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Please don't insult me. Not redpill, just a normal guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:02 PM
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I was banging my first girlfriend at 16 with my mom in the other room.
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:33 PM
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Sure you do!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:22 PM
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So there is no part of you that considers itself unworthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:57 PM
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Same goes both ways and guess what? Hot people typically date other hot people and they have no time for others. You can make the same argument that men are so exposed to over sexualized pornstars and Insta thots that they expect every woman to look and behave like them. The baseline of what's considered average has increased quite a bit for both men and women. But delusions always crash into reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:56 PM
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For men it's almost always the belief that they are unworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:52 PM
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Sounded like one big victim puke.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:47 PM
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I've seen it way too many times to count.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:31 PM
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I know, right! Pussy is so rare that only every other person on earth has one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:51 PM
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You are glossing over the big problem here. Yes, every man will have some sort of a flaw or imperfection. The real issue is how a man feels about himself. This is all that matters. The best looking man who feels like shit about himself will not be able to attract women. Anyone can find an excuse to feel bad about themselves. And anyone can feel great about themselves just as easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:27 PM
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Indirect is for low status losers. Do you really think an alpha male who can do whatever he wants will hide his intentions and act gay?
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:53 PM
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She is manipulating you. What are you going to do with a girl who doesn't even allow you to touch her there?
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:51 PM
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Best to sit around and do nothing and then post on the next day and cry about how you missed an opportunity to get laid.
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:50 PM
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Just because a man wants to do it doesn't mean he will. But yes, the majority of men will have the inner desire to do it unless they are still in the infatuation stage with you, which lasts anywhere from a few hours to 18 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:41 PM
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Absolutely. I think every man would not only love that arrangement but long term it might work out better for you as couple, granted that jealously and insecurity is dealt with. See, women get less horny the longer they go without sex and more horny the more they have sex wjth a person. Men get more horny the less sex they have and less horny the more they have sex wjth the same person. But if said man had access to sexual diversity, he would happily go back to his primary and fuck her as if it …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:17 PM
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For a lack of better analogy, it's like being on drugs. You see someone attractive and your hormones take over and for all intensive purposes it's like being drugged and doing things that you may not normally consider to be a good idea. That means that you become laser focused on having sex and depositing your semen in a complete stranger just because she is sexually attractive and available. If men spent a lot of time thinking about every sexual opportunity, these opportunities would go away, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:57 PM
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Here is why you are wrong. I find 99% of all women attractive....in the 18 to 18.5 year old category that are at least an 8 or up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:44 AM
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We can't understand each other because we project our sexual mechanisms onto the other sex. Men can't comprehend how women are not willing to sleep with any man available and have sex 24/7 with random men, which is what men want to do and women can't comprehend how a man can be willing to sleep wjth a total stranger whose name he doesn't know without any connection to her whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:43 AM
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I'm certainly better than any woman at peeing standing up, and naturally I am awash in pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:36 AM
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The irony of shaming women for a terrorist act committed by.....a male incel!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:29 AM
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I've been dating and having sex way before any dating sites existed. And humans have been procreating for millions of years prior to any of them existing, so forgive me for not partaking in the mass hysteria on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:07 AM
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What does that matter to the discussion? We could be average or we could be super models or anything in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:05 AM
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With age testosterone drops off bro. Start working out. Heavy lifts and compound exercises.
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:22 PM
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So you want the young hot stuff but you couldn't be bothered to get in shape yourself?
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:17 PM
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I used to do it, it's kind of needy to be honest.
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:15 PM
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With more women alive than men, no man should ever be single. So wtf is going on here? You are complaining women gets snatched up for relationships right away. But by whom? By men I can only assume. So if every woman is taken would that mean that every man has a woman as well? As I said, there are more women than men, so technically men are much better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:14 PM
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Look, the problem deep down is simple. It's believing you are not good enough. Everything else emanates from this. Feeling you need to be this top 1% man, to be six feet tall, make a ton of money, and only then you can hope to not get super models, but to get some average chubby chick!!! I mean this is insane. Only someone who feels they are not good enough would come up with this. So how do you become good enough? Let me tell, it's not through playing by society's rules, because there is no way…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:27 PM
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Have you considered that this question is up there with "is there a god", "what's the meaning of life" and "ketchup or mayo with your fries"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:44 PM
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I think so! I grew up in a communist country and in high school we shared girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:30 PM
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Well, be socially non retarded and figure out if the girl doesn't want to be bothered. If she has headphones on, is staring at her phone or laptop or is otherwise making herself unavailable. Don't be like one of these autistic retards who have to harass any girl they find attractive even if she doesn't want anything to do with them.
/r/seduction06/02/22 05:26 PM
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Do I really have to tell you that's actually a good thing?
/r/seduction06/02/22 05:25 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:23 PM
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I keep repeating it because I see many false beliefs being perpetuated around here. But I see how you can make the wrong conclusion. You think of personality as being nice and calling your mom everyday and wanting to save the children in Africa. I see personality as being a man of quality, respecting yourself and being unwavering in who you are. Being able to lead a woman on an adventure without having to constantly check in with her. It's a very different interpretation of personality, but guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:22 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:38 PM
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Absolutely wrong. A limiting belief of I have ever seen one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:35 PM
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You are being obtuse. You don't have to stop being sexually interested in women in order to stop seeking their validation. You are conflating two completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:34 PM
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You are unequivocally wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:32 PM
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The only way to do it is stop being afraid of disapproval. That will make you a man. Having the personality of a slice of white bread because your family's rich and you have to be well behaved is not going to get you far in life.
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:12 PM
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Believing otherwise is just social programming. You've been programmed that happiness is the reward you get for making others happy. In childhood that meant your parents. In adulthood, that means women. It's a crazy idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:06 PM
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Be black and sleep with those girls so they piss off their dads.
/r/seduction06/02/22 02:47 PM
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Of course it feels great! And I like that validation and I appreciate it. But do I stake my self esteem and how Infeel about myself on the opinion of a stranger? Absolutely not! Let me give you an analogy. Let's say that you have somehow found a person who pays all your bills. Rent, food, everything. You don't have to work at all. Then one day your landlord knocks on your door and says "hey buddy, the usual rent check didn't come in this month". So panic and call the person who pays your rent an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:43 PM
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Man, you almost had it but then had to go back into your negative loop with black and white statements. I'm saying when you stop caring about female validation you will become more attractive to women period.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:37 PM
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Why would it involve games and effort when realistically all women are only attracted to a few men? It would seem that those man have cornered the market and can name their price. Why would they have to resort to any games and effort? Make this make sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:30 PM
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Exactly! There is a lot of resentment in men who feel they have to put up a fake persona in order to be liked by women. They feel they have to put in all this work and appear perfect, but that strategy actually leads them further and further away from having women genuinely like them. And that in turn causes even more resentment and anger. But is all based on the misunderstanding that women have some sky high unattainable standards, an idea so heavily perpetuated around here that no one ever sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:28 PM
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In reality, there will be so few desirable men for women out there, that it is the guys who will be objectified and treated like pieces of meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:21 PM
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If a top 10% had his choice of pussy why would he choose to be with the 80% who are too overweight, old, or plain unattractive? Those guys will be preoccupied with the top 20% of girls anyway leaving most women choicless and sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:12 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:08 PM
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Men really have only one problem with women. The problem is that they look up to them for sexual validation. They want women to validate them so they can prove to themselves they are sexually attractive. The issue is when you give someone the power to validate you, you also give them the power to invalidate you. And that's what causes all the fear and animosity guys experience towards women. Let me put it this way. If you went to the park and saw a cute dog running around that you wanted to pet.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:40 PM
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So many women competing for one guy and getting only a portion of his time and attention? And if this guy chooses to enter an exclusive relationship all of a sudden he is no longer an option for anything. Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:27 PM
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If one equals zero, and true equals false you can prove anything. My point is that an "option" which you will never take up on is no option at all. Let's use an analogy. You are unemployed and looking for a job. You have a ton of options, however 90% of them are for jobs that pay 10th of what you are used to earning and furthermore they require you to move to a city far away from your family and friends. These are jobs you are never going to take, so are they actual options?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:26 PM
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That's a bingo! Finally someone who understands math!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:05 PM
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That's fine but don't hate on people who do have experience. Just go up to a woman and tell her that you are a virgin and she is the lucky one who might take your virginity away.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:15 PM
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Do I really have to explain to you how math works?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:01 PM
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Sigh, not that my advice is ever taken or appreciated but here it goes. Number 1, start liking and respecting yourself. You cannot realistically expect of women to like you and respect you if you couldn't be bothered to like and respect yourself. Number 2, stop apologizing for being a man, for being short or tall or chubby or not make a great salary. There is nothing more pathetic than a man who carries a million neuroses and insecurities about himself who constantly looks for approval from othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:54 AM
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When men can no longer buy female affection they will be forced to finally work on their personality and appearance in order to be sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:40 AM
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Guys like me will have harems with thousands of women willingly surrendering themselves to me while guys like you will be starved sexually and be forced to work menial jobs for the chance of seeing a naked tiddy every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:39 AM
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You can't claim in one breath that women are only attracted to 5% of men and at the same time they have a ton of choices. The two notions are diametrically opposite of each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:37 AM
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Honestly, I think women's so called standards are pretty low. It is actually so simple and easy that any man can develop it. And that's the ability to show up as a man. Honesty is the best aphrodisiac. Be honest with women, don't ask, tell, lead. That's all it takes. That's what every woman wants. A guy who knows where he is going, who speaks his truth, who is not a fucking pussy concerned with every SJWs or woke crowd dweeb and what they think. To illustrate this better, I was helping a young g…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:27 AM
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You alls is funny. Would any of you go to a car mechanic that has only worked on one car in their career, or a dentist who has only worked on a couple of patients? Why would you want to fuck someone who has zero or little experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:15 AM
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Ok, I will give you this one: https://youtu.be/rJ8OTNs2dC4
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:05 AM
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No, you should wait a minimum of 6 months.
/r/seduction06/02/22 07:49 AM
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Dude why do you feel the need to qualify yourself to a bunch of internet strangers? Who cares how tall or muscular you are? It just shows your insecurity. Didn't event read the rest of your post.
/r/seduction05/02/22 10:34 PM
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100% your profile and photos suck.
/r/seduction05/02/22 10:33 PM
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Wow what a bunch of lamos in a self proclaimed seduction sub. Of course they wear these tight, colorful outfits to attract attention. Women cannot live without attention. They will literally die without it. Do you really think she put on make up and selected a few hundred dollar outfit so no guy would stare at her well shaped ass? Just go and look up how much these athleisure outfits cost.
/r/seduction05/02/22 10:31 PM
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You sound like a cute chick.
/r/seduction05/02/22 10:28 PM
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Yeah don't be that creepy guy.
/r/seduction05/02/22 10:27 PM
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Building rapport and comfort is for losers. You need more emotional tension and uncertainty.
/r/seduction05/02/22 05:34 PM
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What are you so nervous about?
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:46 PM
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If you can yes!
/r/seduction05/02/22 01:58 PM
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If they are really fucked up and yellow, then yes. It can absolutely detract from everything else.
/r/seduction05/02/22 11:32 AM
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Forget about modeling yourself and having a persona. This is fake ass bullshit. Focus on accepting who you are and being okay with that. No truly confident man goes around acting like someone else. Confident people act like themselves. Have a take it or leave it attitude. If a chick doesn't like that you are well spoken and intelligent, her loss. You are subconsciously telling to it self you are not good enough as you are and that will always fuck you up no matter how desperately you try to cove…
/r/seduction05/02/22 11:31 AM
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Not every girl goes to a club to get laid, many go there just to get attention and get their egos boosted. To have success you have to actually look for the girls who are horny and want to bang. Look for the ones that are there with one other friend only and typically the friend is less attractive (so the other one can stand out). Look for the ones with their face to the crowd and back to the bar, with redder lipstick, showing skin, trying to accentuate ass or boobs (whatever asset they are work…
/r/seduction05/02/22 11:28 AM
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Why would you want to talk to them if they have their masks on? Do you think a woman who is horny and wants to meet guys is going to hide her beautiful face behind a mask?
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:10 AM
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Do it your way bro, it's obviously working for you. That's why you are here asking "what did I fuck up" because it's working so well for you.
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:08 AM
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So if you came across a girl you found absolutely sexually repulsive, but she happens to be super nice and a great cook, would you be required to give her a chance and fuck her because she's nice and a great cook?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:07 AM
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There is no fake confidence. There is no fake it till you make it. Only you can award yourself confidence, but you don't believe you are worthy of it. Women are not rejecting you because of you but because you present a persona to them that you believe is unworthy and they simply react to it. Women are just the most honest feedback you will get about how you feel about yourself.
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:06 AM
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Are you really that cheap?
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:03 AM
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Yes it is clingy to do it on the morning after. You clear have no other options. See, while you think it's only a text, a woman is reading between the lines. All the little subconmunication that you don't even know exists. Respond too fast to a text, send a message in the morning, ask her out again right away. All this tells her is that you haven't had a girl in a long time, you cling to every opportunity because it might be your last and you have no other options. This tells her you are not wan…
/r/seduction04/02/22 11:58 PM
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Where the fuck do you live that you have to have a mask on?
/r/seduction04/02/22 11:57 PM
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Self improvement to get laid is kind of lame. You believe you have to be some exceptional male specimen for women to find you attractive but all you need to do is feel deserving and worthy of it. Focus on that.
/r/seduction04/02/22 11:57 PM
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What does any of that have to do with them being sexually appealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:54 PM
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Why should women be interested in nerds?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:48 PM
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Most likely a neediness/smothering problem. Try spending the date not making a move. You can be sexual and what not, but act like she is the one that obviously wants to fuck you, while you know you can take your time making a decision. Don't hold hands and don't kiss until you are at your place. Don't crowd them, don't act like a fat kid who hasn't eaten in a couple of hours. If you come across as hungry/thirsty, it is a huge turn off. They probably sense you haven't had sex in a while just by y…
/r/seduction04/02/22 07:32 PM
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Men's sexuality is mostly driven on promoting diversity in the gene pool. There used to be a time I was into chicks with big tits and small asses. Then I got into chicks with small tits and big asses. Then I realized I also like chicks with big tits and big asses and chicks with small tits and small asses. I love all of them as long as they are hot. Nowadays I only stare at their pussy and try to figure out what it looks like, where it is on their body, what it tastes like. Anyways, what was the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:28 PM
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There is no battle of the sexes There is no battle of the sexes There is no battle of the sexes There is no battle of the sexes Both men and women want the same thing - each other...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:11 PM
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Just say you only bang Chads and get it over with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:09 PM
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I don't believe any woman ever goes out looking for a ONS. I know women go out looking to get laid and if they do happened to find a partner who's good in bed, you can rest assured it won't be a ONS. Why go through the trouble of there is no repeat performance?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:08 PM
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OP was fishing really hard for the females who would validate his limiting belief that it was all about the guy's looks and nothing else. I feel he walked away empty handed though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:07 PM
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Oh that's right, you were the Milf escort, right? How's that going?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:52 PM
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Lol. Just be honest and speak your truth. Women don't put you in the friendzone. You put yourself there.
/r/seduction04/02/22 03:35 PM
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It's a very easy litmus test. If a man is attracted to all these women, they are doing something right. If all these women are not attracted to him, he is doing something wrong. To use an analogy, if I am looking for jobs and nobody wants to hire me, but they hire plenty of other people, is it because the employer is too picky and unreasonable or is it because I lack skills or interview poorly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:33 PM
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Story time. Many years ago I used to, for a lack of better term, "daygame". I would literally spend a couple of hours after work or on weekends going to a local park or hangout place and try to meet girls. That's in NYC. One day I am at my favorite spot just drinking coffee and smoking my cigarette and I see a group of 3-4 wanna be pickup artists. All decked out in peacocking gear, running around and harassing girls with indirect openers then gathering at a spot to discuss their successes (or la…
/r/seduction04/02/22 03:24 PM
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It's like a company that invites you for a job interview and you spend it asking if there really is a job because why would they want to interview you.
/r/seduction04/02/22 03:14 PM
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Ask yourself these two questions: What do I want? What do I want this girl for? Answer them and you will figure it all out.
/r/seduction04/02/22 03:10 PM
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You are looking at this the wrong way. The reason things like being in a fraternity or getting a high status job is that you have other people reinforcing the belief that you are worthy and therefore you give yourself permission to feel good about yourself. This is the socially acceptable way to be good with women. The guy who is taller and more athletic is deemed a high value member of society by said society, the guy who joins a frat and has his frat brothers instill in him that he is part of …
/r/seduction04/02/22 03:06 PM
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Lol I'm not sure if you are retarded or just stupid.
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:59 PM
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Text as little as humanly out possible and in as little character as humanly possible.
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:57 PM
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If he starts behaving correctly, women will forget that he is a loser. It's like seeing some average chubby girl and then she loses weight and starts wearing make up and you will forget that she was a chubby loser.
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:36 PM
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You sound super needy, like super super needy. Just take a deep breath, relax. Give yourself some kudos and leave them alone for a week.
/r/seduction04/02/22 01:32 PM
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This is not a women problem, it's a parenting problem because as you astutely observed most men are raised to believe that they are worthless and undeserving. Fix that and you will fix all your problems with women. It's really not that complicated. Blame your parents and especially your dads for this mess. Nothing to do with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:25 PM
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You are wrong. I have no respect for men who don't want to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:40 AM
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I know sad :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:39 AM
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Ah, don't be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:00 PM
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Lol Jeremy Meeks, every incel's go to guy. How about the media making him into some superstar and some rich chick out there buying into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:58 PM
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Go to places where women go to meet men.
/r/seduction03/02/22 09:14 PM
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So why does every man want to fuck a good looking woman? Good looks are supposed to be a predictor of a females fitness to have healthy children? So why be concerned with fucking them when medicine has advanced so much that it ensures a healthy pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:23 PM
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So every unattractive person out there has super attractive parents? It's jus true draw of the luck?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:15 PM
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So if genetics is a crapshoot why try to fuck attractive people to begin wjth?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:11 PM
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You'd think these type of DNA would have died out long time ago if no woman wanted to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:04 PM
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Take responsibility. It is utterly ridiculous to believe that happiness and self esteem can come to you externally. If other people validating you really worked, people like Kurt Cobain, Chris Cornell, Robin Williams, etc, would have never offed themselves. Ow your shit, your past mistakes, your fuck ups, your perceived and real flaws. Start liking yourself and respecting yourself. If you find that hard, you have two options. Either accept yourself as you are or change the aspects that you find …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:10 PM
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Text and say "I really like you, I was sad you left last night and was hoping we would have some fun".
/r/seduction03/02/22 04:05 PM
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The second you do anything to actively impress a woman you are signaling to her that her opinion of you is more important than your opinion of you and there is nothing more diminishing to a man than that. It sounds like you got caught up in that whirlwind.
/r/seduction03/02/22 03:56 PM
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Depends on how desperate you are, which you sound like you are. In this case keep asking her out since you are a glutton for punishment.
/r/seduction03/02/22 03:50 PM
1

