I made a post a while back about the type of people you date and/or attract.

(Type meaning sexuality/sexual behavior, demeanor, personality, race and cultural factors, and how they treat you.)

So now I'm asking essentially the same question, but with another question. That is, how do the people you attract contrast with the people you want? Your "type" that is.

In my post I wrote about the type I attract so here it goes (If you don't care then feel free to skip this section.:

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Not that I've dated, but all the women I've attracted have been bisexual or bi-curious.

This is something I'm neutral about. I sometimes wonder if I lack the masculinity to attract a straight woman, but eh, at least someone's attracted

The girls I attract are either extremely nice to me to the point of being passive or are just downright mean to me thinking that that'll get me to notice 'em.

I'd prefer girls who were direct but still had some aura of kindness. Sadly it's usually one extreme or the other for me.

The girls I attract are usually white or mixed and tend to be about average-looking, some chubby, others on the thin side.

White and/or mixed girls are my type. No complaints here.

Sometimes I also attract alt/goth girls too.....
Although this usually comes with a plethora of mental health issues in my experience....
They're also usually also pothead types too

Win on the alt/goth girls because I've always found them really hot (don't know what they see in a basic black boy like me)

The mental health issues are a point I can relate to them on, but ultimately can be very damaging because we may end up feeding into one another's issues

Potheads? That's a win right there.

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What about the types you all attract vs your type?