concrete evidence and if he won't give it drop him

[–]SeasonedRP1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

He's jealous of you. His girlfriend said you're hot or something like that, and he's jealous. Ignore this chump.

[–]Sylvester_Sterone1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don't even ask for an example. The guy can go fuck himself.

A great deal of people who act like social police is doing it because they perceive their status to be higher then you. Ignore the weasels.

[–]OfficerWade1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, same thing happened to me. People at work claimed I was a dick and told my friend and my friends told me about it. They asked what I did and I said you know when you see the same shit every day and your kinda edgy? I wasn’t having a bad day. The guys I work with are just dicks.

[–]IXseed1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

He's trying to AMOG/mateguard.

Edit: Also maybe you are a sperg. We don't know as we don't hang around with you and your friends, so...

[–]Domebeers2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

"Including my girl". Your friend is a cuck and is selling you out for pussy.

I'd text his girl and go "(your friend) says you (his girl) is talking shit about me" and just grenade the whole thing on your way out.

[–]RamiroSoteloJr0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thats so evil I love it lmaoo

[–]Bone_Coat1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

"Hey man, be aware that your actions/ messages/ words make females that we are all friends with feel uncomfortable and uneasy including my girl.

Owen RSD said something between those lines, dont remember exactly but it goes like this:

"if your girl comes to you and says that Chad form Sales dept. at her work is such an asshole, she is thinking about fucking him"

[–]Big_Homie_Mozi1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

You are trying to be the alpha male of the group. Trying to hard and being an asshole to make people like you is just as needy as kissing ass and wanting people to like you, only worse. You can talk to girls without flirting, and you can talk to girls without trying to make them flirt with you. If your buddy has a girl around, and feel the need to message you himself, they’re probably getting the impression that your always tryna front around the females. Everyone’s had that one bud that gets a little too excited around their girlfriend. This can either be directly from flirting with her or indirectly from body language. Unfortunately, this is exactly the way I would have handled it and it was nice of your friend to do it this way.

[–]throwawayu43212 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

You must be the dude who sent OP the text. He said he haven't been in contact with the girls in the group for months. And gives no context, and you make all these assumptions?

Yep, you would have sent the same message as this tool. Good to know. Because I guess the girls must have been talking about him, when he wasn't around. And this dude didn't like it

[–]Big_Homie_Mozi0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Receiving a text like that is more than enough context lol. The red pill isn’t a circle jerk homie if you’re looking for one of those hit google again

[–]le_wolfe0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Either this or that guy's freaking out OP will steal his girl.

[–]Big_Homie_Mozi0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No he’s not. He’s letting him know “by the way you have no chance with my girl, and if you continue to try you won’t have a chance with the friend group”

[–]when_its_too_late1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've had this happen before. If I was told this in public I would give the courtesy of apologizing if necessary. But over text? I've had that happen and I ignored it. If you don't know specifically what words or actions, then it's not your problem. I've had women who can't even take slight sarcasm from me but act all brutally sarcastic around other men. I've been told my jokes "aren't funny" when it's basic word play, sarcasm, or flirting.

I really think it's because I was making the guys uncomfortable with how open and outgoing I was so they told the women to say it. I had a friend in this group who was a lot like me the moment he got a girl from outside the group the group banded together against her and did everything in their power to break them up.they got married anyway and I was best man, couldn't be happier for him for sticking to his guns.

Friend groups with women in it are always fucking weird.

The women in your group must be as dumb as in mine. I treat them as such.

[–]omega050 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thats not context, saying you barely talk to the girls in your circle. What actions specifically are making them feel uncomfortable?

[–]catsdontsmile0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

We don't know you, you are giving basically no context just the catalyst. So how about you ask what he's referring to?

[–]downvotesanimals0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

He said that? He said 'females?'

[–]EddTheEdducator0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Are these actually your friends? Or are you a casual participant in the circle? Sounds like they’ll cut you off for irritating their p-sleeve. Find a pack that knows better.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Dump these people

[–]Diche_Bach0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

PM: The supreme joy a man can know is to conquer his enemies and drive them before him. To ride their horses and take away their possessions. To see the faces of those were dear to them wet with tears, and to clasp their wives and daughters in his arms.