Only the top 0.0000001% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:40 PM
1

Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:13 PM
1

Okay I see
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:40 PM
1

It's no different than women having been using beautify regiments, make up, Botox, lip fillers, fake tits, etc, to really step up the game to the point that men think a woman looking like Megan Fox is table stakes. Like yeah, who don't other bitches look like that. They ignore the amount of work and money that goes into maintaining beauty. They take it for granted. But at the end of the day, women will find attractive what they find attractive. And it's definitely not pretty men who always have …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:18 PM
1

Very typical of men to project their own sexual arousal mechanism onto women. What do most men need to become aroused and ready to have sex? It's a magic combination of two things: A. Someone who is attractive enough and B. Someone who appears willing. That's all men need! So we assume that women must work the same way and we think: "Okay, if I am a hot girl, there would be no shortage of people willing to have sex. And at least some portion of these people must be good looking enough to arouse …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:55 PM
1

They surveyed heterosexual people, men and women. Men have sex with women and women with men. It's a closed system. They are not counting how many aliens a man had sex with or how many tentacle monsters a woman has blown.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:27 AM
1

In a closed system it would be impossible for men to have, let's say an average of 7.2 partners while women have an average or 4.3 partners. It makes zero sense so it means someone is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:51 AM
7

Men have always and will ALWAYS be driven by the need for approval. If I told a bunch of guys "I just slept wjth a woman who has had 2,000 dicks", they would call me gross, loser, simp, etc. But if I told them that woman was Asa Akira (or insert your favorite porn star here), they would all be high giving me and calling me the coolest stud they know. At the end of the day, women started the whole slut shaming thing for one reason. They learned from an early age that they could easily exchange th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:42 AM
12

The lady told you that she wants to be a hooker, ie get a guy to pay for her. That's a hooker. Whore. Prostitute. If that's what's she want, let her have it or at least be honest with her that you will be providing no such value.
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:38 PM
-1

Just go to a nightclub like a normal guy. What you are doing is not normal.
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:36 PM
14

Just pay for a hooker, it will be cheaper.
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:34 PM
1

The more good looking a woman is the more your inner game should be rock solid. If you give up any need to prove yourself to her or to anyone else, it will be relatively easy.
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:32 PM
3

Hot women are always more promiscuous. Why would they waste their looks waiting on around for Mr Right, when there is Mr Right Now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:58 PM
0

Being a depressed, phobia driven loser can be just as fake as being an overconfident macho guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:36 PM
0

It is a book by losers about losers who were never popular in high school and who thought that dressing up like a clown and acting like a dancing monkey would get them girls. It's super cringe.
/r/seduction02/02/22 03:25 PM
-1

Any pua will be 10X more successful if he just learned to be honest and be himself without trying to impress women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:04 PM
2

You have zero understanding of what an alpha male is.
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:52 AM
3

Neediness and smothering were the issues.
/r/seduction01/02/22 10:53 PM
10

With all the lifting he does he can certainly help you move apartments or arrange furniture. If you happened to be one of his plates, you benefit from only getting mediocre sex once a week instead of all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:49 PM
1

Whenever you do anything to impress another person especially a woman, you are sub communicating that their opinion of you is more important than your own opinion of you. And there is nothing more diminishing to a man's status than that. In the movie Goodfellas, the narrator introduced the Paul Sorvino character, Pauline Cicero as: "Pauline always moved slow, but then again he needed to move for no one". Why? Because he was top dog, the boss, the head honcho. If you as a guy need to do a ton to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:48 PM
-2

Only you can put yourself in the friendzone. And you do that by showing up as a sexually repressed nice guy instead of a guy comfortable with being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:43 PM
1

Op said he is ripped and in too 10% of looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:01 PM
1

But op said he is ripped and super good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:01 PM
2

So who is fucking all the really attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:56 PM
1

Just be a non desperate non needy guy. It's not that hard. It's all inner work really.
/r/seduction01/02/22 06:38 PM
2

Getting so invested in a person you just want to fuck is the definition of neediness. Work on that. Work on actually liking yourself and being self satisfied. Be the man you are supposed to be. And if you are not, find a way to fix those issues or become at peace with them.
/r/seduction01/02/22 06:12 PM
8

As usual men have no idea what women actually find attractive. Sorry your mom told you you are the handsomest guy in school and that getting a good job as an engineer would get you a decent woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:41 PM
-2

Yes because sitting around and moping about how ugly you are is the better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:40 PM
1

Many women prefer Tony Soprano's physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:17 PM
-2

If you approach you still have a chance because you show you have balls. If you never get approached, what else is there to do? Even the women who rarely get approached and manage to find someone did so because someone chose them and approached them. When you approach you are the chooser. Period. If Lu feel unworthy of the person you are approaching, then tough shit. You will fail. Inner game is paramount.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:04 PM
0

Well duh. You gotta be a high quality guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:36 PM
0

Dude, Sonny Barger the founder of the Hell's Angels is like 5'2". I'm sure he never had trouble he trying laid. Stop punishing yourself about something you have no control over.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:08 AM
-2

Do you hang out with Hobbits? Are you from a place called The Shire?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:01 AM
1

There is a lot of evolutionary biology going on with this, but basically women are sexually repulsed by those who look, smell and taste like they could be family because incest=retarded kids. So when when on vacation and you are exposed to males who could not possibly share any DNA with (meaning they could not possible be family), there tends to be much stronger attraction. Couple that with the guy being a rugged, alpha male silent type and you got the making of a porno movie.
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:58 PM
2

The issue with faking abundance is that you are still attached to the validation that women give you. Even if you didn't have to fake abundance but actually had a ton of women interested in you, you are still largely dependent on their validation to feel good about yourself. It's no different than rock stars who are adored by millions, but when their fame starts to wane and their albums no longer sell, they spiral into drugs and even suicide. What will happen to you when you don't have a lot of …
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:52 PM
2

Find a girlfriend and start fucking her several times a day. You will be pretty bored of sex by the second or third month.
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:45 PM
1

You want a magic bullet, eh?
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:43 PM
7

And I can't seduce you if I'm not attracted to your frumpy ass.
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:42 PM
3

Jesus fucking Christ , even if she was interested at one point she must have fallen asleep by your indecision just like I did reading your long ass post.
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:41 PM
3

Yes, super creepy and weird. Now forgive yourself for this mistake and vow to never make it again. The most embarrassing thing in the world is to make the same mistake twice.
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:38 PM
16

You can love someone you don't want to fuck. Just ask millions of married couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:00 PM
2

It's even sadder that men buy into this bullshit themselves, because they have trained themselves that the only sex worth having is the one they worked really hard to earn by trying to be impressive, have a six pack, work themselves to death so they can afford expensive clothes and a fancy car, etc. They consider the women who happened to like them for who they are as sluts, who have such low standards as to have chosen them in the first place that they must certainly go around and sleep with an…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:06 AM
1

Women have been raised to believe a high body count is shameful, because it to have a high body count means that you are giving away the most valuable thing you have as a woman - your sex - for free! If you give it away for free it undermines the Sexual Cartel that women have, which is to only trade their sex for something of high enough value, such as security, ie a man taking care of you. That's why women are never honest about the number of men they have slept with. They have to reconcile wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:43 AM
3

Guys who like themselves and are confident and feel worthy will have their pick of women. Their dating pool will go from 1 guy for every 100 women to 1 guy for every 1000 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:22 AM
4

Men: I'm so lonely I can't get sex I want to kill myself why are wimmins so low libido. Also men: you've slept with more than 0 men, you fucking slut, whore, burn her at the stake.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:20 AM
1

Monogamy is no good for anyone you dig? It's a social construct predicated on the ownership of another human being like a property. Relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:59 AM
1

What does that prove other than a woman matching with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:36 AM
1

Now wait until you find out that there are men who have been with 100s, even 1000s of women and they look like you regular guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:35 AM
3

There are three things that you need in order to be successful with women. The key concept here is that you have sole responsibility over yourself. When women react to you like you are invisible it is because you believe yourself to be invisible. Women are just reacting to what you sub-communicate. Lots of men walk around having delusions of inadequacy which translates to them being treated as worthless by everyone else. So here are the three things you absolutely must have: Love and respect you…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:32 AM
1

You could have summed up your comment in one word: "autism".
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:55 AM
1

Do you compliment women or is that too much for you as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:54 AM
1

Yes, men seek variety, women quality. It's why men will be okay with sleeping with someone they may not consider great quality partner. Women essentially have the same criteria for ons as they do for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:52 AM
1

Why would you dress average especially if you are already average looking?
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:51 AM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:50 AM
1

