Many people, both online and IRL, don’t consider a long-term relationship a failure just because it ended. For them, the idea of having only one partner for life feels unfamiliar and unnecessary.

At the same time, I know several people IRL who have a strictly monogamous mindset in sense that not only they don't date multiple people at the same time, but they also don't date them if they don't think relationship will not last till death. Some of them have successfully found lifelong partners(from older generations, obviously), while others haven’t and suffered a lot because of it.

Do you see people like this in your own circles? What percentage of people do you think genuinely prefer lifelong monogamy? Do you think there is gender disparity?

Do you think there may be a genetic component to strict monogamy in humans, similar to how some animal species are naturally more monogamous than others (for example, differences between Eurasian and American beavers)? What do you think about monogamous people in polygamous cultures like Zhu Youcheng?

IMO most pill advice doesn’t suit people with this mindset and is counterproductive. How do you think your pill's philosophy could be adjusted for people who are strictly monogamous?