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GuyFromDaStore/r/seduction26/05/18 01:45 AM
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Congrats my brother! New path begins...
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/26 12:33 PM
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Yeah, I’ve experienced this. When someone comes in with a script, the outcome usually feels decided already.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/26 07:30 PM
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You will do better if you find a place where there's a line to the cashier before you sit down, then you can chat with women in line. Chasing down women randomly puts you in creeper territory especially if they're just getting their bagels and walking to their car.
/r/seduction26/05/18 02:42 AM
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Tech Trade shows, look for the really well dressed women in business gear. I admit I have a fetish for career women too. I'm tired of dating cashiers who don't know where they're going in life and can't even cook an egg. Businesswomen are the way to go. Often after the show, there are after hours mixers sponsored by various companies, and its prime for getting laid. Women want to get drunk, dance and go home with a successful and handsome dude.
/r/seduction26/05/18 01:58 AM
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Being assertive. Negs are basically a tactic with the "theory" that somehow if she hates you she will end up liking you. Thats not actually true. Women are not attracted to the "jerk" part of a man's personality they're attracted to the overtly masculine and assertive part. Thats why women say "why do I end up with jerks?" But you see the guy and he's 6'3" with muscles, moves bags of concrete for a living and drinks nothing but full calorie beer and has old world values. He may be gruff and a bi…
/r/seduction26/05/18 01:42 AM
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Emojis are playful, but you don't want playful you don't want to be emoji-guy. Funny dancing monkey doesn't get you laid. You have been warned.
/r/seduction25/05/18 07:26 AM
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Hand contact is vital, if she doesn't let you hold her hands, I'm sorry to tell you.... In my experience if a woman puts her head on your shoulder she is expecting you to rotate your head so your lips are close to hers, then she will move into position for a kiss.
/r/seduction25/05/18 07:24 AM
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You really fucked up, screwing at work in 2018, this isn't the 1970s. I hope you don't consider that job a stepping stone for anything else.
/r/seduction25/05/18 07:13 AM
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Did she rest her head on your shoulder? Did you hold hands? Just because you were in close proximity doesn't mean she was wanting something. You could very well be deep in the friend zone and not know it. Don't text her, that kind of statement is just admitting weakness to her face.
/r/seduction25/05/18 07:11 AM
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1) Get her to talk about herself 2) Don't joke around very much it works against you after awhile 3) Don't ever use emoji's, you're a dude. 4) Don't neg, its just retarded Texting is also about remembering details. Girls get wet for a dude that listens and REMEMBERS. If she said something about a relative that was sick or whatever last time, say "So how is ____ doing is she better?". It indicates you actually paid attention last time you chatted with her. You would be surprised how many guys don…
/r/seduction25/05/18 07:03 AM
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Reality is that some girls do have boyfriends or just don't like you.
/r/seduction25/05/18 06:55 AM
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Sounds like she is just stringing you along, keeping you in reserve in case another boyfriend doesn't pan out so she doesn't have to deal with dry stretches. If you're comfortable with that arrangement then I say go for it.
/r/seduction25/05/18 05:31 AM
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If you're really really good looking its never a problem for her. The only issue is if you hold up the line and her manager is watching, that could get her into trouble.
/r/seduction24/05/18 07:46 AM
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You have to cultivate new levels of closeness and intimacy. Learn more about her family, what she wants to do in the future, the little things about her you should be noticing and remembering. In other words, be a good listener.
/r/seduction24/05/18 07:46 AM
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Roll with it. Cobra Kai!
/r/seduction24/05/18 06:16 AM
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Yeah a dog is a great tool for getting women. The only thing better is to have an infant with you. Women can't resist a baby.
/r/seduction24/05/18 06:12 AM
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If you're not thinking of sex there's something seriously wrong with you. I was talking to a female co-worker today and all I could think about was her in a negligee bouncing on my cock.
/r/seduction24/05/18 03:20 AM
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Why do you have to go to the bedroom? Think outside the box.
/r/seduction24/05/18 03:00 AM
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Crikey, I lost me mojo! You just need one success to start the flow again. Strike First Strike Hard No Mercy
/r/seduction24/05/18 12:50 AM
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Take his word for it, you're walking into a slam dunk situation, treat it as such.
/r/seduction24/05/18 12:45 AM
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Sounds like she picked YOU up.
/r/seduction24/05/18 12:37 AM
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hotel bar is always full of people looking for a friend
/r/seduction24/05/18 12:23 AM
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You don't know women much do you? Women murder husbands all the time, but they don't shoot them, they poison them, slowly... Most "angels of death" who kill 50-100+ patients in hospitals are women. Even in islam, Mohammed himself was murdered by a woman.
/r/seduction23/05/18 07:37 AM
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Your mistake was you STOPPED focusing on her and you started talking about yourself. How you make a woman interested in you is that you make the focus on her. Sure you can make chit chat but don't go into long explanations about your friends (guess what she doesn't give a SHIT about your friends, she will probably never meet them anyway) and it just kills any sort of romantic vibe because it distracts away from you and her talk.
/r/seduction23/05/18 05:05 AM
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Throw away your x-box, buy some blazers and don't be the club wanderer, you know the guys that circle endlessly around the club holding their beers, eyeballing everything.
/r/seduction23/05/18 05:00 AM
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Thats not a good sign really, they may be trying to reject your advances with a disarming question. The best thing I can think of is "I have a girlfriend (then describe her physically....of course its the girl you're kissing)" Its a way of expressing intent while adding a touch of slight humor.
/r/seduction23/05/18 04:58 AM
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Touching a breast, you are now at level 3
/r/seduction23/05/18 04:56 AM
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You're the dancing monkey, the entertainer who is harmless. Jokes can work against you pretty quickly if you use it as an intimacy shield. You have to start acting a bit more serious for a woman to consider you as a possible romantic partner. That also means being assertive, generous and above all masculine. Sometimes the time for talk is over. I find when a girl stops talking, she's expecting something else. They usually will be conversing, then a topic ends and they let out a sigh and then act…
/r/seduction23/05/18 04:54 AM
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I've done anal, with chicks meh its nothing special. The rectum just isn't stimulating at all, too smooth. The vagina is pretty awesome, its rough on the inside and really feels much better.
/r/seduction23/05/18 04:49 AM
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Generally don't approach in the gym. Most girls don't want to be bothered, that is unless you're really really good looking, and most of us aren't. Girls tend to treat the gym as a place where they can get exercise, get smelly and sweaty with no makeup on now so they can be pretty later when they shower, get dolled up and go out.
/r/seduction23/05/18 04:47 AM
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Just say your age, it will come up eventually and if you lie now it will be harder to extricate yourself out of the lie later. Don't try to justify your age either one way or the other. People ask ages because it helps them gauge personality. Remember people have different life stages and its pretty consistent overall for most. The more dishonest you are, the worse off you will be later.
/r/seduction23/05/18 04:45 AM
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Seduction is NOT about deceit. Forget what those PUA idiots tell you. The more honest you are as a person the better results you get, unless you want to be "that guy" that girls don't trust and tell each other to avoid him.
/r/seduction23/05/18 04:44 AM
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If you read books about riding bicycles you find you will never actually learn how to ride a bicycle.
/r/seduction23/05/18 04:41 AM
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Hands first, always.
/r/seduction23/05/18 04:40 AM
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Yes those are called ugly girls.
/r/seduction22/05/18 11:33 PM
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One time she said "ugh guys are pigs, this guy at the club grabbed my ass and asked me out". I looked at her and started chuckling, the look on her face you should have seen "what, why are you laughing?" and she hits my arm. Dude if a girl says this to you, you are DEEP in the friend zone already. She doesn't even consider you a guy, since she literally feels comfortable enough to say that.
/r/seduction22/05/18 06:04 AM
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If she doesn't call, who cares? Is she the only woman on the planet. Nothing turns a woman off like neediness, and nothing turns them on more than the feeling that you don't need them. The most delicious cookies are always in the jar on the highest shelf.
/r/seduction22/05/18 05:59 AM
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Now we know what a creepy woman is like
/r/seduction22/05/18 05:58 AM
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She's with a guy seriously so of course her attitude towards other guys will be dismissive, that isn't a shit test its just her being faithful.
/r/seduction22/05/18 05:53 AM
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You should NEVER wait until the end of the year. Always hit on girls at the beginning of the school year when girls are actually single and haven't paired up with boyfriends already. Its just way difficult to hit on girls when they've been through a semester and they have been approached dozens maybe hundreds of times.
/r/seduction22/05/18 05:51 AM
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If you're doing it right you shouldn't eve have to ask for a number. She will offer it to you.
/r/seduction22/05/18 05:49 AM
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That guy needs to meet a barbershop
/r/seduction22/05/18 05:47 AM
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Kino with a girl you just met is creepy, women are so used to creepy guys like that they brush them off like dead flies. You might try seducing her with your conversation instead.
/r/seduction22/05/18 05:45 AM
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Put oil on your body, and go play football with your friends in view of the women.
/r/seduction22/05/18 05:44 AM
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Fuck facebook, its not real, nothing on there is real. The internet age has distorted reality for us all so we don't even know real life from virtual life anymore. Disable your account, I don't even have social media.
/r/seduction22/05/18 05:43 AM
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You're unemployed, living with parents. Girls don't see this as a good thing in a guy. Try fixing that.
/r/seduction22/05/18 05:41 AM
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You shouldn't need to really. if she forgets you in a week or two you never had her.
/r/seduction22/05/18 05:02 AM
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You're only 20. Come back when you're over 50 then you can start having regrets.
/r/seduction22/05/18 04:28 AM
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Perhaps the real problem is your molly habit, it clouds your judgment
/r/seduction22/05/18 04:23 AM
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I think you encountered the competitive nature of women. Just play the game and don't be so serious about it all.
/r/seduction21/05/18 06:22 AM
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You shouldn't have to really. Don't even ask a question or be meek about it. Just say "Whasup girl, see you at 7"
/r/seduction21/05/18 06:09 AM
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Maybe you're dressing a little TOO well. Too much manscaping, too much trendy clothing. You should look into more masculine clothing, less crazy asian haircut and more classic style. ALL women respond to a masculine man, across all cultures regardless.
/r/seduction21/05/18 06:07 AM
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9 or 10 to you. I've dated a 9 girl and my friend just said "meh" she's okay nothing special.
/r/seduction21/05/18 05:21 AM
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34, NICE. I'm sure if you were legal she might have taken you up on it and you would have discovered the joys of the MILF.
/r/seduction21/05/18 04:57 AM
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Timidity is your main problem. Are alpha males/chads timid, ever?
/r/seduction20/05/18 09:37 PM
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You just said everything, now do the opposite of what you're doing now.
/r/seduction20/05/18 07:45 PM
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You're being too feminine. If you want her to be closer to you and notice you in an other-than-friends perspective she has to be impressed by your masculinity. That way you can transform her thoughts from "harmless friend" to "guy I really want to get naked with". You can't do it with just kino and chat.
/r/seduction20/05/18 07:32 PM
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Hit on girls at the very start of the college year, don't wait for the end of the semester!!! All the girls have hooked up with boyfriends by then. First few days of the school year are golden, single chicks everywhere who broke up with their highschool boyfriends in anticipation of getting a college boyfriend. if you're not a club guy, look to the LRC learning resources center (library). Lots of girls there to pick up.
/r/seduction20/05/18 06:31 PM
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Get a really really good tinder picture of yourself.
/r/seduction20/05/18 06:27 PM
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What am I reading here.
/r/seduction20/05/18 05:32 PM
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Just talk to women, all women. Talk to the nice granny in the produce aisle, help her out. Talk to the mother of 3 at the dairy case. You're not going to take either of them home or get digits (hope not) you're just socializing.
/r/seduction20/05/18 05:30 PM
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You're extremely shy.
/r/seduction20/05/18 05:36 AM
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Hey life happens, she apologized and wanted to reschedule. If she bails a 3rd time well it might be worth moving on.
/r/seduction20/05/18 05:02 AM
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She might have asthma or worse she's a mouth breather. I don't think its an IOI just a bad habit
/r/seduction20/05/18 04:27 AM
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Forget about texting, no girl takes texting seriously as a real form of intimate communications. Put your arm around her already.
/r/seduction19/05/18 07:21 AM
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No because I have a tall fetish. I've dated girls much taller than myself.
/r/seduction19/05/18 07:19 AM
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The girl I'm dating is taller than me, I'm 5'7" and she is 5'8". In heels she's even taller.
/r/seduction19/05/18 06:29 AM
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Well if you approach really short girls, perhaps.
/r/seduction19/05/18 05:35 AM
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You could always drive to the Nevada desert and go to the only legal brothels.
/r/seduction19/05/18 05:32 AM
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BTW if a girl does this to you a lot she likes you. I had a girl at work do this to me, every opportunity to say hello she took. I really didn't like her since she was divorced with 2 kids and smoked, but I knew what she was doing. Eventually she got the message and stopped.
/r/seduction19/05/18 03:33 AM
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Just walk up and talk to her. "Hey aren't you in purchasing?". "Hi I'm _____ I work in _____". Thats cool, so how are things at your end of the building, do you like your boss? Chit chat, kinda stuff, keep it professional and friendly. After a bit say "nice meeting you, let's do lunch sometime". Don't be specific. If she's game for it she may message you on IM later saying "you promised me lunch" or simply "hi" and so on. Its all about confidence and demonstraing to her that you enjoy her compan…
/r/seduction19/05/18 02:46 AM
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Always make sure you have a backup place, just like if you ask her out to go eat somewhere. You never know if she's a buddhist that doesn't eat meat or whatever.
/r/seduction19/05/18 02:43 AM
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Its your own business, its not like you will get reported to HR.
/r/seduction19/05/18 02:42 AM
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I just say "good morning, how are you?" Its professional and confident and frankly it is just the fact you are saying hello that is more important. If you know her name then say "good morning ____, how are you?" oh and smile
/r/seduction19/05/18 02:41 AM
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Invite her to lunch, no big whoop
/r/seduction19/05/18 02:39 AM
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I think your cousin already had some history, don't think its the arm thing.
/r/seduction19/05/18 01:41 AM
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You're too eager. Kino and aggressive kiss on the 1st date. Hold on here pardner. She's not some drunken club chick. The 1st date is for figuring each other out, not for fingering any available holes.
/r/seduction19/05/18 01:07 AM
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You were in too much of a hurry. Most girls don't like to be pressured into sex. Who knew!
/r/seduction18/05/18 05:03 AM
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Sounds like bizarre Mystery Method tactics.
/r/seduction18/05/18 04:23 AM
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"Wanna get outa here?" Always works. Its what was used before "Netflix and Chill" became popular.
/r/seduction18/05/18 04:22 AM
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Seduction really is the wrong word from the very beginning.
/r/seduction18/05/18 04:19 AM
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Did you recently lose a lot of weight?
/r/seduction18/05/18 04:18 AM
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How many comedians do women want to fuck? Seinfeld? Dangerfield? Murphy? No, comedy turns off the sexual vibe. Switch that shit off when the time for talking is over and the time for action starts.
/r/seduction18/05/18 03:48 AM
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I also post on celebs, ak47, stargate and momokun So am I a celebrity SG-1 member who owns an AK47 and dresses up like cat girls?
/r/seduction17/05/18 07:29 AM
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A number isn't a close, never treat it as such.
/r/seduction17/05/18 07:12 AM
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Go to a college party and exclaim "I'm so drunk!" Maybe you're acting a bit to intellectual for the dating game. You have to endure a guy talking about himself and just play along many times.
/r/seduction17/05/18 07:09 AM
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It kind of depends. Are you really really hairy? Is your hair in unusual locations (shoulders, lower back, tops of feet)? Are you pasty white underneath all that hair? Are you overweight?
/r/seduction17/05/18 07:02 AM
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We should go on a date. We should go out tonight. You should go out with me. Statements are great because they're challenges, not questions. They demonstrate confidence and make it overt about your intentions. Questions put you below her and make you look meek and weak, as if asking permission. A statement can still be rejected if she truly doesn't like you, but you shouldn't worry, she may give it some thought later and accept anyway.
/r/seduction17/05/18 06:57 AM
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Sounds like you were calm, relaxed, patient and confident.
/r/seduction17/05/18 06:56 AM
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Women like masculine men. Forget about the media or what feminists tell you, they don't want those skinny jeans cuckbeard man-bun suede shoes vespa driving guys. When you're too silly, too funny, too happy you give off the gay vibe and you are condemned to be classified as her beard shopping buddy. She will never look at you with lust, ever.
/r/seduction17/05/18 06:54 AM
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Why would you think I'm an incel?
/r/seduction17/05/18 06:28 AM
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You flirt like a dude, with complete sentences, proper punctuation and no cutie pie talk (plz, k, omg!, jajajajajaj )
/r/seduction17/05/18 05:58 AM
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Well whatever, tell her french, german, italian, just whatever you think.
/r/seduction17/05/18 05:45 AM
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And they're totally gay
/r/seduction17/05/18 03:41 AM
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Ask her if she's an exchange student, when she says no tell her she looks Spanish, and remark that Spanish girls are known to be so beautiful so you assumed...
/r/seduction16/05/18 11:32 PM
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Guys should not use emojis, ever.
/r/seduction16/05/18 11:22 PM
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Throw the mattress on the floor and do it there.
/r/seduction16/05/18 05:45 AM
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Its been a year, a lot can happen in a year, she may be a fiancee by now
/r/seduction15/05/18 06:10 AM
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If you think you're being needy, you're being needy.
/r/seduction15/05/18 06:01 AM
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Generally speaking a nurse will not hit on you or get your info if she's treating you. There's a basic medical ethics thing at work. Now if say you are a visitor and not a patient, well it might be a bit different.
/r/seduction15/05/18 04:50 AM
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If you trust a girl and she trusts you back its a good relationship. My GF goes out a lot, she is busy like I am and I trust her to not hook up with dudes, likewise she feels the same about me, mutual trust. If you can't trust it won't last.
/r/seduction15/05/18 04:49 AM
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Speed dating.
/r/seduction15/05/18 03:31 AM
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3 months is a while. A road trip would be nice.
/r/seduction15/05/18 02:53 AM
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We were texting buddies thats it. She was dating somebody too, go figure. One thing though, don't apologize if she gets "offended". She really won't be offended but she may be a bit shocked and surprised. You have to inject some humor in the whole convo, make it playful and fun. The moment you apologize you weaken your position. I make no guarantees as to how effective it will be though. If you get laid don't blame me.
/r/seduction15/05/18 02:35 AM
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Your reaction is curious. A guy who is pretty sure of himself would just be surprised and say "Sorry but I'm not a gay man, I fuck women, good luck and good hunting though..." or something like that. A guy who is better at game say in a grocery store will not just cold open, he will first do some glancing and maybe a smile from afar, gauging her reaction (or their reactions if he's looking at a group of girls). Your case was unusual, it would be like if a girl was propositioned by another girl, …
/r/seduction15/05/18 02:20 AM
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You are still unsure about yourself so you are content to be the dancing monkey with humor. Nobody is going to take you seriously if you are constantly cracking jokes. Remember flirting isn't necessarily one-on-one. You can flirt with a group of girls. Say they put on some music and start dancing you can say "yeah, shake it!" You are demonstrating that you see them as sexual beings and attractive. Girls love attention. Or if they are drinking and get a bit tipsy one may decide to sit on your lap…
/r/seduction15/05/18 02:14 AM
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This guy posts this over and over
/r/seduction15/05/18 02:05 AM
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You're chasing too much. They call an audible (I have a boyfriend) because they're uncomfortable that you're in such a rush to have sex. Girls want what they can't have, and they don't care about what they can get too easily. Forget about "closing" its a myth. Just because you kiss a girl or even fuck a girl doesn't mean she wants to see you again. Usually if you pressure them into something they realize they have been put into an uncomfortable situation so they bail in any way possible and the …
/r/seduction15/05/18 02:04 AM
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You're okay with your hobbies except for maybe Weird Al
/r/seduction15/05/18 01:30 AM
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I did this to a girl I was friends with. After that she started messaging me about how hot I was and eventually I got to take nude photos of her. Never had sex with her because she was kind of a basket case but it certainly opened the door to a lot more options.
/r/seduction15/05/18 01:22 AM
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Send them a text message "So I have to ask, why haven't we had sex yet?"
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:18 AM
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There's no bad time to talk to girls, but generally speaking its better to hit girls up at the beginning of the school year before they have hooked up with other dudes. If the girl asks for your number its a good thing, its unbelievable you would be hesitant to do so.
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:17 AM
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No. If you start asking for numbers immediately she will just either give you a fake number or block you. How would you feel if a girl suddenly asked for your number out of the blue and you had no idea who she was and hardly even talked to her. You would get suspicious of her and a little weirded out. You have to converse with her and demonstrate you're an interesting guy and worth seeing again. At that point she will be willing to not only give you her number but she will want yours as well.
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:15 AM
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No, money or job doesn't affect any of my dating. I was once a poor student now I'm an average worker with an average job and average money. Building comfort is very important. A woman has to feel comfortable around you and she wants to feel good when you say hello to her. A man who has this natural comfort building skill ends up talking to more women and knowing more women. But that also goes right back to being a listener. I have a friend who is even more open with women than I am, and he will…
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:12 AM
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Russian women are kind of picky you need to be very masculine. Sounds like you haven't been lately.
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:03 AM
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Its a little unprofessional for a photographer to date a model really.
/r/seduction14/05/18 02:25 AM
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Dress like a lone wolf, leather jacket, 2-day no shave, spiky hair, but also smell good and have clean jeans and nice shoes.
/r/seduction14/05/18 01:20 AM
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No don't text her that beta male move. If you must text her say something like "Dress pretty for me tomorrow cuz we're gonna have fun". Never say "I'm looking forward to tomorrow!!! (emoji emoji emoji)"
/r/seduction14/05/18 01:10 AM
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Yes it happens. It can take time for some girls to make up their minds about a guy. Guys do it too, there are tons of messages on this board and others about a guy who took months before he decided to hit up on a girl he liked.
/r/seduction14/05/18 12:08 AM
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But you are attracting girls, right?
/r/seduction14/05/18 12:00 AM
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Atlanta? Nobody moves TO Atlanta.
/r/seduction13/05/18 11:59 PM
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Don't ask for their number, you have to get them so interested that they will volunteer you their number so you don't get away from them. Flirting is all about making that mental scenario in her mind where you and her are doing fun stuff together. Its not about making fuck talk its about creating a narrative, such as tossing out something like you having recently gone on a trip to (wherever) and she chimes in "ooh I'd like to go there sometime". Dingdingding then its time to respond "it would be…
/r/seduction13/05/18 11:52 PM
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Mind and body are linked, hit the gym.
/r/seduction13/05/18 11:22 PM
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Why does it bother you. She could have been really busy, on vacation or just slipped her mind. Lots of people have lives and don't live on their phone 24/7. If you "call her out" you're just being infantile and are just asking for her to block you.
/r/seduction13/05/18 11:11 PM
1

