So sad

factsd0ntlie · 2019-03-07T07:15:48+00:00

Can he sue anyone for the loss?

YucanSukmeov · 2019-03-07T06:48:58+00:00

But I was told women never make false accusations?

Poor man. Hope he finds a way.

chambertlo · 2019-03-07T06:43:38+00:00

Then they wonder why some men lose their shit and destroy everything in their path.

Men hanged from trees due to the lies of women.

BIGJFRIEDLI · 2019-03-07T08:00:06+00:00

Just for the sake of posterity, I go to Baylor. I had friends on the football team. The girl who accused him of sexual assault he had been seeing for some time as a side piece to his longterm gf from penn state, and walked with him to his home from the local bar they were drinking at that night. Which does indicate that she would know what would happen if she went back with him, seeing as it was a regular thing. Which may have been the reason he was found not guilty.

On the other side of things, any one of my friends who I asked had no hesitation in saying they thought he did it. The girl had, if I remember correctly, 6 vaginal tears and other bruising that was consistent with being held down and brutally sexually assaulted according to the medical professional who examined her. Aside from that, the few times I met him, he just seemed a bit... I don't know how to express it. Even in groups of people his shoulders were always hunched, head forward, scanning constantly, and acted aggressive with little provocation at one bar that I met him in. That's not to say that people can't have off days, but as this was a regular occurrence and his typical demeanor according to the people that played with him, I took that as being a part of his personality.

Nobody knows what happened between the two of them at his place. Could be he got too rough and she wanted him to stop and he didn't (since you don't get tears and bruising from going slow), but it's also possible she was trying to cash in on him going to the NFL. Which, also to be fair, the dude was not going in the first round of - SI was talking out their asses at the height of the memes at the time. He was a 2nd or 3rd round prospect, someone they'd have to teach a lot of technique to and someone who took a lot of plays off. He mostly just out-physical'd the offense which doesn't work as well in the NFL as it does in college.

Point is, I don't think this is a good example of a case where a man clearly in the right has his life ruined by false accusations. They could absolutely be false, and I could definitely see them as being true but difficult to prove seeing as she went home with him - though even if she went back and said no, that's still no room to just take what you want. Either way he's been given the "not guilty" and is currently in a smaller football league, and if he works hard enough I have no doubt he has the physical skills to work his way towards a much better pay in the future.

goodmod · 2019-03-07T09:31:20+00:00

Although this is a good post, the title does not say enough about its subject. This forces people to click and read before they can decide whether they are interested. It also makes searching impossible.

If everyone did this, the subreddit would become unusable.

So please don't do it in future. Take the time to describe your link, and save the time of hundreds of other people.

When making a title, it's best to assume the reader doesn't know what you're talking about - but don't go overboard with every detail. Then check if there are any words you can cut out without losing any important information.

chasemyers · 2019-03-07T09:30:15+00:00

Jesus, though. If anyone could be an absolutely terrifying monster, it's this guy.

academicRedditor · 2019-03-07T11:40:38+00:00

Where is the Gillette commercial?

MrTacoMan · 2019-03-07T14:12:52+00:00

Shawn Oakman was never projected to be the first pick in a damn thing.

ShenandoahValley · 2019-03-07T11:51:44+00:00

Apparently NFL teams are looking at him. Obviously he'll never make what he possibly could have before this happened but he may yet have a career in football if he's still got it.

cwood21 · 2019-03-07T12:58:16+00:00

He elected to not go into the draft that year and would not sign a $25 Million contract either way. Terrible story, but don't need to twist the truth to make a bad story sound worse.

wrstlr3232 · 2019-03-07T15:11:04+00:00

This is highly misleading. He was projected #1 in a mock draft for 2016, a few days after the 2015 draft. Almost a year before his draft. Through his last college year, his production would drop through the season and many teams considered him a late round pick before this even happened.

Once this event happened, he did go into an “undraftable” status, but to say he went from a #1 pick to not playing because of this one event is entirely incorrect.

He also had issues at penn state where he was removed from the team.

I’m not saying false accusations are ok, but using false accusations to push a highly misleading agenda should not be used either.

Dad365 · 2019-03-07T14:42:34+00:00

Its not even close to the way it happened.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shawn_Oakman

logvikmich · 2019-03-07T16:57:50+00:00

It’s easier to get away with murder than prove you didn’t rape a woman. So technically your best odds are to yeet that ho off a bridge or something.

TankVet · 2019-03-07T09:46:51+00:00

Oak man made a lot of other mistakes too. This was not the man’s first run in with the law. He couldn’t stay out of trouble at Penn State. Got kicked off the team. There were a few incidents that didn’t make the real news but were heard around campus. He seemed to have his shit together at Baylor then got in trouble again.

Wish this guy the best though. Hope he can get it together.

pinstrypsoldier · 2019-03-07T13:02:30+00:00

There’s WAY too little information for me to make an I formed judgement on this.