[–]Zapche0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ask one of the girls like hey dude man said y’all said I was weird what’d I do?

[–]Iluvalmonds830 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If your friend is accurate in that multiple girls feel uneasy after interacting with you, that makes me believe we need more info for context here; it’s difficult to see what your friend is saying when we weren’t there for the interactions.

-show us a convo you had with one of these girls; it may not be an issue of lewdness but maybe the way you say things rubs people the wrong way.

-have other women outside with social circle said the same things about you?

If your social skills suck, you could be genuinely putting them off and be unaware of it. I’ve known a guy and a few gals who came off as creepers or offensive due to them being varying degrees of socially awkward or straight up autistic when they engage other people. And they honestly don’t realize it.

Hell, I can be pretty blunt and direct(I’m aware of but don’t care to fix it). Ultimately If the way you communicate serves a positive purpose for you and doesn’t impede on your mission, fuck them. Especially for not coming to you and telling them they had a problem. I hate cowards like that.

[–]HurricaneHugues0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You've provided very little context surrounding your situation. How DO you act and talk to the chicks in that group? What changes have you made to how you interact with them? This clearly isn't about tye quarantine, as he saud that you naie them feel uncomfortable in-person . There's information that you're bot providing to really nake sense out of your post. That's why some posters have asked you to post screenshots of uour convos with these girls

[–]dtyler860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Oh I know all about this situation. Years ago when I was single living with a couple, the guy and our other couple friends would tell me that their girlfriends thought I were having a negative affect on their boyfriends. Yeah no shit. I had taken the red pill and taken it Hard a couple of years previously and they didn’t particularly like that I was in control of my own life, will pack up my bike in my work equipment, travel anywhere I wanted whenever I wanted, sleep till whenever I want and work out whatever I wanted and my guy friends started to seem curious about taking control of their own lives so I got painted with this horrible brush by the girlfriends as being some roving, immoral playboy. If I made a grave mistake of talking about some girls I had gone on dates with and how they were vapid, basic and brought nothing to the table it was considered “sexist and chauvinistic“. This is your buddy not realizing just how blue pill he is and not necessarily feeling the tight grip his LTR has around his balls

[–]RIchardjCranium0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

When you're newly "red pill" you tend to over do it. They've noticed the change in your behavior and attitude and they're trying to call you out on it in a white knight way. "You're making the widdle ladies uncomfortable you big meanie"

I'd tell them to eat a bag of dicks.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Can you show some of the messages you’re sending these chicks or any other communication? It is definitely most likely something you’re doing wrong on your end

[–]RahLyt0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Whatever happened this guy is not your friend. If you was your friend he would be honest with you. This honestly just feels like he doesn't matter to him if your improve your "behaviour" or not he just doesn't want to deal with you, and just said what he said to appease to someone in that group.

[–]Noodlesoupe20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Depends on your situation. Maybe the guy is an insecure fuckwad, or maybe you sperged out one too many times, revealed your power level etc. and are actually ruining the vibe. If he can’t be specific it’s probably the former

[–]robot3000_010 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Don't be a creep/don't look like a creep. All the best

[–]cfbovernfl0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Do you fuck or no? Because if you do they like you, otherwise you're socially autistic.

[–]Pycnostyle0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

A few observations:

  1. The text was from "one of the main guys in my social circle". That sounds to me like more of an acquaintance than a friend. That is to say that he less likely to be acting in your interest, as a friend, than he is to be acting in his own self-interest, whatever that may be. So a bushel of salt is called for here.
  2. Also, you don't really mention if you are also one of the "main guys". If you're not, that's not good.
  3. The guy who's White Knighting you is surprisingly crass for being a "woke male feminist". I mean, calling chicks "females" and even putting "females" in quotes? And referring to his girlfriend as "his girl"? There's a lack of congruence here that, in my eyes, actually gives the guy more credibility. Like if "Mr. My-Bitch-And-Other-Females" guy catches that you're being creepy, maybe you really are?

Okay, let's get on with answering you. There's only two possible situations here:

  1. You're making chicks uncomfortable.
  2. You're making this "main guy" uncomfortable.

Based on the lack of specifics, it's more likely that you're being more assertive and challenging "main guy's" spot as main guy. You should be doing more of this, not less. So continue to assert yourself and try to take on even more of a leadership position in your circle. This problem should then take care of itself, because who the hell tells the main guy he's a creep?