What about apple facetime, thats much better than texting
/r/seduction13/05/18 05:17 PM
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I knew her for years, so I asked her out. She had been kinda eyeballing me anyway so it pretty much was a slam dunk.
/r/seduction13/05/18 05:14 PM
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Don't text so much, hang out with her in person more. Thats how you form a real bond with a person, not peering into a phone.
/r/seduction13/05/18 05:10 PM
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Don't TELL them anything. Are you texting them way too much? Are you using emojis? Are you saying feminine shit like "just thinking about you...". Oh and are you paying for dinner?
/r/seduction13/05/18 04:50 PM
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You didn't lead with a "what's that?" so she was not expecting you to reach for her.
/r/seduction13/05/18 03:49 PM
1

Sex really cements a relationship. Learn how to be a sex god in bed and she will never stray.
/r/seduction13/05/18 03:32 PM
-11

He seems kinda creepy and why hasn't he asked you out already.
/r/seduction13/05/18 01:33 PM
5

I've been told I'm a very good listener. Funny, women want to be listened to when they talk.
/r/seduction13/05/18 01:07 PM
11

What she looks like doesn't matter. What she acts like, well she's kind, loyal, generous, is smart but still humble and is comfortable around kids, my family and my friends. It would be nice if she has money and a good job too thats bonus points. There are plenty of very attractive women out there who are insane bordering on dangerously insane.
/r/seduction12/05/18 11:30 PM
6

Just being a relaxed confident dude. I'm short, I figure I'm average looking but frankly I don't really have much of a problem talking to women and seem to attract girls way out of what I would consider "my league". I don't neg, use PUA tactics or read Mystery Method. I just talk to girls without being terrified of them.
/r/seduction12/05/18 11:26 PM
3

Send her a private note. don't post on her public stream like a stalker.
/r/seduction12/05/18 08:49 PM
2

Ever notice too the PUA coaches themselves are really fucking ugly, dress like goobers and have whiny voices? Its like they don't even take their own advice their dishing out, and the subscribers and seminar-attendees don't even seem to notice this. No, a 6'6" aspie freak in a fur hat and motorcycle goggles will not get you laid.
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:21 PM
1

Depends on the woman. I had this chick recently kind of hit on me but then I think she googled me, and found out my age is a LOT older than she thought. I look very young for my age and still have a ton of hair and no receding hairline. After that she instantly quit talking to me. Everybody has their requirements I don't blame her.
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:00 PM
1

Well I give my advice for free and I have real world experience. I don't need money, have money. Unfortunately scammers have realized there is a real profit potential for making bucks off a bunch of naive geeky IT guys with lots of cash and nothing to spend it on since they're single.
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:37 PM
1

“I’ve had sex with way too many women.” What the hell...
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:36 PM
0

She just felt the age diff was too great. Most of the time on chick boards they tell them that 6 years is the maximum, especially if they are young and the guy is older. Depressed girls can be a pain, sure they're fun in the sack but their moods are very shaky
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:34 PM
1

That is weird. Its best to stick to hands when dealing with girls you just met.
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:32 PM
1

Yeah, banana splits are my favorite.
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:30 PM
1

That should be posted on cringe, ha.
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:30 PM
1

Well I gotta go babe, I will see YOU tomorrow... (don't be specific, thats not the point).
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:29 PM
1

PUA is a scam and frankly there is a lot of really bad advice being disseminated in exchange for $3000 bootcamp payments.
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:25 PM
21

Women are told to play hard to get, its an okay strategy but it filters out a lot of guys who would get disappointed and move on, and it doesn't filter out the a-holes who persist until they get what they want.
/r/seduction12/05/18 05:44 PM
1

Takes time. Fighter pilots were shaky at first and unsure of their skill but they worked their way out of it, and they were taking a much bigger risk than you!
/r/seduction12/05/18 05:42 PM
1

Next day and don't say "hey this is ------". If you have to do that she's forgotten you already. Just say "Hey makeout girl, lets go get coffee".
/r/seduction12/05/18 05:41 PM
7

Call him out on it. I have a best friend who unintentionally cock blocks me. I'm talking to 2 chicks and he interrupts and changes the subject to something stupid like star wars or car antifreeze or some shit. He didn't even know he was doing it. He has since stopped but periodically I have to remind him the unwritten rules of never cockblocking your friend.
/r/seduction12/05/18 05:07 PM
-2

NEVER say Excuse Me, ever. Don't ever apologize for yourself talking to a woman.
/r/seduction12/05/18 04:49 PM
1

Never apologize for being a man.
/r/seduction11/05/18 07:06 AM
1

Well its a neutral approach. If she's interested in you in any way she will try to figure out a way to be with you. In this case however she knows what you're doing and is deflecting with a (lame) excuse like hot weather.
/r/seduction11/05/18 06:49 AM
1

Plenty of fat girls!
/r/seduction11/05/18 03:54 AM
1

If she is going to cheat on him with you, she will cheat on you with some other guy,
/r/seduction11/05/18 03:53 AM
4

Get out of your own head. You basically are hiding in your skull, tossing out jokes to deflect from how you really want to be. When in conversation, LISTEN. Interact. A conversation isn't a string of questions or a string of jokes, it is in essence a dance, a shared story and journey that both participate in.
/r/seduction11/05/18 03:51 AM
-1

When they say they have boyfriends they're "calling an audible" otherwise known as trying to get rid of you. Even if a girl has a BF, if she finds you appealing she will chat with you anyway and hide the fact she's dating somebody.
/r/seduction10/05/18 07:04 AM
3

You waited too long. Another guy swooped in because he didn't waste time.
/r/seduction10/05/18 06:28 AM
1

Its not an interview, its supposed to be a shared story when you converse with a woman.
/r/seduction10/05/18 05:52 AM
2

Don't overthink it, and don't feel bad if the date didn't go well, its your first date ever and first dates rarely go well. My best 1st date ended with drunken sex but I had known her for years so the sexual tension had been building for a long time.
/r/seduction09/05/18 11:45 PM
2

Don't worry about it she knows and doesn't care. I once went out with a girl, she said "no sex before marriage". We had sex on the 3rd date. Then she said "I will be dating other guys ya know". I said sure...she never dated any other guy when we were together. You might express some secular interest in her religion though. The girl above was a catholic, I am not but still went to church with her one sunday. I really had to because the night before we had sex like rabbits so I figured I had to pr…
/r/seduction09/05/18 05:08 AM
1

You're fine, just get that date
/r/seduction09/05/18 04:46 AM
8

You never know what is in a person's mind. Thats why this whole "reading IOI's" thing is not reliable. I've met many a girl who on the surface expressed zero interest in me but later was in the school hallways saying "HI!" at every opportunity.
/r/seduction09/05/18 12:58 AM
3

See that stop doing that.
/r/seduction09/05/18 12:56 AM
0

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0098678/
/r/seduction09/05/18 12:54 AM
2

Give them a commitment. You are pretty much admitting you are a player since you are hesitant to do so.
/r/seduction08/05/18 11:52 PM
1

If a girl wants to do things for you, its always a good thing.
/r/seduction08/05/18 11:40 PM
1

He walks better than Hulk Hogan https://youtu.be/Mi0b8tcCQSE
/r/seduction08/05/18 11:32 PM
1

I'm just giving my personal experiences. It works for me, it can work for you too! Having good sex is all about confidence. I am short, average looking but one thing I know I'm good at is sex. And I am not afraid to say it. Girls like a guy that can brag...and deliver.
/r/seduction08/05/18 11:16 PM
2

Weed is not good. The trick is simple, when you're having sex make sure you're mentally in the game too. Girls cum because they literally let themselves go mentally and go on a fantasy journey. I once asked my GF what she thinks about when having sex with me and she just says she floats off mentally and can't think at all.
/r/seduction08/05/18 11:14 PM
1

"Okay, let's go grab some hot chocolate then go shopping".
/r/seduction08/05/18 11:12 PM
-43

Make sure you last a long time. If you last 60-120 seconds you're doing it wrong. I basically fuck like a pornstar, hard, deep, make sure she comes 2+ times, and around 3-4 times a night. Every ex-girlfriend I've had is astonished when her next BF disappoints her severely with 1-2 minute sex. If you know how to screw, she will let you slide on a LOT of other stuff.
/r/seduction08/05/18 03:43 AM
1

What are you really looking for in life?
/r/seduction08/05/18 01:44 AM
1

Everybody seeks validation to some degree ya know.
/r/seduction08/05/18 01:42 AM
1

Does it matter, she was drunk, she hardly remembers anything
/r/seduction08/05/18 01:40 AM
1

No, not at all. An interview is basically you advertising yourself, so keep it professional, have confidence and don't ramble. The important thing is to be comfortable with yourself. If you are uncomfortable you transmit that discomfort to the interviewers and they are less likely to think positively about you. Don't try to seduce the female interviewer, ever.
/r/seduction08/05/18 12:23 AM
1

You just say "You know, you're really hot..." Don't back down if she says she isn't, just reassure her she's attractive. Don't put it in some sort of lovey-dovey context. You have to shift her mind from "just friends" to "he appreciates me sexually".
/r/seduction08/05/18 12:21 AM
3

I hated penis inspection day
/r/seduction08/05/18 12:19 AM
1

Sup gurl. simple, direct and shows confidence. Sounds weird but a girl will always wonder "who is this messaging me I gotta find out"
/r/seduction08/05/18 12:18 AM
6

You probably act like an ass. Thats a date killer right from the start. My advice, go to a newsstand, pick up a chick magazine (seventeen, cosmopolitan, whatever). Look at the "cute guys" section. Now forget what they look like or how they dress, what are they doing. THEY ARE SMILING, they look really friendly and they look like they're fun to be around. That is what you need to do. You're doing the Elliott Rodger thing, wearing expensive clothing and trotting around hoping a girl hits on you. G…
/r/seduction08/05/18 12:16 AM
1

Blah, outdated Mystery Method.
/r/seduction08/05/18 12:13 AM
1

Don't do her fucking homework for her. If she needs a little help its okay to offer but don't be writing her term papers.
/r/seduction08/05/18 12:13 AM
1

Only have a few pictures, about 5. One of your face, smiling. One of your body dressed up well, one of you in a natural pose with a nice background, one of you doing something you like (sports, hobbies), and one of you being fun or silly. Use a quality camera and focus, no fuzzy shots, no men's public restroom selfies. Don't ever do a muscle shot or abs thing, its just silly. Don't treat your job as if its a sellable thing, she wants to know what you do besides your job.
/r/seduction08/05/18 12:11 AM
1

Bachata can be really difficult, but if you're a natural you will have chicks wanting to dance with you.
/r/seduction08/05/18 12:09 AM
23

"You have to work harder than that" means you're doing well but you need a clever comeback thats salacious and inviting. She's not shit testing you she's just testing to see if you are good at romantic dirty talk. As for pauses in conversation, they're not necessarily a bad thing. A pause to a woman often means she's had enough conversation and wants some action. If you keep blabbering on to avoid gaps in convo she may think you're really odd.
/r/seduction07/05/18 11:21 PM
1

This is late in the semester, the best time to pick up chicks in college is in january or at the beginning of the fall semester. Also look into the library, thats where you can gauge interest with girls simply by eye contact and glances across the room.
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:43 PM
11

Quit thinking about yourself so much. Project yourself mentally out there, and open yourself up mentally and emotionally to any girl you are talking to. You will be surprised that you no longer hear the monkey inside your head thats making you self-conscious
/r/seduction07/05/18 06:26 AM
4

Geez you waited 4 months. You're friendzoned no girl will wait that long.
/r/seduction07/05/18 05:13 AM
1

You just have to take the risk.
/r/seduction07/05/18 05:01 AM
2

How to fix it, you never really do but you just get older and loosen up, realizing you won't live forever so you had better hurry up and date.
/r/seduction07/05/18 04:47 AM
1

Don't pick up chicks at bars. Try supermarkets, through friend contacts, and co-workers might know somebody single.
/r/seduction07/05/18 04:37 AM
2

"close to the lips". Close but no cigar. Friend zone.
/r/seduction07/05/18 04:36 AM
1

You should have just given her your number. Ya neva know.
/r/seduction07/05/18 04:34 AM
0

Just say you're leaving, but you want to see her again and offer her your digits. If she's the least bit interested she will give you hers.
/r/seduction07/05/18 04:33 AM
2

Have some balls, sluts smell fear.
/r/seduction07/05/18 04:32 AM
2

Stick to hands. Thats the kind of "kino" girls respond to the most. A hand has a lot more nerve endings than say a rump or a shoulder.
/r/seduction07/05/18 04:31 AM
7

I always talk to the entire group.
/r/seduction07/05/18 04:30 AM
19

I was an enigma. I was attractive but with a distant father and overprotective mother, it made me shy with girls. I found out post-highschool that a LOT of girls liked me but I never did anything about it. Just goes to show your parents can really screw up things for you.
/r/seduction07/05/18 04:29 AM
0

Do you have a thick accent or have nervous mannerisms?
/r/seduction07/05/18 04:09 AM
2

Tell her you will bring some special drinkables and eats.
/r/seduction07/05/18 02:07 AM
-4

If you have a favorite bar you have issues.
/r/seduction07/05/18 02:06 AM
0

She doesn't want you to contact her. If she did she would have suggested an alternate form of communication.
/r/seduction07/05/18 02:05 AM
3

"I will make it worth your while" (implying she can come to you) but don't give her details.
/r/seduction07/05/18 02:02 AM
2

Yes, memory and recall is very important. Its an indication you are listening to her and care about what she says. Women are so used to guys ignoring what they say they are happily surprised when they deal with a guy that remembers she liked something they discussed about a week ago (aka like a certain type of flower, and then he gets her those very same flowers as a gift).
/r/seduction06/05/18 11:50 PM
1

I'm not a big fan of beards, they're cuckish. Now maybe a 2-3 day no-shave is a bit better.
/r/seduction06/05/18 11:32 PM
2

Maybe go on a date with a female friend and have her evaluate you. Maybe you're doing something really weird and off-putting and don't realize it.
/r/seduction06/05/18 11:31 PM
2

A good followup conversation helps, where you exude confidence and optimism about her and demonstrate your masculine authority without being a creep. On the 2nd date treat her like you have known her forever, it eliminates whatever is left of any awkwardness and she will feel very impressed at you. Also don't eyeball other chicks on the 2nd date, keep your attention focused on her.
/r/seduction06/05/18 11:30 PM
2

If you want anonymous sex just get a hooker. There will always be some emotional component with a woman if you're having regular sex, unless she despises you physically and just uses you to get off.
/r/seduction06/05/18 11:26 PM
2

Making dinner = wants you to fuck her. The other obvious one is if she conveniently brings YOU liquor when she comes over.
/r/seduction06/05/18 11:17 PM
3

The problem is that i already tried, but Danger Will Robinson. She doesn't like you.
/r/seduction06/05/18 09:31 PM
3

Dress older than you are. No sneakers, no skinny pants, no hoodies, no funky hairstyles.
/r/seduction06/05/18 09:02 PM
2

I don't neg girls, its just not necessary.
/r/seduction06/05/18 08:43 PM
1

mario kart? Fucking toss your video games, they will keep you a virgin forever.
/r/seduction06/05/18 08:41 PM
3

Go get her, the age range is hardly anything to speak of.
/r/seduction06/05/18 08:39 PM
3

"Sup girl, you, me, coffee at 6pm today, starbucks on Main"
/r/seduction06/05/18 08:20 PM
2

Preferably while you're already massaging her. Less talk dude, more action.
/r/seduction06/05/18 08:10 PM
1

Talk to girls, anywhere, anytime. I know an alpha friend who does this. Girls are surprisingly receptive to conversation because they live for it.
/r/seduction06/05/18 07:59 PM
1

Naw just give her your name, don't neg its not necessary.
/r/seduction06/05/18 07:00 PM
3

I dunno that sounds a little scary. Maybe her BF is hiding and they're gonna rob you.
/r/seduction06/05/18 06:27 AM
1

If she already had her hand on your dong, try treating her like you already know her. Don't pretend you're at square one, sending her a meek text message.
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:25 AM
1

She doesn't like you.
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:21 AM
3

You don't. Your ACTIONS should be what gives her the incentive to move to a committed relationship. Its about taking the next step and taking the risk. You never want to get into "relationship" discussion with a woman you're only friends with. Something as simple as a hair caress, then a cheek caress then see what she does in response will indicate how she feels about you. Less talk, more action.
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:20 AM
2

No, never introduce yourself. Just talk to her. If she likes you she will give you her name
/r/seduction06/05/18 03:58 AM
5

and she cums on my mouth Wut
/r/seduction05/05/18 06:08 PM
0

Women are crazy but you know that.
/r/seduction05/05/18 05:47 PM
4

If you just want sex this is a good option because there's a time limit. Once husbando is back you're cut off. Just don't get her pregnant otherwise things will suddenly get complicated.
/r/seduction05/05/18 04:45 PM
1

I wished I had known how attractive girls really are at that age. I was so busy with my nose in a book I didn't pay enough attention
/r/seduction05/05/18 04:37 PM
3

I dunno, the messages aren't too clear. Maybe she's Canadian and is just being courteous, or maybe she just loves massages and hasn't had one in awhile. She might just want to be massage friends/buddies.
/r/seduction05/05/18 04:23 PM
22

No no no, don't ever say "excuse me" or "can you help me". Its salesman mode and it puts everybody on the defensive, male or female. Just friggin talk to her, don't even apologize for being a man. Women don't want apologietic, weak men.
/r/seduction05/05/18 04:11 PM
2

Chill, just be relaxed around her. It makes her feel confident in you too.
/r/seduction05/05/18 01:55 AM
1

Walmart has a generic "Equate" lube for sale if you don't want to pay high prices for sex lube at dildo stores. If you're doing it right you won't need lube, she will be wet as hell, but every woman is different.
/r/seduction05/05/18 01:50 AM
2

Generally speaking an FWB happens when she really ISN'T all that attracted to you but you are good in bed.
/r/seduction05/05/18 01:48 AM
1

The UK has female chavs, there's no equivalent in america unfortunately
/r/seduction05/05/18 01:47 AM
1

You got malls in Australia?
/r/seduction05/05/18 01:47 AM
1

Ask him to help you with an exercise, all guys fall for that.
/r/seduction05/05/18 01:43 AM
1

When people get older they loosen up and all those cliques and social groups melt away, like when you graduate highschool and realize none of that stuff matters now in college.
/r/seduction05/05/18 01:32 AM
1

Basic rules: Don't sleep with anybody in your authority chain (aka don't sleep with somebody you supervise, or somebody you work directly for). Check your employee handbook, sometimes they care about dating most of the time they don't. In the Contractor world, they don't allow you to sleep with anybody works for who you contract with. If you work at Subway, well does anything really matter?
/r/seduction05/05/18 12:03 AM
1

Kinda creepy
/r/seduction05/05/18 12:00 AM
2

Nobody really wants a sad body, they will just settle for one. Kind of like nobody wants to drive a Chrysler K-car but they will settle for one because its cheap and easy to find.
/r/seduction05/05/18 12:00 AM
3

Don't slack off on the sex
/r/seduction04/05/18 11:59 PM
1

Be good looking. If you can't do that get a really good photo of yourself and photoshop the hell out of it.
/r/seduction04/05/18 09:46 AM
2

Wear clean underwear and don't eat gassy food, farting during lovemaking will put the brakes
/r/seduction04/05/18 12:18 AM
1

Never hurts, you and her will both need some "decompression" time after finals.
/r/seduction04/05/18 12:14 AM
1

No because she doesn't remember you, why should she remember any guy she swiped away.
/r/seduction03/05/18 04:12 AM
0

It means down to F but not down to date seriously
/r/seduction03/05/18 04:11 AM
3

Always be mentally "ready" to flirt on a moment's notice. Its like how cops have that 24/7 attitude that they're always cops and on duty, or military people always having muscle memory for tactical behavior because its burned into their brains.
/r/seduction03/05/18 04:00 AM
13

PUA is a scam, dating "gurus" are pretty much all frauds. The only real success you get in life is because you actually talk to girls rather than play x-box and hope a girlfriend falls through your bedroom window.
/r/seduction02/05/18 10:55 PM
1