Going PURELY from what’s in the picture - that’s horrible. But I can’t say anything about the man himself because there’s nothing else to go on.

macaryl95 · 2019-03-07T07:35:53+00:00

This is so sad i hope that women who accused him of rape falsely rots in hell

OndrikB · 2019-03-07T09:56:53+00:00

r/iamatrashypieceofshit

2019-03-07T11:41:09+00:00

And some women have the audacity to say men who want women who falsely accuse men of rape to be punished are assholes

Tannysack · 2019-03-07T13:36:58+00:00

I'm sorry to say it but pro sports leagues will excuse almost anything if you are talented enough. I think the whole "potential first pick in the draft" narrative is bs.

Listen, it sucks he was falsely accused and all that. But if he was truly that good, he'd be in the league. (IMHO).

I hope this doesn't make me come off as insensitive because I wouldn't wish what he went through on anyone.

SAmatador · 2019-03-07T13:42:19+00:00

This is not the guy to cry about or put on some meme. This is a bad dude. He’s been known to be bad long before this. The only reason he was at Baylor was because he already beat a female cashier in public on camera for no damn reason. The guy is bad news.

metusalem · 2019-03-07T14:46:14+00:00

yeah #believeher #victimshaming /s

Opinion12345 · 2019-03-07T15:48:39+00:00

this makes me sick to my stomach. imagine the type of woman who would do this to someone... there are no words.

ABooney134 · 2019-03-07T15:54:46+00:00

You're GD right he does.

TaruNukes · 2019-03-07T16:45:04+00:00

I’m sure the NFL has seen this. Maybe they’ll give him another shot? I would think he certainly deserves it. It’s only been 3 years.. so he’s what.. 23 or so?

2019-03-07T18:10:14+00:00

Sounds like he's being talked about, so maybe there's hope. https://arrowheadaddict.com/2019/03/05/shawn-oakman-chance-free-agency-baylor-kansas-city-chiefs/

ABBXXX · 2019-03-07T20:04:25+00:00

Is anyone collecting all of the proven false accusations and putting them onto a dedicated website?

9_line07-15 · 2019-03-07T11:57:20+00:00

Terrible! Words can’t describe my disgust. I hope he’s doing well and can find a successful career. Yes I agree she should hold some financial responsibility as her fake allegations cost him AT LEAST that 25 mil, plus I think the average career in the NFL is about 3 years. So let’s put her on the hook for a cool 75 mil. #payupb*

jsxtasy304 · 2019-03-07T14:13:34+00:00

How long must men endure before "women" (I use that term loosely) are charged and given lengthy sentences for being low life garbage cunts that destroy peoples lives?

Adaman1324 · 2019-03-07T08:59:26+00:00

are we seriously crossposting from T_D? come on, we're better than this.

St0rm3rX · 2019-03-07T14:02:52+00:00

Eww r/the_donald

Bluebird_North · 2019-03-07T15:11:37+00:00

Can we post original content that isn’t filtered through the cesspool of The_Donald?

I support the point of view of this men’s rights subreddit. Perceived alignment with radical alt-right, neo-nazis, and fact-averse nut jobs will cause me to unsubscribe and distance myself.

DangerZone69 · 2019-03-07T13:43:27+00:00

Please don’t crosspost from that cesspool

atli123 · 2019-03-07T11:11:46+00:00

We’re really scraping the bottom of the barrel if we’re x-posting from /r/TheDonald

rennayz · 2019-03-07T12:11:11+00:00

Not financial reward, but compensation

2019-03-07T12:26:49+00:00

I'm wondering what would happen to my own life and career if I posted this to Facebook.

fen90der · 2019-03-07T12:35:18+00:00

When i have sons, i will teach them not to fuck crazy girls.

JackFruitFO · 2019-03-07T12:48:45+00:00

Jesus christ this man is an absolute tank

Prommerman · 2019-03-07T14:34:36+00:00

Can he still tryout for the NFL?

Ebinebinebinebin · 2019-03-07T14:57:11+00:00

Disgusting how they used the Metoo hashtag in this

the_good_things · 2019-03-07T14:57:58+00:00

Does he deserve a financial reward? No. Should the woman go to jail? Yes. It's only been 3 years, he's technically still in his prime. His career hopes aren't dashed, especially if he was projected to be the #1 overall pic.

Code347 · 2019-03-07T15:22:51+00:00

Deserve a monetary reward? Perhaps from the accuser, but she probably has shit to her name, and it's not like there is a pool of victim money out there. The NFL could have still hired him. That accuser needs jail time.

greenSixx · 2019-03-07T15:25:51+00:00

Yes, but its hard to quantify what it would be.

De__eB · 2019-03-07T15:36:26+00:00

He was projected to be a top pick in 2015. Instead of declaring for the draft he opted to play his senior year. His draft stock fell off the radar because his production completely tanked in 2015.

2019-03-07T16:20:59+00:00

Maybe he could still make it to the NFL in a year or two? That three years out of the game sucks but he had so much natural talent maybe he can make his way back.

Clob · 2019-03-07T16:48:24+00:00

It sucks for him and I feel bad for him.

He was probably going to fail the drug test anyway...

Dem some juicy arms.

I_Love_BB8 · 2019-03-07T18:08:35+00:00

I hope this is fake news.

