Young men are sexless because they're inferior to women their age

marchingrunjump · 2020-06-30T23:00:13+00:00

There’s a misconception here.

Women are the gatekeepers of sex.

Men are the gatekeepers of long term relations.

If women want to fuck around and haven’t grown an interest in long term relationships, the 20% chads are plenty to keep the women busy.

But with lots of ‘free’ sex the chads won’t commit. So women get the impression that men won’t commit.

The sexless sods gets the impression that women are out of reach and stops trying.

Time pass and everybody ends up alone. Chads because it’s better with FWB’s. Women because men are pigs who won’t commit. Non-chads because women are out of reach.

The lack of sex among young men is not due to a mismatch in attractiveness, but a cause of sexual liberation.

... or perhaps seen in another way: In an abundant society the Darwinian pressure of being fit is higher on men than women. But with the pill the natural selection does not occur. It just ends up in idle sex.

Barely-moral · 2020-06-30T22:32:20+00:00

Why should a young woman, at the peak of her SMV, waste time with the average 20 years old loser? Why shouldn't she date Chad or older men?

The only two reasons anyone does anything. Personal conviction or personal interest.

Maybe expecting a woman to have the personal conviction to be there for their partner while he is building himself is too much to ask so lets just skip to personal interest.

If the woman in question can not only attract but keep a man that is either older or chad and she thinks that she can be happy with him for the long run then she has no reason to "waste time with the average 20 year old loser"

Now... if she wants to be with a man that is of higher value compared to her and she is unable to attract and keep the man she wants to be with when that man is the finished product/at the finish line then the only option available to her that will get her the kind of man she wants is to pick the average 20 year old loser that wants to improve and build him into the man she actually wants.

Also, young men are sexless because society allows women the choice and comfort to pick who they have sex with or not to have it and they suffer no negative consequence.

Young men were always inferior to women their age when it comes to SMV, but women didn't have either the freedom or the luxury to be picky.

reddtormtnliv · 2020-07-01T03:52:45+00:00

Women are only superior according to their SMV (which is only the value society places on you and has nothing to do with other traits). They are not more superior genetically or even more driven (men and women share practically 100% of the same genome). Also this trope about women being better looking than the males their looksmatch isn't true. People only think this because most men and some women already think women look better just due their biology. If you look at males from most species, the male usually looks more impressive (think lion manes, bird colors, and stature)

Sweatingtoomuch · 2020-06-30T22:17:56+00:00

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staypositivebrad · 2020-06-30T23:43:43+00:00

Think about it? Why should a young woman, at the peak of her SMV, waste time with the average 20 years old loser? Why shouldn't she date Chad or older men?

That's fine, but don't expect beta bucks to clean up the disgusting mess Chad and older men leave when she's "had her fun" and is now a single mom, STD-positive and wants someone to "man up" and take care of her mistakes.

TheBookOfSeil · 2020-06-30T22:28:55+00:00

Everyone wonders about the causes of sexlessness in young men. However, what if it's simple. What if men at that age are really inferior to their female equivalent?

Who's doing the judging? It's also equally possible that those women simply want more than what those men are able to offer. That doesn't automatically mean that the men are inferior. It just means that the women want better than them, and very possibly better than what those women even "deserve."

Think about it? Why should a young woman, at the peak of her SMV, waste time with the average 20 years old loser?

Because she's fat, ugly, or even average herself? Let's not pretend that people don't tend to think they're more attractive than they really are. "I'm a 5 but I think I'm a 6 so I deserve at least a 6!"

People keep talking about their "looksmatch", but what does this even mean. In my opinion, the average female 5 looks better than the average male 5,

Is this your way of subtly coming out to us, or are you being serious? If they don't look alike, then they're not a looksmatch.

simply because women tend to take care of their appearance more.

Or do you mean "artificially enhance it with makeup?" If the majority of women are overweight, I don't see that as being any different from their overweight male equivalents just because they style their pubes and powder their vaginas.

Why should a female 5 waste time with her so called "looksmatch" when men on average look uglier than women simply because they don't care about appearance as much?

It's okay to admit that nobody wants their looksmatch unless they're at least somewhat attractive. We know that people tend to be inherently shallow, but at least be honest about what you really want. "I'm a 5 but I think I'm a 6 so I deserve at least a 6!"

LeJacquelope · 2020-07-01T00:13:21+00:00

Everyone wonders about the causes of sexlessness in young men. However, what if it's simple. What if men at that age are really inferior to their female equivalent?

Women are arrogant and overly egotistical and think they're better. And their ego is boosted by a ton of hungry simps.

acenosk · 2020-06-30T22:47:09+00:00

Are older women inferior to men their age?

Are older women inferior to younger women?

(Why do I have the feeling these will go unanswered?)

Bntt89 · 2020-06-30T23:29:41+00:00

Do women become inferior as they age then? You realize this is just dumb right? It's really dumb seeing a women but into the manosphere when they probably all hate you anyway lol.

churnthrowaway123456 · 2020-07-01T00:25:48+00:00

Young men aren't inferior to young women, period.

