Firstly I’d like to state my observation. And I’m open and respectful of the fact that other peoples observations and lived experience may be different. But mine is this.

Guys who were doing quite well with women up until just before covid are even now struggling themselves. These are not super attractive, but, they are on the surface above average in looks and seemingly doing ok for themselves. Yeah, their lives aren’t that of a low level influencer, but, they’re as close to normal and above and functioning and doing reasonably well, whilst being your typical chill neurotypical guy. Like, good lookingish or at least not ugly and fairly good socially.

These guys are now in my opinion doing worse than ever. And I’m seeing a phenomena of even quite good looking guys in relationships with below average women, which I didn’t see as much before. (I mean as long as they’re happy fine, but I’m interested to see why I’m seeing more of this)

Now we all know unattractive guys are and always have struggled, but we know why and it’s something nobody really believes to be an “issue” or at least “abnormal” as such because it’s obvious what’s going on.

But I feel perfectly dateable men who had no problems a few years ago are now approaching a point where they’re really struggling. Do you think this is happening? Why?