Dude there is no battle of the sexes, relax. No one is better or worse, men and women are just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:50 AM
1

True that, we are not suicidal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:49 AM
1

Do you mean a man living with several women? I said we are horny, not suicidal!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:23 PM
3

What's aa, some kind of autism? Edit: oh, okay you black gotcha. Don't be average and like yourself.
/r/seduction30/01/22 11:21 PM
12

Hehehe, you changed everything about you except the nerd who still lives inside. Lol
/r/seduction30/01/22 11:20 PM
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Just add your thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:16 PM
2

Keep talking...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:16 PM
1

What is stopping YOU from feeling good about yourself?
/r/seduction30/01/22 11:06 PM
8

Yes. When you sleep with a woman and she doesn't respond to your messages or calls for a repeat, you can rest assured that it was not good for her. It happens all the time. Do women give a chance to guys who turn them on but don't get them off? I mean sure. I've done the same with women. Looks hot, turns me on but sucks in bed. You want it to be good, you hope it becomes good but if the person is not willing to work on their technique there is nothing there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:33 PM
1

If women truly had so many sex options, no one would ever complain about not being able to find a guy. The reality is that dick is abundant and easy to come across (so is vagina). But dick that can actually arouse a woman properly is rarer than a Snow leopard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:31 PM
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Lol, not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:23 PM
26

It just means you are good looking but that is absolutely not the main criteria for women selecting sexual partners. All throughout history women have been attracted to high quality men and most importantly to men who feel they are quality men. Guys complain about chicks dating assholes and jerks, but I bet you those assholes and jerks never go home and cry about how they are not good enough or how they are a loser. Jerks tend to really like themselves and feel good about themselves. This is the…
/r/seduction30/01/22 11:30 AM
2

The point is that it's funny. Have you ever talked to a human female woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:40 AM
1

Are you asking for what trick or magic bullet to use so you can get in her pants? Like the perfect text or pickup line?
/r/seduction29/01/22 10:44 PM
1

Omg I was there in the early days and back then it was just a man internet community of guys who exchanged pick up lines and tips on how to get laid in bars. But then super weird spergs like Mystery and his ilk became famous and it was flooded by a bunch of autists and low self esteem losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:43 PM
1

Well, it's the same thing. You can't fake it. What do you have to prove?
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:20 PM
1

Okay there buddy. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:13 PM
1

You can certainly change your perception of yourself, your self esteem and your self confidence. Anyone saying otherwise is a retard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:11 PM
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In the Goodfellas movie when they were introducing Pauline Cicero the narrator said "Pauline moved kind of slow, but then again, he didn't have anyone he need to move for". See when you have nothing left to prove, when you have no one you need to impress, no one you need to hurry up for, that kind of means you are the boss, you are the top dog without even trying. That's how I carry myself and every women notice it.
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:05 PM
2

Stop looking to women to validate you as a sexually attractive man. If you give them that power you are also conversely giving them the power to invalidate you which is where anxiety comes from.
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:02 PM
2

Does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:56 PM
0

Yes, basically where women go to show off to the marketplace and get selected by guys.
/r/seduction29/01/22 12:24 PM
2

Just invite them both over.
/r/seduction29/01/22 09:02 AM
2

This one is difficult, it could be a ton of things going on. The most basic explanation is that she swiped on you, thought you were okay but by the time your date was coming up, she just wasn't feeling strongly enough about you based on your photos, profile and convo and bailed. This could be salvageable, so don't sweat it and try again in a week. But don't be desperate and try to text her in a day or two. Act like it didn't bother you at all. It could be that she was showing your conversation t…
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:47 AM
1

Yea
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:40 AM
0

Daygame you mean? Totally possible, but as others have said it's a bit of luck involved. Most girls don't walk around the beach or mall expecting to get laid in a few hours. Some may not have shaven their pussy or feel very fresh down there, they may not be ovulating, etc. Your best bet is to head to your local meat market where women go for the express purpose of getting laid. Look for the ones that have a sort of nervous and horny energy around them, usually facing the crowd and scanning it fo…
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:40 AM
2

Omg they wanted to have a threesome with you and your friends fucked you over. You should have never let them in. Ask both girls out at the same time to your place and just get on with it. Don't even go on a date.
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:37 AM
1

No, it is not. They think you are a creepy weirdo and are keeping and eye on you while calling the cops. You will be arrested for being a pervert any second now. Or maybe they are still building their case. But you will be arrested soon and your life will be over.
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:35 AM
1

Sexiness is a vibe, it's about the relationship you have with yourself. All you need is two things - learn to love and cherish yourself and learn to love men. I always look at that girl Parvati from several Survivor seasons. She is cute, good body, but not a supermodel and somehow she always gets men falling for her and doing her bidding. I think she just has that energy where she genuinely loves men and flirting and men love her back. But the key thing is to learn to love yourself.
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:31 AM
3

It can affect you one of two ways really. You either become the same guy as your dad, only having known disrespect towards women and becoming an asshole OR you lose so much respect for your father that by extension all men suck and you suppress everything about you that makes you a man, including the nasty stuff no one wants to talk about. For example, I love women and everything that is wonderful about them, but I also acknowledge that they can be flakes, absolute manipulative cunts, etc. I don…
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:27 AM
4

All of them in the US. Women there are so lonely and sex deprived.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:07 AM
2

Full mask on, N95 or preferably, rubber gloves
/r/seduction28/01/22 10:46 PM
1

Hot girls get off on showing their less attractive girlfriends who's boss. It's like the out alphaing in the girl world. You should have told the bitch that you enjoyed meeting her but now would like yo get back your date, but you didn't have the balls to. You were too nice. You were the bitch.
/r/seduction28/01/22 10:45 PM
5

I used to think Zan was a looney tune, it now revisiting his stuff as a man older and more mature guy and it all totally makes sense. He is the man, literally!
/r/seduction28/01/22 10:41 PM
13

I've met a bunch of ons, FWB and girlfriends through cold approaches. A couple of girlfriends I met at Starbucks while waiting in line for coffee. They were almost identical. I entered the store, look at the line at just so it happens that a hot girl was standing at the end of the line. I headed straight over and said "I like you, what's your name" or something to that effect. Then grabbed a coffee together and the rest was history. One FWB I met at a Starbucks as well. I grabbed a coffee and st…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:34 PM
2

You can block me
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:40 PM
2

Tattooed biker types tend to do very well despite their physical looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:30 PM
3

Learn to like and respect yourself.
/r/seduction28/01/22 11:53 AM
3

Retrain your brain to think that the most embarrassing thing in the world is not to go over to a girl and get shot down, but to actually do nothing. Because doing something is honorable even if you don't get a desired outcome. But doing nothing is the most embarrassing g and pathetic thing that reflects badly on you. Soon enough the little voice in your head will start telling you - go and talk to that girl you doofus" instead of telling you you are good for nothing loser.
/r/seduction28/01/22 11:09 AM
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I'm afraid only anti social weirdos (me included) had to read about this stuff. Guys who do well with women were taught the right beliefs by their dads. Like themselves, have self respect, they instilled a masculine spirit in them by encouraging risk taking, competing in sports and dominating other men. Guys with absent or weak dads, like mine, we're not encouraged to do that. My dad never did or even watched any sports. My mom never encouraged me to be competitive because as a woman she wants e…
/r/seduction28/01/22 11:07 AM
1

lol no
/r/seduction28/01/22 11:01 AM
1

I disagree. Female beauty has been objectively seen as the main decider of a woman's sexual attractiveness. Men agree on what a sexually attractive woman looks like although many have different tastes. It is obvious and apparent. There is an entire multibillion dollar industry helping women look more physically attractive than their genetics have allowed them to naturally. At the same time, men will claim "women only want tall muscular Momoa looking hung like horses guys". Then you point out tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:50 AM
1

Big girls need loving too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:39 AM
1

I mean sure, I want to see if they are indeed interesting. If she doesn't give off a good energy, I assume that she will be a starfish in bed as well. You have to focus exclusively on their personality and find out if there is anything there you can appreciate and take interest in. Forget about the physical ad it is a given that she is attractive (and she knows it). If you let that spin your head, she knows she has control over you and immediately turned off.
/r/seduction28/01/22 08:44 AM
3

The only thing that will increase your caliber of women is how comfortable you are with yourself and whether you believe you are worthy.
/r/seduction27/01/22 10:01 PM
4

Lol the loser who has never been honest in his life giving advice
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:59 PM
5

Realize that worrying about passing shit tests is in itself needy and desperate.
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:59 PM
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Say "only if I have your consent now" because if you do have another drink you may be too impaired to properly consent and I wouldn't want that.
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:58 PM
-2

Still it in your head that the only thing worth being embarrassed over is not taking any action and that taking action even though the result may be undesirable is still much more worthy of admiration than being a "do nothing Bitch".
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:56 PM
0

Every football player ever, bikers,
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:16 PM
3

Whatever you want to tell yourself to explain why you ain't getting laid, while heavy set, confident men who love themselves around the world get laid with pretty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:50 PM
1

Lol, simps are NPCs. They don't matter. As a matter of fact women are the best gifts they can give a guy like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:49 PM
1

Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:54 PM
1

Who said recognizing yourself as low value? Accepting and liking yourself means that you believe you are valuable and worthy. Why is this so hard to comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:54 PM
2

You misunderstood me. I didn't say a woman who likes you for you has low standards. I'm saying that many men operate from this belief, saying a woman who likes them for them is probably no good, meaning the man doesn't believe he is good enough as he is. I think everyone has inherent value in dating and as a human being. We are all the product of two people fucking so if your parents could fuck someone so can you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:29 PM
3

I think you misunderstood the point of my post. The point was to start liking and respecting yourself and if you don't like yourself, find out why and fix those things or accept them. Your friends like you for who you are, so why can't you? As an example. What I'm saying is that if you show up as someone who doesn't like himself, ie he would want to be part of a club that would have him as a member, then you are dead in the water to begin with. And if you do like by ourself whatever your circums…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:14 AM
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Okay thanks for contributing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:07 AM
1

How can you say that someone who hates others actually likes themselves? People who like themselves also accept and like others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:07 AM
-1

Well, if you don't like yourself, then change the things you don't like until you do like yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:40 AM
1

Thanks for contributing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:33 AM
7

Do you think a guy who likes and respects himself would let himself be a fat slob?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:33 AM
5

You have to figure out how many hours in a week you have free to spend with women. Guys who claim to be dating 10 women at a time are full on liars and bullshitters. I dare you to do that with 3-4 women without going absolutely nuts and wanting to off yourself.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:11 AM
3

Pretty much
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:09 AM
1

Image growing up where every guy treats you like a piece of meat they want to fuck since they were 12. Men probably started looking at them "that way" even earlier. Everyone treats you differently because you are good looking and think you have some special powers. Even your parents will treat you nicer as opposed to a more conventional looking sibling. You get away with everything because all you have to do is bat your eyelashes. When you grow boobs and ass every man wants tot are you out, pay …
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:08 AM
8

Congratulations! You have now spent more time thinking and writing about this girl than actually hanging out with her. That officially makes you an average frustrated chump.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:03 AM
5

Men like hot bitches?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:48 AM
1

I give women the same advise as I give men. Be yourself. You are trying to read this man's mind and you can't do that. How do you know that maybe every woman looks at him and say "oh he is a good looking fuckboy and probably won't be good in bed", and maybe he is lonely and never taken seriously? Maybe every woman he comes across treats him like some arm candy and a dumb jock and that makes him feel dehumanized and fetishized? You don't know any of this. You are making assumptions. Your friends …
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:43 PM
534

Say it doesn't matter because you can't get it up anyway.
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:58 PM
2

Oh man. You are one of those. That's one of the rare times when I do recommend to men to change themselves for women. You are not changing yourself for a particular woman but for a group of people who you want to get along with. The issues is women have no interest in talking about logical, scientific stuff. It bored them to death the same way as some tiktok drama would bore you. If I were you, start by watching some more female centric shows just to get an idea of the other side. Something like…
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:52 PM
-2

Sonny Barger, the founder of the Hell's Angels is something like 5'2"-3". In sure he never had trouble getting laid or having multiple marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:47 PM
3

Same thing. "Hey we are a bunch of losers but you are a girl so you can help us get on the dance floor."
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:37 PM
24

Groucho Marx famously said: I wouldn't want to be part of a club that would have me as a member. Just think how utterly autistic and retarded it is to say that you have less respect for the women who like you for who you are, without you having to BS, pretend or lie to them. They just like you for you and don't make you jump through any hoops. But your self esteem is so low, that you assume that these women have extremely low standards in order to find a guy like you attractive. Think about how …
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:13 PM
3

As a rule of thumb, don't ask girls to help you get in the club. You look like a bunch of underage losers.
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:09 PM
0

Not really no.
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:56 AM
1

They are certainly all lies. Do not take it personally. Women are socialized to always be people pleasers so they will do stuff like flake or make up shit just to let you down easy. The big question is what is wrong with how you interact with them that it is causing them to not be all gay interested.
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:55 AM
3

I'm not even going to ask what this means. I will just go ahead and block you.
/r/seduction25/01/22 10:13 PM
0

Don't waste your time with this trash. Get David ax's feee ebook. It's floating around somewhere on the net or "How to get over the Bitch and grow balls they can't resist" PDF.
/r/seduction25/01/22 10:13 PM
1

And yet humans have managed to survive for hundreds of thousands if not millions of years. Someone must have been doing lots of fucky fucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:53 PM
1

Sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:19 PM
1

You just proved my point. Your friend makes no attempt to impress or show value and women figure out there is much more to him. A man who has to "show value" early on is simply selling, which makes the woman the buyer. Why give away so much so early on?
/r/seduction25/01/22 06:18 PM
19