You have really bad self-esteem issues. Get an appointment with a qualified therapist.
/r/seduction02/05/18 09:57 PM
1

Comes over drunk? You sure she doesn't smell like the last guy she had before she came over?
/r/seduction02/05/18 09:55 PM
1

Who really knows, they color their hair.
/r/seduction02/05/18 09:53 PM
1

Just talk to her, because ya neva know....
/r/seduction02/05/18 09:02 PM
1

If she says she wants to do something, say okay lets do it. Easy as pie.
/r/seduction02/05/18 09:01 PM
1

I public he was a very charismatic person but in private a total sexual predator. Not somebody to look up to, and not unusual (aka bill cosby)
/r/seduction02/05/18 09:01 PM
1

Dont think she likes you
/r/seduction02/05/18 08:59 PM
4

Shy girls will not give off any positive cues and probably will unintentionally give off some negative ones. That makes it difficult when to go or just stop. You have to take more risks so just be patient, reassuring and do a lot of comfort building. Try to be fun, thats what she wants more than anything is a guy that helps her break out of her shyness, and be that guy that she can feel comfortable and open around.
/r/seduction02/05/18 08:57 PM
3

Very much so.
/r/seduction02/05/18 08:49 PM
3

Depends on your approach. If its a serious venue you don't have to smile, such as in a museum where you're doing small talk over a painting. Your voice modulation is important, because nervousness can be transmitted to her in your voice, whether through unintentionally raising the pitch or "warbling" where you are obviously nervous. A relaxed guy talks freely and confidently without being boisterous or intruding.
/r/seduction02/05/18 08:35 PM
0

Why are UK guys so meek and passive?
/r/seduction02/05/18 07:37 PM
1

It becomes a problem when you are over 25, she will think you have children.
/r/seduction26/04/18 10:45 PM
1

You need to be saying something that requires a thinking response, not just a "thank you". A total stranger walking up and complimenting a piece of clothing or a look puts that stranger on the defensive.
/r/seduction26/04/18 08:00 AM
1

Most guys who think they have good shoe game are investing in $300 sneakers. Women don't like sneakers, but other men may. You're buying for the wrong market.
/r/seduction26/04/18 07:58 AM
1

Whats your social distance when approaching? Many make the mistake of being too far away when approaching, like 6 feet away.
/r/seduction26/04/18 07:57 AM
1

Don't ever wait until the end of the semester. Girls are generally only available around the beginning of the semester before all the alpha male guys scoop them up.
/r/seduction26/04/18 07:55 AM
2

Thats a toughie. She may just be very friendly and courteous, so unless you're getting an obvious vibe from her the best thing to do is just keep with the friendly convo and see if she ramps it up a bit (like suggesting lunch together or something).
/r/seduction26/04/18 07:50 AM
4

Make sure its clean, neat, organized and free of the usual "man-child" accoutrements, such as X-box out in the open, playboys, swimsuit posters, tissue boxes/cumrags and smelly clothes in piles on the floor. Decor is important, make it austere, modern and masculine/conservative. Avoid tchochkies, frilly feminine shit and gay-ass colors like pink. The bathroom had better be sparkling. Replace the toilet seat with a new one. Most girls are terrified of bathroom germs (which yes is odd because thei…
/r/seduction26/04/18 05:41 AM
1

"Yeah really, lets hang out, I will get some brew, we can order a pizza, have some friends over or maybe just grab a movie and chill". She doesn't care, she just wants to be with you, so make it at least sound fun.
/r/seduction26/04/18 04:06 AM
1

RELAX. Once you get used to sex and being naked with a girl, you get into a certain kind of mental mode where its "game on!" and your wee-wee does what it should. You don't need drugs of any kind, or alcohol or weed. When you are with a girl, remember the foreplay.....LOTS of kissing, stroking, massaging, licking and so on. If you can't get an erection then its time to go down south, she won't mind a bit. Foreplay is more than just technique, its a way for you and her to get into a level of inti…
/r/seduction26/04/18 03:53 AM
3

Quit internalizing so much. I can literally visualize you hiding in an invisible bubble, talking to yourself. You have to get "out there" mentally. A simple "Hi..." is often all you need as an opener.
/r/seduction26/04/18 03:50 AM
4

Is it bad to want to just be friends with her and how would I do that if possible. You don't want to be friends with her, thats lying, and "Nice guy" thinking where you believe that maybe you can weasel your way into a sexual relationship sometime in the future by being deceptive.
/r/seduction26/04/18 03:45 AM
1

Make the followup text a statement not a question. "Sup girl, see you at 7pm tonight". Don't say "Are you still wanting to go out on a date with me?"
/r/seduction26/04/18 03:43 AM
1

She said we should party Ya know, its not clear, perhaps you should move on because the signals are not there.
/r/seduction26/04/18 03:39 AM
1

Doesn't look good, if she prefers hanging out with her friends rather than go out with you.
/r/seduction26/04/18 02:41 AM
1

Talk to her like she's a dude.
/r/seduction26/04/18 02:37 AM
4

Older women are more confident of themselves and are less interested in conventional dating rituals. It should be easier for you.
/r/seduction25/04/18 06:43 AM
1

Confidence my boy, if you can't make it, fake it!
/r/seduction25/04/18 06:42 AM
3

One thing I find out when visiting the AmIUgly subreddit is 99% of people who think they're ugly....aren't.
/r/seduction25/04/18 04:34 AM
6

Post pic
/r/seduction25/04/18 04:29 AM
1

Total beta male move, this isn't 10,000 B.C.
/r/seduction25/04/18 04:14 AM
4

Ignore what women say, they're liars. She wants a close relationship with you but she's scared. She will need quite a bit of reassurance that you're not just a fly by night lover.
/r/seduction25/04/18 04:08 AM
1

If you have to fight for her you never had her in the first place. The other dude is not "stealing" her, she is choosing to be with him.
/r/seduction25/04/18 04:01 AM
2

Nobody really cares, they may look, reminisce about the time they got rejected as a young'un and will walk away and go in with life and not remember a thing.
/r/seduction25/04/18 01:39 AM
3

Enjoy life and reciprocate immediately. Don't neg, don't use any PUA tactics they're not necessary.
/r/seduction25/04/18 12:22 AM
0

You must be really really good looking because that approach was cringey. Congrats.
/r/seduction24/04/18 11:09 PM
3

I dunno, it all felt artificial and forced. He did everything a typical military dude does when hitting on a woman.
/r/seduction24/04/18 06:37 AM
0

You free? No, never do this, ever. Just wait a bit, no need to message her. She could very well be busy. I have zero time during the week because of my job, so weekends are my only free time and thats limited too. Plus not everybody is super-glued to their phones 24/7 so don't expect a person to respond 45 seconds later. Eventually she will message if she likes you, but don't give her the 3rd degree or be mean and nasty because she didn't message you for a few days, thats weak and needy behavior…
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:34 AM
1

You're acting like Skippy from "Family Ties". Make yourself scarce, and reel her in if she starts to show interest all of a sudden, but never never show you're needy to that kind of a girl.
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:30 AM
1

Breces aren't really an issue, don't even worry about it you're not in jr. high.
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:26 AM
1

Visit, but arrange it don't just show up.
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:26 AM
4

She's just one of those needy girls that requires attention. She has no real interest in you other than manipulating you to satisfy her desire for a guy to 'want' her. I've known a girl like that, they say salacious things over text, they act girlfriendy, they of course are happy to make you pay for things, and in the end they won't actually date you and all it entails (the physical stuff).
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:24 AM
1

Get to know her friends, if THEY like you they won't mind you talking to your target girl.
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:14 AM
1

I obsess briefly then ignore, it intrigues a woman.
/r/seduction24/04/18 01:30 AM
5

Don't think she likes you.
/r/seduction23/04/18 11:47 PM
1

You always want what you can't have.
/r/seduction23/04/18 11:21 PM
3

When you're chatting with her having coffee, touch her hand and become quiet, then look into her eyes. If she responds, pull her by the hand gently to you and have her sit in your lap, kiss her and then if she really responds, pick her up and carry her to the bedroom.
/r/seduction23/04/18 11:17 PM
5

If you waited that long she's already pissed at you for forgetting to text her
/r/seduction23/04/18 06:27 AM
2

Used 24 condoms in 2 hours, what are you doing putting them on all your fingers? That must be a sight
/r/seduction23/04/18 06:27 AM
6

Getting your cock sucked the first time is SCARY. You may get sick to your stomach, your extremities may get numb and you feel paralyzed. She will look strange with her mouth distorted around your penis and it may just feel wrong and you want to get up and run away. Afterwards you may worry about disease, is she sucking the life out of you, you may be afraid you went gay when she stuck her finger up your ass. Then the guilt sets in. You are now a cock suckee, what would your mother think, your f…
/r/seduction22/04/18 11:00 PM
1

Not everybody is pegged to their phone screens 24/7
/r/seduction22/04/18 10:57 PM
1

You're right, chiropractors are snake oil salesmen
/r/seduction22/04/18 10:56 PM
4

All girls wanna get laid but they don't have this laser focus like guys do, since we're like wolves we have an agenda.
/r/seduction22/04/18 10:54 PM
4

Make yourself a bit scarce for a few days. If she does this "hey I was just messaging to see what you're doing" then you're in. Ask her out formally.
/r/seduction22/04/18 10:53 PM
68

If you're doing anything right she will escalate. Girls are good at this, some are very subtle,they put their head next to yours and touch cheeks (it means kiss her you idiot), or some are straightforward and they massage your junk (okay if you can't figure this out you don't deserve to get laid). Just be calm, relaxed and when you touch a girl don't ever use fingertips! Use the flat of your hand, the whole hand when you massage and touch, it feels a lot better. Fingertips feel creepy like an al…
/r/seduction22/04/18 10:49 PM
1

Your value is YOU. My main value is not what you would expect....I actually listen to women. They love listeners and hold that in very high regard. Girls don't give a shit about wealth or popularity. The female dating gripe boards are full of girls who are dating guys with no cash and no friends, and are all hesitant to give him up. The only advice they ask is "how to make it work".
/r/seduction22/04/18 10:40 PM
3

If you want gold diggers
/r/seduction22/04/18 10:26 PM
1

If you were dosed the live attenuated chickenpox vaccine you essentially got chickenpox.
/r/seduction22/04/18 08:16 PM
2

Why not, but be a little more creative than "nice tits". Try telling her she looks like some movie actress, or tell her how perfect her skin is or how nice her hair smells, or how cute her nose crinkles when she giggles.
/r/seduction22/04/18 06:05 PM
1

Possibly. Have either of you had chicken pox?
/r/seduction22/04/18 06:04 PM
-2

"Hey I just thought you were cute". Weak! Try a more european line "You are beautiful, what's your name..." Don't be afraid to be direct, you're a man.
/r/seduction22/04/18 06:01 PM
5

Don't drink, its a crutch.
/r/seduction22/04/18 05:42 PM
1

You have no competition from other guys, own it. You have your pick of the available females.
/r/seduction22/04/18 05:40 PM
1

Well then she is probably okay, agree to alternate paying for dinner and move on with the relationship.
/r/seduction22/04/18 05:28 PM
2

If she insists on paying its likely you didn't do well on the date and she wants to pay to not be obligated for any further possible romantic stuff. So the outcome isn't good, grasshopper.
/r/seduction22/04/18 05:18 PM
4

You got herpes most likely
/r/seduction22/04/18 05:17 PM
3

You don't have to kiss a girl at a club to make an emotional connection with her.
/r/seduction22/04/18 05:15 PM
2

Don't you guys go ice skating a lot?
/r/seduction22/04/18 04:20 PM
1

DON'T ever confess your feelings, it makes you weak in her eyes even if she likes you. Instead, invite her over for a beer at your place (don't tell her you know she likes you), drink a bit and when she gets touchy-feely again, its time to reciprocate. Don't talk don't start getting into the philosophical analysis of friendship vs relationships. There's a time to talk and there's a time to just make out and not waste time discussing it.
/r/seduction22/04/18 09:24 AM
7

If you're in university you're surrounded by women. You have oneitis with this friendgirl of yours. Time to hunt for fresh game elsewhere.
/r/seduction22/04/18 09:21 AM
5

You don't have to introduce yourself, just talk to her. Something like "I'm awesome, in what way?" From that point on just flirt with her. If you introduce yourself you're pulling the used car salesman thing, and it totally ruins the vibe. Let the name thing come out naturally, if she's interested she will tell you her name without asking.
/r/seduction22/04/18 09:20 AM
1

Keep going, she will learn.
/r/seduction22/04/18 09:14 AM
2

Perhaps you date too many girls. Quit thinking of woman as validation for yourself.
/r/seduction22/04/18 05:56 AM
23

You don't need value, you just need to be social, friendly and be willing to talk to all girls around you, not just ones you think are hot.
/r/seduction22/04/18 05:10 AM
2

I always talk to women even if I'm not really approaching. I just like talking to girls I find attractive.
/r/seduction22/04/18 03:07 AM
1

Being "yourself" means being your calm, relaxed and real person you are like when you are around, say good friends you know. Thats what it really means.
/r/seduction22/04/18 02:35 AM
1

You could have done some girlfriend stealing, but you didn't. Its your choice if you want to do that or not.
/r/seduction22/04/18 02:34 AM
2

You shouldn't be asking for a number in the first place. Shy girls require a long period of comfort building before they are brave enough for something like that. If you have reassured them they're attractive and interesting they will give you a contact number or email or whatever of their own free will. Oh and don't neg a shy girl ever, it only works against you. Shy girls don't do shit tests anyway.
/r/seduction22/04/18 02:33 AM
17

Most girls unless they're slutty won't have sex with you after 2 dates. Slow down there horndog, at least build some comfort before sliding the meat in.
/r/seduction22/04/18 02:18 AM
2

"nice talking to you" What, are you a used car salesman? Thats pretty weak. Set up a 2nd date immediately, tell her "I definitely want to see you again".
/r/seduction22/04/18 02:17 AM
1

Go to the grocery store, tons of women there, your biggest investment would be a 75c cup of yogurt.
/r/seduction22/04/18 02:16 AM
5

The failure rate for rhythm method is 25%, pretty high even if you're doing it right.
/r/seduction22/04/18 02:15 AM
0

Give her mind blowing sex. Women get addicted to it.
/r/seduction22/04/18 02:14 AM
1

If she says stuff like "I wanna be yours" just respond like "You ARE mine". Women want to be owned (not like slaves, you know what I mean). Forget about threesomes, especially MMF devils threesomes. That just weakens your brand.
/r/seduction22/04/18 01:06 AM
3

Don't drink, it only deludes you think thinking you're smooth when you're just smelling of alcohol and chicks wonder about you. Just go out more, its hard for a while but eventually you relax and one day...you don't even remember the time you were nervous about going out.
/r/seduction21/04/18 11:07 PM
1

Just have her warm up to you via texting, but don't do it for like weeks or months.
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:58 PM
2

So you know her, so don't act like you're operating from square one. Tell her you got this thang going on and you are inviting her to go with you, not "tag along"....I hate that term.
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:57 PM
1

he must be from braincels
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:39 PM
2

Pretty good, but you went straight to the date invite without a bit of getting to know her texting so it was a bit of a shock to her. I doubt she had plans but she had to say something to deflect.
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:38 PM
2

If you already know her a bit, don't ask stuff like "are you free". Be a little more bold, structure it more as a statement than a question. "you should go with me" is a good strategy, because its more a challenge than a question and it demonstrates obvious intent.
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:37 PM
1

If you're a worker like me, consistent date weekends are the usual fare, based on time limitations of the typical fast moving life.
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:33 PM
1

Whatever. I have a girlfriend and have no problem opening girls, thought I'd give my observations based on my own experiences, instead of PUA dorks pushing their "products".
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:31 PM
1

Good job, its hard at first but it gets easier as you fall into your particular approach style.
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:29 PM
1

Good job. A few cringy comments but they're cute and she seemed to like the attention.
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:27 PM
1

She wanted to make out,but I did not so I didn’t. Whats that all about.
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:23 PM
1

She's not wanting to pin herself down to a single guy. I doubt you can keep her loyal to you.
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:22 PM
1

I've dated co-workers, its not a problem, just don't date your supervisor or somebody you supervise. Also check your employee manual, some companies are very specific about that, others not. For example a contract company doesn't usually allow you to date a person from another company they contract with (for conflict of interest reasons). If its just a coffee shop or something though, don't worry about it just go out with her. People date co-workers all the time in the low-end service industries…
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:20 PM
1

Okay first of all "Netflix and Chill" means LETS HAVE SEX. You kind of jumped the gun there, and if you really meant to just watch netflix just keep up with dating terminology. Women don't like over-eager men, they do like men who can run a date smoothly though. Don't ask her what she wants to do, have something prepared and a 2nd plan in case she doesn't like the first one for whatever reason.
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:18 PM
1

Ya know its hard to gauge her interest at this point. Maybe she's from a country where they're very friendly and such, and frankly its not worth the possible rejection if she flies out to meet you and promises to have sex with you. She might also just be a happy girl, happy girls are friendly but even if she grabs your cock and sucks it until you blow a week's worth of cum into her mouth, ya'know it just isn't a very clear sign that she likes you at all, she maybe just courteous.
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:15 PM
0

Say "those are my two best friends who died in a tragic car accident last year". Then say nothing else and watch her apologize and backtrack.
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:11 PM
2

There are no set rules but there are plenty of dont's.
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:09 PM
3

Not at all.
/r/seduction21/04/18 09:18 PM
16

Excuse me No, no never do this. It puts you into salesman mode and it puts her on the defensive. Its much better to just look at her and say "Hi there..." Never apologize in advance for an approach.
/r/seduction21/04/18 09:11 PM
1

There are plenty of damaged guys for them. Frankly if you are a regular guy you are just wanting to date her for taboo value and nothing more. You can get a regular woman to fulfill your stripper fantasies with a trip to an adult novelty store. Heck just last night I had a chick pretend to be a stripper and suck me off like I was a john.
/r/seduction21/04/18 09:00 PM
1

She thought you were hot. Some girls lock up tight when they are around a guy they like.
/r/seduction20/04/18 11:50 PM
1

You were too accomodating. Asian women love super masculine men, because they're used to all those asian soyboys and they don't like it. Good thing though, you got laid, congrats.
/r/seduction20/04/18 11:35 PM
1

You were a bit wishy washy and she manipulated you because of that. No way to rescue that situation
/r/seduction20/04/18 11:30 PM
6

Things that never happened for $300, Alex.
/r/seduction20/04/18 09:47 PM
1

Have you tried looking for love?
/r/seduction20/04/18 09:18 PM
1

Its a lifetime thing really, nobody gets good at it until they're too old to matter.
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:11 PM
8

You Saudis are weird
/r/seduction20/04/18 03:53 PM
1

You know what to do, just hone your skillz. Its called on the job training.
/r/seduction20/04/18 03:34 PM
87

Unsure, she may be very tired and your bed is comfy, so its a little unclear right now. Spanks are tight and show off the body but she probably likes to wear them because they feel good and they're easier to sleep with, so again, the message is unclear, and you really don't want to mistake her sleepiness with interest. If she snuggles or disrobes under the sheets and begins to mess with your junk, well...again the message isn't quite clear and you probably shouldn't. She may just be warm and wan…
/r/seduction20/04/18 03:16 PM
3

Why do you do it then?
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:50 AM
1

Rule #1 never say "excuse me" as an opener.
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:44 AM
1

Not a troll, this girl is really bad at approaches. I had a girl open me recently, she was really geeky and not that attractive, but she was very good at opening a guy so I chatted with her and got her number anyway.
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:42 AM
-1

Women don't like nerdy guys, they like masculine guys that dress nerdy.
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:20 AM
2

They just weren't into you. There is no sure thing.
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:20 AM
2

Look at her, the moment she looks at you, smile, pause, then look away. Easy.
/r/seduction19/04/18 07:00 AM
2

Closing is not what you think. Closing is more of a process that takes time. A kiss is not a close, a fuck is not a close. Many guys here are puzzled that they kissed a girl and she ghosts him, and some even get laid and she never calls him back, because they think its a 'close'. A close is when you both feel a real connection to each other, when the emotional barriers are dropped and both of you express yourselves in a relaxed manner and don't have to keep up the date face anymore.
/r/seduction19/04/18 06:55 AM
-2

Her problem, she should have been good looking.
/r/seduction19/04/18 05:40 AM
2

You think this guy would at least wear some proper clothing and comb his hair for a video.
/r/seduction19/04/18 04:23 AM
1

Well think of it in terms of what makes you want to give a girl your phone number. Its not about value its about generating attraction.
/r/seduction19/04/18 04:20 AM
2

That is the point, to get them interested in you that they want to give you their phone number.
/r/seduction19/04/18 02:56 AM
0

Pussy does feel good in the dark
/r/seduction19/04/18 02:55 AM
1

You just don't like her. If you did you would have enjoyed the 2nd date even more.
/r/seduction19/04/18 02:54 AM
1

What were you expecting? That she suck your dick for holding the door open for her? You could have done it and just said "you owe me one, ima keep you on speed dial".
/r/seduction17/04/18 11:43 PM
2

5'6" is not all that short. I get laid and I'm dinky too. Just dress well, stay in shape, have personality and don't be overly tight with the old wallet. I'm not short in the place where it matters, though.
/r/seduction17/04/18 11:41 PM
1

You IM her the poop emoji while she's looking at her phone.
/r/seduction17/04/18 11:40 PM
4

You should have just asked her why. Maybe she wanted a foot massage and you fucked up something fierce.
/r/seduction17/04/18 11:40 PM
1

