It’s not about you. It’s not your looks. It’s not your game. Most of the time the outcome is inevitable. She has a boyfriend. You look like her abusive ex. She doesn’t like White/Black/Asian guys. She’s not dating right now. She’s busy with work. She’s moving in a week. Her mom died yesterday. She’s depressed. She doesn’t like talking to strangers. She’s waiting till marriage. The point is, after you have maxed your looks and game, the outcome is out of your hands. It’s not that you are ugly - it’s any one of possibly a million different reasons like the ones I just listed. Don’t let your ego get too invested in the game. Some girls will use you for attention, some will be flakey, you will get rejected. If you have done all that you can - it’s not you, it’s them. Don’t get your ego too invested in the game. Put your best foot forward and let the chips fall where they may. Most of the time, it’s out of your control. Don’t sweat it.