As for how to respond to "main guy", I wouldn't give him more than a "k".

[–]holy_shroom0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

im about 95% this is what is going on. being that he is red pilled im sure he is aware of female fckary. which would make him more cautious. im guessing he is acting red pilled without knowing aka NOT kissing the ground these women walk on. so they are calling him a "a-hole" or somn sht. which really means they got the hots for him. so his friend is a jealous mangina and trying to be a white knight btch. cut this dude out of your life b4 he trys to fight you for not holding the door open for "his girl". drop him.

[–]intl_plyrs_clb0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What are some examples of messages / conversations you're having with these women in this circle?

It's 1 of 2 things

  1. You truly are coming off in a weird way in your conversations (Sharing your texts with these women may help others point it out as you could be oblivious to it)

  2. These women are talking and "complaining" about you. What that really means is that you're doing something right, but it got back to your friend's ears as a "complaint" from his girlfriend. By complaint I mean you're now the hot topic of conversation and you're interesting to these women. You friend maybe took this at surface value and thinks what he heard is "z1stxfile is being creepy" when what was really said was "z1stxfile is amazing, but drives us a little crazy"

[–]xerxes30 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Message another guy or two in your friend group. Ask if you've ever done anything offputting. If they agree and give specifics, it's on you, tighten up. If they don't know what you're talking about, he's white knighting. Signs point to the latter, as men resolve these things by doing - either fighting you or just ignoring/cutting you out.

[–]dm2220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You are ugly probably

Female feel unconfortable around ugly guys. Sorry

[–]Cyberg0re0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Anything new yet?

[–]Chadster1130 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

tell him to go fuck himself

[–]UnbreakableButts0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why are you friends with someone who talks like a women? Fuck the faggot.

[–]vaginal_defloration0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

some chick is playing u with shit tests probably, using ur friend.

[–]juntawflo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

anything new yet ?

[–]teka70 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

without knowing the exact context....

making them "uncomfortable and uneasy" sounds like a good thing to me....

making her agitated is always a plus in my book

[–]bandraboyz-2 points-1 points  (8 children) | Copy

This happened to me as well. So I was a bully back then. I was talking to a girl just normal talk. I wasn't even trying to hit on her. Day after I got a message from his bf that he has a complain of me that I was trying to unease his girl. And warned me to stay away from her or else he will hit me. I called that guy to a place to show me how easy it is to hit me. He came with a bike and his couple of friends. I showed him who is the boss and how to be respectful when talking to me. I took his bike as well for a month. Gave him back breaking all the headlights in front of him. After like two three months I was in the cafe. His girl saw me, and called me to her. She started talking to me like nothing happened and was bragging about old stories of mine to me on how I was a bully. Piece of advice - Don't avoid conflict.

[–]CaramelJesus2410 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Are you in the sons of anarchy bro?

[–]Freedom__Fighter6 points7 points  (4 children) | Copy

you're an idiot, lol... terrible advice

[–]bandraboyz-3 points-2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Not for you pussy.

[–]Freedom__Fighter1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

You're powerless and you'll never be a leader... just some jackass with a baseless ego. You'll never spin plates, you don't hold frame, you probably get in drunk bar brawls all the time and get your ass kicked then rewrite the timeline of the night prior every morning while looking at your black eyes in the mirror. Cool lie you were trying to tell us in your first comment tho.

[–]bandraboyz-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

You have so much time to create unwanted argument. 😂 You need a life. I guess you're in depression. Fighting for your own freedom. I give you a chance mate, free yourself. Let it all out.

[–]j2T-QkTx38_atdg72G1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

wtf am I reading?

[–]MelodyMyst5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

aaaaahahahahahahahah... LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLO..... HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH.

[–]Monkitail2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Imaverybadass12yearold

[–]SalporinRP-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Tons of people are saying "fuck your friend" or "he's just a white knight", and yeah he might be one.

But tons of people with social/flirting skills can act like creeps when they start doing it for the first time. I've seen it first hand.

We all do not know the context but it wouldn't surprise me if OP was being creepy.



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