Purposefully doing things to drive up his gf’s utility bill…I thought I read it all 🤦🏼‍♀️ (repost!)

juliana_san · 2022-01-21T03:34:27+00:00

I swear men use the AITA subreddit to brag about their fuckery. Nobody can possibly type that and actually think there is a chance they aren’t assholes. Right??????

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2022-01-21T00:47:20+00:00

I hope they are telling her to leave this fuckwit.

Zeniite · 2022-01-21T01:31:02+00:00

And this dude really needs to ask if HE is the asshole. Who the hell else could possibly be the asshole here? Good grief.

lansburysoda · 2022-01-21T02:18:28+00:00

Does he even… like her? Much less love her? What the fuck

Sage_Planter · 2022-01-21T04:41:43+00:00

That post was wild. Like, straight up what the fuck?

He's upset his girlfriend made a smart financial decision for his home, and he's being a brat to stick it to her. For what?

Platipus6 · 2022-01-21T01:15:22+00:00

What an immature little pissbaby being defiant and sulky to mommy.

dkwantsdk · 2022-01-21T05:05:36+00:00

So let me get the straight. Girlfriend moves in with boyfriend. Boyfriend gets rid of the ugly and dangerous fireplace that freaked her out. He then tries to covertly punish her for the removal by having her pay the electric bill. She thinks the bill will be lower than her original offer and feels that's unfair. He doesn't reveal the truth - he thinks it will be higher than her offer to pay the mortgage. When the punishment doesn't work out, he manipulates the utilities to artificially increase the cost.

That was actually quite difficult to parse out. This guy is a liar about his intentions.

rainbowshummingbird · 2022-01-21T00:42:29+00:00

What kind of dumb@ss would even think up this stuff?

kolsen92 · 2022-01-21T05:48:05+00:00

also why the hell is she helping him pay his mortgage? They aren’t married

marimare21 · 2022-01-21T01:30:29+00:00

Literally gaslighting lmao

BasieSkanks · 2022-01-21T09:16:04+00:00

Wait, so this scrote wants his girlfriend to subsidise his mortgage, even though she is probably not on the deed of the house and she won’t be amassing any equity? This is why moving in with boyfriends and playing house with them is always a scam.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2022-01-21T06:43:02+00:00

I hope she leaves him, and he will be the only person in that house when it burns down or turns into a gas chamber.

bleda_princezna · 2022-01-21T08:02:35+00:00

What the hell did I just read? He felt it was unfair that he had to pay the mortgage himself and so he wanted to basically punish her for it? What? It's his house, why should she pay his mortgage?

The deal they made wasn't fair to her in the first place and yet he still had the audacity to complain.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2022-01-21T08:11:55+00:00

that's gaslighting right there... also... is it just me or do these men really hate their girlfriends/ wives/ whatever? like... they cannot wait to have someone to shit on and gaslight? these men hate women. they wouldn't do that to one of their bros. though.

Valerian1218 · 2022-01-21T15:30:18+00:00

Lately all the posts on FDS have had me asking one question: Why date us if you fucking hate us?

AnniaT · 2022-01-21T09:07:51+00:00

What are the replies? But also why did she offer to pay our the mortgage of a house she doesn't own? Hope she dumps him!

JulyParade · 2022-01-21T15:59:59+00:00

People tell me I'm irresponsible with money because I dine out and take vacations. These people also think I should get married to "save money". A life of vacations and meals at nice restaurants is 1,000% better than fighting with a scrote about a damn energy bill he's using to drain my wallet.

Specific-Composer300 · 2022-01-21T11:45:56+00:00

Yes, dude, you are most definitely the asshole 🤦🏼‍♀️

Even before the electric bill childishness, to be a landlord to your gf and make her pay off your mortgage is not right!

gcthwy · 2022-01-21T15:49:03+00:00

Contributing to global warming to own the wimmenz!! So smart 🤪

Snowmist92 · 2022-01-21T18:05:02+00:00

Why do they always want to go to war with their GFs?

If he has to ask this question, at age 28, he is perfectly aware that he is the AH. I hope she ruins him since he wanted to be petty for no reason.

lemonasia · 2022-01-21T12:21:29+00:00

Why would she pay half of his mortgage when she doesn’t have any legal ownership over the house? She is subsidizing his mortgage and financing a real estate asset for him with no legal right to the property…

fedupofbeingletdown · 2022-01-21T00:41:29+00:00

Holy fuck, that dude should not be in a relationship. When ur with someone ur supposed to be a team, not try to undermine and screw them over. And the audacity of him to ask AITAH. Like the boy can't even realize his actions. Talk about NVM (I hope I used the right acronym, still new to this sub)

Vector_4_Food · 2022-01-21T01:07:57+00:00

Nothing says true love like trying to secretly ruin your partner financially. Who even comes up with this shit...

Uruzdottir · 2022-01-21T05:08:03+00:00

Why is it so hard for them to act like adults? He's acting like spiteful little five year-old who is sulking because Mommy didn't buy him a candy bar when they were in line at the supermarket. Wtf.

The_Cat_Empress · 2022-01-22T00:37:15+00:00

"bEcAuSe sHe WaNteD tO gEt RiD oF iT shE CoUlD eAt tHe ExtRa CoST."

What a prick!! Just this sentence alone makes me hate this guy,

MissApplication · 2022-01-21T12:00:46+00:00

Smart woman! She's no dummy and she answered her own question! NO, she can't live with someone who is so immature and He IS the assihole!!!

gotigera2 · 2022-01-21T01:34:25+00:00

better test thing now. then find out later

qazzovuoi · 2022-01-21T08:24:29+00:00

Covert narcissists are the worst he's literally gaslighting her the Hitchcock movie way omg

pinkgirly111 · 2022-01-22T14:41:39+00:00

they hate us! they hate us even more when we’re right!!!! so then he has to go to incel reddit for backup. fuck these losers.

Title	Purposefully doing things to drive up his gf’s utility bill…I thought I read it all 🤦🏼‍♀️ (repost!)
Author	capresesalad1985
Upvotes	341
Comments	47
Date	January 21, 2022 12:37 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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