That's a lot of damage.

_nokturnal_ · 2020-06-24T19:45:42+00:00

Her mom’s last name, which was her father’s last name anyway.

Mode1961 · 2020-06-24T22:22:35+00:00

This is a bit of a generalistion but have you ever noticed when divorced women talk about their kids they refer to them like this.

When it's about Child Support/Money, the kids are HIS and he must support them.

When it's about custody/Visitation the kids are HERS and she gets the final say.

HiramNinja · 2020-06-24T20:23:56+00:00

...damn, call the Shriners, we got us a burn victim comin' in.

TashaZ123 · 2020-06-24T23:27:15+00:00

I’ve got my mom’s last name because my dad’s name was too hard to pronounce for school. It would also make my name a lot closer to Black Widow’s.

Threwaway42 · 2020-06-24T23:44:00+00:00

"PussyPass" is in reference to the hypoagency women receive such as being able to hit and not be hit or being able to rape a child and it not being called rape or pedophilia. How the hell is this a pussy pass denied moment? At most it is 'clever comebacks'

DanceYrS3lf · 2020-06-25T01:09:08+00:00

What's the pass? I don't get it.

daeronryuujin · 2020-06-25T02:18:23+00:00

Doesn't even slightly fit the sub

nosoupforyou · 2020-06-24T21:13:23+00:00

Who her baby daddies ARE.

FTFY

walrus_operator · 2020-06-24T20:15:58+00:00

I didn't even think that could be the reason why a child would be wearing his mom's name... I don't frequent the slutty scene so I don't know its habits, unfortunately.

Swordfish_Silly · 2020-06-25T00:26:34+00:00

Is Reddit really that offended over suggesting a kid has the mom's name. Calling this chick a slut bc she said the kid should have mom's last name. You guys over react to everything. Literally male Tumblr.

How is this denying a pussy pass. How is keeping a maternal name a pussy pass this post and entire thread is retarded.

Nun01 · 2020-06-24T20:00:01+00:00

I doubt the kid would want slut as a last name.

DSleepyEyesHere · 2020-06-24T23:34:10+00:00

Definitely not Latino, they have both parents last names as part of their name. Have yet to meet one that isn't named

First_name Father's_last_name Mother's_last_name

Many are longer and have a genealogy to them. I think Indians are similar but I may be wrong here.

EliDrInferno · 2020-06-25T02:06:56+00:00

How the hell is this PPD?

Ghojan_n · 2020-06-24T20:53:57+00:00

In most spanish countries kids get both parent's last names, I never understood why in other places they dont...

PenguinPyrate · 2020-06-24T21:35:52+00:00

My daughter rarely sees her mother, I'm glad she has my second name

FrenchLama · 2020-06-24T22:07:05+00:00

So this is what this sub is now ? Just general woman bashing / circlejerking ?

There's no pass being denied here.

DemonSquirril · 2020-06-24T21:08:06+00:00

r/MurderedByWords

JudasDarling · 2020-06-25T02:41:53+00:00

My X wife had an agreement that daughters would take my last name, and sons would take hers

ZippZappZippty · 2020-06-25T03:45:37+00:00

That's what good pussy sounds like

eric99350 · 2020-06-26T18:07:56+00:00

Reminds me of my EX and the child i pay support for (f@&$ family court)

HelloYesThisIsBlaze · 2020-06-30T09:08:52+00:00

I have the last name of me mum.

Loek_vdn · 2020-07-13T06:46:23+00:00

I got my mothers last name, because she’s a feminist. :( it’s 14 letters long and has the worst spelling possible. It never fits on passes or diploma’s and wherever I go, I have to spell it out. I knew how to spell it in English before I could speak it.

Denking777 · 2020-07-15T13:22:35+00:00

Destruction 1000

Bigboy21499 · 2020-07-27T04:57:25+00:00

I'm a man who was raised by a single mother his entire life. I don't speak to my father, I haven't since my mother left him years ago. The man is a drug addict.

I proudly carry my father's last name, but not for him. But for his grandfather, my great grandfather. My mother's Last name will live on in my sister, in my uncle and his kids.

But I will not let my great grandfather's name, die with my drug addict of a father.

pnavas · 2020-06-25T00:42:17+00:00

Some Latin American countries have a compromise: hyphenation. That way, both mom and dad's names get passed on.

Ce6BKR1gaa · 2020-06-24T23:04:19+00:00

Disregarding this woman and her... promiscuity, it would make more sense for last names to be maternal. My mom made me, fed me, coached me in sports, and pretty much everything else. Dad busted a nut and held down a job, like most guys. Love my dad, but my mom did most of the parenting.

seajayde · 2020-06-24T20:57:12+00:00

Theoretically, the father of my child impregnated me, beat me up, then left me... I have no idea where he is, and he has no interest in our child. Does my child deserve to be linked to such an uncaring, indifferent piece of shit, or should he/she be given the family name of those who love and care for him/her unconditionally?

d7mtg · 2020-06-24T21:55:16+00:00

What the fuck does baby daddy mean?

