Hello ladies! I'm not the best at making posts. I'm more of a lurker than a poster, but I felt this would be a great thread to post!

When it comes to dating, what are your dealbreakers that make you say, "I'm definitely not giving the Scrote a chance." I definitely believe that is a great thing to have standards.

I'll start. These are my dating dealbreakers:

  • No Job.
  • No Car.
  • Lives with his mom.
  • Hates Feminism.
  • Hates children.
  • Has gone for prison and is a convict.
  • Smokes Cigarettes. Smoking Cannabis is okay, since it doesn't stink as bad and I support Cannabis in general.
  • He does drugs/is an alchoholic. (Cannabis is the only drug I'm cool with, and I hardly consider it a drug to begin with.)
  • Plays Call Of Duty. I HATE that game and I find it so stupid. 🤷‍♀️ Halo is definitely better.
  • Has no Ambition.
  • Is a stage 5 clinger. Dude. Have a life, please. Please have some hobbies of some sort lol.
  • Is a misogynist. Yeah, no.
  • Is full of himself and always talks about himself.
  • Is Porn sick.
  • Is entitled.
  • If he has any sort of personality disorder.
  • Is an incel, Red piller, PUA, or MGTOW.
  • Disrespects me in anyway.
  • Is a gamer. I don't mind video games. But gamers take it to a whole other level. Most are lazy and game from sun up to sun down, they are mostly unemployed, and you'll come second to their "hobby." 🙄 Every ex that I dated that was a gamer was a huge asshole. Never again.
  • Has no hobbies.
  • Has no friends.
  • Is Emotionally Unavailable/Distant. Has an avoidant attachment style.
  • Is Physically Unavailable.
  • Is Racist or Homophobic/Acephobic/Transphobic.
  • Is a religious fundamentalist.
  • He isn't kind. I don't like people who bully others. It's a huge turn off.
  • Married/Taken men. Fuck off with that shit. I'm not a homewrecker.
  • Is uneducated.
  • Isn't family oriented. Is distant from his family. (Doesn't count if his family was abusive/toxic to him.)
  • Doesn't care about being healthy.
  • Only wants to hang out late at night. Fuckboy red flag right there.
  • Hates animals and is abusive to animals.
  • Abusive towards children.
  • Doesn't respect his mother.
  • Says all of his exes were crazy AND he trash talks them all the time. Huge red flag of a narcissist right there.
  • Recently divorced/ got out of a relationship. Rebound alert lol.
  • Is a controlling control freak.
  • Is Codependent. It's unhealthy.
  • Has ever cheated in the past.
  • The conversation is dull af.
  • Has ever paid for sex or had sex with a sex worker.
  • He's a Republican/Conservative.
  • Is pro-life.
  • Claims he's a "Nice Guy. I respect women." Don't say it. Show it.
  • Has a blank bio or a very lazy/short bio. Really dude? :/
  • Is lazy and expects me to do everything. Chores, take care of him, etc. Umm. I want an equal partner. Not a man baby. I'm not your mother, dude. 🙄
  • Has no male friends.
  • Has never had a long term relationship.
  • Is bad with kids.
  • Has interest in very young women or very old women. Creepy af.
  • Is over 10 years older than me.
  • Has no female friends.
  • Is a playboy/player/fuckboy.
  • Is hot and cold.
  • Is selfish in bed.
  • hates cats.

If I think of any more, I'll edit this post and add them in there.