Make it stop. 💀

to_learn_to_fly · 2021-08-08T20:17:31+00:00

Another example of this weird pickme defense mechanism where she suggests something low effort and low value first before he does, so she can feel better that it was her idea.

FirePreferred_theOG · 2021-08-08T20:28:24+00:00

I literally can't believe I accepted this in my life before. I really just wanted human connection not a situationship. I got my shit together and now get the connection from my friends and loving myself.

Yes, make it stop!! And WE are part of the movement to make it stop!

jupitarianrise · 2021-08-08T18:42:12+00:00

People need to grow up. Unhealthy relationships are for high schoolers.

Angeli_33 · 2021-08-08T19:07:02+00:00

So basically act like you're too cool for school, while secretly hoping your situationship will magically turn into a relationship by itself? Yeah good luck with that.

Junior-Lion7893 · 2021-08-08T21:28:35+00:00

That statement makes no sense, so no thanks! I’m not into situationships!

sassyheather · 2021-08-08T18:40:18+00:00

People with that thinking need a therapist, not a relationship

spicyspa · 2021-08-08T18:41:24+00:00

__kamikaze__ · 2021-08-08T19:26:23+00:00

They need to stop glamorizing this shit.

janeaustenfan99 · 2021-08-08T21:16:27+00:00

So did she get the dusty Internet points or DMs she was looking for?

headlights- · 2021-08-08T19:48:24+00:00

So FWB? Sounds stressful!

ScrappleSandwiches · 2021-08-08T22:39:52+00:00

I believe that’s called a friendship?

revengeofgivingtree · 2021-08-08T21:00:12+00:00

This sounds stressful

Renrenchi · 2021-08-09T15:07:51+00:00

It seems cool, open-minded and special to be in a situationship, but then they see their scrote with another girl (while their messages are left on read) and get a mental breakdown.

Stop glamourizing this shit to young girls and teach them to have boundaries.

veruscka · 2021-08-09T02:47:39+00:00

Intimate relationships are normal and healthy. To desire a meaningful connection with someone is normal and healthy. Sometimes I think people participate in the type of cognitive dissonance in OP’s post because they think not putting a label on things will prevent them from getting hurt somehow, but it doesn’t work like that. Not only will they get hurt anyway, they’ll feel bad about getting hurt because the relationship was never “legitimate” to begin with…

janpra07 · 2021-08-09T05:04:15+00:00

why would anyone ASK for this 😭

SunflowerinVirgo0903 · 2021-08-08T22:35:59+00:00

So fucking stupid.

vforvendetta87 · 2021-08-09T14:21:48+00:00

Ya, just went through this and it’s not funny.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-08-09T08:31:05+00:00

Aocwannabe · 2021-08-08T21:56:25+00:00

frustratedanon123 · 2021-08-08T23:48:35+00:00

😬😬😬

catlady4u · 2021-08-09T01:52:38+00:00

What

Lovely-Clouds · 2021-08-11T02:15:48+00:00

I really hope she's being sarcastic...

Title	Make it stop. 💀
Author	fairywakes
Upvotes	953
Comments	43
Date	August 8, 2021 6:14 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/p0jreu/make_it_stop/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/make-it-stop.849984 https://theredarchive.com/post/849984

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