This is something I've encountered a few times via OLD, to the point where it genuinely annoys me, and was curious to know if others have experienced it. I've talked to several guys via apps that, when the subject of meeting in person came up, suggested that I come over and "cuddle" with them. They literally use the word cuddle. Logically, I assumed they were just looking for sex, and before I ghosted them I asked "do you mean hook up because I would prefer if you said what you meant", and these idiots would respond with something along the lines of "no I really just want to cuddle!".
I just want to clarify that I don't actually believe them, I'm honestly just baffled by it. Like do they genuinely think we want to cuddle with strangers and use this to coerce us into sex? Or are they weirdos who have alienated everyone in their personal lives and are so touch-starved that they actually want to cuddle with random women from the internet? At this point I just unmatch with every guy who uses the word "cuddle" because it kinda makes my skin crawl now.