BalalaikaClawJob · 2020-06-25T01:33:10+00:00

r/MurderedByWords still a thing?

ToastedSkoops · 2020-06-25T05:45:52+00:00

That's a real shitty thing to do

jonnytechno · 2020-06-25T10:19:20+00:00

Either that or they're rightly embarrassed at the fact their children all have different surnames LMFAO

DaikonIchiban · 2020-06-24T22:44:50+00:00

Shouldn't the kid be able to pick whatever name they want? Kids aren't property.

Saplyng · 2020-06-25T07:56:53+00:00

I'm going to have to disagree.

A child should have whichever last name sounds cooler, and if your wife's last name is cooler you should take it yourself!

randomizer302 · 2020-07-11T04:35:52+00:00

Is she refers to mothers who remarry and thus their last name doesn’t match the child? I have her this in dumb ass moms groups

LeakyThoughts · 2020-06-24T21:13:40+00:00

Hoes be hoes

darby-dev · 2020-06-24T21:34:11+00:00

It sounds a lot bigger than 1in

nice2yz · 2020-06-24T21:40:36+00:00

Agree, the animation makes it a lot though.

Dinomite35 · 2020-06-24T22:54:35+00:00

I have my dad's moms' last name. Otherwise It would've been Mucha or Dwacomacos

nice2yz · 2020-06-24T23:26:17+00:00

"He has a lot to be wanted.

GeorgeYDesign · 2020-06-24T23:28:17+00:00

Nah it’s a real ouchie bro.

dirtyviking1337 · 2020-06-24T23:44:18+00:00

Oh I’ve owned a lot of hair

Bcnhot · 2020-06-25T00:23:49+00:00

In Spain it is like that. We have both surnames.

dirtyviking1337 · 2020-06-25T00:59:06+00:00

Oof that’s just a garden variety sleazy bastard

sstphnn · 2020-06-25T01:43:38+00:00

Here in my country, if the parents are not married the mother could opt to have the child her last name. That's what my mom did, reason why I don't have a middle name. Just first and last names.

But of course the kid could still have the dad's last name as it is an inherent right.

egalroc · 2020-06-25T01:44:47+00:00

Kind of an alarming post if you think about it. Anybody here know what their last name would be now if that had actually happened?

nice2yz · 2020-06-25T02:12:47+00:00

On mobile they have a lot more depressed

GeorgeYDesign · 2020-06-25T02:26:06+00:00

you're depressed, just go for a six

MrSluagh · 2020-06-25T03:09:14+00:00

I mean, sure, do you, but why always?

snepaiii · 2020-06-25T03:41:54+00:00

DaAs A A l zzz. A zz zazzaxa

Even-Understanding · 2020-06-25T03:44:08+00:00

WTF NO. That is a cool successor

SLAvEMode · 2020-06-25T04:22:21+00:00

R/murderedbywords

RoscoMan1 · 2020-06-25T04:28:25+00:00

Wow thats a lot of people's days.

GeorgeYDesign · 2020-06-25T04:56:17+00:00

How could I have a taking face damage fetish

-Listening · 2020-06-25T05:03:35+00:00

And a lot of paperwork.

Even-Understanding · 2020-06-25T05:19:50+00:00

That duel mode was amazing. I hope we have censorship options in the settings. I have a chair designed somewhat similar, it’s rock, and it doesn't hurt anyone? Don't yuck someone else's yum

Aladen_ofthe_Apes · 2020-06-25T16:38:45+00:00

r/murderedbywords

Go10ski47 · 2020-09-28T08:24:32+00:00

By tradition they do anyway, so what the fuck is her point.

Niviso · 2020-11-24T16:32:46+00:00

Latín American Countries use both the mother and the father’s first name, but the father name always goes first.

SeleniumF0rest · 2020-06-25T04:38:26+00:00

I think Rick cares a lot about her.

HealthyFail8381 · 2021-11-13T11:51:07+00:00

There’s no practical reason for it to always be the guy’s last name besides tradition, coming from a guy. In retrospect it really just doesn’t matter

LevelTryHard · 2021-11-27T01:28:28+00:00

They do somewhere

Designer-Plastic-964 · 2023-04-29T12:06:32+00:00

I like how they do it in Iceland. So&so's-Dottir, and So&so's-Son. Genius!

mighty_phi · 2023-12-19T15:47:43+00:00

That is a dumbass assumption to make, girl just wants her baby to have her last name

bogginman · 2020-06-24T21:09:48+00:00

My idea is a girl should taker her mother's surname and a boy should take his father's. That way you can trace lineage back through both genders. The way it is now is you lose the woman's lineage in one generation at her father.

EArthtookyoursoul · 2020-06-25T00:32:23+00:00

There’s so much slang in this I can’t comprehend what’s going on

Nun01 · 2020-06-25T05:21:07+00:00

The sub is about women getting some sort of abuse of privilege denied.