Even worse, if you allow women to validate you they can also very easily invalidate you, which is why you have so many guys experience ups and downs when they start going out and talking to women. When you learn to validate your own self, you will lose all fear of women or need to impress them.
/r/seduction25/01/22 03:43 PM
1

Between 1-30%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:30 PM
6

Start with this exercise. Imagine that you meet someone who looks exactly like you, dresses the same, has the same social life, had the same history as you, etc. What would you think of him? Would you like him and will he be your best friend or will you dislike him? And if you dislike him or certain aspects of him, figure out why and figure out how to fix them. Do this until you finally start liking yourself and respecting yourself. If you are afraid of a club, then go and spend an entire night …
/r/seduction25/01/22 03:29 PM
2

I'm not saying you have to submit to your biological urges but I am aware of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:24 PM
2

What is your purpose?
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:37 PM
3

Definitely don't read this shit unless you want to be laughed at by women.
/r/seduction25/01/22 01:46 PM
2

This sounds so needy and pathetic and try hard.
/r/seduction25/01/22 01:44 PM
1

Not as much as liking and respecting yourself, and being non-needy. Women sleep with older and worse looking partners all the time because they provide something a pretty boy can't. I mean Mick Jagger is ancient and he just had a kid with a 20 something a few years ago. And before you say that he is rich and famous, if you are willing to make that exception for men, than you have to make other exceptions where looks don't matter nearly as much as you think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:33 PM
2

Sure, get a hair cut, clean your nose and ear hair, keep your nails nice and trim and for god sakes, make sure you smell good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:28 PM
2

This behavior is so normalized in men that anyone behaving outside of this norm is immediately labeled as a Chad with 10 foot penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:15 PM
5

Love my wife too much, we just try to keep it interesting and not take each other for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:11 PM
1

"So no dating, but hooking up?"
/r/seduction25/01/22 12:10 PM
4

Men are wired to seek variety. The fastest way to kill a man's libido is have him fuck the same woman over and over and only her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:13 AM
-1

Sorry big alpha man, who is not allowed to express his feelings!
/r/seduction25/01/22 11:10 AM
1

Displaying high value by trying to be impressive signals to a woman that you are the seller and she is the buyer. Which puts her in the power position to evaluate you, kick your tires and potentially audition you over a number of dates. You become boyfriend material and you can't hook up with boyfriend material right away. No, you have to play hard to get, spend time getting to know him and pretend you are prim and proper because that's how they j e been raised their whole lives. But if you come…
/r/seduction25/01/22 11:10 AM
1

4% is one out of 25 people. How many people do you know personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:11 AM
2

https://www.amazon.com/How-Sex-Works-Smell-Taste/dp/006147966 For a summary of some of the conclusions in the above book, you can read this article: https://vancouversun.com/news/good-sex-science-serves-up-the-secret https://jech.bmj.com/content/59/9/749
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:52 AM
2

I've been thinking about you. I want to take you out.
/r/seduction25/01/22 08:24 AM
11

Are you autistic?
/r/seduction25/01/22 08:23 AM
3

Not according to the studies I've read plus the overwhelming evidence that a large percentage of fathers are not the fathers of their children supports my thesis. During ovulation a woman will value a man for the quality of his sperm, not his child rearing abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:18 AM
1

Beauty in men doesn't matter because a man doesn't have to carry a child, so his beauty is irrelevant. It's much more important that the man has high testosterone and looks and behaves nothing like her brother or father, because women instinctively look for a guy with a different genetic make up than she is in order to have the healthiest offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:03 AM
2

I have noticed two things. One, women need emotional polarity/tension to feel attraction towards their partner. Nice guys kill all emotional tension. They want everything to be predictable. Bad boys, create emotional tension just by living their lives and being caught up in their own drama and BS. Go read a romance novel. None of the stories are about a woman who married a guy and 19 years later living the same boring, monotonous life feels super sexy and adventurous with him. Doesn't happen. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:01 AM
1

They are probably responding to you, meaning you are coming across as trying too hard which signals to them that they are the chooser/buyer.
/r/seduction25/01/22 06:20 AM
0

I mean if you can't be bothered to change your life why do you expect a bunch of randos on Reddit to care?
/r/seduction25/01/22 06:18 AM
1

Displaying high value is actually counter productive to your game and to getting laid fast.
/r/seduction25/01/22 06:18 AM
37

Women are approached in one of 3 ways: "Omg, you are the most beautiful woman I have ever seen, I will crawl a mile on my belly for a chance to be with such a beauty as yourself, I will eat your shit if I have to..." which of course doesn't make a woman feel particularly good about herself, especially if she is good looking because she's heard it all before and mostly because the last thing she wants is a guy who will bend over backwards and sacrifice himself for her. Then you have: "Hey there, …
/r/seduction25/01/22 06:17 AM
1

The most boring thing which women hear from 99% of guys is actually the stuff pick up artist preach you should do as soon as possible, which is build rapport. Rapport is for losers. Questions like where are you from, where do you live, what do you do for work are so increasingly boring to women that you probably get left on read because of them (if you do this shit). Instead, be confidently playful, have some light sexual innuendo and go for the hang out directly. Don't beat around the bush. Say…
/r/seduction25/01/22 06:10 AM
-8

Yes, you are as dumb as a rock.
/r/seduction25/01/22 06:06 AM
2

You have spent more time thinking (and writing this post) than you have spent with her in person. Think about how pathetic this is.
/r/seduction25/01/22 06:05 AM
1

Yes dude, what do you think being a Nice Guy is? Look up "covert contracts": making a contract where you are the only side that knows about the actual contract. In his case: "if I drive her from the airport, this will earn me brownie points, and if I deposit enough brownie points like in a vending machine, sex will fall out".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:04 AM
2

I will take this a step further. If I want to be hired as a software developer, I would learn how to program and be really good at it. If I want to get in bed wjth women right away, then I'd learn how to be the guy that gets them in bed right away. And guess what, that's not the high value, high status guy, because the second you present yourself as a high value guy, a woman starts thinking about how to appear as girlfriend material and girlfriend material can't be hooking up on the first date. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:51 AM
1

Have people considered that women are turned on by different criteria than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:37 PM
0

When you stop seeing women as property that if used by another man is the equivalent of stealing from you, you kind of relax and are okay with whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:20 PM
13

Oh yeah the magical mind reading skills that I can teach you at my seminar for just $1,999. Or you can do it for free by growing a pair of balls and expressing your interest in a woman directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:54 PM
1

Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:17 PM
1

Personally, I would have picked Milwaukee over LA: https://youtu.be/-axgs3tkOaU
/r/seduction24/01/22 11:54 AM
5

Who cares? What do you want?
/r/seduction24/01/22 11:46 AM
2

For the same reason men chase after hot pieces of ass, spend their hard earned money and simp overtime although these hot girls didn't even acknowledge their existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:45 AM
21

Dude, the problem is not men expressing love or affection or that they care about the woman they are with. The problem is that guys often make a woman the center of their lives. She becomes their adventure instead of someone to take with on an adventure. No woman wants to be a man's sole source of purpose in his life. It's pathetic to behave this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:58 AM
7

It's not for everyone. It's difficult juggling a few women, they demand a lot of attention and time. The idea that some Chad just allays around and has a bunch of hoes in speed dial who come over whenever he wants them is retarded.
/r/seduction24/01/22 08:16 AM
3

Yes, she will be dreaming about that excock. She might even sext him when you roll over and fall asleep after your 7 min performance. She may even go and suck some random guys dick because it reminds her of the naughty stuff she did at that hotel wjth her ex.
/r/seduction24/01/22 08:14 AM
7

Lol, how would a virgin know any of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:09 AM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:28 AM
8

Fuck no
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:22 AM
2

Let me ask you something? So are men just mad that women believe they are worthy enough of a high value mate? Are men mad that they themselves do not feel worthy of being one or being with one? Is that really a female problem or a male problem? What is stopping you from feeling deserving of the top 20% of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:21 AM
1

There is a way around it. Pay a girl to sleep with you, but also film it and distribute it for money or just post it for free on the internet and it's perfectly legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:17 AM
6

I mean if men only want sex why can't we just be honest about it. Why go through this song and dance?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:33 PM
13

How do you define manipulation? Because if we were honest, a guy who buys a girl dinner and drinks, opens the door for her, offers to drive her home from the date, and during the date he talks about how much he loves his mom and his dog and about his MBA and accountant job that is really stable, all in the hopes that a woman would be impressed by his ability to provide and agree to have sex wjth him. Is this any less manipulative than a woman who might want to extract a couple of free dinners?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:22 PM
2

You should ask your female friends about the term "ugly sexy", which as a guy you wouldn't have heard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:00 PM
2

Why are you spending so much time thinking about what she is thinking which is certainly more time than you have actually spent with her?
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:39 PM
7

I don't see how it is in women's best interest to want more nice guys out there that they wouldn't want to fuck rather than less. How would it benefit them to have less of a pool of attractive males to choose from? It's like dudes advising women to not wear make up and not worry about their hair or nails or wearing high heels because they like a natural woman. Then these guys of course have to chase after the 2 hot bitches that are left that everyone else chases after. It's a merge ultimate self…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:18 PM
9

Is it moral to present yourself as better than you are, to hide your flaws, to boast how stable your career is and how good your 401k is and how you have never ever committed any crimes or cheated on anyone. Is it moral to put on a mask because deep down you feel like a worthless piece of crap, is it moral to give someone gifts, including buying them drinks, dinners or doing nice things for them in hopes of obtaining sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:04 PM
3

This is really a misconception a lot of men have that is due to them projecting their own arousal standards onto women. For a man to become aroused he needs two things. One is a woman who is good looking enough (a standard that changes the later into the night it gets and the more beers you've had). The second thing is that the woman must appear willing. And that's all it takes for a man to get aroused and be ready for sex. He doesn't need to know her name, where she's from, if she grew up in go…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:01 PM
-1

Tik tok and Insta influencers. In other words, mind cancer.
/r/seduction23/01/22 08:04 PM
4

What do you think that "no spark" means exactly?
/r/seduction23/01/22 04:35 PM
11

The top 1% of guys. Literally for every 100 women here is only 1 guy they date. He has to split his day in three in order to have a relationship with a different woman in the morning, at noon and in the evening each day in order to satisfy all 100 women at the same time in an average month. These guys are the hardest working men to have ever been born. Women are in relationships with them yet get to see them only once a month. These women at the same time have all the choice and the power in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:34 PM
3

That's a bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:03 PM
1

How about you stop treating women like a collection of moist holes, whether white or slightly darker.
/r/seduction23/01/22 11:13 AM
5

Just sit home and jerk off to porn. That will solve all your problems.
/r/seduction23/01/22 11:10 AM
1

Sexual innuendo. The only way to do it right.
/r/seduction23/01/22 08:01 AM
1

You should bang while your husband watches.
/r/seduction23/01/22 08:01 AM
23

Men are literally the dumbest animal to ever roam this earth.
/r/seduction23/01/22 07:56 AM
2

As u/Spartan-kick said, just be honest. Tell her you can't promise anything, you can't promise that you will be together for the rest of your lives, but that you promise her you will try your best to put a smile on her face at the end of the night.
/r/seduction23/01/22 07:54 AM
0

Lololololololol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:49 AM
4

Ah, you finally understand who the real prize is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:47 AM
1

👌
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:12 PM
1

Actually the best way to kill your neediness is to just have good conversations and let her go without trying to get a number. As a matter of fact make your outcome to be no outcome other than just chatting.
/r/seduction22/01/22 09:55 PM
7

Was locked down for a year total during the past two years and found this community out of sheer boredom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:00 PM
-8

Super needy my dude. Super needy.
/r/seduction22/01/22 08:04 PM
-8

So you set a date and then blew up her phone like a needy pathetic loser and you wonder why she never called you back?
/r/seduction22/01/22 07:52 PM
4

If all of this were true, only 3-5% of all men would be of interest to women. Yet somehow by your own admissions (not yours personally, OP, but people who share your views) the majority of women are taken and/or have no trouble getting gangbanged every day. So how come all of these women are in relationships wjth only the top 3% of men. The numbers don't work considering the m/f ratio is basically 1:1. So no or every 100 guys there are 100 women. So 80 of these women are fucking and in relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:42 PM
0

I get it that you want to take out your frustration on someone but consider this truth for a minute. All these men are lusting over women, but women are not lusting over them. So something's gotta give. Do you call your customer stupid because they don't want to buy your shitty product?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:39 PM
0

It's not the desire. Desire is fine. It's the neediness that men project that's the biggest turn off. Neediness is the attraction killer. It obliterates all sexual arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:37 PM
18

The amount of pussy I missed on because I was too pussy to make a move would make Wilt Chamberlain blush.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:32 PM
3

Yet here you are, lusting after these women, but they ain't lusting after you. So you can chalk it off to their hypergamy, monkey branching, evilness or whatever other excuse you can come up with OR you can make an effort to understand what they are looking for and become the type of man who is more appealing to women. I think you have obviously chosen the first option.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:17 AM
6

One thing is clear. You are lusting after these women but they are not lusting after you. But of course, that's all their fault, these hypergamous, monkey branching, Chad loving sluts, who don't know what's good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:08 AM
2

This tells me all I need to know. True colors always come out eventually. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:40 AM
2

Do spontaneous things. Get on a plane and go to Spain. Rent a car and go n a cross country trip without booking a hotel and find motels along the way. Organize a party for your friends. Just do stuff for them purpose of having an adventure and not for impressing women or proving that your life can be an epic and fun ride. If you are coming from the intention of wanting to prove that you are fun, it will have the exact opposite effect. You won't enjoy yourself and you will come across as a try ha…
/r/seduction22/01/22 10:38 AM
4

