3 signs you are her beta orbiter.

ghlibisk · 2020-11-24T00:11:42+00:00

Sub'd to her OnlyFans

Missed one

JakeMullerRE · 2020-11-23T23:32:49+00:00

One more I want to add is when she plays the victim during your interactions online and offline.

For example, she may indirectly say something along the lines of: 'I feel so ugly.../'my work/life/etc. sucks...'/'no guy likes me'/'all guys suck'.

She is most likely doing it to use you as a supply for validation becauss she got rejected or the guy she is into disappeared and nothing more. She wants you to comfort her and say 'oh no babe, you are the prettiest and most amazing girl out there'.

BensonInFL · 2020-11-23T22:47:05+00:00

Texts but won’t go on a date

Multiple flakes

Won’t come to your place or be alone with you.

These are all true, but the mindset I've developed is that they drop off my main list and become my orbiter.. i.e. I text them much less often... once a week or once every two with DHV, jealousy, memes, etc... some time passes by and some of them come around because their own situation changes, the guy or two they were chasing all drop off, they broke up with someone, they had a bad day, they got fired, etc... suddenly they are texting back fast and want to hang out.. then you go for the kill....

-B

burncushlikewood · 2020-11-24T00:21:38+00:00

other signs, mentions other guys around you, she says that you are her friend. make sure you break the touch barrier early so that you can express your sexual intent. i definitely know the feeling of being an orbiter, but i definitely turned it around by improving my game and knowledge of women. soon the friend zone is evaporated and you're in her head as a sexual interest.

Depressedbadger97 · 2020-11-24T00:39:13+00:00

3 rejection streak earned,

*radio chatter* Beta Orbiter is online and ready for deployment, i repeat Beta Orbiter is on standby.

FlanneryODostoevsky · 2020-11-23T23:39:17+00:00

"Every dude's main is just another dude"s sideline." -- Boogie

ForeignHumor788 · 2020-11-24T00:07:35+00:00

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very_bready_boy · 2020-11-23T23:09:55+00:00

I’ll throw in another one: you constantly talk shit about dudes she’s banging.

I’ve literally teased girls with orbiter seething they’ve relayed to me seconds before we had sex. No girl is going to bang you because you talked a bunch of shit with your back all hunched, you’d probably get more points being supportive and pretending it didn’t bother you. Women go crazy over guys that other men are envious and jealous of.

AkH0331 · 2020-11-23T23:37:45+00:00

I was wondering if I was an orbiter for the longest time because she takes forever to reply sometimes, but she never flakes and she's comfortable inviting me to her room once a week.

mandoa_sky · 2020-11-24T02:13:21+00:00

what kinda idiot goes somewhere alone with someone before meeting them in a public place first?

carlobaba · 2020-11-24T14:24:14+00:00

Also wanna add they are always busy , or they want to date you but their life is so crazy that they can't date anybody right now. Then they start dating somebody else and they say it wasn't planned but happened. This might repeat for endless times. :)

marowitt · 2020-11-24T10:16:04+00:00

If you don't go on a date within 1 week of getting the number. If you don't have sex after 3-4 dates max. It's time to bail, easy as that, there are thousands of women around why waste time on only one of them?

LakersAreTerrible25 · 2020-11-24T02:35:02+00:00

Why talk to someone in the first place in whom you aren't hanging with? I'm too busy to be at that shit

neubiiAUT · 2020-11-24T09:11:40+00:00

you can't be a beta orbiter when you avoid female friends as a whole

\pointing to my head meme**

caveatemptor18 · 2020-11-24T13:54:49+00:00

Here are some examples: “My ex mistreats me” “My neighbor in the apartment next door bangs on the wall” “My neighbor broke the window of my car” ...and so on.

2020-11-24T14:33:44+00:00

add to this "plays with her phone while talking to you as if your very presence is offensive". learn the cues to fuck off if she has no interest

bigang99 · 2020-11-24T02:47:40+00:00

The main point of this I think is pretty valid but idk why it has to be worded so negatively.

You may not even be a "beta orbiter" she might just not be that into you. Simple as that. Why turn it into a beta Male "question your own masculinity" conversation? This sub can be so toxic sometimes its ridiculous.

Hegemon1984 · 2020-11-24T14:09:18+00:00

I've been gaming very consistently for five months.

