Plenty of men express their desire for a woman with a low n-count who chooses them for sex while making all other men wait. To them, a woman who has had casual sex before is less in their eyes because the "gave up" something of value to other men without commitment.

At the same time, these men want to play the field and think that only women with self-restraint deserve to get commitment. They push for sex early on in the hopes to get laid and get frustrated when they're told "no" or made wait by women they suspect to be promiscuous. However, if a woman accepts their advances and sleeps with them in the first date they automatically put her in the slut bin.

These men have a hard time accepting the fact that they will attract women of a similar sociosexual orientation. That if they expect sex early or have a history of sleeping around or trying to, the women they'll attract are going to be the kind that doesn't wait for sex. Naturally, these women will have a history of casual sex or sleeping with men within the first a few dates. If these women had experience with similar men and value their opinion, they'll lie about their past and play hard to get, but at their core they'll still be women of high sociosexuality.

Women who have no casual sex experience and see sex as special aren't looking to get commitment from men who are trying to sleep around. They're not the type of women who will stay to convince you of their worth while you're trying to get into their pants.

Men who are satisfied with how long or how little it takes to sleep with women are either the promiscuous type who accept women similar to them or lower sex drive men who accept women who will wait.