I've witnessed the other side which men never see, that is from the perspective of a young woman who is on these apps. The reality is that you think a text is a text, but there is a ton of sub-communication that goes on that if you are not attuned to, it would just fly over your head. At the most basic level, the majority of men are boring. They go straight for rapport questions such as where are you from, where do you live, what do you do. From a woman's perspective, it looks like this. She goe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:23 AM
2

No, you need to be non-needy. Guys who need validation from women to prove to themselves that they are sexually attractive by the same token give women the power to invalidate them. This creates fear and resentment of women because you believe they have this great, terrible power over you.
/r/seduction22/01/22 09:40 AM
2

You are needy because you are focusing on doing things you think women want instead of doing what you want. You are thinking for them.
/r/seduction22/01/22 09:38 AM
2

Is this a serious question? Are you autistic?
/r/seduction22/01/22 09:37 AM
9

Give up the need to prove anything to anyone.
/r/seduction22/01/22 09:36 AM
1

Probably come across as too needy. It's really a vibe so you don't even have to do much to give it off. Stop trying to get numbers so you can get dates. Start showing up as a man, be honest, be truthful and don't expect any specific outcome.
/r/seduction22/01/22 09:35 AM
1

Lol
/r/seduction22/01/22 09:34 AM
3

Having a harem nessecitates that a man is honest about not being exclusive with any single woman. When I used to have two or three girlfriends at a time, I didn't make them all aware of each other or rubbed their noses in the fact that I may have spent the previous night at someone else's place, but there was no expectation of exclusivity. That part I had made clear from the very start before the relationship turned sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:31 AM
3

Sure, I'm just making the point that most people end up with the runner up and not their number one. Only super desperate dudes who haven't smelled a pussy in years claim that their dream girl is some average plain broad. They are lying to us and most importantly to themselves. Because if so check their browsing history in PornHub it won't be in the category "average plain, slightly chubby chicks".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:13 AM
0

Oy vey
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:16 AM
9

You have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women actually find attractive. As a male you think with your male brain that is wired to focus on looks and some qualities like "he has a good job", which is how your mom told you it should work. In real life, women are attracted to more intangible qualities that a man sub-communicates. Does he take charge, is he direct and straightforward or is he just a horny guy that would hit up whatever? Does he come across as confident and purposeful or is h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:52 AM
2

You validate yourself. That's the only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:24 AM
2

Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:24 AM
1

If you can't delight in feminine beauty, I wouldn't want to live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:18 AM
-8

If policemen, firemen, doctors and soldiers were all like you, our society would have collapsed thousands of years ago. We can't overcome your phobias and fears for you. Only you can do that.
/r/seduction22/01/22 12:25 AM
4

It's not biological. It's because your father never taught you how to behave and relate to women. He never gave you validation and that's why you seek it from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:00 PM
2

Lol women totally do not choose men. Men are the initiators and therefore the choosers. Plus chasing is the worst strategy ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:34 PM
0

The best thing I ever did for my dating life was to stop presenting myself as better or different than I am. Of course, this necessitated that I completely accepted and liked myself first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:11 PM
17

How many men are banging their absolute dream girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:10 PM
3

Yeah, it's call go out there and show up as a man and get the women you want. It's available at Blockbusters.
/r/seduction21/01/22 09:46 PM
14

Take women on an adventure, but don't make them the adventure.
/r/seduction21/01/22 09:30 PM
-8

Women approach all the time.
/r/seduction21/01/22 09:29 PM
2

You completely misunderstood what I have communicated. You conflate not needing validation with being a girlfriend wjth a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:25 PM
6

Nobody can invalidate you unless YOU give them that power. If you validate yourself, then anybody else's opinion of you, especially those people who you do not admire such as a stranger you swiped right on an app, doesn't matter one bit. This is impossible for someone who doesn't value themselves highly to actually comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:12 PM
5

Relax hombre.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:12 PM
3

Now can you apply that appreciation and acceptance to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:09 PM
11

Are you that needy, desperate and pathetic?
/r/seduction21/01/22 08:06 PM
5

Why would you even want women if they weren't wonderful?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:03 PM
11

You cannot be rejected if you don't want or need anything from the person. You get rejected only when you have your hand out, metaphorically speaking, wanting or needing validation. You should try it sometime. It is a wonderful feeling and women tend to want to be around you much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:02 PM
13

Sure, the perpetual victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:33 PM
1

Then look for girls who are shorter than you are or reframe our height as being the most attractive thing about you. That's how you demolish insecurities.
/r/seduction21/01/22 07:03 PM
0

Oh my a fattie might actually get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:02 PM
27

The biggest issue men have is their unquenchable thirst to be sexually validated by women. If you give women the power to validate your sexual attractiveness and worth as a man and human, you, by extension, give them the power to invalidate you just as easily by simply rejecting your advances. It is also extremely unfair to burden women with the responsibility of validating you as a man. It is not their job to do so and it is extremely taxing for them to be given this burden which they never wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:47 PM
2

Hating is the realm of insecure people. People who love themselves have no interest in judging others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:42 PM
1

You want these girls to like you which is neediness. You are trying to prove to them that you are someone worth dating despite your height. Present them with a choice: take it or leave it. Stop trying to prove anything to them because that means you consider their opinion of you more important than your opinion of you.
/r/seduction21/01/22 06:41 PM
4

Who is forcing you to pork fat chicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:39 PM
0

It's non needy.
/r/seduction21/01/22 05:20 PM
1

Dude she doesn't want to see you.
/r/seduction21/01/22 05:19 PM
2

Stop trying to prove anything to anyone.
/r/seduction21/01/22 05:18 PM
2

You sound so needy trying to figure out how to impress this woman and get her to open her legs for you.
/r/seduction21/01/22 05:17 PM
14

If guys spent half the energy they spend hating on women for one thing or another to actually improve their self esteem and confidence, they would never have dating problems ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:14 PM
3

So the guy was making boyfriend noises but in reality he only wanted casual sex? Classic watch what he does and not what he says.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:16 PM
-2

Infinitely more men suffer from delusions of inadequacy than delusions of grandeur.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:43 PM
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The only thing that's stopping is your own delusions of inadequacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:27 PM
1

Who cares. Important thing is whether you like her.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:24 PM
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Just keep talking to her as if she wants to jump your bones. That's how I treat all women anyway.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:22 PM
0

No fucking way. She should stay locked up in a room with no windows all day and have no access to internet or social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:41 PM
0

Just one more thing for neurotic guys to feel insecure about while guys who don't care about this stuff are banging chicks left and right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:40 PM
2

Look, unless you are prepared to dump her none of the advice we give you will work.
/r/seduction21/01/22 07:05 AM
4

It only happens to every man ever. Once you ice into it, she will treat you like her little bitch and forget about sex.
/r/seduction21/01/22 07:04 AM
1

Well some of these sounds like women who are PMSing, so there's that. Being on their period is basically like being drugged by your own hormones. For the rest, I highly recommend you look up Johnny Soporno's seductive reasoning seminars. He explains a lot of the differences between how men and women are socialized.
/r/seduction21/01/22 07:01 AM
3

Don't get needy and desperate bro.
/r/seduction21/01/22 06:58 AM
2

Nobody is shaming men for using porn. They are earning them against the negative effects of overuse. It's just a dark rabbit hole you don't want to go into. You'd benefit more from therapy to detoxify you from your toxic beliefs about women and dating, and most of all about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:54 AM
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Go to therapy, work on the underlying issues. Cognitive behavior therapy is great for working on your anxiety, depression and self esteem. Women have an entire multi billion dollar beauty industry that offers support to help make you more attractive. From clothes, to make up, to whatever beauty products. Take advantage of it all and maximize your looks as that's what will attract men. Start putting yourself out there in small steps. Don't overwhelm yourself but set yourself some goals you want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:53 AM
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Every species has gone extinct sooner or later. We are in another great extinction and our time will come as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:34 PM
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No average women are bedding model tier playboys who can get models themselves. That happens only in some incel's dumb self flagellating fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:33 PM
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Women approach all the time just not in the "hey hot stuff" type of way that you may want them to. But they will look at you, smile, hover around you, make an excuse to ask you something, dancing or bending over in your line of sight, etc.
/r/seduction20/01/22 09:12 PM
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Yup
/r/seduction20/01/22 09:09 PM
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Here is what I have to say about this. By and large, men judge women based on their physical attributes. A woman's beauty is an indicator of her ability to bear healthy children. Everything that we find attractive has a specific evolutionary and biological function. Plump red lips, long, strong hair, intoxicating scent, butt, hips, hip to waist ratio, etc. All of these attributes tell us the degree of a woman's child rearing fitness. Women judge men differently. Men do not have to bear children.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:10 PM
0

A simple rule of thumb is: a woman's n-count is always higher than what she would like it to be and a man's n-count is always lower than what he would like it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:51 PM
0

I'm afraid you are wrong.
/r/seduction20/01/22 02:50 PM
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Do you apply the same standard to yourself? You'd never fuck a good looking woman who is willing even though you don't know her very well? How long do you vet women before you sleep with them? How many dates is your minimum?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:48 PM
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Okay, so by the same token a woman is under no obligation to treat you the same way that she's treated more sexually arousing men/Chads than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:31 PM
2

This sounds like a reverie for depression and self hate.
/r/seduction20/01/22 12:23 PM
0

You are not going to like what I have to say, but it works like this. A man's sex drive increase the longer he goes without sex. A woman's sex drive decreases the longer she goes without sex. And inversely, the more a man has sex wjth the same woman, the more his sex drive decreases. For a woman it's the opposite. The more sex she has, the hornier she gets. The only way to get your man back is to introduce some variety into your sex life and yes, that means other women.
/r/seduction20/01/22 12:22 PM
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You are overthinking this. If you look at women as some magical beings who can dispense validation of your sexual attractiveness, by the same token they can also invalidate you by rejection you. You are giving them too much power over you.
/r/seduction20/01/22 09:49 AM
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Here is the issue. Women put men into 5 categories. This guy is a creep. This guy is just a guy, basically invisible This guy is a nice guy, I would like to be friends with him (but nothing more) This guy is a great guy and relationship material, I better bring my A game, withhold sex so he doesn't see me as a slut I want to have sex wjth this guy right now, because he turns me on, he has no expectations and he accepts me as I am without judgement. If you are finding yourself at #4 all the time,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:01 AM
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That's quite the self own bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:57 AM
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So you demand consistency out of a woman but provide now such consistency with your own actions? Because I assume you will treat a "girlfriend/wife" material one way as opposed to a "slut/promiscuous" woman another way as men usually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:55 AM
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I will tell you a little story that also can be used as an example of why men these days are coming up short. My father was a nice guy wimp. He was a hard worker, raised through the ranks, did everything right. He let my mom walk all over him, argue with him, disrespect him. He took out his frustration on me and my brother and drank a lot. It took me years to shake off the fear I had of him and to realize that I never respected him as a man. When a boy doesn't have a father figure to respect or …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:24 AM
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Nah, wait until you are 85. That's when pussy starts to come to you.
/r/seduction20/01/22 06:08 AM
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Find something o their profile you can make a funny playful comment on. Keep up the playful confidence for a few texts and then say "I like you, let's go out", or "you sound funny and interesting, I want to take you out for drinks on this day or that day". It is very important that you do it exactly as I have written it down and not change a single word (except specify the days). Most guys don't tell women they want to see them, they meekly hint at it or ask like pussies. This is a huge turn off…
/r/seduction20/01/22 06:05 AM
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David X
/r/seduction20/01/22 06:00 AM
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It means he got all needy and pathetic and is blaming it on her.
/r/seduction20/01/22 06:00 AM
7

It's more concerning that no one shows you respect which means you don't respect yourself. I would start there by earning my own respect and liking myself before you start worrying about social proof.
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:58 AM
1

A gentleman doesn't kiss and tell.
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:57 AM
2

Don't focus on stupid techniques developed by magician nerds. If anything the best thing is to be playfully confident and naughty. For example if she asks you "so what do you do for work", say "you know, no offense but these type of questions are so boring, let's save them for like the 10th date. I have a better idea. Let's play 2 truths and a lie. Let me start" and then say something ridiculous and playful. This is a much better way of engaging and being interesting. As for when you take her to…
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:57 AM
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Correct don't get all horny and creepy. Compliment only on things related to her character, like being funny or interesting, etc. if she is boring, drop her. Have standards.
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:51 AM
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What seems to work is find something on their profile that you can make a playful joke about. It can be a little naughty but not too much. Avoid like the plague any questions about where she lives; what she does for work, etc. Boring, boring, boring. Exchange a few playful messages if she engages and then go for the kill. Don't ask them out, tell them! Say something like "Let's go out" or "You sound funny and interesting. I want to take you out for a drink/coffee on this day or that day".
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:36 AM
4

Why are you so desperate and needy that you have to bother girls with headphones? Find the ones who actually want to meet guys and get banged silly. Jesus
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:48 PM
8

Never ask her this. Just assume that she is interested in sleeping with you.
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:48 PM
6

It's called total grievance recall.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:40 PM
1

I will sum it up this way: Men rag on each other, but that's okay because they don't mean it. Women are nice to each, but that's okay because they don't mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:51 PM
0

Don't be an excuser.
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:05 PM
1

Because you are obsessed with trying to impress women with your looks or worried about your looks. You are okay. You are enough. Relax. You got nothing to prove to anybody but yourself. This will make you more attractive than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:05 PM
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Megan Fox is screwing a tall skinny tattooed pasty white guy. So is Kim K apparently if you believe the Pete D rumors. If you as a man are so obsessed over looks you deserve to be sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:35 PM
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The only rejection which hurts is the self rejection. If you accept and love yourself, what someone who knows nothing about you thinks of you will matter not a single bit. If they want to go after another man or woman, that's their prerogative. If you are dependent on the approval of others in order to feel good about yourself, you will always be at the mercy of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:33 PM
1

