'Hypergamy' originated as a social sciences term that referred to the almost universal phenomenon of women marrying/mating upwards in status. However, TRP made the legitimate move of asking whether there were any evolved psychological traits in females that contributed to the universality of the hypergamy phenomenon.
TRP's answer was that there were such biological instincts in women. TRP then went on to expand the definition of 'hypergamy' in various ways.
Personally, I do believe that TRP was right that there are underlying psychological traits that constitute the core of the hypergamous impulse. However, I think TRP has gone too far in terms of constructing an overly elaborate model of specific behaviors that all fall under the term 'hypergamy'.
I believe that you have to follow the meaning of the word. 'Hypergamy' means to mate upwards in some way, and thus refers to a direct comparison between the woman and her potential mate. A lot of what TRP calls hypergamy is actually female sexual selectivity, which is more about ranking men and trying to get the best one they can get. Of course, these are related.
I think that biological impulses are often fairly general; you have to factor in cultural mediation when you get to very specific behaviors. On a purely biological level, I believe the hypergamous instinct is tough to articulate perfectly. It has to do with a woman being primarily attracted to only men who are more capable or competent than her in some essential way that relates to a man's provisioning and protection functions, but in the abstract. I think culture plays a large role in terms of what specific traits in a man can be considered when determining whether a given male meets a given female's hypergamous burden.
What are your thoughts?
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Well i think you summarized the issue well, but for me as a guy whats really disheartening is the idea that I have to work hard to be an above average guy just to have a shot at being a with a so so girl. For guys like me that actually want an equal and want to see our partners as equal this doesnt allow for that. Men who are ok with this arrangement are ok with seeing women as beneath them. So i think the idea that men who are upset about hypergamy want to own women is false. Also hypergamy means that male sexual success is a lot more variable than womens. There are quite literally incels and chads. There will be men who are very sexually successful and men who have 0 sexual success. Whereas this dichotomy doesnt exist to the same extent with women. Some women will have more success than others of course, but its not as extreme as it is with men. So its frustrating to know that as long as women are a hypergamous, a sizeable number of men will always be considered undesirable. This is all relative, which means that while it is possible for an individual to change their position within that hierarchy, the bottom x% of men will always be unsuccessful. The other issue is that when sex was seen as primarily a function of having children, or at least was expected to only take place between people that wanted to have children together at some point, there was a limit on womens hypergamy. Cuckolding your husband was a risky endeavor. This is why there is so much stigma around dating single mothers. Men dont want to provide for another mans child. But as sex has become more casual and less about having children, women dont face the same risks in the context of casual sex. A woman can fuck 100 guys and still tell you its her first time and you dont really have a way of knowing. Women dont face as many consequences for being promiscuous casually as they would if they had children. That means that the casual sex market is even more imbalanced than the child having market.
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