Saying "I'm not looking for anything serious" is well...a serious mistake. Let your actions be the indicator to her of the seriousness of the relationship. If you're buying her flowers all the time or calling her snookums, she will pretty much guess you want something more than sex.
/r/seduction17/04/18 11:39 PM
-1

If you're with a friend, walk up to male target and say "My friend and I are having a debate, she thinks you're a political science major and I think you're a chemistry major. Which of us is right?" It of course doesn't matter, its an opener for discussion to get him to start talking about himself and inquiring about you.
/r/seduction17/04/18 09:32 AM
4

It would not be a good idea to hook up with another girl after promising a previous girl a prom invite.
/r/seduction17/04/18 03:17 AM
-14

WEAK dude, weak. You should have been clever or funny. "But I get to be on top! Of the bunk beds of course"
/r/seduction17/04/18 03:10 AM
1

So a 10 woman will make you turn to dust if she touches you?
/r/seduction17/04/18 02:58 AM
1

Vanessa Hudgens
/r/seduction17/04/18 02:47 AM
3

Sometimes you actually win the lottery, don't jinx it
/r/seduction17/04/18 02:47 AM
2

Yes, most likely. Netflix and chill isn't about netflix or chilling. When a woman is on her back she is telling you "come get it!". I'm just saying don't consider a fuck a close, but you do have to be clear about your intent. She could have gotten quite frustrated with you and thought "is this guy gay?". You wouldn't believe how many gay guys go out with chicks and pull that stuff, read some of the women-dating boards to read about their frustrations with weak, passive (and gay) men.
/r/seduction17/04/18 02:43 AM
1

Well you might just ask some of the girls that dropped you "hey what was it that turned you off". You never know it might be some habit you don't even pay attention to thats killing your game.
/r/seduction17/04/18 02:40 AM
1

Eye contact, confidence. Interaction is 90% nonverbal. Its less of what you say and more of how you say it. Oh and don't forget to be a fun person. Being cynical turns most people off unless you're hitting on goth girls or feminists.
/r/seduction17/04/18 02:39 AM
1

You probably are just too passive then. You're a man, act like one. Lead, don't follow. I've been dating a girl for 3 years and even now she is content to follow me, even right down to restaurant choices. She prefers to let me choose, she prefers to let me decide what movie, she prefers to let me run the date. The reason is because she's a woman....she's content just being with a man that knows where he is going and one that can make decisions.
/r/seduction17/04/18 02:37 AM
1

Just because you didn't get laid on the first date doesn't mean you failed. Geez you kids these days, whats up with this hookup culture.
/r/seduction17/04/18 02:33 AM
2

Try to date girls, not just sleep with them. Girls that hop into bed with you on the 1st date tend to be the kind that don't call you back.
/r/seduction17/04/18 02:31 AM
1

A lot of the times closing a girl has nothing to do with saying something to her. I once went on a first date with a girl, we chatted, danced, held hands, and when it was time to say bye I looked deep into her eyes and smiled and gave her a soft hug. She enjoyed herself so much she insisted I stay at her apartment rather than take a long drive home at 3am. I was a good boy, slept on the couch and respected her privacy and boundaries. I was rewarded that morning when we said one more goodbye, and…
/r/seduction16/04/18 08:16 AM
1

Yeah, just say hey whats up.
/r/seduction16/04/18 05:31 AM
1

'Hey <her_name>, <my_name> here (you helped me out w the weighted planks) You assumed she would not remember you?
/r/seduction16/04/18 05:28 AM
1

If you're good looking and she's attracted to you she most likely doesn't care. Its not highschool, ya know.
/r/seduction16/04/18 05:24 AM
2

You pulled the nice guy thing, pretending to be her friend while wanting her in other ways. Best thing you can do at this point is ask her out but NEVER tell her outright you have liked her for a long time, because you are admitting you were deceptive in your behavior.
/r/seduction16/04/18 05:19 AM
-2

Women want to know a man they date seriously, everything, his history, his feelings, his past, his future, everything. Its a process that draws them even closer to a man over time.
/r/seduction16/04/18 03:37 AM
1

May it not be your last...
/r/seduction16/04/18 03:35 AM
1

She changed her mind, people do that.
/r/seduction16/04/18 03:33 AM
2

A nice guy actually is a liar. Thats why he gets no respect and no dates from girls. He pretends to be friends with a girl (aka giving them 'respect') in hopes to weasel his way into a relationship, so he essentially gets in good with a girl under false pretenses then springs this revelation on her. Her response is revulsion because she realizes he was being dishonest from the very start. Then he wonders why the guys who made no bones about their affections and intent for a girl have far more su…
/r/seduction16/04/18 03:32 AM
2

Are they manipulative or are they just playing the game.
/r/seduction16/04/18 03:30 AM
1

Have confidence, and have fun.
/r/seduction16/04/18 03:00 AM
2

She's opening you and you're supposed to say something charming and funny like "Yeah we served in the war together and you pulled me into that foxhole and saved my life"
/r/seduction16/04/18 02:40 AM
3

Your first line was good, but the more muscles to frown line was lame.
/r/seduction16/04/18 02:39 AM
3

Work on yourself. Better appearance, better clothing, better grooming, better health. When you look good and feel good everything else in life is so much easier. It takes out a mental roadblock to talking to girls, because you know you're at your physical best. Girls know this secret, which is why they take 3 hours to get ready. Even my longtime GF spends forever getting ready even though its just for me...
/r/seduction16/04/18 02:32 AM
7

(knocking on head) Hello! McFly....Hello! Your followup text was a bit weak and lame but she likes you so it didn't matter, but don't do it again.
/r/seduction16/04/18 02:30 AM
1

Try not to drink so much
/r/seduction16/04/18 02:13 AM
1

Let her show you around the city, no big whoop. Use the internets. Maps can give you all sorts of points of interests, restaurants, parks, and even hotels if you need one.
/r/seduction15/04/18 12:34 AM
0

I think WEED was your problem, the rest is fine. Talking to girls in college is easy, just talk to them, anywhere, anytime.
/r/seduction15/04/18 12:33 AM
2

Mumbo-jumbo
/r/seduction15/04/18 12:33 AM
13

You should have just gestured her over to you. Easy as pie.
/r/seduction14/04/18 10:02 PM
1

More girls lose their virginity earlier than boys, which indicates girls are having more sex with fewer boys.
/r/seduction14/04/18 09:15 PM
1

He's doing a lot more than you think. Even knowing how to do proper eye contact from across the room does far more than the usual teasing, chat, and conversation. I don't recommend negging, its Mystery Method crap, Mystery has aspergers.
/r/seduction14/04/18 08:58 PM
11

Older women know what men want as you have found out
/r/seduction14/04/18 08:56 PM
13

You just find them as easier to attain since they are needier
/r/seduction14/04/18 08:50 PM
4

The moment you feel like that then its a given she doesn't like you. So then ignore her for awhile and see if she comes back, if she doesn't well she never liked you.
/r/seduction14/04/18 04:19 PM
1

Get a glass of OJ and tell her its a screwdriver.
/r/seduction14/04/18 04:18 PM
9

Look for girls NOT dancing and staring at the dance floor. Its a sure sign they want to dance. While you are dancing, look at them, smile and then point to them and gesture them to the dance floor. If they look approchable, go get them out there, if they refuse, just gesture "whatever" and keep dancing, there are plenty of other girls.
/r/seduction14/04/18 03:53 PM
2

Drawing is fun, hopefully you can draw her well so she isn't horrified at the results.
/r/seduction14/04/18 04:22 AM
2

I think you worry too much about the mechanics of dating and forgot that you are interacting with a human being. Try thinking more dynamically. The only way to be genuine is to act genuine, not be running down mental checklists of kino zones.
/r/seduction14/04/18 04:21 AM
2

EYE CONTACT, the very first interaction on a subway. I know this is from a movie, but its pretty much how it works in real life. https://youtu.be/ErOQtiFLhvE
/r/seduction14/04/18 04:17 AM
2

There's no need to be indirect about intent. Just be tactful about it of course (gentlemanly) and don't be afraid of being a man about it. Oh and never say "excuse me" or "introduce" yourself. That activates her mistrust gene. A girl just wants you to talk to her, you aren't selling something to her and you don't need to say you are sorry for interrupting, because you aren't.
/r/seduction14/04/18 04:16 AM
3

You don't need dating ritual behavior with older women. Don't waste any time, talk to her, invite her out for coffee or dinner. She won't waste any time either if you know what I mean.
/r/seduction14/04/18 04:13 AM
-3

I understand. I until recently wore tighty-whities, not knowing the consequences of it with women, how naive I was.
/r/seduction14/04/18 04:09 AM
-1

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=douchebag%20shirt
/r/seduction14/04/18 04:01 AM
2

Not sure thats a good idea, a woman smelling a guy with beer on his breath is going to be suspicious unless its in a nightclub setting.
/r/seduction14/04/18 03:33 AM
2

He's shy, he's hoping you do the heavy lifting.
/r/seduction14/04/18 03:32 AM
-5

Yes, because nobody looks good in them. They're the male version of capri's for women. No woman on the planet looks good wearing those.
/r/seduction14/04/18 03:25 AM
3

You study too much and have too little real life experience. Its book learnin' vs life learnin'. Just keep doing what you're doing and polish your technique
/r/seduction14/04/18 12:46 AM
12

They are called "douchebag" t-shirts for a reason.
/r/seduction14/04/18 12:19 AM
1

You just need a well-composited picture.
/r/seduction14/04/18 12:17 AM
1

You lack confidence and masculine behaviors. If you're too effeminate (a more common problem than guys realize) a woman will throw you into the friendzone mental pile or even worse the gay guy friend mental pile. The most successful guys with women exude confidence, masculinity and yes they are genuninely nice.
/r/seduction14/04/18 12:03 AM
1

Just say to the waitress "I just want a soda" and don't qualify it. Tell her you don't feel like a beer right at that moment. if your date asks. Don't get coffee, thats always the bar drink of the recovering alcoholic.
/r/seduction14/04/18 12:00 AM
1

Its most likely the way you dress that is the real problem. People take cues from that in guessing your age.
/r/seduction13/04/18 11:59 PM
1

Don't be too picky, you might end up as an incel
/r/seduction13/04/18 05:03 AM
1

It doesn't matter what you do as long as you are confident doing it and are in control. Girls are followers, not leaders. If they feel the guy is in control of the date and they're enjoying his leadership he will get a 2nd date. What really screws things up is if you're awkward, it knocks you down the authority ladder and she moves on, looking for a more confident male elsewhere.
/r/seduction13/04/18 05:02 AM
6

Try to not be so focused on "succeeding" and relax and calm down a bit. Interaction is mostly nonverbal, she will detect your unease even if you are doing well verbally.
/r/seduction13/04/18 04:25 AM
2

Interact from afar. Eye contact, smiles, open and approachable body positions. Girls see cues like that and if they see it as a slam dunk that you want her to approach, she will approach. Be warned though, thats a huge move for her, when she does approach you have to do the rest.
/r/seduction12/04/18 05:47 AM
15

Glass is half full dude, not half empty.
/r/seduction12/04/18 05:46 AM
2

You are supposed to smile at her, let her fondle your chest, and interact with her alluringly. It was a test to see if you are man enough for her, and you failed. Its a game, you're supposed to play it.
/r/seduction12/04/18 05:46 AM
5

YOU LISTEN. Conversation is not a series of memorized sentences you spit out in sequence, its not an interrogation. Its an interaction. You must listen as well as speak, you must think of it as a dance. Its not about you blabbing to avoid silence. Sometimes in conversation there are silent pauses, and those pauses can be good! (aka a lot of times when a girl goes silent, she doesn't want your conversation, she wants your kiss...)
/r/seduction12/04/18 05:43 AM
3

I have netflix
/r/seduction12/04/18 05:04 AM
1

Prince was 5'0". He wore 3 inch heels everywhere.
/r/seduction11/04/18 04:15 AM
1

Talk to them like they're regular girls. NEVER ask if they played basketball. NEVER make tall jokes. NEVER treat them like they're weird or some sort of fetish. ALWAYS make them feel like they're feminine and not clumsy. Dated both 6'3" and 6'2" girls so I have experience. I'm a manlet, not quite Prince or Bono though.
/r/seduction11/04/18 04:14 AM
31

Why would a 35 year old man be attracted to a 20 year old? Ha just kidding.
/r/seduction11/04/18 04:12 AM
2

You have to be paying attention. In my first day of class in college I had some girl eyeballing me like mad....instant crush apparently. So I chatted her up...ding ding ding score. You have to really have some situational awareness and don't hide inside your head so much when in school. It helps to be good looking too, so hit the gym, there are no excuses.
/r/seduction11/04/18 04:01 AM
5

Is he married?
/r/seduction11/04/18 03:49 AM
2

Beginning of the semester is prime dating time, when girls are single and broke up with their boyfriend from last year. You are more likely to hook up with girls you meet in your classes, so the ability to network before and after class is vital.
/r/seduction11/04/18 03:43 AM
5

I don't even introduce myself I just say something. If you introduce yourself she gets mentally defensive. Its the salesman effect, like when the used car salesman stalks you and gives you the introduction spiel.
/r/seduction11/04/18 12:07 AM
1

Go for it. Guys are way too timid these days.
/r/seduction10/04/18 11:55 PM
1

Avoid certain colors (pink, orange, light blue), Stick to furniture that isn't ornate. No doilys, tassels, gauze over lamps, smelly candles, frilly stuff, excessive throw rugs or pillows, and no stuffed animals.
/r/seduction10/04/18 11:54 PM
1

You had SEX twice with her dude, if you're not on a friendly basis enough to take her on a road trip, there's something wrong with you.
/r/seduction10/04/18 11:38 PM
-1

Usually a girl will start it by saying "I'm bored". So you respond "Wanna make out?"
/r/seduction10/04/18 06:45 AM
1

Deformed with just lousy teeth? Thats hardly what one would consider a birth defect.
/r/seduction10/04/18 05:58 AM
1

Its exciting to get rejected, like almost tripping down the stairs or almost stepping on something sharp, exhilarating.
/r/seduction10/04/18 04:50 AM
1

A lot of college girls these days just want to get banged by a few dozen guys before they "settle down" with a boyfriend. The other possibility is you aren't one of those "dreamy" guys they fantasize about. A romantic, smart or emotional guy that just presses all of their buttons and gives them the need to tell their girlfriends they met 'the most awesome guy ever'.
/r/seduction10/04/18 04:35 AM
3

I don't mind strip clubs, but I don't go there to get my dick hard, I just go there to relax and look at some tits, its a meditation kind of thing for me. One night out doesn't mean a life failure, there are other nights.
/r/seduction10/04/18 04:33 AM
1

Unless she drunk dials you and wants to do it, its likely she has no interest in you at all.
/r/seduction10/04/18 04:32 AM
1

You waited a long time to contact her
/r/seduction10/04/18 04:31 AM
1

Look for university mixers, maybe they bring in chicks for all the horny guys.
/r/seduction10/04/18 04:26 AM
1

Have fun, be fun.
/r/seduction10/04/18 12:40 AM
2

Hot women get rejected all the time, they just don't care.
/r/seduction09/04/18 11:54 PM
3

How you furnish your apartment is critical. Above all it must be clean, organized and smell-free. Stick to modern furnishings they are more masculine. If your apartment looks like mom decorated it she will wonder about you. Stay away from scented vanilla candles, not sure why guys here think women like that. No man has an apartment that smells like Martha Stewart's neck.
/r/seduction08/04/18 08:17 PM
3

https://youtu.be/xa-4IAR_9Yw
/r/seduction08/04/18 08:00 PM
1

You should really learn to know when you get friendzoned.
/r/seduction08/04/18 07:27 PM
3

Well its okay to desire other women. Heck I'm in an LTR and I desire other women all time, every day. They're just out there, wearing tight pants, low cut shirts and smelling great.
/r/seduction08/04/18 05:38 PM
2

Get out of your own skull mentally and put your personality out there, its risky to do so because you invite the (slim) possibility of rejection and ridicule but it must be done. A guy gets nervous because he's hiding inside his own head, nervously thinking about what to say next and not actually listening and interacting in the conversation.
/r/seduction08/04/18 05:36 PM
1

However, I don't want to take her out on an actual date, since dates are too formal for people my age Say what. What the heck is hookup culture, do you kids honestly think that is something new and you invented it?
/r/seduction08/04/18 05:23 PM
12

I wished I was 5'9". I still get laid though so its cool. My advice is to not get too bulky when lifting, when you go wide and stocky you make yourself look really short. Its better to have the slender swimmer type muscular body, women prefer that because its not intimidating.
/r/seduction08/04/18 05:13 PM
1

Even she will need a break from you sometime. You're just in the puppy dog attraction stage, don't worry she won't run away.
/r/seduction08/04/18 04:45 PM
2

Interviews suck, so why do them.
/r/seduction08/04/18 04:41 PM
3

The only way to get confidence is to take risks. Its not like hollywood movies, the girl won't scream and spray your face with tear gas if you approach her.
/r/seduction08/04/18 04:29 PM
2

David Wygant is tall and was good looking but he's old now and a bit rough. He's less of a PUA and more of a dating coach, looking to get guys to learn more about working in a dynamic situation rather than using rote lines and structured pickup. Most PUA coaches are pretty freaky looking actually and their voices are annoying to me.
/r/seduction08/04/18 04:28 PM
2

Maybe put up some new pix?
/r/seduction08/04/18 04:22 PM
2

handshake? really? That and the kino stuff, come on its 2018! You don't touch women as if its the 1970s. always start with the hands otherwise you will creep her out even if she's drunk. When she said "meet my sister" you should have just looked at her closely and say "I'm sure she's nice but I don't know her, I know you though now, and I really like what I see" or some nonsense like that. Sounds like you didn't get her talking about herself (aka expressed interest) and you weren't fun and playf…
/r/seduction08/04/18 04:04 PM
0

Perhaps meaningless encounters is not what you really want.
/r/seduction08/04/18 06:40 AM
1

What you lack in looks you can make up in charm. One of the biggest gripes of girls is not that a guy is ugly but that he's boring.
/r/seduction08/04/18 05:30 AM
1

Well if you're hot, the girl won't care about money, but most of us aren't.
/r/seduction08/04/18 05:21 AM
4

Tell her "I want to give you a call sometime". Note it is a statement not a question. If she asks why tell her that you want to see her again. Another statement. This shows intent and authority and isn't meek and weak. She is more likely to give you her number.
/r/seduction08/04/18 05:02 AM
1

https://youtu.be/xa-4IAR_9Yw
/r/seduction08/04/18 04:34 AM
2

Try before you buy I always say
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:36 AM
1

Would you like a girl if her room was messy? Girl's bathrooms always terrify me, they're filthy. I don't see how they end up looking so good with bathrooms that awful.
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:34 AM
1

Tell me how you did it.
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:33 AM
3

A lotta girls say shit. I once had a girl that told me on a date she was going to date other guys too. I knew it was horseshit because she was very shy and I had my doubts she ever had a boyfriend before. I ended up sleeping with her on the 3rd date, she never mentioned other guys from that point on.
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:31 AM
1

I didn't imply that. I just said that comic book cons are great ways to find chicks. All you need is a tiny modicum of game, they want to be talked to.
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:19 AM
1

Picnic in the park, or if you can't do that, picnic in the backyard.
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:16 AM
1

Watch the softcore porn, the stuff women like to watch. They even make educational vids for that. The hardcore porn is for men, very clinical and crude, for advanced sex only.
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:15 AM
1

You can focus on school and work and get women too. Go to comic book conventions and hit on the nerd girls. Trust me most haven't been approached by guys because the nerd guys are either sexless or clueless.
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:14 AM
1

You're not expressing enough interest in HER. Are you talking just to talk or are talking about yourself? Are you trying to make your time with her fun or just passing the hours doing stuff. Are you dressing and acting your best? Lots of guys show up in cargo shorts and sandals and wonder why the girl loses interest. Even so none of this guarantees success, it just improves your chances.
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:12 AM
1

If you're a teenager, yes, if you're a college student yes, if you're in your 30's well probably not unless you make up some story about being extremely religious.
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:10 AM
1

Don't obsess over kiss closes, because that doesn't exist. A kiss closes nothing if you haven't established a true connection to her.
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:09 AM
1

Tried it, side effects are dry skin, burning eyes and ruined shirts (ingredient is a strong bleach).
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:07 AM
1

I have horrible acne, I still get dates because I figure if a girl is willing to look past my face, then she's worth it. You may be suffering from inflammation, not acne. Acne is not caused by bacteria. Avoid certain foods and you may do well. Avoid: 1) Milk (hard cheese ok in small amounts) 2) High Fructose Corn Syrup (regular sugar is ok) 3) Caffeine (coffee, tea, soda, chocolate, guarana) 4) Hydrogenated Oils (olive oil is ok) Acne is the skin's response to inflammation, the oil and bacteria …
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:04 AM
1

Treat it like its a 2nd date and you already know her.
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:01 AM
1

Wash hair first, then face with soap, then upper body, then nads then legs and feetz, then rinse off. I then use q-tips to dry my ears because water always gets in them. There is no good or bad time to take a shower. Before a date, shower. Before she comes over to have sex, take a shower. Even if you don't think you need one, take a shower. The reason is because if you pinched a loaf earlier that day, if you get hot and sweaty it may stink, and if say you're having sex she won't appreciate a bit…
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:00 AM
1

Confidence is like riding a bike.
/r/seduction08/04/18 02:57 AM
3

I avoid sex talk completely. I once even had a girl tell me she went out with me because I was the only guy that didn't go right into fuck talk over text. At the most I might make some sort of implied sexual thing but very subtle and not crude at all but only after talking to her for awhile, and generally only if she throws in the first innuendo. If you just met a girl yes you should respond quickly, as she will still be unsure about you.
/r/seduction08/04/18 02:54 AM
1