So you hit on other women in front of her and insulted her a few times? Am I missing something here?
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:08 AM
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Bro, here is why you will fail and continue to fail with women throughout your life. Listen carefully because you mr dad never gave you that advice. Okay? Your whole post is written from the perspective of you worrying about what the woman wants. You are thinking about what she is thinking. Read it again. You are thinking about what she is thinking so you can adjust your thinking to match what she is thinking. Do you see how fucked up that is? You are trying to bend your life, your actions, your…
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:28 AM
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NEVER EVER EVER APPROACH A WOMAN FROM THE BACK YOU CREEP. DON'T BE A CREEPY EXCUSER AND APPROACH A WOMAN FROM THE FRONT SO SHE CAN SEE YOU.
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:20 AM
1

Why do you keep mentioning that you have been a dick to her? You are not telling the full story.
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:18 AM
1

Only men who think their only worth as a partner is the income they bring to the table are threatened. Men who like themselves don't feel threatened at all. We rejoice at independent women because we feel no obligation to provide tour security.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:17 AM
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It's always both. I always cringe when women say they put on make up for 2 hours a day, spend the entire weekend shopping for outfits (and not buying any and still calling it a good time), wearing high heels that kill their legs, shaving, watching what they etc, and only doing it for themselves. Yeah right! You are doing it for yourself and because it gets you validation and approval from others. Saying otherwise is lying through your teeth. Same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:15 AM
1

It's the most retarded idea I've ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:12 AM
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Bro you don't understand that the biggest problem men have is that they wouldn't want to be part of a club that would have them as a member. If they actually find a group of people who would accept them as they are, they would think "gosh what a group of losers they are because they accepted me, the ultimate loser, among their ranks". They apply the same thinking to women. If a woman somewhere actually liked them for who they are not for the puffed up veneer they are trying to present to the wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:10 AM
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I'm not sure it is about fatness tbh. I used to suffer from extremely low self esteem and when you are in that dark hole you literally start imagining all these things that are wrong with you. If you look hard enough you will always find something wrong. At the end of the day, it is a mental distortion, a disease like body dysmorphia. I remember watching a documentary segment about anorexia and there was a girl that looked like a concentration camp survivor and she said she looks in the mirror a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:05 AM
0

Send her this message: "Hi XXx, I can't stop thinking about you. I want to see you this Thursday or Friday night."
/r/seduction18/01/22 09:38 PM
3

My vetting process is upwards of 3-6 months. So that long at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:09 PM
1

No, they all want to be with a guy who is the shit and they would feel lucky to be with him. Yes, that included your mom and your sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:00 PM
1

Meatpacking district
/r/seduction18/01/22 05:37 PM
1

That's not old don't sell yourself short. What kind of crowd do you like? Party girls, college girls, upscale posh girls?
/r/seduction18/01/22 05:30 PM
1

Just go to a bar or club bro.
/r/seduction18/01/22 05:21 PM
2

So who are these women who are having a new guy ever other day fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:08 PM
1

So who is fucking all these good looking women? Aliens? Other chicks? The same 5 Chads that are fucking all 3.5 billion women? Who the fuck is FUCKING ALL THESE WOMEN!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:52 PM
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If you like scraping the bottom of the barrel, which many guys seem to want to do. Just don't pile the rest of us normal guys who can get laid with good looking women onto your ship of desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:15 PM
2

All natty bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:22 AM
3

I work wjth a young cute girl who shows me her dating apps. She is not obese, ugly or deformed. Actually pretty attractive, slim and athletic. She is not getting 100 likes and matches a day. The men she does match with, 90% of them are total pussies. It's always: so where are you from, what do you do for a living, how long have you lived here? It's so boring. The equivalent for a guy would be if he was surrounded by 1s and 2s giving him all the attention in the world, offering him bjs, etc. it's…
/r/seduction18/01/22 08:00 AM
1

No
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:51 AM
1

You are a man, you have to take action. You think Prince Charming is going to fall out of the sky? Do you thinks a naked girl will magically materialize herself in your bedroom?
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:50 AM
1

Order light beers and drink lots of water between drinks.
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:47 AM
5

"Hey" doesn't work. Try "Hi". I've gotten laid tons using "Hi".
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:46 AM
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I'd give anything to have boners just from holding hands. Ah, don't get old.
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:45 AM
1

Incel tears
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:34 AM
4

6 dates and now sex? Yeah I'm outta here.
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:22 AM
3

Of course it's me in the profile pic. Why would I put a photo of someone like like a famous actor from a funny movie for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:16 AM
1

Women: Hot: Sofia Vergara Average: Emma Stone Not: Lena Dunham Men: Hot: James Gandolfini (Tony Soprano), Bruce Willis Average: Matt Damon Not: Nicholas Cage
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:14 AM
5

Maybe a New York six, but like an Ohio 8-9.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:04 AM
2

The reason that it doesn't work long term is that if you begin with a baseline of considering women nothing more than a collection of moist holes and pretending to be a confident alpha male so you can get together with them, eventually that front will give way to the real you, which might not be all that impressive. Women feel cheated and taken advantage of all the time. It's like the guy who pays and pays for dates, vacations, department store trips, and he gets to walk around wjth a hot girl a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:54 AM
3

The default advice should be "You are good enough as you are". Your problem is that you believe you have a problem and that's what makes it real to you.
/r/seduction17/01/22 06:38 PM
16

Ugh? Are you that desperate? It's okay if you are.
/r/seduction16/01/22 09:54 PM
1

*shit
/r/seduction16/01/22 08:01 PM
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Dude ignore all these people man. Your problem is very apparent to me and it will take some effort to solve. You actually don't have a problem, but you believe you do which makes it real for you and women pick up on that. The issue is that you don't seem to like or respect yourself very much. You don't think highly of yourself and therefore don't feel good about you. There are many reasons for this but it's mostly due to childhood upbringing and not getting enough positive reinforcement from par…
/r/seduction16/01/22 08:00 PM
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They are not wrong, but just because you are getting signals doesn't mean you are not coming across as either trying too hard or being a simp. Women really experience one of two or theee approaches. The "hey what's up baby, let me show you how great and awesome I am by wearing my nicest clothes and most expensive watch and huffing and puffing myself up and trying to impress you. OR The "wow you are the most beautiful woman i have ever seen, I will eat 10 feet of your shit just to see where it co…
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:53 PM
1

When I was single Union Square and a bunch of different Starbucks around the NYU campus. Washington Sq Park was decent too but now I hear a lot of people get stabbed there so it's probably not that nice.
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:50 PM
1

The ones who are looking to get laid.
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:48 PM
2

The only thing worth being embarrassed about is being a "do nothing Bitch".
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:48 PM
1

Her: Hey you guys do you have an after party, like at your place with condoms and shit. You: ughhjhjj, here is my Instagram, ughhhhhj
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:47 PM
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Remember kids, the only thing worth being embarrassed about is doing absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:05 PM
5

I keep harping on this but no one, especially guys, listen. Sure; a good looking man wjll get an audition of 60 seconds. He may even be assumed to be an awesome cool guy. But by and large, women judge men on their behavior. It is the behavior that determines if a man is truly arousing or not. A good looking man who doesn't behave like a quality guy will he quickly dismissed. And an average looking man who behaves like an alpha male, will always score women easily. What you are seeing is that a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:55 PM
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As long as the tiger speaks English I guess :) Plus remember that we mated for long before language was invented and all we had to communicate was our feelings and emotions that provided subcommunication through body language. That's how a woman knows that a man feels he is a top quality guy just by looking at him without him having to say a word. And yes that includes so called Chads who happened to feel good about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:15 PM
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I don't think you realize just how retarded this sounds that somehow humans managed to survive as a species for million years by going against their evolutionary drives. As I said, what's the point of men choosing good looking women when an ugly one is just as likely to produce a healthy baby? It's the same thing as you claim. In the last men chose young, healthy women because the circumstances necessitated that if they wanted their baby to survive it had the best chances of being carried by a y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:41 AM
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Sounds like you have some bitterness there buddy. Take a chill pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:21 AM
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Dude, women don't know how to raise a man just like a man doesn't know how to raise a woman. Again, barking up the wrong tree. You just need a scapegoat. Women aren't teaching boys that's its bad to be a man. No idea where you got this from. They are doing their best but since they are not men, they cannot impart the type of knowledge of their boys that would turn them into men. Women are socialized to please everyone, so they naturally impart the same conditioning onto boys which is extremely d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:20 AM
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If a beautiful girl that you thought was gorgeous and perfect confided in you that she actually puts on so much make up everyday, fake eyelashes, lip injections to make her look totally unrecognizable. Then she showed you that she has bolt on breast that look beautiful and juice under her bra, but her real breasts are small and saggy. And instead of being the perfect hourglass shape, she tells you that she wears a suffocating corset and when she removes it, her gut hangs out over her jeans. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:57 AM
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Women will certainly provide sex to guys who show up with something of high value, such as wealth, access to desirable things such as clubs and others. In the caveman days, Grok who could defeat a saber tooth tiger got his pick of cave chicks, and when he was tired of them, he allowed the beta cavemen to come around and offer furs and meat to his cave chicks so they would fuck said beta caveman. Things haven't changed much since 300,000 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:53 AM
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Everyone rags on feminism and single moms, but fail to point the finger to the only ones responsible for all of this, which is fathers. Fathers are supposed to impart this knowledge onto their sons, to help them transition from boys to men. They are the ones dropping the ball. So all the men's rights, MGTOW, TRp, etc are barking up the wrong tree as usual. I've never heard any of them say "You know what, the person who was supposed to make me a man, my dad, totally dropped the ball and my mom di…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:50 AM
1

It's like the Matrix. You don't question it because you believe it is your reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:46 AM
2

So the last 100 or so years totally changed evolutionary mechanisms that have been in play for millions of years? Let me ask you something. Do you still find good looking young women with large breasts and round butts attractive? Why? With modern medicine any woman is almost guaranteed to have a healthy pregnancy, so why bother to be attracted to good looking young women when any woman will do as long as she is of child bearing age?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:45 AM
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I mean they lead very different lives than you or I or most less attractive women. Have you seen girls who are 10-11 yrs old and you just know they will grow up to be super model looking? They get attention early on, get treated better. I've heard about parents who have one plain looking and one very hot daughter and the hot daughter gets more attention and stuff done for her than the other. Once they start developing, basically every boy and man wants to fuck them. It starts early. So early tha…
/r/seduction16/01/22 08:08 AM
2

Are you hitting on me?
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:59 AM
4

I've been at this for a very long time and I have noticed two specific correlations. Back in the day when I was clueless, I had what you may call on and off days. Some days I just could seem to fail, I was social, girls loved me and I would get numbers and line up dates. Other days, I couldn't get laid with a bag full of cash in a Tijuana whorehouse. The difference was that my on days were correlated with me feeling good about myself. Maybe I made a sales at work and was expecting a great commis…
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:58 AM
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Ask her "can I SERVICE YOU in any other way?"
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:48 AM
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I wasn't talk about fds specifically. I wouldn't touch these women with someone else's dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:46 AM
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Sure, totally believable. Cause I see frumpy, chubby women get Chads at the club all the time. SMDH
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:42 AM
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Sure Jan and the earth is flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:41 AM
1

You need to practice.
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:40 AM
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How do you explain the millions of make up, clothing, sex tutorials that you can dig up on Insta, tiktok and YouTube?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:21 PM
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So the ten thousand make up tutorials, the ten thousand hair tutorials, the million clothing and workout tutorials, the hundreds of "give him the best blow job he's ever gotten" articles in Cosmo have nothing to do with tips on how they can attract men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:20 PM
2

And somehow Homo sapiens and his predecessors managed to survive for over a million years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:17 PM
2

A guy who likes, values and respects himself. A man who doesn't do anything that he wouldn't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:14 PM
1

Humans are long due to go extinct so I'm just hastening the inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:13 PM
6

As I have said many times before, guys here talk about the 80/20 rule, but neglect to tell you that they only acknowledge the top 20% of women while the rest are too old, too fat or simply too plain for them to even acknowledge as existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:31 PM
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Aha, asking the right question! I believe it's a process. See, self esteem can be characterized as how you estimate yourself in relation to your expectations. If you believe that you MUST be 6', 6", 6 figure man and you estimate yourself to be less than that, you will feel like shit. Your expectations are unrealistic. As long as your expectations of yourself are beyond what you have demonstrated to be capable of, you will feel dejected. However, if you have no expectations to be the at tall, or …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:26 PM
0

All of this old school stuff is weird and creepy. It makes guys get laid even less then if they are a clueless average dude.
/r/seduction15/01/22 04:03 PM
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That's what I mean. You want to "play it right". Which is already in "trying too hard" land.
/r/seduction15/01/22 04:02 PM
0

At the PTA.
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:58 PM
4

Sure
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:52 PM
8

No, but chances are you weren't a good kisser.
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:52 PM
9

So you were super carefree and made no attempt to impress her and she was super attracted and now you are asking our advice on how to impress this girl, because that's the opposite of what you did?
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:51 PM
10

Show up as a man. That's all you need to do. Speak your truth, be honest, know what you want. It ain't rocket science.
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:50 PM
4

Please do not teach young guys how to be weird, socially retarded creeps.
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:49 PM
1

I mean it's someone at work.
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:49 PM
1

I have a pretty egalitarian relationship with my wife. She is very good at planning vacations and getaways and I'm the one making decisions on how to get there and figure out logistics. I make decisions on what we eat although if she has a strong opinion I will consider it. We cherish each other for who we are. We don't disrespect each other and curse at each other ever and if we ever do the other person is immediately called out on it. Our gender roles are simple. I'm a man, she's a woman and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:47 PM
28

Wife and I are childless. All I meet is parents who want you to share their misery and tell you how wonderful it is to have kids, no really, there is nothing like it in the world, I'm telling you, you won't have any regrets when you are elbow deep in shit and puke, I wouldn't exchange it for anything in the world! Hahahahahaha-hahaha as they hold their baby in front of you almost as if they are begging you to take them out of their misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:45 PM
1