LeJacquelope · 2020-06-30T23:47:39+00:00

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Joey_Lopez · 2020-07-01T03:17:36+00:00

You do know that there's a relationshiplessness with 30+ women right? They are inferior to men their own age.

Massgumption · 2020-07-01T06:49:52+00:00

Actually Schopenhauer (pretty famous philosopher from way back when) has already written about this...

"In the girl nature has had in view what could in theatrical terms be called a stage-effect: it has provided her with superabundant beauty and charm for a few years at the expense of the whole remainder of her life, so that during these years she may so capture the imagination of a man that he is carried away into undertaking to support her honorably in some form or another for the rest of her life, a step he would seem hardly likely to take for purely rational considerations. Thus nature has equipped women, as it has all its creatures, with the tools and weapons she needs for securing her existence, and at just the time she needs them; in doing which nature has acted with its usual economy. For just as the female ant loses its wings after mating, since they are then superfluous, indeed harmful to the business of raising the family, so the woman usually loses her beauty after one or two childbeds, and probably for the same reason"

Generally women need this "burst" of charm early and for a short period to trap a man...like an early peak.

80_20 · 2020-06-30T22:19:21+00:00

You don't believe women are equal to men then.

If the average man isn't equal to the average woman, then what are you claiming then?

You can't have equality coming out of one mouth and then say women are just more attractive coming out of the other end.

pooppeebuttmcnuggets · 2020-06-30T22:30:03+00:00

Well tell me helleniclady I'm dying to know how men can bolster their looks withiut wearing makeup. I dont know where your from but in my country the united states both men and woman are pretty much equally fat, both have poor hygiene for the most part as well, the only thing I've noticed is woman dress nicer and wear makeup so lets do a little exercise. We have martha and john, both go to the gym and are in good shape, slim and toned john is 5'9 martha is 5'5 they both have average looking faces so how is martha so far above john?

Mrs_Drgree · 2020-07-01T00:13:32+00:00

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rubbooyuri · 2020-06-30T22:37:43+00:00

They’re not inferior. They’re just undesirable. Women don’t want sex, men do, to generalize grossly

jkonrad · 2020-06-30T22:22:38+00:00

Huh? It’s because they’re inferior to other men their age. Men don’t compete with women for women. Except lesbians I guess.

saladfingers4141 · 2020-06-30T22:59:40+00:00

Young men have always been less developed than equivalent aged women hence why women have always dated slightly older men and men slightly younger women this isn’t anything new.

Young people are all having less sex because they too much time on the internet, not talking to each other and not developing social skills which makes approaching each other daunting and avoided. Obviously men are more effected by this because it’s still their job to do the approaching.

Mimoxs · 2020-07-01T00:28:41+00:00

I think on their own, younger men look better, perhaps that's skewed by a strong preference for them BUT I think one of the most important factors here is their upkeep. Many guys in their 20s are disgusting. They have zero hygiene, they dress sloppy, they don't take care of themselves.

They figure this out eventually, around late 20s.

However, on their own they are inferior to older men, my evidence being first, gay men. There is the old trope of women being so upset that the super cute guy is gay - gay men are known to take better care of themselves, have good hygiene. The epitome of attractiveness to many young women is many gay men.

Secondly - the "dating older men" trend is not as popular outside the US, in some of the anglosphere yes but when you get into other countries, especially east Asia, you see very young guys being shown off as the epitome of attraction. These cultures emphasize hygiene and fashion in both sexes.

I do think there are more attractive women than men, but as for a "looksmatch," men aren't inherently inferior, they simply don't try, whereas women are putting in a lot of effort at a young age.

12112019 · 2020-07-01T01:37:20+00:00

You keep repeating the same points over and over again, it is getting boring at this point, at the point that women don't intend to get married it does make more sense to date chads.

But by using your logic it doesn't ever pay off to marry women since their SMV drop of the hill at 40, it is much more rational to pump and dump or pay to have sex with young attractive women.

fileeditinstert · 2020-07-01T04:29:25+00:00

Inferior??? Wtf

DaphneDK42 · 2020-07-01T05:17:19+00:00

As an old dude, I have to agree. Young girls should absolutely only be with older men. Young guys are so immature and not like superior old men at all.

Mrs_Drgree · 2020-06-30T22:13:40+00:00

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2020-06-30T23:45:14+00:00

I think TRP for instance is giving exactly the same explanation. Just with different wording. Younger men are just less attractive to women their age. That's why many terps spin plates in their 20s while themselves being in their 30s or 40s.

However women have much shorter window of attractiveness.

wtknight · 2020-07-01T00:56:42+00:00

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koko12121 · 2020-07-01T11:30:43+00:00

It's not that they are worthless, men so perfer to date younger woman in general. Woman generally date status but men generally dont care about status. Woman are at their peak between 18 to 27 and every year after, their value plummets.

Men on the other hand can get by with status. Feminism has changed it where woman date younger guys but is generally younger, weaker men. Men generally wont date older or younger by design. Woman age harder than men. This also is reflected by fertility.

