Attraction is literally the gravity in a relationship. It’s the electricity powering everything, it’s the concrete that holds it all together.

Without it, or with a lack of or low amount of it, that’s when issues arise.

Communication issues? Imbalance of attraction. Somebody always wants more communication than the other wants to give.

Not feeling like you’re getting enough attention or affection or that your date/partner/husband/wife isn’t spending as much time around you or isn’t as present when they’re around you?

Not enough attraction.

Not getting texts back after the second date? They’re not cuddling you after sex? Feel you’re being treated like an option? Attraction.

She’s started belching around you and acting nonchalant about saying offensive things or acting very comfortable to the point it’s as if she doesn’t care how you see her? Lack of attraction.

Disconnected during sex? Vanilla every night? Doesn’t care about pleasing you at all? Lack of attraction.

With enough attraction ALL these issues iron themselves out.

Also, all the usual excuses? Stress? Tiredness? Busy? Sick? They’re only excuses when the attraction is low. People often use those excuses as a reason to be around each other. Somebody who is into you will want to have sex as a stress relief. To spoon you when tired. Beg you to be around them and bring them ice cream or hell, just “be there to make me smile” when they’re sick on the couch.

There’s never any REAL reason beyond lack of attraction. It’s always the answer.