How long does a man need to figure out if he wants to fuck a woman? I would say seconds if not fraction of a second. Same for women. Now to understand if you want the other person as a girlfriend/boyfriend, that takes a lot longer. But primal attraction takes a fraction of a second. But that's all it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:42 PM
1

The average man you see today. Okay, I will give it a stab. The average man as you describe him is a direct descendant of a band of few hundred Homo Sapiens in Africa who were near total extinction, yet he overcame all odds to repopulate the Earth to its present 7b people. The average man is a descendant of Grok, who fought saber tooth tigers and banged hot cave girls in leather mini skirts. The average man is a descendant of a warrior who held a sword, spear or shot a bow and arrow hundreds of …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:43 PM
1

That's a bingo!!! Create a problem then sell the solution!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:23 PM
2

I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:09 PM
2

Why would someone who thinks highly of himself put others on a pedestal? The two paradigms are incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:27 PM
0

No one is forcing you to believe anything or put anyone on a pedestal buddy. Try personal responsibility for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:48 PM
1

Still waiting on others to solve your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:28 PM
0

What are you on?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:49 PM
2

It absolutely does. You are just putting the cart before the horse, believing women will make you happy and complete. But no woman wants to be with a man who doesn't feel complete so it becomes a viscous circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:47 PM
2

It absolutely is because it has nothing to do with it. If this was the case, every married men would be the equivalent of the Buddha achieving Nirvana.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:46 PM
3

Pushed by men mind you. No one who has healthy self esteem and self respect cares about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:45 PM
7

Think about it this way. If you are alive today your lineage and DNA can be directly traced to a band of Homo sapiens in Africa who had to overcome insurmountable odd to survive and repopulate the earth. Your ancestors fought saber tooth tigers and mated with hot cave girls. Your grand grand grand fathers hundreds of years ago probably held a sword or a spear and killed another man. And here we are with a bunch of dudes being afraid to tell a woman she looks good in that dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:44 PM
1

Good observations, but wrong conclusion. What is the origin of self esteem? It's caused by a cultural phenomenon that parents impart on their children. They teach us that happiness is the award we get for pleasing others. Pleasing parents with good grades, good manners, clean clothes, doing what we are told, etc. As we grow up this carries itself over to pleasing others through our career choices, clothes we wear, status symbols we acquire, trying to impress women and please them so they can dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:38 PM
3

Can you imagine what women fee if that's what society expects of them? Any wonder why we think they are crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:47 PM
2

I don't disagree at all. Men especially are very conditioned to equate happiness with having a woman/sex. But to have woman/sex you need a nice car, a nice watch, trendy clothes. To have all of this you need to work really hard. So happiness is tied to having a woman and having a woman is tied to having material possessions. Is it any wonder men feel so dejected and low self esteem when society created a problem for them and then tells them the only way to solve it is to be well behaved provider…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:41 PM
0

No man who feels great about who he is is having trouble getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:31 PM
0

Glad it's working out for you. Whatever "it" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:26 PM
2

By and large they don't need to because men treat them like a collection of moist holes. So why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:09 PM
1

5-15 previous lovers is in my relatively inexperienced category.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:07 PM
9

You are correct! Worship for the gods (goddesses) can quickly turn into fear and hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:05 PM
2

The standard is low. Make decisions, wear the pants, show up as a man. It's not rocket surgery bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:04 PM
-2

Poor victim. You are still thinking that this is a woman problem and not a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:02 PM
5

How many such older friends and acquaintances do you know that are capable of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:36 PM
10

I believe the majority of people do not want any meaningful change because they have to leave their comfort zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:35 PM
2

Look at Pete Davidson. He has serious bags under his eyes and looks like he hasn't slept in weeks. He must be servicing this 5s and 6s overtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:34 PM
1

Oy vey
/r/seduction14/01/22 03:15 PM
22

The only reason to see women this way is because your perception of your own value is extremely low. It's no different, though a bit more rare, than a young woman who has daddy issues and who glorifies older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:02 PM
10

Of course! They consider them more interesting and edgy then some guy with the personality of white bread, who does everything by the book, always combs his hair the right way, has a stable job and paints by the numbers. Women crave two things from men - excitement and security. Most of you couldn't excite a dog with a bag full of steak. As for security? If you don't have an ounce of balls or backbone, how can a woman rely on you for safety and security?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:23 PM
2

Oh I am interested in other POVs, I just happen to think that yours is full of it. Nothing personal. But you still didn't work out the math for me. If there are a 100 women and a 100 men in the entire population, and 60 women are taken, by extension 60 men are also taken. 10 of the women are lesbians and fucking each other and let's say 10 of the men are gay and fucking each other. Out of the 30 left on each side, 20 are too old or undesirable on both sides. So it still leaves 10 women for 10 me…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:33 PM
10

You need to speak your truth and not worry about what women think. This doesn't mean being crude and gross, because that's just another way of rejection yourself if you think about it. Stop trying to do things in order to extract some outcome from women whether it's a smile, validation or a number. That makes you needy and creepy. Instead just be honest. If you see a beautiful woman "say, wow, you look gorgeous, I am really nervous saying that to you but also can't keep my mouth shut".
/r/seduction14/01/22 12:24 PM
1

Hold on hold on hold on! So who are the women who are taken with then? Are they perpetually taken? Do they only date Chads as well? How many Chads are there to go around? So you do admit that there are women who are old, undesirable and unattractive? I thought that most guys would fuck anything with a pulse, so what does it matter if she is old and undesirable? Or do you want to tell me that men also desire the top 20% of women who are young enough and hot enough? Doesn't that make you a hypocri…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:17 PM
2

I'm asking you to work out the math for me. Just FYI, I have asked that if many dudes and no one has ever been able to give me a satisfying answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:03 AM
1

So the top 1% of men each have 100 girls they are constantly banging? Like with such frequency that those women never complain and these men are also available to be in LTR with said women (remember the math, 100 women for every top 1% guy).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:55 AM
2

It's simple. Guys are sexually unsuccessful because they do not show up as MEN. They show up as boys, whimps and simps. They don't speak their truth. They don't even know what their truth is most times. Every single man alive right now carries the same genes that Grok did when he defeated saber tooth tigers and went on to mate with the hot cave girls in leather minis. Every guy alive today has a direct lineage to someone thousands of years ago that carried a sword or a spear and killed other men…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:56 AM
2

People have been relying on feelings for way longer than we've had language. Women are wired to sense how a guy feels about himself and an abusive asshole can still feel great about himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:52 AM
2

The fastest way to reduce a man's libido is make him have sex with only one woman for the rest of his life. It takes less than a few months for this drop to start once he is locked into a monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:44 AM
1

WHO EXACTLY IS FUCKING ALL THESE WOMEN THAT ARE GETTING SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS SO EASY???????? THERE ARE AS MANY WOMEN AS THERE ARE MEN, SO WHO EXACTLY IS FUCKING ALL OF THESE WOMEN????
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:42 AM
3

My best friend he must be batting close to 100 if not more (I'm guesstimating, we haven't talked about numbers). He is 6', now 40 and married but when he was single most of his action was in teens and 20s, high intelligence, low status and zero income. He was banging model looking girls being a broke student. How I would describe him? As the coolest person I know. He loves himself and he loves women even more. He is very honest and upfront with them and doesn't tolerate BS. Zero neediness. Never…
/r/seduction14/01/22 08:28 AM
1

This. 3 is the most I ever had and it was exhausting. Guys dreaming about harems of 10 girls they can call anytime are retarded. Women need tons of attention and affection and they for sure aren't sitting around waiting for you to call them over for a booty call.
/r/seduction14/01/22 08:25 AM
1

Lol, the harder you try the more your neediness shows through. Men really need to move away once and for all from these retarded pick up artist concepts such as push pull, DHV stories, negging. Remember that these were created by an autistic nerd who did magic card tricks to get phone numbers. It doesn't get more loserish than this.
/r/seduction14/01/22 08:22 AM
1

Look up David X (RIP) and Johnny Soporno.
/r/seduction13/01/22 09:54 PM
3

Women suck up your time, so you better enjoy pussy. Many guys talk big game and how they are banging 10 chicks in rotation and I know they are full of shit. The most I was able to have at the same time was 3 and between my full time job and hobbies i didn't have time for anything. Women need attention, speaking to on the phone. They want to spend meaningful holidays with you especially birthdays and Valentine's Day. How the duck do you pull that off?
/r/seduction13/01/22 09:41 PM
1

A shy guy with no shame? A confident guy who is ashamed of himself? Okay dude.
/r/seduction13/01/22 04:45 PM
3

It is possible she was waiting for you to step up as a man and be direct and to the point. It took you forever to get to this. You could have avoided all of this bs by simply texting her "Let's go out". Women never get a text like this. Instead they get what you described. Let me illustrate: Guy: Hi Sweetpants, this is Guy from random dating app Girl: Hi, there, yes I remember you Guy: How have you been Girl: Oh you, know, busy with exams Guy: oh really, what are you studying Girl: psychology Gu…
/r/seduction13/01/22 06:21 AM
11

Typical for guys who go out with the goal of getting numbers. Don't you realize women can feel this? It's no different than a woman who starts talking to you only because she can get something out of you like hoping you will buy her a drink at the bar and then fuck off. Change your purpose for approaching to seeing if the woman is interesting to you. And then, only if she is indeed interesting start thinking about making her the luckiest girl in the world and getting her number or giving her you…
/r/seduction13/01/22 06:12 AM
-5

It could be close to 100% if you know what you are doing.
/r/seduction13/01/22 06:09 AM
0

You are conflating being a pushover with zero boundaries with someone who loves women genuinely despite differences in the sexes. It seems that you have a hard time accepting things as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:08 AM
-1

How is someone who loves and adores women clingy? Perhaps you are projecting your own neuroses a bit too much. I love and adore myself and I also love and adore women. And guess what? Many love me back. Sure, I've met guys who harbor secret resentment towards women and they do get the occasional girl to go home with them, but they almost never have long term fulfilling success. My best friend absolutely adores women and he just have been wjth close to a 100 and they all loved him back.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:07 AM
1

I'm just here to look at the hamster wheel spin.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:45 AM
0

Why is the opposite of misogynistic kind and agreeable? For me the opposite would be someone who adores and loves women. These guys tend to drown in pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:00 PM
16

If there is one thing I've learned in my 40 years on this earth is that attraction isn't something you do, it's something that you are. You can only fake it for a short time before the woman finds out and feels used that you misrepresented yourself. It's not different than a woman pretending to be interested in you so she could get you to buy her dinner or take her on a nice trip. Just long enough to extract resources out of you. You are essentially doing the same thing, trying to pass off as a …
/r/seduction12/01/22 09:20 PM
4

Lol, of course they do. Women are way naughtier than you give them credit and they will show that side of themselves to men who are not judgmental. But most women and men are super judgmental so if you figure out how to give them non judgmental acceptance, you will get laid more than your wildest dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:38 PM
2

Yes, it means she wasn't turned on, nothing else. Don't delude yourself into thinking it is anything else, such as her not being ready to date, or anything else.
/r/seduction12/01/22 04:35 PM
3

If you don't know what you want, you won't like the results you are going to get.
/r/seduction12/01/22 04:35 PM
1

Displaying high value story. Something you tell girls to make you look cool when in actuality you are a loser.
/r/seduction12/01/22 09:23 AM
1

Start with this cheap online module, which I found extremely helpful: MoodGym.com.au After you finish it, look up a course on Udemy by TJ Guttormsen called "How to achieve reals self esteem from within" (or something similar).
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:34 AM
1

Just FYI, a lot of these girls like more macho guys, so you have to work on your dominance. Walk around like you own the place and be super focused on what you want. Ie expect that the woman will want to get on your page and not the other way around. To achieve this focus on what you want and only on what you want.
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:29 AM
6

God men are so fucking stupid. Is it any wonder you have such a hard time getting laid.
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:25 AM
1

It takes a magic combination of two things to attract men and turn them on. The first is that someone must be attractive enough. This criteria tends to be very fluid and changes based on how long it has been since they've had sex, how late in the night it is and how many beers they've had. The second magic factor is that a woman must appear willing. That's all it takes! So go and looksmaxx and then work on your body language and dressing to appear more willing.
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:25 AM
3

Wow there cowboy. Being friendly with women? Instead of creeping them out with cheesy pick up lines and DHV routines? In what world would that work?
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:14 AM
1

Doesn't matter because you are already living in her frame and trying to figure out how to get on with her program instead of her living in your frame trying to figure out how to get on with your program.
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:13 AM
3

Sure Jan
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:44 PM
2

Why? It's great news for guys who have trouble with women. All they need to do is figure out how to meet their own needs and they will be able to get plenty of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:44 PM
1

So tell her to come over right away.
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:40 PM
1

I say 3. And by that of course I mean only the girls whose ass I've nutted in. Similarly women have a number that doesn't include guys who don't count. Guys they blew, guys they were a bit tipsy with, guys they did in a MMF threesome, etc., they don't count!!! So they can keep their total number to under 10 which sounds like a nice low number.
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:38 PM
2

I've banged chicks ranging from a couple of tree ads older to about 12 years older.
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:38 PM
2

Women try to manipulate men all the time. Don't take it personally the first time and of course always stand your ground. If it happens a second time dump her.
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:37 PM
3

It's called flirting.
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:35 PM
1

Sounds like she was ovulating when you met and her cycle came again so she texted you for a booty call and then got pissed that you rejected her.
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:34 PM
1

You are what you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:13 PM
1

Yes you are pretty boring. Do you talk about where they are from and what they do for work?
/r/seduction11/01/22 01:03 PM
0