Brotherlove101 · 2019-03-07T19:54:09+00:00

Happy for the guy what happened was terrible but he was never going to be the first pick that is just untrue.

omegaphallic · 2019-03-07T20:57:43+00:00

Yep, he deserves full compensation.

MacDaddy-7 · 2019-03-07T21:00:15+00:00

Send her to prison

slurmfactory · 2019-03-07T21:58:36+00:00

malevolentrevenant · 2019-03-07T22:16:16+00:00

Sue the shit out of her until she never gets a paycheck again.

weareallthechosenone · 2019-03-07T22:34:01+00:00

There should be a better test for women accusing men of rape. Like a lie detector test or something even better!

Deckardisdead · 2019-03-07T22:42:37+00:00

UMMMMMMMMM this guy isn't an angel.

Oakman had come to Baylor from Penn State, where he had been dismissed from the program in 2012 after he was arrested on charges of disorderly conduct, harassment and retail theft stemming from an incident in which he allegedly tried to steal a sandwich from a convenience store and was aggressive with a female store clerk by grabbing her wrist.

Neither incident was presented to jurors as part of Oakman's criminal trial.

jackbeecroft · 2019-03-07T23:01:29+00:00

Reward? No! Compensation? Yes!

89ZERO · 2019-03-07T23:10:25+00:00

I agree with the posting of this story, it’s an awful thing that shouldn’t happen to anyone.

But, did you have to x-post from r/The_Donald? It doesn’t look great for the bipartisanship the movement should display.

2019-03-07T23:28:44+00:00

Sue for defamation. This guy could've been a better Myles Garrett. He could've made so much money, fame, and influence. He's been destroyed, and he should be compensated accordingly.

Fr4ctured1337 · 2019-03-07T23:34:15+00:00

Please do not crosspost from The_Donald. Don't need that association.

DubsPackage · 2019-03-08T03:08:20+00:00

I think I'm starting to understand why black people are angry all the time.

Kikowani · 2019-03-08T03:33:12+00:00

He deserves 100 mil

2019-03-08T06:12:15+00:00

Poor guy.

jorogo · 2019-03-07T08:17:48+00:00

She literally kept this man from millions and millions of dollars. This is not right! She should be punished whether it be jail time or fined for false accusations. Too many women ruining men's lives with these kinds of things.

SOwED · 2019-03-07T08:06:46+00:00

So we're crossposting from that sub now?

2019-03-07T13:51:21+00:00

Straight up right here is why when I meet a girl who said she was raped I take that shit with a grain of salt.

moh4554 · 2019-03-07T08:16:49+00:00

women who falsely accuse men of rape should be stoned

Religion_N_Polyticks · 2019-03-07T06:05:03+00:00

Get married, get divorce raped.

Don't get married, get accused of rape.

Get married, then tell black people to get their act together, Bill Cosby gets accused of rape.

Ignecratic · 2019-03-07T08:08:54+00:00

I don’t want to start a huge political debate/argument but I really hope everyone on this sub is conservative. I feel like all of our opinions align with conservatives & the #MeToo crap & men bashing is all on the liberal/Democrat side. I don’t think that’s a controversial thing to say, it’s just the truth. So I would highly advise being conservative & voting Republican (username checks out!!). Republicans aren’t perfect obviously & there’s more issues than just this stuff but I don’t see how anyone here could support Crooked Hillary & people like that.

I don’t see why I would be downvoted for this comment too, it’s really obvious with what I’m saying. If you want the feminist driven, men bashing, white men hating, radical abortionists #MeToo bullshit then vote Democrat.

Please don’t ban me for this, it’s just important that people realize this on here.

2019-03-07T11:53:07+00:00

MGTOW solves this. Just saying.

And all those THOTs that would orbit around hoping to get pregnant and therefore a big cash payout would get fuck all, too. Win-win.

arendt1 · 2019-03-07T09:59:32+00:00

Why is his career destroyed ? He was found not guilty . Does the American sports draft make its decisions based on accusations? Seems to me mensrights should get off the victim bandwagon that #metoo is on , get a grip and challenge this . The problem is with US society not letting life go on after the legal system gets its mitts on someone. Be part of the solution.

Ekor69 · 2019-03-07T13:47:45+00:00

Like yeah that's fucked up but statistically speaking he would have just spent that money on tigers, sports cars and coke. Which isn't that crazy if you're aware of the fact that tigers can only drive while high.

PM_ME_YOUR_FARM_MAPS · 2019-03-07T12:33:30+00:00

I don't care what the courts said. I can tell, just by looking at the guy, that he's a rapist.

santa_91 · 2019-03-07T16:44:40+00:00

Y'all know that being found not guilty and being exonerated are two totally different things right? Not guilty just means guilt couldn't be proven beyond a reasonable doubt. In other words, it could have happened, but there wasn't enough certainty that it did to convict him. He wasn't found innocent, just not guilty.

So sad

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yeah #believeher #victimshaming /s

BLACK PEOPLE NEED TO AND CAN HOLD THEMSELVES TO A HIGHER STANDARD

ALL OF US, EVERYWHERE?

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