Do a half hug, where you touch a girl's cheek, if you are just meeting her. There's an ulterior motive...you want her to smell your cologne and hear your voice up close.
/r/seduction08/04/18 02:51 AM
1

These days you want to get slim fit, not skinny fit jeans. It depends on your body though. If you're overweight don't wear slim or skinny pants it just will make your butt look female. As always stay away from designer jeans with pocket bling and stitching, and super baggy jeans are passe', again unless you're black. The brand doesn't matter. Heck I wear $20 two for one JC Penney jeans and Eddie Bauer, none of which are considered high dollar. Women don't read labels and the ones that do are mon…
/r/seduction08/04/18 02:49 AM
1

just go for pastry and coffee, its $20 vs $50 for a date.
/r/seduction08/04/18 02:43 AM
1

Very casual, jeans and at the very minimum a t-shirt (with nothing printed on it!) and a plaid shirt over it worn open, sleeves rolled up if necessary. If you must wear sneakers wear those vans or slip-ons or classic converse allstar types, no joggers, that is fitness wear not meant to be stylish unless you're black.
/r/seduction08/04/18 02:41 AM
2

Buy a form fitting tailored suit. If you do wear jeans, wear a blazer and a button down collared shirt, usually white or blue will work well. Don't wear sneakers, wear dress shoes even with jeans. Older women are suspicious of 40+ year old men dressed like teenagers, because it implies the guy is having a mid-life crisis and they don't want to touch that hot potato.
/r/seduction08/04/18 02:29 AM
0

Do alpha males use these techniques. No, they don't.
/r/seduction07/04/18 11:12 PM
2

Not sure I want to emulate a man who has raped multiple women.
/r/seduction07/04/18 09:30 PM
1

You don't. If you diss her friends you are dissing her. Its a package deal you inherit her friends
/r/seduction07/04/18 09:30 PM
8

student = unemployed. Older chicks are looking for a man with at least money for dinner.
/r/seduction07/04/18 04:38 PM
1

Salty Milk and Coins
/r/seduction07/04/18 04:36 PM
2

Sounds like she wanted to turn you into a FWB but you spazzed out.
/r/seduction07/04/18 06:55 AM
1

Women need validation that they're beautiful and interesting. A guy shows this with his confidence. Yes you may get rejected but you may also not. Women are not leaders they're followers and they want nothing more than to follow a man who leads and knows where he is going in life.
/r/seduction07/04/18 06:34 AM
2

Why does it have to be so fucking hard for us? An attractive girl can get shitfaced drunk on the weekends, have a terrible diet, doesn't need to exercise, can have no confidence in herself, and can have all the sex she wants with anyone at any time and still have an incredible, exciting life. Not true at all. There are plenty of attractive girls who complain that they're almost completely invisible to guys. Just get on /r/amiugly and you see loads of really cute girls who have such terrible self…
/r/seduction07/04/18 01:24 AM
1

https://imgur.com/r/CringeAnarchy/52XfSy7
/r/seduction07/04/18 01:20 AM
8

Just do it. Its high school girls are dying to have guys talk to them, its a very different world from adult life. You only find that out when you're an adult yourself.
/r/seduction07/04/18 12:41 AM
2

A bra?
/r/seduction07/04/18 12:41 AM
12

Depends on how old you are. If you're a teenager then the girl is just trying to get your attention. If you're like really old in your 20's you could very well be ugly. Work on that.
/r/seduction06/04/18 11:11 PM
2

Lift bro, lift. Don't even think about it, do it. /r/fitness
/r/seduction06/04/18 10:25 PM
2

I told her to try me and she told me about how her a some dude made out while she was drunk. Did you ever consider the dude that made out with her was you and she forgot?
/r/seduction06/04/18 10:25 PM
20

Nobody wants to have sex with a dancing joke monkey. Girls want guys who give off sexual vibes.
/r/seduction06/04/18 10:13 PM
1

No the gspot is inside the vagina, upper part near the pubic bone. clit is the button.
/r/seduction05/04/18 04:56 AM
12

Be specific, give examples, what is your technique for chatting
/r/seduction05/04/18 12:41 AM
2

Be both. Women like both.
/r/seduction05/04/18 12:21 AM
2

Just tell her "I want to keep seeing you". No question, a statement of purpose.
/r/seduction05/04/18 12:20 AM
16

I will never lower my standards. I only approach 9 or 10's. M'lady...
/r/seduction04/04/18 06:57 AM
1

"Excuse me" is submissive, implying asking for permission to talk. Just talk to her, its okay to say something. I just say it and they respond. I once decided for fun to just hit on a girl who was loading the pastry carousel at the buffet and said "So what is good in there?". We had a nice little convo and she recommended what she liked. I never ask permission to talk, it puts a woman in a completely different frame of mind when you do that.
/r/seduction04/04/18 04:13 AM
4

No, never do that.
/r/seduction04/04/18 02:44 AM
12

You moved too slowly. She spent an inordinate amount of time dropping hints and you beta-ed out on her. She then got tired of this lack of inaction and decided you weren't interested in her the same way. She gave you a blowjob, how can this be interpreted in any other way than "I really like you". Alpha males act fast and they're not afraid to do so.
/r/seduction04/04/18 02:40 AM
3

One thing about an ex, the moment you get back with her, you realize why you broke up with her in the first place.
/r/seduction04/04/18 02:38 AM
0

You shouldn't have done that "if you become single, call me". That puts you in a weak, passive position.
/r/seduction04/04/18 12:35 AM
3

Have you ever had an ice cream sundae so good you want to go back to that place again and order it? They enjoyed the sex and the company and want to feel it again. As to their long term ambitions, who knows.
/r/seduction04/04/18 12:18 AM
6

Eye contact from afar as an opener, look for groups of girls that don't have guys, they are wearing sexy clothes hoping to find cute dudes. Don't be afraid to talk to the entire group and be a fun person.
/r/seduction04/04/18 12:16 AM
1

Mystery Method is made by a guy with aspergers. His "infield" videos are painful to watch.
/r/seduction04/04/18 12:07 AM
-8

negging? really? rubbing her thigh? what are you paul snider? You may not have realized this but you blew it from the very beginning, she was just being courteous while trying to figure out how to jettison you. First physical contact should be hands, always. No ass rubbing, leg rubbing, shoulder rubbing, you're not a sleazy porn producer.
/r/seduction03/04/18 10:22 PM
-4

No resistance she didn't even smack my hand. She actually smiled. I then removed my hand from her thigh backed off and kept getting to know her while teasing her about her short feet and small hands. Which she absolutely hated lol. WHAT are you doing man??? Mystery method is dead, let it rest.
/r/seduction03/04/18 10:14 PM
1

Yes don't forget the kino escalation, a bit of negging and then work towards the K-close and the F-close.
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:50 PM
3

This is all common sense, but I guess some guys need to read it. Oh and it helps to have a big dick.
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:45 PM
5

Life Lesson: High school doesn't matter. You will realize this the moment you graduate and go to college. Oh and don't be blurting out you're a virgin are you out of your mind.
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:44 PM
1

You're not amy? I remembered a really sexy girl I knew called amy and it just slipped out.
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:43 PM
1

Do what you do on job interviews, gild the lilly. Don't make it up....make it GOOD.
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:42 PM
1

Scars are cool, tattoos generally are just stupid. She might like to hear about your scar story if its interesting, but she probably doesn't give a flip about your star destroyer tattoo on your neck.
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:41 PM
2

Never say "excuse me" or "hey can I talk to you". It puts a woman on the defensive immediately because you are in salesman mode and people automatically cringe when they're accosted by salesmen. Best opener is eye contact, a smile and a hi. Then you should immediately say something like "you are mad cute do you know that?", or "Wow you rock that blonde goth look great" or whatever! NEVER NEVER apologize for being a man, and never apologize for a compliment before you say it. Compliments work bes…
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:39 PM
2

Small steps. Find some friends then work your way up to a GF
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:35 PM
2

because she was bored. AKA bored with you Tell her she can flirt all she wants but she shouldn't bother calling you anymore.
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:29 PM
-1

No don't tell her you're a virgin. Just watch softcore porn movies and emulate those guys. Hopefully she won't notice
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:14 PM
1

Of course, give a hug! Just don't give a full body bear hug and hold on too long.
/r/seduction02/04/18 01:26 PM
1

You need to get into the mindset that there's a time for love and there's a time for action. I get into my "tiger" mode when I'm with my girlfriend and she wants to get frisky.
/r/seduction02/04/18 01:24 PM
0

Coulda been her brother
/r/seduction01/04/18 05:28 PM
-2

Watch porn and emulate them but don't do the really wierd stuff like moaning out loud, slapping their asses or rubbing the pussy like you're sandpapering.
/r/seduction01/04/18 03:13 AM
-1

Because men are supposed to lead in a relationship. A virgin man doesn't know what he's doing and doesn't have the skills to lead during sex. Its irritating when a woman doesn't know what she's doing either but at least she's "trainable".
/r/seduction01/04/18 02:50 AM
5

I tell seduction guys this a lot and you can learn too. Go to any magazine for single women and look in the "cute guys" section where women get to ogle dudes with their shirts off. They're all smiling and friendly, but at the same time they still give off a ton of masculinity with body hair, muscles, and poses that emphasize their forms. Being Alpha isn't being a gorilla that beats up other guys for dominance, women don't like plain raw sexuality like that....gay guys do...but not women. Just ba…
/r/seduction01/04/18 01:29 AM
2

Babies are wonderful, when you have your own you will understand.
/r/seduction01/04/18 01:19 AM
1

I liked the GOMAD
/r/seduction01/04/18 01:17 AM
1

Talk to her IMMEDIATELY. There is a short period of time until she gives up because when you don't reciprocate, she gets insulted and embarassed and will never talk to you again. Next time she says hi, say hi! And invite her to sit with you at lunch (assuming you have the same lunch period as her). Its a slam dunk it will be easy so no need for any anxiety.
/r/seduction01/04/18 01:15 AM
3

Expensive and about as useful as any lecture seminar...worthless.
/r/seduction01/04/18 01:13 AM
3

If you're jealous then you feel you never "had" her emotionally so you are protective of her like she's a pile of food you're guarding. A woman is not a pile of food. A self-confident man trusts a woman, and if she cheats she should already know he will dump her on a moments notice if she does....but she won't because her man has confidence and treats her like an adult.
/r/seduction01/04/18 01:12 AM
8

You are not exuding sexuality or masculinity. Its perfectly fine to be friendly and open, thats what a woman wants. You must also be the kind of person that makes a woman want to have sex with you. Perhaps you have some nice forearms with muscles or a certain facial structure thats blocky, or perhaps you're tall with a narrow waist. You need to emphasize your pluses with better clothing and your personality must express a self-assuredness. I'm a manlet I admit it....but...I've had girls tell me …
/r/seduction01/04/18 01:09 AM
0

Mystery method is good for autists because its so rigidly structured it appeals to the kind of person that lines up his toys on the floor
/r/seduction01/04/18 01:02 AM
2

Don't ever expect an FWB to be something lasting for years. People have life transitions and for the most part an FWB is always considered a temporary situation until they find something better. So remember this, YOU are the temporary situation until she finds something better.
/r/seduction31/03/18 02:13 PM
2

Not everybody keeps their phone nearby 24/7. I'm a curmudgeon and a bit of a luddite so its kind of surprising I even have a cellphone. My GF understands that its quite normal for me to not respond for hours after a text, so if its really important she calls me.
/r/seduction31/03/18 02:11 PM
2

Do what my friend does just look at a them and say loudly "Go on! Git!"
/r/seduction31/03/18 02:08 PM
7

First of all you don't bother to have enough cash for a date then you give them a mental scenario where they will be isolated and probably end up in a dumpster after being raped. Gosh I wonder why they turn me down?
/r/seduction31/03/18 01:53 PM
3

Shy girls won't give off IOI's. They may even give fuck off type signals unintentionally.
/r/seduction31/03/18 01:32 PM
1

I remember an old Denny Terrio learn how to dance disco instructional they used to sell, but my sister threw mine away years ago and I haven't been able to find one since.
/r/seduction31/03/18 01:16 PM
0

Bring food and alcohol, and don't be in a hurry to get laid. Remember its a good investment in going slow, because once you establish a good relationship you both will be doing it like rabbits later. For now just have fun. Its the comfort building stage. Don't be a creeper trying to get the goods.
/r/seduction31/03/18 07:02 AM
2

Exposure therapy.
/r/seduction31/03/18 06:47 AM
1

ONS's are unfulfilling, which is why some people do it often, they keep lookign for fulfillment and don't get it so they repeat the same mistake.
/r/seduction31/03/18 06:42 AM
1

Casual sex is much easier if you're good looking.
/r/seduction31/03/18 06:41 AM
2

A kiss isn't a close. Its supposed to be the start of something greater, don't obsess over trying to get the K or even the F. You're not achieving any sort of ladder step with a girl. If you're awkward and unsure of yourself around her, there's your problem. A girl wants to feel comfortable around you. Ever be around another person who is nervous? You wanna leave as soon as possible. The theory of relocation somewhere else or isolation is silly. You should be able to establish a comfortable rapp…
/r/seduction31/03/18 06:39 AM
2

Profiles with other chicks in them don't create social proof. It just annoys chicks that all your profile photos are you in bars. They don't care about how drunk you got with bar sluts, they want to know about you.
/r/seduction31/03/18 06:35 AM
3

Being in love is not the same as loving someone. You're just infatuated.
/r/seduction31/03/18 06:33 AM
1

Did she give you HSV2 or did you get it recently because of your other escapades? its important to her which is probably why she ghosted you.
/r/seduction31/03/18 06:33 AM
3

Open relationships are bad things, you don't want to be anywhere near one.
/r/seduction31/03/18 06:31 AM
2

Go to the doctor and get your health in order. Even something like blood pressure can have disastrous effects on your well-being and health.
/r/seduction31/03/18 06:30 AM
12

You moved too fast. Just because a girl invites you over to her place it doesn't mean you have automatic access to her vagina. You are in the comfort building phase and if you jump the gun you will never be trusted again.
/r/seduction31/03/18 06:28 AM
6

Tell her that you want to mow her lawn, and mow with no shirt on while she looks at you from her bedroom window. If she starts showing up in a negligee, you're in.
/r/seduction31/03/18 06:21 AM
1

Just hang out with her, get to know her friends too. If you're social she will latch onto you like an alabama tick.
/r/seduction31/03/18 05:39 AM
0

"I was watching you sleep" (this makes her think you were not only in her house but standing over her bed)
/r/seduction30/03/18 05:41 AM
1

Nothing wrong with seeing a woman as a sex object. You must need to emphasize the romantic and closeness aspects rather than obessing about doing it in the butt with her.
/r/seduction30/03/18 03:33 AM
1

Just say "lets get together". No need to ask her out she has already answered yes.
/r/seduction30/03/18 03:32 AM
1

Well you are in a distressed state of mind because of an ill relative. Its hard to be a PUA when you're in a cancer ward
/r/seduction29/03/18 11:54 PM
1

mostly when not sober There's your problem. Do you honestly think they can't smell your breath?
/r/seduction29/03/18 11:52 PM
2

A friendly vibe is what alpha males give off all the time. They're not only friendly they'are approchable and they of course give off lots of masculinity.
/r/seduction29/03/18 11:51 PM
1

Never listen to what a woman says, they're liars
/r/seduction29/03/18 11:37 PM
3

She doesn't like you (Star Wars reference)
/r/seduction29/03/18 11:36 PM
2

You might want to change your approach method. I have about a 25% success rate and I'm hardly even trying.
/r/seduction29/03/18 08:19 AM
5

Well I'm just saying threesome sex can get a bit sloppy so you should be careful. Say one gives you a handjob and she gets some man-stuff on her hand then then starts rubbing her pussy, well 9 months later you have an unexpected surprise.
/r/seduction29/03/18 08:18 AM
2

Picnic, use mom and dad's food in the fridge.
/r/seduction29/03/18 08:16 AM
0

Grow up and don't be afraid to get into a relationship.
/r/seduction29/03/18 08:07 AM
1

In an office situation a standard ritual is asking a person to lunch.
/r/seduction29/03/18 06:32 AM
3

At 26 people stop pointing and laughing at you calling you metalmouth because they're adults, just get them
/r/seduction29/03/18 06:31 AM
2

Birth control, make sure they're both on it.
/r/seduction29/03/18 06:30 AM
3

Pray its a girl
/r/seduction29/03/18 06:28 AM
2

I get laid every weekend but I have a steady GF. Before a steady I got laid maybe once every 3 months.
/r/seduction29/03/18 06:19 AM
6

You should try to be less of a fratboy and more of a lone wolf. Try to hang less with your buddies and be more into hunting for women. You might just try asking your frat buddies, they might have connections to a sorority with eligible chicks. Its like blind dating but hey you can't be picky at this point.
/r/seduction29/03/18 04:12 AM
3

What you say and what you do are different things. When are you talking, what is your body language? Are you relaxed, facing her, making good eye contact, smiling, not putting your beer in front of you and using hand gestures to emphasize points? Remember conversation is 10%, body language is 90%. You are overly focused on the talk but you should work more on the walk.
/r/seduction29/03/18 04:08 AM
2

Just walk up and introduce yourself and say "You're new here aren't you?" and he will go on about how he's an intern and such. Then invite him to the hospital cafe'.
/r/seduction28/03/18 01:16 AM
1

Eye contact dude, eye contact. No need to talk, no need to say anything. Eyes can work from across the room.
/r/seduction28/03/18 01:13 AM
6

They work on drunken club sluts but then again anything works with drunken club sluts.
/r/seduction27/03/18 11:30 PM
1

Why are you texting so much? You're rapidly heading to the friend zone that way.
/r/seduction27/03/18 06:08 AM
1

Openers always sound cheesy because they are. Generally you should avoid openers.
/r/seduction27/03/18 03:34 AM
5

It will be difficult. A girl in the Navy will have plenty of penises to choose from while on deployment.
/r/seduction26/03/18 11:24 PM
-4

She signaled to you to back off and you didn't, so she felt pressured and now regrets it so she doesn't want to get into that situation again.
/r/seduction25/03/18 09:20 PM
1

Just walk up to her and say "Hey what's going on, you know you should sit with me at my table". Boom you're in.
/r/seduction25/03/18 08:59 PM
4

You're supposed to respond with a joke. "Blue is part of my religion". Or "What, you don't wear blue?!? Awkward!"
/r/seduction25/03/18 08:45 PM
1

If you don't talk to her, 20 years from now you will still have it stuck in your mind, "I should have talked to her, even that guy on reddit said so and I didn't do it, why didn't I do it?" Then 50 years later on your deathbed you will be wondering "I should have talked to her, why didn't I?"
/r/seduction25/03/18 07:18 PM
1

Giggles = likes you.
/r/seduction25/03/18 06:44 PM
1

They don't want to have sex with you a few hours after they meet you.
/r/seduction25/03/18 06:40 PM
2

Get out of your self-pity shell, think of the world as a place to explore, not hide from.
/r/seduction25/03/18 06:39 PM
2

Sure why not, just message with confidence. Don't do that "message me when you're free" stuff, thats beta boy passive. You barely know her, forget about escalating, get to know her first.
/r/seduction25/03/18 06:36 PM
1

There is no standard, some girls date within a close age range, others seek out older men, some seek out really old men. You have no idea how a woman will react until you try. Just be good looking. Even a 25 year old guy in sandals, wrinkled cargo pants and a torn up baseball cap won't do well with a woman. She will wonder about how clean his underwear is.
/r/seduction25/03/18 06:35 PM
1

Shy girls can be difficult, as you have to do everything. Don't be afraid to contact her she's waiting to hear from you. After awhile she will have a modicum of confidence and may surprise you with a few bold moves herself.
/r/seduction25/03/18 06:32 PM
1

She's busy and doesn't have time for you, she doesn't consider you dating material.
/r/seduction25/03/18 06:31 PM
3

Just grab her, hold her tight, say "babe, I care about you" and plant a deep romatic kiss right on her lips.
/r/seduction25/03/18 06:24 PM
1

Its easy to misread signals. You can learn more from law enforcement how they analyze body language. One thing though, with extremely shy people they give off "wrong" body signals so its easy to misinterpret how they really are feeling.
/r/seduction25/03/18 06:08 PM
2

I think there's something wrong with you not her.
/r/seduction25/03/18 07:29 AM
11

It should actually be easier. Women tend to be far more eligible in their 30's and 40's
/r/seduction24/03/18 10:24 PM
2

Be good looking, don't be ugly.
/r/seduction24/03/18 10:18 PM
4

You don't actually seduce women. You just learn how to not be a retard when interacting with them.
/r/seduction24/03/18 08:47 PM
4

Traditional values
/r/seduction24/03/18 08:41 PM
4

Start with eye contact first, a smile, see what her response is. If she looks back at you more than 3 times, then go ahead and approach she's ready.
/r/seduction24/03/18 06:43 PM
3

Focus on her, not yourself.
/r/seduction24/03/18 06:42 PM
2

Waste of money, just like "professional development classes" which I've taken many in my years of office jobs.
/r/seduction24/03/18 06:41 PM
2

You get into the groove with her, and put your hands gently on her waist or shoulders, but not with a death grip or anything. then you put your chin on her shoulder and see if she turns to kiss you.
/r/seduction24/03/18 06:40 PM
3

Guys brag a lot about things they never did too. Kind of like how your highschool friends told you how many times they got laid when in reality they were virgins.
/r/seduction24/03/18 06:39 PM
3

