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Die the hero or live long enough to become the villian
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Was there a time when females were looked down upon? When they were as a whole disadvantaged? There were times and places when individuals felt hard done by sure. But on a whole I don't think there is enough evidence to say they were. For every advantage men had they had equal or greater responsibilities to fulfill, and vice versa for women. Really the only 'unhappy' people in recent memory were the bored wives and daughters of the rich and then middle class. Edit: And lesbians.
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That's what most feminists would say about an MRA, too.
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And that's exactly what feminists say about MRA's, too. I'm just saying, don't be so quick to make assumptions. There are many, many different views withing the term feminism, just like any other ideology.
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Sigh.. you're just as delusional and narrow minded as you make them out to be, you just can't see it.
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Feminist debate 101
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wtf? am i in /r/TheRedPill ? no wonder no one takes MRA seriously when this is a top comment on a concise logical comment.
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where do you get that infomation?
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The problem is assuming there is such a thing as "feminism". There are MANY "feminisms", and they all have different perspectives on the values they share, the purposes of their actions, and even different beliefs about what they want society to look at.
Some of those feminisms are universally supported by most intelligent people, whether male or female. Others of those feminisms are rejected by most intelligent people.
The idea of equal treatment under law is complex enough as it is, but most people will suggest they support the idea in theory (though many women still do not want equal custody standing in family court, or to be drafted into combat--hell, if I were a woman, I'd not want to cede any ground on those issues if I didn't have to...). But even then there is a lot of debate that society needs to be willing to have, and have again, over time.
But when you get into the cultural feminisms--which pronouns are most acceptable in literature? What style guide should we play by in this regard? What properties of art are inherently "male" versus "female" and how should gallery space be allowed between them in publicly funded galleries--when you get into the cultural sides, you have as many sects and splits and divisions as religions have doctrinal disputes and denominations. They claim to read out of the same song book, but they have very different fundamental value sets and purposes. Their ambitions are, in many ways, as far apart as they are from some of the "men's-rights" groups they compete against.
Whenever I read through these pieces, and I read on all sides of the issue and have a pretty moderate point of view as a whole, I always have to identify which "feminism", or school of thought, I'm dealing with. And that's the key to both being rigorous with bad thinking, but also to finding productive common ground on practical policy issues.
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The policy of arresting men in domestic violence case regardless of which party is actually to blame isn't something that MRAs should care about? I've experienced DV firsthand and I was in fear of my safety each time, despite being the victim and living in California. This isn't something we should care about?
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