DubsPackage · 2020-07-06T07:17:55+00:00

To a certain extent feminist society beats men down.

If women lived men's lives, they would shoot themselves in the mouth.

Women have it very easy by comparison.

wolkmi · 2020-07-06T13:28:18+00:00

this world is fucking sick, we live in Babylon, but the liberal and individualistic empire will also fall, like all empires

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qu8HiZepRWo

Mrs_Drgree · 2020-06-30T22:19:33+00:00

This is now the automod comment. Y'all know the drill.

glo0mysky · 2020-07-01T07:14:45+00:00

Men are naturally inferior to women. Women are the more beautiful sex, and sexual beauty is the ultimate power. Nothing is stopping women from fucking/dating whoever they want, but I can understand why guys (like me) feel bad about themselves.

arjay8 · 2020-07-01T07:29:34+00:00

Everyone wonders about the causes of sexlessness in young men. However, what if it's simple. What if men at that age are really inferior to their female equivalent?

Inferior? Within the context of a society built on the mountain of dead 20 year old "loser" men sure. You exist within a society that allows you, a woman, to be treated with kid gloves, shielded from a world that was subdued by throwing the bodies 20 year old "loser" men at it by the millions until it was civilized. No thanks or sex is even necessary, but to then act as if you are superior simply because the things society has demanded from men isnt good looks is beyond ridiculous.

Think about it? Why should a young woman, at the peak of her SMV, waste time with the average 20 years old loser? Why shouldn't she date Chad or older men?

Im going to generalize here, so if you dont meet the criteria, consider that im talking about the majority of women, and if you think im wrong about the majority of women, feel free to correct me, and we can argue about it.

You should consider that, if you want children and a stable family one day, its important that a man can consider any children you provide him will be his, paternity seems to be the driving factor in why men want women that are sexually conservative. Well... that and the notion that women are the moral puritans of our society. Yes men want to control your sexuality, we dont want to raise Chads fucking kids, and its immoral for you to willingly do shit like that to men. Anyway, if a woman is sexually promiscuous, she is seen as more likely to continue to be so, thus jeopardizing his genetic future, as well as the resources spent possibly raising the child of another man. That will be unappealing to a man who is looking for a wife. You diminish your value being promiscuous with men that will not commit to you. Your value to society isnt your sex appeal, its your ability to give a man the pathway to his genetic future.

People keep talking about their "looksmatch", but what does this even mean. In my opinion, the average female 5 looks better than the average male 5, simply because women tend to take care of their appearance more. Why should a female 5 waste time with her so called "looksmatch" when men on average look uglier than women simply because they don't care about appearance as much?

This I think is simply miss numbering men? A five is supposed to be a five regardless right?

Cleanit_up_Jannies · 2020-07-01T17:50:18+00:00

everyone wonders about the sexlessness epidemic

Only if you're wilfully ignorant of the obvious

what if its due to men being inferior

Low iq take. Heres the actual reasons: according to online dating stats your average woman thinks 80% of men are below average in looks. As a result, women begin their dating search by excluding 80% of men on looks alone. The 20% at the top have access to basically any woman so they dont settle down, the women dont begin to look outside of that 80% until they themselves are old and jaded from a decade or more of being nothing more than human fleshlights. The inferior men see these trends and are adopting the way of life in japan and korea, just spend your money on yourself and enjoy a lifetime of materialism. Meanwhile, older women refuse to admit that theyre no longer a catch and hold out exclusively for "college educated, good looking, high earning men" which are increasingly becoming rarer and are more spoilt for choice.

The epidemic is caused by women having unrealistic standards and expectations, idiotically believing that their careers are somehow attractive to a man. Fakeup is also a big deal as women actually believe their real face is the one with tons of layers of makeup on it.

why wouldnt a woman date a chad

She does, and then she ends up dumped for the next hot young thing. She refuses to take an honest look at herself since she cant even stare at her face in the mirror without makeup all over it and then "settles" for someone who actually is in her looksmatch. Sexual liberation is actually a shackle to women, you dont have a choice anymore other than "pray the chad im fucking doesnt throw me into the trash bin for new pussy".

the average 5 woman looks better than a male 5

Because shes got layers of makeup on and he doesn't. Id probably win a bet if im wagering that you havent gone out a single time to a bar or social outing without makeup in the last 5 years of your life.

why would a 5 waste her time dating a male 5?

Why would a chad waste his life committing to a female 5 when hes got 8s, 9s and 10s to pick from?

cloudydays84 · 2020-06-30T23:09:15+00:00

Why shouldn't she date Chad or older men?

From what I can tell from other posts and comments women don't really want to date/like older men, thats why. That's my only answer

Think about it? Why should a young woman, at the peak of her SMV, waste time with the average 20 years old loser?

Ya got me, I'm a pretty average broke 21 year old college student and I have no idea how I manipulated and coerced my 21 year old friend into having sex with me, let alone enter a fwb relationship with me./s

If you find an answer please post it so I can tell her, wouldn't want her to be wasting her "prime years" lol.

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