This post is about someone posting a not really weird take on family naming and then someone roasting them meaningfully not even that creatively or funny.

This sub applauds it to r/all.

I see who subs to this now :) they should reopen r/incels so they go hide there but with a big warning sign of a sub name.

DuntadaMan · 2020-06-24T21:22:04+00:00

I mean... this kind of is standard practice?

HurricaneSpencer · 2020-06-24T21:51:00+00:00

So much damage, I don't think even flex seal can repair it.

N00b3724 · 2020-06-24T20:20:33+00:00

Men who let their kids take their mother's last name are spineless soyboys.

ghetterking · 2020-06-24T21:42:21+00:00

ouch

and while i wouldve agreed with her until just now, i guess it does make sense, why kids get their dad's name. everybody knows who the mom is because she gave birth to them. but the dad? that's why you need the name, i'd say

chambertlo · 2020-06-24T22:01:27+00:00

Accurate. Lmao.

prumkinporn · 2020-06-24T21:38:37+00:00

I dont get it someone explain

itstrueimwhite · 2020-06-25T00:45:53+00:00

I actually went to my state’s Supreme Court about this. I was on the birth certificate and dating my child’s mother when our child was born. Obviously I wanted my child to have my last name. I was in the hospital with her when I watched her not give our child my last name - that was when our relationship ended.

We went to court and I argued it was in my child’s best interest. We had case after case and reasoning after reasoning to support this. My child’s mother didn’t deny that it would be in her best interest, but she simply said it’s her decision and the court can’t make take that away. The judge disagreed and ruled for our child to carry my last name.

She was so mad that she appealed it and it went to the Supreme Court. They agreed it was in our child’s best interest but also agreed that they didn’t have the authority - it was a pretty split decision but ultimately it was overturned and our child was again given her mom’s last name. (She’s since married and now our child has neither parent’s last name).

For years I used to have random people reach out to me on Facebook after reading our court case and ask me how it all went. It was weird to see so many men who are the victims of pure malice feel helpless in family court. To this day I still feel like I should be thankful for any shred of parental role the state decides to grant me as opposed to being an equal parent in my child’s life.

2020-06-25T04:11:54+00:00

I spend several hours pushing that kid out of me. They will take my last name if I want.

Tak7ics · 2020-06-25T02:04:52+00:00

No father's last name, no child support, boom fixed.

solicitorpenguin · 2020-06-25T03:49:49+00:00

Such denial, much damage, very pass denied

Pygmy_Turtle · 2020-06-25T01:49:20+00:00

Urgh, this sub is turning into the new /r/incels. Why is this misogynistic trash allowed on the front page? Gotta laugh at the sub description, what it claims to not harbor is all I ever see from it.

DeathOfThinking · 2020-06-24T20:28:36+00:00

That always surprises me about the US. Why can't you have both last names and that's it?

vitringur · 2020-06-25T01:12:20+00:00

Why exactly is a challenge against a patriarchical naming system pussypassdenied?

It is completely arbitrary which parent a child is known for.

I know of famous people older than me who have their mothers name and in my lifetime it has become more and more popular to name kids after both parents name and some people are adding their mothers name to their own.

This is definitely not pussy pass material. This is a legit criticism of patriarchy.

CystiFyeRose · 2020-06-25T03:00:55+00:00

Luckily my ex let my son have my last name but she still holds him over my head if I disagree with her

Sumfuc · 2020-06-24T23:56:01+00:00

A female becomes a Woman when she takes her husband’s name. Whores do not.

valiantlight2 · 2020-06-24T23:00:46+00:00

I agree.

the standard should be the the parents are married, with the wife having taken the husbands name.

Boom, child has mothers last name

Lowtan · 2020-06-24T22:21:12+00:00

🤣😂

dick_veganas · 2020-06-24T21:09:00+00:00

He should've used bitch instead of girl.

It would sound way gangsta-ish

lambmoreto · 2020-06-24T23:54:49+00:00

Doesn't it usually go first name, mother's last name fathers last name? So they'll have their mother's last name either way, what is she on about?

totesnotdog · 2020-06-25T03:09:18+00:00

Stupids If id had my moms last name it would’ve been Dickerson. I would’ve been called Dick Her Son By cruel kids during school lol

bobcollege · 2020-06-25T03:59:08+00:00

Ya get more genes from your mom so why not. A daughter's grandfather on the father's side doesn't pass on shit to the granddaughter at all, zero.

-CODED- · 2020-06-25T17:30:33+00:00

How is this ppd?

papitasconleche · 2020-06-25T07:13:38+00:00

Giving the fathers last name to their children by default is one of that last vestiges of an opressive and antiquated system of patriarchy....

I beleive kids should have both names until they old enough to pick one IF they want to only pick one because legally, for bureaucratic purposes you can have 2 last names unless you live in a macho third world country.

So why bring it down all the way to women being promiscous

rainerlanghans · 2020-06-24T20:03:00+00:00

She is hot

Title	That's a lot of damage.
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