So I found this thread interesting, but the approach is what didn't satisfy me. The "stat" that gets thrown around these sorta subs is the 80/20 ratio, 80 percent schlubby men women either ignore or use, 20 percent who live in an eternal orgy where all women (minus cat ladies) throw themselves at them. So apparently, if there's this majority of guys not getting any, then the question should have been framed as, if instead of being alone, you'd have the choice of a decently attractive, nice, cool woman, who was totally clean, practices safe sex all the time, but is fucking other guys, would it be a good deal? No, she isn't a prostitute, the sex is free (you might have to pay for condoms, let's be somewhat realistic). Some of you may say she's a slut, technically, yeah, but it's kind of derogative, also, it's often implied (to me) that slutty women sleep around with equally slutty men, in this situation, the woman is definitely the one with more sexual partners, while she might be the only partner the man has. So, if you were or are a man unlucky in dating/incel/low smv, etc, would you consider being a part of a male harem, so to speak?