Best thing to do is a creative opener like "oh wow that cereal brings back my childhood" (pointing to a box she is holding) or say "Oh I love that stuff, takes me back..." Then you discuss groceries for awhile, don't segue' immediately into PUA talk like "so do you shop here a lot?". The first few minutes of convo are to break down the stranger barrier between you and her and then when it withers and groceries are no longer than topic if she's interested she will maybe do a hair flip and start a…
/r/seduction24/03/18 06:38 PM
0

I was joking. You don't need to escalate she has made it perfectly clear what she wants. I can't figure out why you haven't done it yet.
/r/seduction24/03/18 10:36 AM
1

Look in coffee shops for girls reading romance novels. They read those because they're not getting any romance in real life.
/r/seduction24/03/18 10:28 AM
0

I dunno, the signs are a bit unsure, you might think about it a bit before you act.
/r/seduction24/03/18 10:27 AM
3

its a smiley
/r/seduction24/03/18 09:55 AM
11

Same reason why you can befriend a total male stranger at a bar within minutes. You're relaxed and don't suffer from the pressure of expectations.
/r/seduction24/03/18 06:28 AM
1

Give it a shot. Make sure the movie is good in case she doesn't pan out.
/r/seduction24/03/18 06:26 AM
2

You texted it? hmm
/r/seduction23/03/18 06:22 PM
2

She wants you to chase her.
/r/seduction23/03/18 04:46 PM
1

Booty call
/r/seduction23/03/18 04:42 PM
2

Romance, romance romance. Yes i know, romantic shit, wasting time you got other stuff to do. But women see men and dating as part of a greater fantasy in their heads. They do like sex but only within the scope of a guy that totally intrigues her and makes her feel great just thinking about him. If you're a stuff the muff and bail kind of guy you won't make much progress with her.
/r/seduction23/03/18 02:29 PM
-6

Tell her you remind her of a favorite porn star of yours. It initially is a bit insulting but more of a backhanded compliment, then it makes her curious as to who. You then respond with a rather pretty pornstar and show her what she looks like on your phone. So you negged her and complimented her in the same line and now she knows outright that you see her as a full blown sex object and it makes her horny. What you do next is your affair.
/r/seduction23/03/18 02:26 PM
3

What if he's like really cute?
/r/seduction23/03/18 02:05 PM
1

The idea is to make it obvious you are using a strategy to talk to her, ya know.
/r/seduction23/03/18 02:04 PM
4

Nothing wrong with telling a woman she's pretty, because they obsess over wanting to feel pretty nearly every day of their lives. The trick is to say it properly and not make it sound cringey or creepy. Oh and make sure you're good looking.
/r/seduction23/03/18 01:30 PM
1

Give her really good sex. She will never stray.
/r/seduction23/03/18 06:17 AM
3

I usually say something like "Ya know I have no idea what margarine to pick". Seriously have you seen how many different kinds there are now.
/r/seduction23/03/18 06:16 AM
1

Not really. What you do with her is your own affair.
/r/seduction23/03/18 06:15 AM
1

Just act mature, don't wear cargo shorts or a crooked ballcap and you will be fine.
/r/seduction23/03/18 12:03 AM
1

I think she doesn't like you.
/r/seduction23/03/18 12:00 AM
1

Sexting is just supposed to be the appetizer, its not meant to be the main course.
/r/seduction22/03/18 06:01 AM
1

Just remind yourself there are no secrets in the book, you still must go out there and talk to women.
/r/seduction22/03/18 04:49 AM
1

Touching girls on the shoulder and saying 'excuse me' to get their attention.
/r/seduction22/03/18 04:33 AM
4

I once went to one of those kind of places with a date and nearly got kicked out because my date kept wanting to ride the kids rides and the staff didn't allow it.
/r/seduction22/03/18 03:55 AM
1

Stop listening to your mother.
/r/seduction21/03/18 11:17 PM
2

You WILL succeed.
/r/seduction21/03/18 03:16 AM
1

Have fun! You know her more than most other guys do so treat her as such. Let that romance ship sail where it may.
/r/seduction21/03/18 03:01 AM
10

I dunno its too early to tell if she likes you. (facepalm)
/r/seduction21/03/18 02:50 AM
5

You might want to analyze what you're doing and stop doing that.
/r/seduction21/03/18 02:45 AM
14

Women are there to work out. Now if you look like a Greek God all bets are off and the rules don't apply to you, but for the most part women want to be left alone so they can get thin and pretty. Hit on them at the club.
/r/seduction20/03/18 11:50 PM
3

Be good looking, it really helps. If you're ugly be humorous. Here's a freebie for ya. "Quit being so thin, you're making the rest of us all look bad!"
/r/seduction20/03/18 11:43 PM
-7

Trust me, you don't even know you're doing it.
/r/seduction20/03/18 08:06 AM
5

Pay your room mate $20 to get lost for about 4 hours.
/r/seduction20/03/18 07:24 AM
-6

No weed either pothead. Drugs destroy your game. Even caffeine, nobody likes to talk to somebody hyper with nervous tics
/r/seduction20/03/18 07:21 AM
15

I always give a girl "The girlfriend experience" because even girls that just want sex want sex+romance.
/r/seduction20/03/18 07:21 AM
2

The only way to learn about women is be with women. Anime simulators are written by horny japanese men so they won't work.
/r/seduction20/03/18 05:55 AM
3

Making out with a bar slut does not mean you made an actual connection with her. She snogged with you, you rubbed her butt, then she drunkenly walked off with her girlfriends and forgot you. The 3rd time you simply didn't have a love connection. She opted for what women do, passively block and hope you go away (they hate saying no to a guy's face for the most part). Its an evaluation process, and you just got stuck with a few picky girls. I doubt its some sort of statistical trend. You might ask…
/r/seduction20/03/18 05:42 AM
2

Why do you want this slut? eyuh.
/r/seduction20/03/18 05:27 AM
2

You don't. A girl that is happily with you will just tell other guys to get lost.
/r/seduction20/03/18 05:26 AM
3

Then I ask the girl whenever she is free, Why are you asking? Just tell her you want to see her, don't ask permission. If she likes you she will engage her mental calendar and set up a time and date.
/r/seduction20/03/18 05:24 AM
5

You flaked first. You showed her that your own schedule was more important than meeting her. You admitted that you could have made it, but ya didn't. The other option was she simply wasn't all that interested, so why worry.
/r/seduction20/03/18 05:23 AM
2

A guy that talks to all women without pre-judging them.
/r/seduction20/03/18 05:20 AM
1

Masculine colors are light or medium grey, brown. Neutral colors are light mustard yellow, light green. Don't ever paint your walls light blue, orange, pink or purple (duh). You can make things dramatic with one wall a striking color such as red or dark grey making sure you have at least one piece of furniture or accent with a matching color so it makes sense. I would stick with matching the ceiling and wall colors, you're not a teenager anymore. To make a seductive bedroom, ensure its organized…
/r/seduction20/03/18 05:19 AM
3

Eat some chocolate or have some sushi beforehand. Chocolate has feel-good chemicals and sushi just tastes good, fills your stomach without giving you indigestion (its lowfat and no cheese) and keeps your mind alert. Never go out while physically hungry, your stomach distracts your mind, and bar food is just gross and will give you bad breath.
/r/seduction20/03/18 05:12 AM
1

Probably let both know you're sleeping around so they can get tested. These days you can't be too careful.
/r/seduction20/03/18 05:09 AM
1

35mm digital camera, good clothing, background is very important (nature or a rustic scene in the back or something with good light but not the sun in your face. Or you can borrow methods of high fashion photography and emulate that.
/r/seduction20/03/18 05:09 AM
1

Female friends are pretty much useless unless you are good looking, because then you can turn them into sex partners during lean years.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 04:45 AM
2

Unfortunately what you learn in your teen years prepares you, or doesn't prepare you for adult dating life.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 04:44 AM
5

I knew a slut, she hooked up with a druggie boyfriend then one day realized her life of shame and then turned into a Jack Chick type religious nut, handing out comic tracts to people warning them of hedonistic lifestyles.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 04:42 AM
1

You start out as her friend, but you show to her that you are a masculine, smart, sensitive guy with old world values. Then they suddenly "notice" you . You make sure you never engage in friendzone activities with them such as shopping, buying their tampons or actually listening to their problems with other boys.
/r/seduction20/03/18 04:32 AM
3

Not positive she's interested in you, can't be too sure ya know.
/r/seduction19/03/18 07:49 AM
2

Hell no, keep the intensity up you already have her. I've been with a girl 3 years and she still has the hots for me because she knows I'm always ready for her and I keep sex interesting and intense.
/r/seduction19/03/18 07:25 AM
3

Well then just walk up to her and say hi.
/r/seduction19/03/18 07:21 AM
1

I'm so proud of you!
/r/seduction19/03/18 06:10 AM
4

Better than all the gay stuff going on at frats.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 06:06 AM
1

If you see her in the hall, follow her but don't be too obvious about it. You're just doing some tactical information gathering to find out its location. Then you have to plan on how to just happen to be "passing by" as she's there.
/r/seduction19/03/18 05:59 AM
1

Walk by her locker as she gets her books and then chat her up. Simple as that.
/r/seduction19/03/18 05:57 AM
1

I would have just said "whats up?" Inviting a girl to talk, they love talking.
/r/seduction19/03/18 05:33 AM
0

Tell her to meet you behind the school after class.
/r/seduction19/03/18 05:31 AM
4

Just dress and act more mature. No sideways baseball caps, no "know what I'm sayin'", no converse all-stars with jeans and leave your skateboard at home.
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:48 AM
1

You just blurt out "triple kiss!" and see if they want to participate, preferably they are kinda drunk.
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:22 AM
1

Well if you want to be a girlfriend stealer then its okay, she's not married ya know.
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:21 AM
1

You went on a date with her, so act like you already know her, be friendly, etc. What is it like after you met a new male friend, you are instantly friendly with him right? Same deal with a chick.
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:20 AM
2

I just tell her she can date as many guys as she wants, but after she has had me she won't want another guy.
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:19 AM
1

A triple kiss is exactly what it sounds like, all three of you kiss each other at the same time. Sort of a triangular kiss.
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:18 AM
4

High school is dating paradise, just walk up to her locker while she's there and say hello. Everybody wants to date in highschool.
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:17 AM
2

Being "weed partners" almost guarantees friend zone. Try talking to girls with your head on straight.
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:16 AM
0

Probably stay away from shrooms, weed or anything else that is a crutch for socialization. Learn to have your head on straight when you're talking to a girl.
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:15 AM
1

Sit next to her (give the guy $20 to move to another chair) and chat her up, thats it. Don't waste time being her friend, pass her a note
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:11 AM
1

Ever hear of threesome kisses? You should have participated.
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:08 AM
1

One thing about one night stands, if you like her you had better let her know then and there, otherwise....leave the money on the table
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:02 AM
22

Casanova did the riskiest women, the most difficult to catch women. 100 is a pretty good score, because even back then as now you can bag 100 women by hitting up on the bar sluts.
/r/seduction18/03/18 11:49 PM
2

Players don't generally get friendzoned. You may have some sort of awkwardness in your approach that turns women off to you.
/r/seduction18/03/18 11:46 PM
2

Very odd you would ask and very odd she would give you one. Probably just the local radio station "loser line" where they play the saved messages.
/r/seduction18/03/18 11:42 PM
0

No, never do that. You should have already arranged that, don't send a "reminder" text.
/r/seduction18/03/18 11:35 PM
2

Dress well, be nice, pay for the coffee (tell her she can get the check next time...) and don't forget eye contact. Also don't be TOO interested in the project you're working together on. Suggest a break after awhile and maybe go for a walk for a bit.
/r/seduction18/03/18 09:51 PM
2

Just tell her she's a Poopy-Head
/r/seduction18/03/18 09:41 PM
2

Call her definitely, and don't ask her out tell her simply that you WANT to see her again. Don't be indecisive.
/r/seduction18/03/18 09:33 PM
3

Here's a scenario, you're in a lunch line and for whatever reason some girl behind you asks you if some food item is any good. You need to always be ready to respond positively. Instead of "yeah its okay", you should be ready to say "Oh yeah that stuff is good, but whats really better is the fried chicken..." and then segue' into more conversation to see if she's interested in talking. If she isn't she will be silent and just agree, if she wanted to talk to you her eyes will light up and she wil…
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:47 AM
1

If she doesn't have time, she doesn't have time for you.
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:13 AM
1

Define tiny.
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:10 AM
6

You don't need to join a fraternity to meet chicks. You just have to talk to girls. I once had a sorority girl chasing me around in college, I didn't really like her but she didn't seem to mind that I wasn't wearing a white baseball cap. The trick is to force yourself to stay in the mentality 24/7 of wanting to communicate with people. Sometimes the most unexpected interaction can create friendships and/or romantic relationships...so be ready for them. They always happen at times when you are le…
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:09 AM
6

Looks are a lot! Example. I went to the bank with my scraggly clothes and long hair. The teller did her business and didn't even say much other than thank you and such. A week later I had a haircut, a nice dark grey shirt and a blazer and dress belt. The EXACT SAME TELLER smiled like crazy and greeted me in a rather unusually friendly manner. So at the very least looks get you in the door, so quit wearing cargo pants and sandals with socks and put on some nicer clothing.
/r/seduction15/03/18 11:26 PM
2

I'm about halfway there, but it doesn't really make a person any better with chicks.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:09 AM
17

You don't ask if a woman is single, you talk to her and SHE decides if she's single...
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:06 AM
1

Sure why not. If it doesn't work out with your date you have a 2nd option.
/r/seduction14/03/18 11:43 PM
0

Dress more "white"?
/r/seduction14/03/18 11:42 PM
2

Its the BBC theory girls want to find out.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 04:15 AM
2

12 pack of beer 12 pack of water filters 12 pack of lithium batteries 12 pack of toilet paper Truly a divine sign
/r/seduction13/03/18 11:29 PM
5

You don't, you hang out with her friends too, which impresses her as to your sociability. The moment you diss her friends you are insulting her.
/r/seduction13/03/18 07:12 AM
2

Stop jerking off a day before a date. Another thing is don't do drugs of any kind or alcohol. Make sure you eat a good meal for energy not something fatty like pizza.
/r/seduction13/03/18 05:04 AM
3

You got played by a THOT
/r/seduction13/03/18 05:02 AM
2

20-23 isn't that much older.
/r/seduction13/03/18 05:00 AM
1

Meet up in a coffee shop, every country expect north korea has them.
/r/seduction13/03/18 04:57 AM
1

The chance that human beings can be pigeonholed into a possible 12 personality types based on the movements of the planets seems a bit silly don't you think?
/r/seduction13/03/18 04:55 AM
3

Its a nervous habit for many women, don't take it for anything else.
/r/seduction13/03/18 04:46 AM
-3

Stay away from weed, it is like alcohol it makes you think you're doing well in pickup but actually it just transmits to women that you have an addiction problem.
/r/seduction13/03/18 04:44 AM
1

https://youtu.be/CyQp6766l00 I know it sounds terrible but act like a bimbo. All men love bimbos even if we say we don't. Something about the eternal optimism of those girls combined with the sheer lack of boundaries.
/r/seduction13/03/18 04:41 AM
2

Only in porn movies.
/r/seduction13/03/18 04:38 AM
6

A lot of women need time to make up their minds.
/r/seduction13/03/18 12:23 AM
6

Crazies are good in the sack though, but my past experiences with them have been mercifully short in terms of relationships. 3 months maximum before they freak out and break up with me.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 11:38 PM
20

Its called "getting to know a person better" before having sex with them. Its hard to do that when you're drunk and are schtupping somebody 2 hours after you meet them. You might reconsider that strategy.
/r/seduction12/03/18 08:35 AM
2

You don't even need PUA in highschool, just talk to girls they ALL want boyfriends.
/r/seduction12/03/18 08:24 AM
0

Sunken cheeks.
/r/seduction12/03/18 06:18 AM
1

Don't worry about it. You never know girls are not logical. Later she may decide she likes you or at least wants to be friends.
/r/seduction12/03/18 01:41 AM
4

I just want a girl that I can love. I'm dating a girl now that I don't love, she's great, nothing to complain about but she's not what I want. I could care less what others think of a girl I date, I'm not in it for social status. I'm thinking of the future.
/r/seduction12/03/18 01:38 AM
3

Girls always want to change a guy they date.
/r/seduction12/03/18 01:31 AM
3

You came on to her too quickly, it may be okay in a club when both of you had a few, but in an art museum its a bit much.
/r/seduction12/03/18 01:00 AM
4

You have to act mature for your age, and older women aren't into the traditional dating rituals of youth. They're more direct and no-nonsense. Older women are also more into raw masculinity so play it up, go unshaven and gruff. Many of them are on female hormones for menopause and are horny as hell. The best part of course is they can't get pregnant so you can nut inside them as much as you want.
/r/seduction11/03/18 07:59 PM
1

If there's a good story behind losing your legs don't be afraid to tell it.
/r/seduction11/03/18 07:57 PM
1

1) Don't be clingy but also don't be aloof. Text her immediately back when she texts, its a girl thing they like that. 2) Give her small presents for no real reason. 3) When introducing her say "This is my girlfriend". 4) Be a man, old style chivalry is not dead. 5) Give her mind blowing sex when the time comes. She will never stray.
/r/seduction11/03/18 07:55 PM
1

You can't get out of the friend zone. Not even Chad can do it. Think of a black hole and then think about the friend zone. Its actually possible to escape from a black hole though.
/r/seduction11/03/18 07:07 PM
1

So do you ski?
/r/seduction11/03/18 07:39 AM
10

I dated a virgin girl who thought she was a lesbian. She had masturbated with her female room mate in college. She had gay male friends and a single female friend. I ended up fucking her and she realized how much she liked the dick. She dumped me and got married later, twice with dudes. I guess I got one back to our team.
/r/seduction11/03/18 03:49 AM
2

Older women in their 50's are generally not attracted to youngsters especially if they dress like they're young.
/r/seduction11/03/18 03:36 AM
2

Say "you ever been to that pizza place on 9th street by the campus"? I'm gonna check it out, you should come with me. See the invite isn't a question its a statement/challenge. Bolder than a meek "please come with meeee"
/r/seduction11/03/18 03:34 AM
2

It can be a relationship killer. I once made a similar mistake I asked a girl "do you love me?" she made a wierd face and wow it was over pretty darn quick. She was just enjoying sex with me since I had devirginized her and obviously relationships were not on her mind. Sometimes though you just have to take the risk. I once told a girl I loved her and she said she loved me too. We dated for 2 years it was wild and yes we were very close.
/r/seduction11/03/18 03:32 AM
1

You're too much in a hurry, horndog. I never rush a girl into sex, I just keep her nice and hot until she's ready, it can take time. When you're good at foreplay the girl will get pretty bold. I once made out with a girl for an hour or so and then we went to get something to eat. When we got back and I was laying on the bed, she crawled towards me with a condom in her mouth. Okay thats pretty forward of her...no need to escalate now! Work on your foreplay skills learn to be creative and have res…
/r/seduction11/03/18 03:29 AM
2

There is probably some aspect of your personality or mannerisms that are off-putting. You might just ask them outright since they obviously don't want to date you....ask why they rejected you. Could be something thats fixable.
/r/seduction11/03/18 03:27 AM
-7

Call her up, texts are not considered proper intimate communication with a woman
/r/seduction11/03/18 03:25 AM
-2

PUA is a scam and scammers go to war with each other over the limited amount of suckers to steal from.
/r/seduction10/03/18 09:16 PM
1

Girls are pretty crazy, and the sane ones get married quickly.
/r/seduction10/03/18 08:48 PM
-1

Try christian dating, people who are serious about stuff other than mindless unsatisfying sex.
/r/seduction10/03/18 08:48 PM
1

Get fit NOW. When you get older it will be much harder to get rid of acquired manboobs.
/r/seduction09/03/18 11:50 PM
5

Don't be the happy, funny harmless joker guy. A few jokes is fine but it gets irritating quickly.
/r/seduction09/03/18 11:42 PM
1

Easy: Your first thought is what you act on. You see a hot girl eyeballing you, the first thing that pops into your head is what you should do (aka, you see her you think "wow she's cute I should go right up and talk to her"). Forget about the monkey on your back telling you to wait or hesitate.
/r/seduction09/03/18 11:41 PM
2

Mystery is what a womans sees in a guy its not necessarily what you give off. A lone wolf is comfortable being alone, a loner looks around helplessly or is uncomfortable in his own skin.
/r/seduction09/03/18 11:40 PM
14

Nice guys are liars, they pretend to be a girl's friend to try and weasel their way into bed with a woman. A bad boy is pretty much upfront with what he wants, it may initially offend her or put her off but she's attracted to his forwardness and masculinity.
/r/seduction09/03/18 11:38 PM
1

You might get some glasses then. I'm pretty blind that happens to me sometimes. A cute girl from afar and then you see her craggly face up close.
/r/seduction09/03/18 11:21 PM
6

No I like women, they're even better in person.
/r/seduction09/03/18 11:14 PM
2

Well at least it was educational for you.
/r/seduction09/03/18 11:13 PM
1

Always ask her out the next day.
/r/seduction09/03/18 11:12 PM
1

She just needed you as an ego boost. Some girls have terrible self esteem and need a guy's attention to feel better about themselves.
/r/seduction09/03/18 11:11 PM
9

Of course its a numbers game, more approaches mean more chances. You can't win if you don't play.
/r/seduction09/03/18 11:10 PM
0