I exclusively do day game cold approach, but there's an easy way to avoid becoming a girl's orbiter: Be sexually polarizing.

When I approach a girl on the streets, the girl knows I'm interested in her, have a dick, but I spike her emotions / have her qualify so much that she'll either hate or love me.

There's no room for getting friend zoned.

TorukMaktou · 2020-11-24T15:28:15+00:00

I agree with this. I high key have a two flake equals strike out kinda policy when asking a girl out. A recent one I added off of tinder to snap checked all the boxes but not entirely. She had car issues the first time and was "too exhausted" the second time around. I'm still thinking about breaking the rule and giving it one more shot because she's a good looking high-school teacher. She did invite me over to hers one time between the flakes and I didn't go because I didn't have a car and am not a fan of taxis, also it was a really cold night so I didn't want to bother any friends fir a booty call. The main reasons I haven't hit her up since were because firstly, before bed I look on the snap map and she wasn't home. This was the same night she flaked because of being "too exhausted" and the other was how I ended things with her. I pretty much told her to hmu after the second flake when she would like to meet up and she hasn't. Taking my L and moving on.

BuenoFuerte · 2020-11-24T18:11:33+00:00

Is there any way to escape from this situation (being an orbiter and eventually reigniting attraction)?

LazaRoteo223 · 2020-11-24T02:46:15+00:00

Dealing now with this BS. Good advice hope I follow it.

avakadava · 2020-11-24T17:02:21+00:00

first two could be social anxiety. last one just sounds like a safety concern. so i dont think these necessarily mean you're her "beta orbiter"

AmmoTuff182 · 2020-11-24T18:05:28+00:00

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Mr_82 · 2020-11-24T00:02:26+00:00

Kind of disagree with labeling the man as being the problematic term though. Those three things are primarily about the girl's actions, not yours. You could have also given it the headline "3 signs she's a female player," or use one of those other terms out there for women who don't want to date but will try to get some dating benefits while leading a guy along.

unequipd · 2020-11-24T03:49:14+00:00

She just doesn’t like you but is trying to be nice. Not an evil scheme. Take the hint and move on.

FaithInStrangers94 · 2020-11-24T10:40:27+00:00

Why do you insist on calling it game lmao

Why not just say forging and projecting the best version of yourself in a way that’s likely to appeal toward women.

Game implies that there some artifice at play

asquatingmexican · 2020-11-23T23:24:12+00:00

-wants to give people a wake up call -does so by posting on Reddit

Those 40 letters will sure make them wake up bro!

fuckboychadlmao · 2020-11-24T01:08:39+00:00

I’ve never experienced this. How tf does it happen?

ForeignHumor788 · 2020-11-24T06:08:52+00:00

you know you're a beta when you unironically call people "beta".

DimitriMichaelTaint · 2020-11-24T15:52:48+00:00

“Running game”

Hmm... your information seems valid but I question the perspective of the person giving the information.

Charge36 · 2020-11-24T03:43:38+00:00

What if like. They do these things but then also occasionally come over for a date?

kyuuvy · 2020-11-24T06:50:00+00:00

So how do you move past being her beta orbiter and be her guy?

iceporter · 2020-11-24T07:56:36+00:00

I'm non native speaker, what is flakes mean?

OMN1TR0N · 2020-11-24T08:27:01+00:00

Where were you 2 years ago? 😭 I wasted those years doing this!

ForeignHumor788 · 2020-11-24T12:12:29+00:00

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evenifitdoesntmatter · 2020-11-24T13:10:47+00:00

And sometimes none of these apply, and you're still the beta orbiter.

unknown-one · 2020-11-24T16:57:44+00:00

"Multiple flakes"

what does this mean?

petitettincelle · 2020-11-24T17:38:56+00:00

What does multiple flakes mean?

Flintblood · 2020-11-28T07:45:58+00:00

There’s a lot more surefire signs like she always assumes you’re paying for the meal or drinks, never allows escalation to advance beyond kissing, and even worse, doesn’t like kissing long, and corrects you and tries to direct you.

Unless she’s a religious person and a virgin, withholding physical escalation is red flag number one that she is not into you.

Title	3 signs you are her beta orbiter.
Author	SteveUrkelBigPlaya
Upvotes	715
Comments	159
Date	November 23, 2020 10:25 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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