Expecting men to pay for a date is apparently toxic now? Like anyone cares about his opinion

thinktwiceorelse · 2021-07-04T12:56:53+00:00

hashtag feminism/s

Ok_Neighborhood_6971 · 2021-07-04T20:41:37+00:00

Why is abortion tagged in this? 🙃🙃🙃

08__80 · 2021-07-04T12:21:52+00:00

And women shouldn't be looked down upon for showing up to a date in a t-shirt, jeans, and sneakers with no make-up on and a messy bun atop their heads, and yet here we are.

Rosee-lil-feet · 2021-07-04T12:14:49+00:00

This always makes me laugh, it’s dinner!? Not a Mercedes or new house , wtf 😒

BlueSkiesOverLondon · 2021-07-04T14:33:18+00:00

Ah, yes, the feminist practice of “ending toxic practices that hurt males,” because feminism should be about men, just like everything else in the world /s.

monch-bred · 2021-07-04T15:09:30+00:00

Ummm but why though? “Dismantling a system of oppression also includes considering the oppressor’s feelings and spending more money so the oppressor spends less”

??? What? How about call me back when women are making the same $ as men, are equally represented in management and CEO positions, and do exactly half the housework. Then we can revisit 50/50

foodgrowerfoodeater · 2021-07-04T15:09:38+00:00

If this is toxic/a red flag for men I hope they get the message and leave us and our standards the fuck alone lmao

sleepysiri · 2021-07-04T12:36:32+00:00

Oh yeah, because men are so oppressed.

Do they remember who invented the patriarchy?

ButterfliesHurricane · 2021-07-04T14:32:17+00:00

If the man asks a lady out, surely he expects to pay? Otherwise it’s not a romantic date, it’s a meal with a friend and automatic friendzone 🤷🏼‍♀️.

It’s like inviting someone to your house for dinner and asking them to bring half the food 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️.

Tbh looking at him though, not sure how often he goes on dates.....

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2021-07-04T15:22:18+00:00

I think we should just start saying “I’m sorry you are broke”. No debate, no argument, just “I’m sorry you are broke.” Because really, that’s what this is about. If he had money he would not sweat $30.

ItsFreezen · 2021-07-04T12:33:16+00:00

Same Scrote who doesn't believe in paying for child support and providing for his family.

Platipus6 · 2021-07-04T12:19:44+00:00

Can I look down on him for photoshopping himself into a date?

motioncaptureF · 2021-07-04T13:18:50+00:00

Omg apparently paying $30 hurts men 🤡 ! U know what hurts women .. they wanna be victim so bad 😒 Date literally means inviting a woman out but hey I invited you but pay for urself coz equality ! They wanna have th the benefits of being man but without being a man in the relationship !

ButterfliesHurricane · 2021-07-04T14:32:26+00:00

If the man asks a lady out, surely he expects to pay? Otherwise it’s not a romantic date, it’s a meal with a friend and automatic friendzone 🤷🏼‍♀️.

It’s like inviting someone to your house for dinner and asking them to bring half the food 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️.

Tbh looking at him though, not sure how often he goes on dates.....

purasangria · 2021-07-04T13:04:40+00:00

If a man doesn't want to host a woman and pay for the date, then he should stop asking women out. 🤷‍♀️

VividPsychology7 · 2021-07-05T09:27:28+00:00

So they regard paying for dates as toxic but not domestic violence, cheating, leaving the mother of their child, not paying child support, or pretending to love someone for years just because they want easy sex? Okay.

pacificat · 2021-07-05T13:49:19+00:00

Interesting. I'll pay 50/50 as soon as women get reparations from all the unpaid labor and back pay for not being able to participate in the economy. It should be a tidy sum, more than a dinner.

radsera99 · 2021-07-04T16:18:00+00:00

I swear to god liberal feminists are just pick mes. Useless activism, male pandering, women hating pick mes. Feminism is about women. We shouldn’t care about men. Thats it.

LadyGrimes · 2021-07-04T21:56:42+00:00

Expecting sex on the first low effort date is toxic.

BeckyStocks · 2021-07-04T18:20:47+00:00

If he's not paying for the date how IS HE GETTING A DATE.?? Look at how ugly, round faced and short he is. Lol. Ok DON'T pay. No date then buddy...from.anyone.

No one wants your short dicked, bald headed, round faced self....lol please my dude...fantasies

yesbutnou · 2021-07-04T20:49:20+00:00

I don’t look down upon men who split the bill. I just don’t date them.

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2021-07-06T02:56:22+00:00

When men get periods and push babies out their dick is when I’ll maybe consider 50/50

janeaustenfan99 · 2021-07-05T19:57:27+00:00

Until men bleed monthly, give birth, and are automatically expected to show up places with a “natural no makeup” makeup look or risk being accused of looking “tired,” “plain,” or possibly just negligent of their appearance, there is no equality between the sexes.

MulticoloredCatMug · 2021-07-04T19:12:44+00:00

I’m not looking down on them because I’m not looking at them at all.

esthermaniii · 2021-07-04T22:13:01+00:00

It’s never about ending the unequal division of labour, abuse against women and children, forced marriages, etc. It’s always about “smash the patriarchy” because women should be okay with splitting bills. Pathetic.

eveloe · 2021-07-04T16:55:19+00:00

Omg why are we giving these losers air?!

Title	Expecting men to pay for a date is apparently toxic now? Like anyone cares about his opinion
Author	virtuelnizeka
Upvotes	275
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Date	July 4, 2021 12:13 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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