Social value is a PUA idea and its really idiotic.
/r/seduction09/03/18 01:04 PM
2

You make out in the storm shelter
/r/seduction09/03/18 06:16 AM
2

Peek up at her while reading a book and check out her reaction.
/r/seduction09/03/18 04:34 AM
1

Well thats subtle. Like the chick that told me about her panties, where else would that kind of conversation go? You should have used the unknown comic joke: "You're lucky, I just happen to have some whips and chains in my glove compartment..."
/r/seduction08/03/18 06:22 AM
3

Nope, not at all. Youth, looks and how you present yourself in life are important as you get older. Having a full head of hair in your 40's or 50's is a valued commodity among women. Women don't want status or money, yeah its nice to have but its not a substitute for a real man who knows how to pleasure a woman and make her feel beautiful and adored.
/r/seduction08/03/18 06:19 AM
1

Some girls are very outgoing. I once was asked out by some random girl at a pizza parlor because I was in my halloween costume and she thought it was sexy. Another time I was literally wolf-whistled at a chinese restaurant by a bunch of mexican girls. It was pretty rude actually but they were serious. Then there was the stripper that hit on me at the gas pump. Some chicks just don't give a damn about traditional pickup roles.
/r/seduction08/03/18 06:15 AM
2

Sounds like you are the recipient of a rare sadie hawkins
/r/seduction08/03/18 06:04 AM
2

Yes but he has to try much harder to do it. Remember the story of the beauty and the beast. The beast was wealthy, strong, masculine, protective, romantic, intelligent and endearing.
/r/seduction08/03/18 04:35 AM
5

Probably all the hovering. She knew it long before you did. Or perhaps you made the unlucky choice of hitting on the Manager's girlfriend.
/r/seduction08/03/18 04:23 AM
1

Yes looks matter. If you don't have some looks or at least good grooming you're starting a race farther from the line.
/r/seduction08/03/18 04:20 AM
1

Sort of a flowchart
/r/seduction08/03/18 04:00 AM
3

Have a call script with a topic list and an outline.
/r/seduction08/03/18 03:27 AM
41

Just remember you must temper cockiness with maturity. Girls love hot guys, girls love cocky guys, girls love mature guys. Imagine if you had all 3...
/r/seduction08/03/18 02:56 AM
2

Men just have to step it up. You can't go around in cargo shorts, socks and sandals with a muscle tee and a ripped ballcap and expect women to fawn over you in public.
/r/seduction08/03/18 02:11 AM
3

Yeah take her out, show her you're more than just a dick in a box.
/r/seduction07/03/18 06:23 AM
1

Burn!
/r/seduction07/03/18 02:14 AM
1

Tell her that during the Roman Empire a brother and sister well....ya know.
/r/seduction07/03/18 01:53 AM
6

Good looks get you in the door, personality and intelligence gets you laid.
/r/seduction07/03/18 01:40 AM
3

Schweet. Go git her!
/r/seduction07/03/18 01:35 AM
1

Any guy can get laid if he tries hard enough and isn't a total dick to girls. Tyler proves that since he's a short skinny whiny redhead. Anyway why would you want to have sex with 50 girls? Imagine all the presents you have to give them! You'd be broke. Anyway PUA is a moneymaking scheme, it doesn't want to help struggling young men other than free them of their cash.
/r/seduction07/03/18 01:33 AM
2

Women are not logical creatures.
/r/seduction07/03/18 01:28 AM
1

Well if you keep having just sex with her you essentially validate everything she believes about guys just wanting to have sex. Either tell her you want more and you want a commitment...from her, or move on.
/r/seduction07/03/18 01:08 AM
1

No I didn't. You are chasing, following and she's in control. No wonder she doesn't consider you anything other than a convenient stress relaxer. You just don't sound like you're taking charge in this relationship. You have essentially become the woman, not good.
/r/seduction07/03/18 01:03 AM
1

Just talk to them, its pretty straightforward. If a girl likes you she will follow you around like a puppy dog.
/r/seduction07/03/18 01:01 AM
1

Well it comes right down to this. Not every woman you meet you can fall in love with instantly. Lots of LTRs and marriages started with 2 people who were really not that interested in each other but over time they realized they were attracted to them for other reasons. A bit of depth of character might suit you. hence the idea to stop rating women 1-10.
/r/seduction07/03/18 12:57 AM
1

No I was an uber nerd, but I did have some status as a brain so some girls really did like smart guys.
/r/seduction07/03/18 12:55 AM
1

Some girls, not many really. If you look like a football quarterback then they may let you slide on some awkwardness, if not then you're just a goofball to them
/r/seduction07/03/18 12:54 AM
1

No, NEVER say "hi had a good time!". Just friggin be a bit more male about it "Sup girl, whatcha doin?"
/r/seduction07/03/18 12:46 AM
1

Hooking up in a car, not very romantic. You really should not bail on a woman right after sex. It doesn't give her any incentive to hang out with you if she knows you are just there to get the goods and leave.
/r/seduction07/03/18 12:45 AM
1

Nothing wrong with older women. Maybe with such experiences you will become mature and quit rating women 1-10.
/r/seduction07/03/18 12:43 AM
1

You are probably telegraphing to them that you're nervous. It makes you seem weak and less of a man. Remember communication is 10% verbal 90% nonverbal
/r/seduction07/03/18 12:41 AM
1

Just walk up to a PRK girl and say "Yeah...I got food."
/r/seduction07/03/18 12:40 AM
2

There's never a bad way to do it in school, all girls want to meet guys. When I was in HS i would have girls just walk up to me and say "hello [myname]" and walk off. It was a signal for me to chat them up later.
/r/seduction07/03/18 12:39 AM
10

You can have plenty of opportunities for sex later. Just hang out and get to know her.
/r/seduction07/03/18 12:38 AM
1

She pulls out her phone and shows me pictures of different guys boners she said she found on Craigslist. OK thats wierd. Tell her you have a special evening planned, formal dinner, hotel room, wine and whatever. So far you're just following its time to lead.
/r/seduction06/03/18 06:59 AM
1

There are times to talk and there are times to just shut up and do stuff.
/r/seduction06/03/18 06:12 AM
1

After a long time of kissing i suddenly say "so what do you want to do?" Don't do that You know one huge problem guys have on here is the OBSESSION with sex "the F-close" or whatever its called. Thats why a lot of you never get 2nd dates. If you want a girlfriend you really need to be actually interested in something other than her pussy.
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:52 AM
2

She could be genuinely busy. Cut her some slack she may be one of those rare women that aren't glued to their cellphones.
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:46 AM
3

Invite him to get some food after class (check your class sched with his, you know how crazy college class schedules can be).
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:30 AM
1

Its never a bad time to pick up girls in college
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:28 AM
1

https://youtu.be/O9X7EeSUmX8
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:27 AM
3

DEEP in the friendzone. If she's confiding with you about other dudes it means she considers you harmless and not a threat to her sexually.
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:25 AM
19

I think she was just being friendly.
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:24 AM
110

I once had an IOI from a girl, she started unzipping my pants. At that point I decided to make a move.
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:23 AM
1

They just need to read the sidebar first.
/r/seduction06/03/18 02:18 AM
1

Eeek, never do that ever. Don't plead your feelings to a girl you hardly know. Its just creepy and a bit weak. She wanted you to take charge and be a guy.
/r/seduction06/03/18 02:13 AM
1

Social status is a myth. Its really how you handle yourself when it counts (aka when you're talking to a woman).
/r/seduction06/03/18 02:11 AM
1

Bar girls tend to not be interested in exclusivity. Try libraries, grocery stores, parks or the mall.
/r/seduction06/03/18 02:09 AM
1

Thats like basic Mystery Method, and worn out.
/r/seduction06/03/18 02:07 AM
1

You holding hands with her?
/r/seduction06/03/18 01:36 AM
5

Show up in a motorcycle jacket with a bottle of scotch. And quit being so awkward, she wants you to be a man.
/r/seduction05/03/18 03:43 AM
2

You will most likely put him out of a job or get him into trouble.
/r/seduction05/03/18 12:45 AM
4

Sounds like she finally met you and was disappointed. If you want to go ahead with this do NOT wait, call her now. Don't apologize for anything just say you WANT to see her again.
/r/seduction05/03/18 12:38 AM
1

Quit texting! Call her don't be a wuss. Modulate your voice to make sure it doesn't go into upper registers, speak calmly and slowly and with confidence. Set up the date quickly and then tell her you will see her soon.
/r/seduction05/03/18 12:35 AM
1

Lots of porn shoots at construction sites, but of course thats Van Nuys it may be the norm.
/r/seduction05/03/18 12:00 AM
1

I don't recommend libraries, security camera technology has improved greatly since the old days when you could have sex in the old library rack areas. Good public areas are behind places like convenience stores, construction sites, vacant homes not completely built yet, school playgrounds and on the roofs of buildings if you can get access to them.
/r/seduction04/03/18 08:49 PM
1

No don't ask a random stranger to lunch. At least have a bit of a conversation first otherwise its weird. The "tag along" idea is simple because its stating you are having lunch whether she turns you down or not, its more confident than "want to grab lunch?" which means you probably will not have lunch if she turns you down. You are showing that your life will not be hugely impacted if she turns you down. Girls also like the idea of following a guy. Also when she says yes (not if, ha) you say so…
/r/seduction04/03/18 08:43 PM
3

Forget about getting her number or chasing the mythical kiss close. You have to establish a real bonafide connection with her and that takes time.
/r/seduction04/03/18 06:27 PM
1

Girls get touchy feely when they're into you, especially if you're not reciprocating.
/r/seduction04/03/18 06:26 PM
20

Next week just walk right up to her and say "Hey what's up?" like you have known her forever. That will reassure her that her risk of coming up to you last time wasn't in vain.
/r/seduction04/03/18 06:22 PM
43

Yeah its as simple as saying "I'm going to lunch wanna tag along?"
/r/seduction04/03/18 06:18 PM
1

Good way to get it stolen.
/r/seduction04/03/18 06:01 AM
3

Chuck-E-Cheese
/r/seduction04/03/18 06:00 AM
1

Well this is unusual, its usually a girl confiding with a guy about her ex-boyfriend. You have the advantage of the reverse, so you hold all the cards. She could very well be interested in you if she listens to your ex-gf spiel and feels she is in the friend zone with you. I guess its up to you to warm things up slowly, toss in some hints and see what she does. Creating sexual tension here is important, so less talk more action and do more intimate distance than friend distance with her. Instead…
/r/seduction04/03/18 05:58 AM
1

Probably works well for drunk club chicks, but it also assumes you have picked up a lot of interest from her in the first place. Still it can't hurt to learn.
/r/seduction04/03/18 05:03 AM
0

In conversation jokingly refer to yourself in the 3rd person
/r/seduction04/03/18 04:59 AM
1

You're using emojis aren't you?
/r/seduction04/03/18 02:22 AM
-4

Ignore her for awhile, tell her you're busy. Make her work for da cock.
/r/seduction04/03/18 01:46 AM
16

Of course you should show interest! Just show interest in a masculine way. Quit asking questions, quit phrasing everything as wanting permission. Stick it out there, take the risk, lay it on the line and let her know you WANT her, don't say you need her or you are infatuated with her. You WANT her to be YOURS, you don't want to be hers. See the diff?
/r/seduction03/03/18 10:51 AM
1

Call her?
/r/seduction03/03/18 09:29 AM
5

Most guys who post here are from 15-25 years old and utter noobs with women so of course you will see all sorts of rather odd things posted. At least they're trying to learn about the mysteries of the female
/r/seduction03/03/18 06:58 AM
15

Yeah girls tend to not like slobbering stumbling guys who smell like a bowl of gin trying to kiss them.
/r/seduction03/03/18 06:54 AM
-7

My dick is only 8" I wished it was 9" and maybe thicker.
/r/seduction03/03/18 06:53 AM
-5

With my present GF who I have known for years before as a friend. I just never expected to be banging her on the first date, I don't think she did either, but we both just rolled with it.
/r/seduction03/03/18 06:52 AM
2

Courage doesn't come from a beer bottle, BTW
/r/seduction03/03/18 04:37 AM
2

Its easy to be intimidated by somebody who you think is "out of your league" but you should just go forth anyway and see where it goes.
/r/seduction03/03/18 03:34 AM
3

Look I'm an old man, I can tell you that one problem young people have and why they're so unhappy is because society tells them that they aren't supposed to get into relationships and they should just skip around and do meaningless things. A relationship is far more helpful to a well rounded person than just showing off to friends how many women you've dated. Anyway its just an opinion, not a rant I won't take it any further.
/r/seduction03/03/18 03:27 AM
5

Nope. She's old enough to pose in Playboy, join the military and kill babies and even buy a house or legal weed.
/r/seduction03/03/18 03:22 AM
1

What does that mean? You just want anonymous sex from a woman and then move on to the next. So is that how you plan to go through life?
/r/seduction03/03/18 03:20 AM
9

Use the George Clooney method, look, look down, smile then look back without raising your head.
/r/seduction03/03/18 03:17 AM
3

The monkey on your back telling you to sip beer and be quiet is the problem. The whole idea of hanging out is not the beer but the conversation.
/r/seduction03/03/18 03:05 AM
-2

Don't have sex on the 1st date, because if that occurs you won't get a 2nd.
/r/seduction03/03/18 03:04 AM
2

Forming a relationship is less on self worth and more on what you are willing to offer her. Bad relationships tend to be selfish ones, where one or both parties are more interested in getting than giving.
/r/seduction03/03/18 03:03 AM
2

What's wrong with being in a relationship?
/r/seduction03/03/18 03:02 AM
0

Don't drink. You may think you're smooth when drunk but you're just a smelly slobbering idiot and a woman won't tell you that outright.
/r/seduction03/03/18 02:57 AM
1

Cringey response dude, she was being playful and you didn't play along.
/r/seduction03/03/18 02:54 AM
2

Start with self-improvement its a good baseline and groundwork for everything else
/r/seduction03/03/18 02:36 AM
3

If there are fat chicks in the club you do have a chance.
/r/seduction03/03/18 12:58 AM
1

Its college, everybody wants to get laid
/r/seduction02/03/18 08:29 PM
1

You should have just asked to netflix and chill again. If she made out with you once, she would be up for another 'session'. A man should take charge and quit meekly asking women what we are permitted to do with them or to them. Instead of quietly saying "howdy" you should have just grabbed her and hugged her and said "hey babe" and planted a deep kiss right on her lips, then just let her go and continue on what you're doing.
/r/seduction02/03/18 08:04 PM
1

I think she was being pretty straightforward from the beginning, you just didn't get the message or didn't want to accept it. "I'm not looking for a boyfriend" can't be any more clear. Its happened to me before, my common sense gland was overruled by my horny gland with predictable outcomes.
/r/seduction02/03/18 10:32 AM
1

Escalation is fine, but there's a point where you quickly should either relocate to something more private or scale it back and hang out with her and build a connection. You can always do the horizontal shuffle later.
/r/seduction02/03/18 10:29 AM
2

Its mostly nonverbal. The trick is to take advantages of silence/pauses in conversation. Lets say if a conversation topic ends, and there's a pause....don't get nervous. Just look straight at her and smile, she will most likely ask what you are doing, and just confidently say "looking at your eyes or enjoying the view; or something edgy but not sexual". Or while talking seriously to her, do something funny like surreptitiously take a piece of ice from your glass and put it on her hand stealthily…
/r/seduction02/03/18 08:27 AM
1

Think of james bond, (yes he's a fake movie character but he's based on a male ideal) He is self assured because he spent time dressing up, he has the poise, posture and gestures down pat. He is now free to achieve his goals, whether to steal russian secrets or bed a woman through guile and wit. He is not focusing on himself, he is focusing on HER, and that's important. Get out of your head, the conversation should be with her not with yourself thinking up what to say next. Oh and don't be afrai…
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:55 AM
3

Compliment her on a piece of jewelry or clothing she wears (if its notable). Don't compliment her on some plain brown gloves or something. Ask her about the bus route and tell her about an interesting experience you had on the bus. An opener is just that....to open a conversation and to get her in the right frame of mind, and to get her looking at you so mentally she's evaluating you for sex later.
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:45 AM
4

Think of her like a person, not body parts and think of yourself as james bond and you have a mission.
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:43 AM
6

Well thats creepy
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:13 AM
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Okay, what I mean is you tell her that you have a surprise, a nice sit down dinner as long as she dresses up (you wear good clothing too). You get a hotel room and bring wine and glasses, then you go to the hotel room, put on some music, drink wine and when get into some romancing. Quit worrying about the mechanics of sex, you can pick up tips by downloading a porn movie and just taking mental notes, done. Outright asking for sex from an experienced woman makes you about 2 feet tall in her eyes.
/r/seduction02/03/18 06:23 AM
0

You never ask for sex, you offer it.
/r/seduction02/03/18 06:11 AM
1

Relax peeps, girls are used to dorky guys hitting on them all the time. They still like the attention though. What really bothers them is the millennial trend of going homo and ignoring them. Vice is a trash publication don't believe those idiots.
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:38 AM
3

Its probably against company policy, but if you just chat her up a lot and give her more slightly more attention than a usual customer she might pick up on it and reciprocate, otherwise she will just be courteous and thank you when she's gotten her item(s). I know a lot of people say its a bad idea but you can always offer her a store business card (have some with your name on it "Joe Blow - Sales rep". and scribble your cell on the back and tell her "if there's anything you need (cough..cock..c…
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:35 AM
2

5'6" is short but its not super duper short. Just make sure to not bulk up with either fat or muscle (makes you look even shorter). And dress better than your male competition, especially your shoes.
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:32 AM
38

Shyness is the biggest problem here but its understandable, its why most guys are here in the first place asking questions
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:31 AM
2

No that is a terrible idea. Simply order a drink from her and compliment her on her waitressing skills and tell her something like "You know the only reason I come here is because of the way you mix my drinks" playfully. Confidence son.
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:29 AM
1

Its easy really, NEVER sleep with her on the first date, and don't do anything sexual with a girl until the 5th date. The party girls will get bored with you and bail, and the traditional girls will hang around.
/r/seduction01/03/18 10:30 PM
0

Thats how some girls transition seamlessly from relationship to relationship. Sure they're taken but they still give you a chance and chat you up....just in case they change their mind.
/r/seduction01/03/18 10:27 PM
0

Thats not a good thing.
/r/seduction01/03/18 10:26 PM
1

text to a guy "I'm so drunk!"
/r/seduction01/03/18 10:21 PM
1

Don't be boring. A girl sees in a guy a potential mate who excites them, intrigues them, and makes them feel good after a hard day at work or school. So be that guy, quit worrying about social proof theory, weasel words, negs, kino escalation and kcloses.
/r/seduction01/03/18 10:19 PM
3

Eventually you have to be yourself though. The trick is to not have a poisonous soul.
/r/seduction01/03/18 09:37 PM
1

Thats still not good, if she liked you a lot, she would have skipped the lyft or invited you to come with her on an excursion.
/r/seduction01/03/18 09:37 PM
1

Did you talk to her, get the number and bail or did you remain and hang out with her. Sounds like you did the former because she barely remembered you. Not good.
/r/seduction01/03/18 09:29 PM
1

You really don't build value, you show you have value, so you can go in cold around a bunch of strangers and show that you are a valuable man worth going after. Its pretty simple, confidence, poise, friendliness, masculinity and self-assured behaviors. Don't be a funny monkey cracking jokes or a quiet creeper.
/r/seduction01/03/18 09:28 PM
4

Pee is stored in the balls
/r/seduction01/03/18 09:26 PM
6

https://www.ageofconsent.net/states
/r/seduction01/03/18 09:25 PM
2

When you recall things most people tend to look up and left. If you are a storyteller liar and making up stuff you tend to look down. Concentrate less on storytelling and more in actual interaction with her. Its okay for eyes to dart, just don't focus on another girls butt walking by when talking.
/r/seduction01/03/18 01:32 AM
1

I spy with my little eye... Slug Bug
/r/seduction01/03/18 01:03 AM
1

Maybe she is disappointed in the sex. She may want super-freaky in bed.
/r/seduction01/03/18 12:53 AM
2

Next time things get sexual, ramp it up. If you are in the friend zone she will put the brakes on you immediately after you 'cross the line' from tease to actual action.
/r/seduction28/02/18 06:52 AM
1

Hovering is a big problem. Girls can see you out of the corner of their eye and if you do beta orbits around them they will classify you as a loser.
/r/seduction28/02/18 03:52 AM
2

Pretend to be new and ask her if the muffins are good here
/r/seduction28/02/18 03:44 AM
0

Whats wrong with fatties? Seriously they still feel pretty good in bed.
/r/seduction28/02/18 02:05 AM
6

5'8" maybe on the moon, he's tiny because he even makes vanessa hudgens look tall and she's a midget.
/r/seduction28/02/18 12:28 AM
5

Every time you see a hot girl with some disheveled drunken dude you realize that women will settle for a lot less than they say they will.
/r/seduction28/02/18 12:28 AM
9

VERY important. It gets your foot in the door. Of course you can still blow it if your personality is as appealing as anchovies.
/r/seduction27/02/18 05:38 AM
6

You might have disappointed her sexually. Reality didn't live up to her fantasy expectations.
/r/seduction27/02/18 04:45 AM
1

Just walk right up over to her and say hi. If she looks intently at you and says hi and smiles, you're in.
/r/seduction27/02/18 04:42 AM
1

I don't use distraction methods. I focus intently on what I'm doing so I control everything in my head. Practice jacking off to porn and control how fast you come, eventually you will be able to modulate your orgasm as you see fit. As for coming too soon, don't apologize! Just fuck her 3 more times that night she will be okay with it.
/r/seduction27/02/18 04:41 AM
8

Upbringing. I was a shy kid, and it was made worse by a distant father and overprotective mother. It left me less than well-rounded and frankly I'm surprised I didn't end up gay. Some guys have more wholesome family structures to rely on, and what you learn early in life prepares you for the future. I knew guys who got laid at 10/11 years old. They simply were exposed to the mystery of women sooner and thus became more comfortable around them. Their financial success in life or lack of it is mor…
/r/seduction27/02/18 02:53 AM
113

She doesn't like you.
/r/seduction27/02/18 02:42 AM
1

A person should date who they want to date, not based on some communist groupthink to satisfy some sort of social agenda.
/r/seduction27/02/18 02:35 AM
1

Its just dating, not virtue signaling
/r/seduction27/02/18 02:17 AM
1

People tend to date their own race, its not racism its just a thing.
/r/seduction27/02/18 01:17 AM
1

Don't give numbers, don't ask for numbers. Build a connection, and then invite. A girl will want to hand out her number when she realizes she wants to see you again. Then make sure you swap numbers, because she will be suspicious if you take her number and don't give yours (aka you are just gonna not call her)
/r/seduction27/02/18 01:16 AM
3

You should have just grabbed her and held her close to you. Nothing needs to be said.
/r/seduction26/02/18 07:09 AM
0

Stay away from weed.
/r/seduction26/02/18 06:14 AM
1

Watch the beginning of the movie "Shame" https://youtu.be/ErOQtiFLhvE
/r/seduction26/02/18 05:58 AM
1

Just drink heavily together.
/r/seduction26/02/18 05:54 AM
12

Its like a college guy cruising the highschool parking lots for chicks.
/r/seduction26/02/18 05:51 AM
1

I'm an awkward loser, I get women. My secret....talk to girls. I give you this pearl of wisdom for only $3000 if you take my 7 day bootcamp.
/r/seduction26/02/18 05:35 AM
2

The funny store was a noodle shop called "slurp".
/r/seduction26/02/18 02:34 AM
3

The trick is don't go into sex talk 30 seconds after saying hi. Yes you actually must be interesting in conversation and don't tell her how big your juicy meatbone is.
/r/seduction26/02/18 02:33 AM
2

Go to the Castro District of San Francisco. https://www.google.com/maps/@37.761941,-122.4351111,3a,60y,322.22h,89.75t/data=!3m6!1e1!3m4!1sIqWR1CqZINrOIe-gcCKrRw!2e0!7i13312!8i6656
/r/seduction26/02/18 02:24 AM
3

Good pearly whites are definitely a thing, and with dental bonding its attainable and worth the considerable cost.
/r/seduction26/02/18 12:49 AM
6

For a guy, those sunken cheeks that indicate a very low bodyfat, and a good haircut that makes the head look square and manly.
/r/seduction26/02/18 12:30 AM
1

Don't drink at all, you need your edge.
/r/seduction26/02/18 12:26 AM
1

Don't be afraid to stand near her, touching shoulders and don't be afraid to hold hands. You can start out with jutting your elbow out and she can hold it. You already know her, treat her like you do, you're not at square one. The importance of sitting close to her and touching shoulders can't be stressed more, because when a woman puts her head on your shoulders its indicative that she wants to be kissed.
/r/seduction25/02/18 10:36 PM
1

Good way is to play a shirtless football catch game with your wingmen on the campus lawn, and then say hi to chicks and chat them up.
/r/seduction25/02/18 09:25 PM
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Perfect, you have a body that allows you to wear slim clothing which is very fashionable. Try wearing more trendier clothing, blazers, fitted pants (NOT SKINNY PANTS, god) and european cut shirts. Most women don't like muscleheads, except for those few that like Jersey Shore types. A lot of men mistakenly think muscles projects sexuality when it just projects raw power which a lot of women find a bit frightening. Look in women's magazines in the "cute guys" section and even the muscleboys are on…
/r/seduction25/02/18 09:24 PM
2

Don't get tattoos, those will be like parachute pants from the 1980s very soon. Best way to fix babyface is to get a more mature haircut and lower your bodyfat to square up your jawline.
/r/seduction25/02/18 09:15 PM
2

5 drinks in one hour, one thing chicks don't like are stumbling drunks who stink of alcohol. You need to have a clear head and prove to a woman you're not an alcoholic before she will be receptive.
/r/seduction25/02/18 07:46 PM
1

Girls generally don't like a guy shorter than them, as women are more passive and like the secure feeling of a larger man they can look up to and feel protected by. Of course there are exceptions, like really tall women who accept the reality that few men are their height and will date a shorter man. One forgotten thing though is HYGIENE. Yes that thing about showering, washing your hair and wearing clothing that isn't stained with pizza or sweet & sour sauce. Yes women can be picky about that.
/r/seduction25/02/18 07:28 PM
1

I'd say Valentino Cohen is about 5'6"
/r/seduction25/02/18 03:06 PM
4

Don't try to isolate. Yes you will have to befriend her friends because she will constantly ask their advice regarding you. If you're a dick to her friends, don't expect much in the future with hot girl. Don't be defensive around them even if they harass you, just smile and be dismissive. Your goal is to disarm them.
/r/seduction25/02/18 02:44 PM
1

Kisses. If you really know how to kiss its not hard to get a girl horny.
/r/seduction25/02/18 02:18 PM
2

Dancing is harder than you think, especially if you want to get good at it. If you want to try it, remember to get dance appropriate shoes or your dogs will regret it later. Once you get decent at it you no longer will be sweating from head to toe and it will seem effortless. I was a professional (well amateur pro) dancer for 5 years and performed with a company. Lots of chicks too, coulda dated more than a few of them but I don't like mexican girls.
/r/seduction25/02/18 01:11 PM
40

Clueless: The Post. Does a girl need to dance nude and wave sparklers in your face before you ask her out?
/r/seduction25/02/18 01:08 PM
2

Its college, talk to people. Everybody wants to hook up.
/r/seduction25/02/18 06:56 AM
1

Slap her on the shoulder and say "Well you bitch!"
/r/seduction25/02/18 06:37 AM
1

Not sure you should be dating all the single moms at Hooters anyway, dude.
/r/seduction25/02/18 06:28 AM
2

You need neither social status nor money. PUA "experts" though wouldn't mind you giving them your betabux.
/r/seduction25/02/18 05:40 AM
2

HER: What are you up to this weekend? Always have something going on, even if its "There's this movie I want to see, or I'm going to go out and hang with friends" Make it something she can visualize herself being with you. Sometimes you just have to do it...walk over there. Ignore the monkey on your back that wants you to not do it.
/r/seduction25/02/18 05:31 AM
1

You don't seduce girls. You make a girl comfortable being around you and she wants to maintain that feeling so she ends up chasing you and wanting to be with you.
/r/seduction25/02/18 05:24 AM
3

And you believe her? Take what she reports and multiply by 10.
/r/seduction23/02/18 08:15 AM
6

I guarantee you she will end up getting a lot more sex than you do with a lot more dudes.
/r/seduction23/02/18 08:12 AM
2

Make a woman happy and she will care neither about your social status or your money. If you can give her mind-blowing sex, thats one way. If you can be a person thats reliable, helpful, nice, yet also assertive and masculine, thats another way. If you have to keep a woman with status or money you really don't have her, you're just renting her.
/r/seduction23/02/18 07:56 AM
7

Sounds like she just wanted a one night stand. Women have a hard time just saying no outright, so they delay and ignore hoping you go away.
/r/seduction23/02/18 04:40 AM
3

Okay some basic points: 1) Social vs personal distance - don't be afraid to be closer to her physically. Talking to a girl while standing 3 feet away is strange. 2) Contact - hand touching, always start with it, don't rub her ass or massage her shoulders like a creeper. 3) Talkative - You can be too talkative, a bit of silence can make the mood more intimate if you are comfortable with yourself. 4) Conversation - Don't be afraid to ask her about some more intimate things about her life, and no n…
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:49 AM
-1

Baristas get hit on all the time, daily even. Unless you look like a greek god your chances are pretty low.
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:11 AM
3

Don't hold your breath when you thrust.
/r/seduction22/02/18 10:53 PM
1

"Wonderful, I see what kind of girl you are" Thats like an insult, dude A few nights ago I met some kids for the first time What does this mean, kids? Anyway I don't think she was interested in you at all from the beginning.
/r/seduction22/02/18 10:11 PM
0

they have one with a tiny butt, its rather troubling
/r/seduction22/02/18 09:52 PM
1

Body position, relaxed, lean back a bit, don't shield your body with your hands or put your beverage in front of you, shift position occasionally, a slightly spread legged stance is more authoritative and expresses interest in her. Don't talk to her at an angle, face her directly. Quit worrying about what to say next, listen to her and take a genuine interest in what she says.
/r/seduction22/02/18 09:51 PM
1

Don't talk to a girl, talk WITH her. Actively listening is far more important than blabbing. If you are actually bothering to listen, you will find conversation to be easy, because you are doing only one thing in your head. A person who is listening and trying to develop the next thing to say is doing 2 things at once and its confusing, and often you will make her feel funny because you are blurting out nonsense trying to desperately avoid silence. Sometimes conversation has silent pauses, and i…
/r/seduction22/02/18 09:46 PM
4

Relax and be more laid back when clubbing. Don't be a butt rubbing escalator type, girls don't like a human octopus. Build comfort with a chick and eventually she will give you her number because she will want to see you again. And forget about FWB's, get into a relationship, it sounds like you need far more than just to get your rocks off.
/r/seduction22/02/18 09:43 PM
0

they even have one that has a moustache.
/r/seduction22/02/18 09:41 PM
1

Modulate your voice over the phone, the lower and more relaxed the better.
/r/seduction22/02/18 09:40 PM
-12

Sounds like a good idea. Just tell her you want to netflix and chill with no strings, but definitely pay for dinner, its the least you could do.
/r/seduction22/02/18 09:39 PM
2

Don't dress for other men, dress for women. Women like seeing guys with leather shoes.
/r/seduction22/02/18 09:07 PM
2

There are women everywhere, get out of your own skull and put your personality out there for others to see. If you shuffle around in life looking at the ground you don't see anybody and they don't see you.
/r/seduction22/02/18 09:05 PM
8

Find another girl and remember to strike while the iron is hot
/r/seduction22/02/18 09:01 PM
3

Being good looking means at the very least a woman will stop and listen to your spiel.
/r/seduction22/02/18 08:56 PM
1

Be like the model dude. Yeezys? Come on nobody cares about your stupid shoes.
/r/seduction22/02/18 08:27 PM
1

You are her gay shopping buddy, you are in a very very deep hole right now. Its best you start making yourself unavailable to her and tell her that you're dating and you don't have much time for her. Girls want what they can't have, and she can have you (as a friend) any time she wants. The important thing though is never change your attitude, don't start being mean to her or anything or actually ignoring her, just be less available. She has to start questioning herself and her power over you, s…
/r/seduction22/02/18 05:12 PM
2

I once told a girl outright something similar, she said I should drive a vette and I said "Naw, I have a huge penis".
/r/seduction22/02/18 04:50 PM
1

"No I'm not gay, I hate the taste of cock."
/r/seduction22/02/18 04:49 PM
6

You joke TOO much. It gets tiresome quickly for many people. Try listening more than talking. You will find conversation is far easier if you are actively listening and thinking about others rather than what you are wanting to say.
/r/seduction21/02/18 11:14 PM
-3

PUA is a moneymaking scam that preys on incels, currycels and various other genetically hamstrung individuals.
/r/seduction21/02/18 10:32 PM
1

Escalation should start with hands and ONLY hands. A butt or shoulder rubber just creeps girls out, but they may not indicate so because they want to be courteous but its almost a guarantee they will delete your phone number later.
/r/seduction21/02/18 09:07 PM
1

Nearly all restaurants (decent ones) have vegetarian items or can easily make something for you. Its not like Vegans are an oppessed minority these days. They should not act like feminists anymore.
/r/seduction21/02/18 02:56 PM
1

Veganism is fine as long as you're not a judgmental prick about it.
/r/seduction21/02/18 01:57 PM
1

Some girls need time to make up their minds about you.
/r/seduction21/02/18 07:51 AM
0

I have seen you here before, not that I'm saying your an alcoholic but every time I'm here, you're here but that doesn't make me an alcoholic either because I just drink beer. So can I buy you a drink?
/r/seduction21/02/18 07:40 AM
9

What the FUCK dude.
/r/seduction21/02/18 06:17 AM
1

Tell her that you want to see her again outside of work, but don't phrase it as a question only a statement.
/r/seduction21/02/18 06:15 AM
1

Don't get offended or angry at her, thats beta male attitude. If she wants to get together just tell her bluntly that you're hesitant because of what happened last time. If she is apologetic and makes a promise to show then give her another chance but be cool and relaxed about it.
/r/seduction21/02/18 06:13 AM
1

Not all female friends have available single women that they know.
/r/seduction21/02/18 06:11 AM
0

Text her "sup girl, why you bail on me like dat?"
/r/seduction21/02/18 06:11 AM
1

Many states have laws that even if both are adults, the teacher-student relationship can't have romantic links and there are penalties.
/r/seduction21/02/18 06:09 AM
1

Friend zone. My rule of thumb is simple if a girl likes you she will make time. Unless her grandma died she won't dare cancel or make you reschedule if she has the hots for you.
/r/seduction21/02/18 06:07 AM
1

More like get her fired or put in jail. Don't
/r/seduction21/02/18 06:05 AM
1

"That's cool"
/r/seduction21/02/18 05:48 AM
1

Well he talked about "Peacocking" for example. The social theory that somehow calling attention to yourself with wild gear will attract women. And "Social Proof" the idea that is mainly borrowed from psychology but still is an incomplete theory because in reality some of the most successful guys in dating work alone, they don't care about social proof.
/r/seduction21/02/18 05:47 AM
1

I read it, and its a good basic guide for the absolute beginner because unlike other dating tomes it is clear and concise of what to do, if a bit limited. I haven't followed any of the Mystery Method because my personal method is more like David Wygant's stuff, dynamic and based more on situation rather than structure. Anyway MM is a good introduction to the clueless, but it delves into way too much theory which frankly is not useful in practice. The idea that you need status, money or bling to …
/r/seduction21/02/18 05:14 AM
1

You screwed up, girls are very sensitive about rejection.
/r/seduction21/02/18 05:11 AM
4

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being nice. What the archetypical "Nice" guy really is though, is a liar, a man who pretends to be nice in order to try and weasel his way into a woman's pants. A true nice guy is friendly but he doesn't hide his intentions. All this kinda stuff is nonverbal too, its you body position, how you talk, your voice tone, your facial expressions, eye movements, eye contact. You sound like you're hiding your intentions, playing harmless and hoping to score anyway.…
/r/seduction21/02/18 04:49 AM
1

And don't be a spawn raper.
/r/seduction21/02/18 12:42 AM
1

You literally can't lose here. I've been dating a girl for 3 years and we basically just netflix and chill every weekend. She so far has not complained about it.
/r/seduction20/02/18 05:45 AM
2

He had a rigid structured method of game which appealed to the more analytical types. It didn't teach you how to be natural or relaxed it just was rote learning for PUA, like taking the finals and cramming beforehand. It was not surprising coming from him because he's borderline aspergers.
/r/seduction20/02/18 05:42 AM
1

https://youtu.be/3i6Jqu7BT4M Its humor but there's lessons to learn
/r/seduction20/02/18 03:57 AM
5

He will try to make jokes, just smile, say "oh you're so funny!" at the same time grab his hand. Don't bang him on the 1st date and make him work for the kiss if you want him to hang around for future dating.
/r/seduction20/02/18 03:46 AM
8

Just laugh at his lame jokes, hold his hand (just his hand) and treat him like he's the most interesting man in the world. We're suckers for giggly girls.
/r/seduction20/02/18 03:38 AM
1

Women are not terrifying. Just don't go around like you're a salesman trying to hand out free samples. The trick to day game is to be natural about it, and be aware of your situation. Its better to hit on a girl at a drugstore while you two are looking at the shelves for vitamins than standing on a streetcorner chasing down girls on their phone.
/r/seduction20/02/18 02:26 AM
1

Use the new here? sidebar on the right ----->
/r/seduction20/02/18 02:24 AM
11

Just ignore her for awhile. Women have a hard time making up their minds, she may be temporarily ghosting you until she discusses it with her friends.
/r/seduction20/02/18 02:24 AM
2

Mystery's secret was simple, talk to girls.
/r/seduction19/02/18 10:49 PM
2

Yep. We guys like a girl that is a good conversationalist, is attractive, takes care of her body.
/r/seduction19/02/18 08:29 PM
21

Ugg boots, tight stretch jeans. We are looking at asses.
/r/seduction19/02/18 08:23 PM
7

Dress sexy, we men are visual creatures. Those shoes with straps around the ankles are awesome because they remind us of strippers.
/r/seduction19/02/18 08:14 PM
-4

Snap a photo of her and jack off on it later. Girls just don't respect any guy that pressures her into sex on the first date.
/r/seduction19/02/18 08:04 PM
47

What if you have a foot fetish? Its like perfect.
/r/seduction19/02/18 07:54 PM
1

If you have sex with her the first night, you have about a 95% chance you won't ever end up having sex with her again. Kinda sucks too when you find a girl you don't mind regularly having sex with.
/r/seduction19/02/18 07:41 PM
1

There are lots of hotel room parties at cons, if you can find one, go to it.
/r/seduction19/02/18 06:32 PM
2

You already talked to her, treat her as if you already know her. Don't reintroduce yourself, apologize for talking to her ("excuse me" is death). Just talk to her.
/r/seduction19/02/18 08:28 AM
3

In any open relationship the woman gets a lot more sex than a man does outside of the FWB
/r/seduction19/02/18 08:09 AM
3

Get her phone number and call her, quit with the shapchat/texting bullshit
/r/seduction19/02/18 06:28 AM
-3

Go out for a cheesecake. Women associate cheesecake with pleasure, the mouth feel and taste will get her thinking about you and every time she eats cheesecake she will want to have sex with you.
/r/seduction19/02/18 06:06 AM
-2

What do you think makes a "high value girl". Its exactly the same thing for a guy.
/r/seduction19/02/18 04:32 AM
1

She probably din't just wash her pussy
/r/seduction19/02/18 03:18 AM
2

Be that positive goth guy and girls will love you for it
/r/seduction19/02/18 12:18 AM
1

Movie roller/ice skating bowling bicycling shopping netflix dancing crusing lake videogames gokarts baseball basketball eat out museum zoo swimpark airshow concert library putt putt pool bar public park road trip symphony convention mall pastry shop ice cream bubble tea dance instruction photography pottery class
/r/seduction19/02/18 12:16 AM
1

Just go to the grocery store, buy taco shells, ground beef, beans, lettuce, cheese, tomatoes and go into her line. When she comments about your selection tell her its taco night and she's invited.
/r/seduction19/02/18 12:12 AM
3

Just look at her, smile and wave her over to you. That way she is separated from her parents and you can chat her up. She's not 8 years old is she?
/r/seduction19/02/18 12:02 AM
1

Thats not a problem. feminists and socialists still are victims of a million years of evolution and they respond positively to a masculine aggressive male as long as he's not just an utter asshole to them.
/r/seduction18/02/18 11:57 PM
6

Picking up con girls isn't hard, but you have to do most of the heavy lifting because they really don't get hit on much. Shy girls can be difficult to read since they play their cards close to their chests. The fun part is trying to not only get them to like you but to get them to like themselves, 2 barriers to topple. Most convention guys are bronies, geeks, trekkies, star wars nerds and none of them even know what a vagina looks like so they're hardly competition with you.
/r/seduction18/02/18 11:56 PM
1

She's WAITING for your move.
/r/seduction18/02/18 11:53 PM
1

Quit asking questions and being meek. Instead of saying "hey are you still interested?" Say: "You and I, movies and drinks this saturday, be there". Be bold or go home.
/r/seduction18/02/18 11:53 PM
5

Experience is the best teacher, followed by romantic porn targeted at women. Use that shit as a guideline, because most of that stuff is filmed by women, directed by women.
/r/seduction18/02/18 11:31 PM
1

Fall asleep with picture of dog
/r/seduction18/02/18 10:40 PM
1

Start with getting a friend or friends first.
/r/seduction18/02/18 08:15 PM
2

A guy who is relaxed talking to women, thats it. My best friend doesn't get all that many chicks (because he's notoriously picky) but he talks to people all the time, male and female so everybody knows him. Generally those kinds of folks can transcend cliques and mingle among any group. It has nothing to do with looks, money, status or family lines. I knew a kid in highschool who had elephant man syndrome, he was fucking deformed. Yet....he always had friends around him. He was kind of a cool du…
/r/seduction18/02/18 08:06 PM
2

Watch the video where Murphy lost to the guy with the Dad Bod. Random girls preferred the average dude's body because it was soft, friendlier and less intimidating.
/r/seduction18/02/18 08:03 PM
3

Girls are there to work out and get pretty bodies so they can pick up guys later. They usually don't want to socialize because they don't have makeup on, they sweat, they stink and they are not wearing anything fashionable. Only gay guys like to score partners in gyms.
/r/seduction18/02/18 08:02 PM
3

Being comfortable in your own skin is a good starting point.
/r/seduction18/02/18 08:00 PM
1

I'm short, still get laid. Just dress better, stay away from skater and thug culture gear it makes you look younger and well...stupid.
/r/seduction18/02/18 07:59 PM
6

If she's still your friend act like it. If you're even asking this question it means you want to fuck her don't you.
/r/seduction18/02/18 07:58 PM
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