Experience. Whenever I've felt incomplete as a man and felt that only a woman could make me complete, I wasn't able to get any interest even with a fistful of cash in a Tijuana whorehouse. That's why when you handle this as a man, you become irresistible a lot of women (not every woman but enough to keep you happy), because they are the ones who need men more than the other way around. Anyone who says otherwise has no idea what they are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:36 AM
1

It is THE masculine trait they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:41 AM
-1

Because if you think you are insecure I will show you someone who is even more insecure than you and that's a hot girl. Women's natural state is insecurity. So when a person is insecure, what do they want? To attach themselves to someone secure. Guys actually do the same. They feel insecure, lonely, like a loser, so they want to attach themselves to a girl that will make them feel secure and cool. They rely on the woman to fulfill the role of the man. So when you have two insecure people meeting…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:40 AM
8

Men like OP assume that women just wake up with a full face of make up and hair done up and that their nails are naturally shiny and smooth. Absolutely no work put in to it /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:37 AM
2

This is a symptom of not thinking very highly of yourself and the value you can create. Look at it this way. Let's say there was a girl you really liked. And you happened to be in the same room with her as someone you really admire. Like the person in the world you are most crazy about, whether it be a celebrity, your favorite author, sportsman, whatever. You think this person is the coolest person in the world. Would you have any issues introducing someone who is that cool to our girl? Probably…
/r/seduction11/01/22 06:19 AM
3

Please don't ask. It kills the mood and shows that you are an inexperienced virgin.
/r/seduction11/01/22 06:15 AM
2

You out way too much value on someone who is a complete stranger and you know nothin to about. Think about how lame that is.
/r/seduction11/01/22 06:15 AM
-5

Omg she is so into you that she got scared shitless of actually meeting you. She is probably sitting in a corner with her vibratory fantasizing about you but can't grow the balls to actually meet you in person. You should just show up at her house and watch her from across the street. This way you will really lower her nervousness and she will fall in love with you.
/r/seduction11/01/22 06:13 AM
3

There is nothing sexy about being the provider. Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:00 AM
0

Before he was famous. lol you guys can't even keep your stories straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:58 AM
3

I'm pretty sure they do. Or are at least convinced women hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:36 PM
2

I was just done thinking about you in the shower.
/r/seduction10/01/22 09:19 PM
3

That's what is basically 90% of men's actual problem when it comes to the ladies. They don't feel good enough. Yes, I overcame it. It's a process and I encourage you to first at cognitive behavior therapy which will help you challenge distorted thought patterns to start having a more realistic view of yourself and then look at some self esteem programs, that basically have you do something nice for yourself every single day until you start believing that you are indeed worth it.
/r/seduction10/01/22 09:18 PM
1

I'm married now but there was a time I didn't think I'd want one wife never mind many.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:12 PM
0

I stopped dating some time ago. I just started hooking up and hanging out with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:11 PM
3

Do your friends give you blowjobs? Do you friends threaten to behead your cat if you leave them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:11 PM
5

It's not a question of trusting an entire gender. unlike TRP, I actually like women and adore them. They are so fun everyone should have one (or more). TRP dudes are so sexually frustrated that they hate women but still want to fuck them which makes them the worst of addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:10 PM
2

Everyone knows female attraction starts at 9', 9" and 9 figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:08 PM
0

Even Peter Dinklage is married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:26 PM
4

A guy who genuinely likes himself and respect himself would probably take much greater care of his body and career prospects. Capice?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:24 PM
2

I mean you are right about all of this, except using the word "never" too much. It's not an easy change but it can be made. The only thing to be embarrassed about is not doing anything to try new things, make mistakes, fuck up, etc. Swipping right on a bunch of profiles doesn't constitute making attempts and putting yourself out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:23 PM
2

Well yeah. Is it any wonder women don't want them? I have never met a woman who wanted to attach herself to a loser. They all want to hitch a ride on the winner's train.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:57 PM
11

I disagree, to the point that this is only a piece of the puzzle. The biggest issue is that it is not about guy's relationship with women. It's about their relationship with themselves. Any man who is socially anxious, non-confident, lacks sex appeal, etc, simply does not value himself enough. He believes that his worth is decided by others instead of by himself. And this makes him come across as a beta loser. Chad's never do anything to gain the approval of others and that's what makes them Cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:31 PM
0

30ish, I am about a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:50 PM
6

They are retarded. Most men can be pretty successful if they had some confidence and balls. Maybe they won't be dating models but there is plenty of variety between a 1 and a 10. There is no reason for any guy to go sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:34 PM
-2

Do you think you can learn to ride a bike by reading a book?
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:59 PM
3

This premise is ludicrous. While the alpha/beta structure among wolves was found to be incorrect because it was based on captive wolves, it has been found among primates which are invisibly much closer to humans than wolves. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_dominance_hierarchy_species
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:29 AM
5

I love butt stuff, which apparently a lot of TRP dudes are disgusted by, I don't mind high n count women because I usually get bored with vanilla chicks who just don't have the experience or desire to be better in bed. I also do this really revolutionary and controversial thing, which is that I am totally being myself around women and don't pretend to be a stoic, emotionless robot just to get laid and women seem to love me this way much more than if I try to put on a mask or a tough guy persona.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:13 AM
0

Start getting laid and learning a thing or two. Men who are secure in themselves prefer an experienced partner who will be good in bed or they will get bored easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:05 AM
–

Why stop at one?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:02 AM
2

Who has ever claimed that wimps are able to get women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:39 AM
3

Not online dating specific but just dating specific. Women don't work like men. Women by and large will judge you based on your behavior and they can suss out your behavior from the way you appear in your online photos to how you communicate via text. If you behave like a beta, you will be relegated to that status and only replied to and agreed to go on a date with if the woman is extremely desperate and lonely, or super bored. Good looking women don't want to stay home and grow old and bored so…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:59 PM
1

You want to try again?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:45 AM
5

You are looking at this the wrong way just like every guy on the planet. DO NOT TRY TO GET ON WJTH HER PROGRAM, LET HER GET ON WITH YOURS.
/r/seduction09/01/22 07:48 AM
45

You don't even need to say anything per se. it's about the energy you carry yourself with. I have an attitude of "I'm a man, you are a woman, and this kind of works the way nature intended it". There is no pretense that I am something I'm not and women get it. Just know the nature of men and women. We both want the same things. Each other. It's guys who think they need to pretend and out up appearances and hide their sexuality in order not to offend women.
/r/seduction09/01/22 07:47 AM
2

You are not showing up as a man on these dates. You exude friendship or neurosis instead of sex.
/r/seduction09/01/22 07:44 AM
5

Start liking yourself.
/r/seduction09/01/22 07:42 AM
2

Let me put it this way. When a man has no choices, he will scrape the barrel and ignore many bad traits. When a man has a lot of choice, he becomes very picky when it comes to the mates he selects.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:33 AM
6

No. Instead of trying to reach some level of Chadness by flashing your wealth, abs or your status, men would focus on being cool dudes who like and respect themselves. Since women won't be picking them based on what they offer (wealth, status or commitment), they would pick them based on whether they like them as a person. Solves everyone's problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:38 PM
4

No. Instead of being told to hold out for a good guy a who will treat her well and commit before he's had sex with her and shower her with gifts and attention, they would tuck a guy just because he makes her laugh, or he is cool, or he plays in a band, or just because she's horny and he looks good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:19 PM
3

Are you as a woman going to seriously tell a bunch of men what women find attractive? How dare you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:09 PM
5

Women desire sex as much as men. But when they do choose to sleep with anyone without any expectation of commitment or monetary compensation they are called sluts. And then a bunch of men say they wouldn't date anyone who has been with more than 0 partners. These same men complain that women don't like sex but they only fuck Chad. Make up your mind. Do you want to have easy access to sex which means sexually liberated women, or do you want to only fuck virgins and low n count women which means w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:09 PM
2

Projections
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:46 PM
5

Sorry no idea what you are on aboit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:46 PM
8

You and pretty much every male on here gets this wrong because you project your own make arousal mechanism onto women. By and large, men need a woman to meet two criteria so they can become aroused, ie ready for sex. One is that she is hot enough looking (a criteria which is dependent on how horny or desperate we are at the moment) and that the woman appears willing. That's all it takes! Here is where men get it wrong. They project that exact same mechanism onto women. They assume that if they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:38 PM
0

Damn how did the human race ever procreate?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:21 PM
1

I think he was referring to specifically in the context of managing your love/sex life. As in, do you sit around and blame everyone else or do you take responsibility for figuring out how to improve your sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:00 PM
14

Women are so scarce that only every other human being on earth is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:00 PM
2

I'm not really sure what your trolling attempt is referring to but whatever. As I said, no one is forcing men to put good looking women on pedestals and throw their money at them. Men choose to do that on their own. Even if they were raised to believed that's the only way because of childhood or social norms, they always have a choice of take it or leave it. Hence, why the only supposed privilege good looking women have is the one that men give them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:30 AM
1

Always go out alone. You are a man after all. You don't need a gaggle of guy friends to keep you safe from the scary wimminz.
/r/seduction08/01/22 08:53 AM
3

I really want to kiss you right now but I'm not sure how to go about it.
/r/seduction08/01/22 08:52 AM
4

You don't have to worry about being too friendly if you show up as a man. A man is a man who fucks women. It kind of works you see. She is a girl, you are a boy, she has a hole, you have a stick, it's what god meant us to do. If you hold yourself back and hide your sexuality that's on you.
/r/seduction08/01/22 08:51 AM
6

Hello, my name is JacobMoogberg. But that pickup line will likely not work for you.
/r/seduction08/01/22 08:50 AM
4

No. When have you heard of a rock start sleeping with thousands of women? I've certainly never heard of any.
/r/seduction08/01/22 08:49 AM
2

There a couple of ways to look at this. The first is that while you see a woman who has had a lot of sexual partners as a negative, you can actually reframe that as a positive. A woman who is experienced and knows what she likes in bed, aka a slut as you would call her, will be more fun and exciting in bed than a girl with many hang ups. As for women caring about a man's future, the Manosphere kind of brings this on themselves. They want inexperienced young women to be tradwives. Why would a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:48 AM
5

The only privilege and power women have is the one you as a man choose to give them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:44 AM
1

Well duh. But that's not wanting something from them like validation or sex. It's just seeing if they meet your criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:36 AM
1

If a fat chick who dresses like a frumpy librarian is not able to meet any guys, do you think it will make sense for her to change for others so that others can find her more attractive? I don't suggest you change yourself for any single person, but it's okay to change for a group of people especially if you want to put your dick in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:00 PM
3

Face your fears. That's the only way to become a man.
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:58 PM
2

No. I text them"let's go out".
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:57 PM
0

Don't poison your mind wjth those losers.
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:56 PM
3

Yes, I want them to like me for me and not for what I offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:45 PM
2

You look beautiful
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:44 PM
7

Just be yourself my nig.
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:42 PM
2

Go where the men are.
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:42 PM
6

Maybe you are too much in your head when you should be in your balls. Thinking is your enemy my friend.
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:39 PM
5

It sounds like your head was spinning and you got all needy. Keep your cool next time.
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:38 PM
0

Hey I loved spending time with you and honestly I want nothing more than to spend the night in bed with you and out a smile on your face.
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:34 PM
2

That's how I select mates. I offer nothing of value. I don't try to impress, suggest I am willing to spend money on a woman or improve her life financially or otherwise. All I do is empower her to make a choice: to take it or leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:30 PM
0

What if the man offers nothing and expects nothing. What if he just want to make friends and see if the other person is interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:25 PM
0

That's a bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:25 PM
1

That's a bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:23 PM
5

It sounds to me like men just want to be taken care of by women. The roles have been completely reversed. Y'all just want to sit home, apply heel inserts up or hair plugs or whatever and wait for your high earning breadwinner wife to come home and bend you over, so you can go and make her a sandwich. You want women to make all the decisions. They are the selectors after all. All you can do is just parade around like a pageant and hope to get picked. Hope this role reversal works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:22 PM
1

We don't want you to get too excited now. Do you need to excuse yourself to the bathroom real quick before you return to the thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:44 PM
1

Always having a choice and the confidence to go out snd find another partner if your current relationship/situation is not working out for you. It may mean being with one great person for the rest of your life, or living out all of your sexual fantasies with multiple partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:42 PM
3

Apparently I should have marked the video NSFW.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:39 PM
3

There are some women who are more men than some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:38 PM
2

So you want to teach them not to be sluts (give sex away for free), but to be whores (get laid for it)?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:33 PM
1

As long as they are attracted back to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:19 PM
4

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:17 PM
1

It was a joke, to make him watch the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:32 PM
1

"Don't be lazy"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:29 PM
5

Isn't every girl told to go for Prince Charming, to ignore Johnny who plays in a band for beer money and go for Bobby, who is from a good family and is going places? Aren't women told that the most important thing they can do with their lives is obtain a diamond ring and start popping out kids? You all talk about the toxic messages men get growing up but never stop to think about the messages women get.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:23 PM
4

A relationship is not worth it unless it is with Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:10 PM
3

If you have been conditioned since you were little girl to whore your sex for money and security, what do you expect would happen? This conditioning is so ubiquitous that we take it for immutable truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:10 PM
-7

It's not dad that you don't have Insta, but it's sad that your life is so boring it wouldn't even be worth posting about it even if you had an Insta account.
/r/seduction07/01/22 11:07 AM
1

You are going about it the wrong way. It's like telling an alcoholic or drug addict - hey just stop drinking and doing drugs. It's not that easy. They are addicted and there are many factors that drive this impulsive behavior. Trying to impress others and get their validation is an impulsive behavior but it is not the core of the issue itself. The core of the issue is a belief that you are inadequate, worthless, less than. Again, start bringing these feelings forward. Start talking about what yo…
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:25 AM
1

Be honest but not crude. If you carry yourself with the attitude of "I'm a man, you are a woman, and it just works because that's how nature has meant us to be", women will just get it. But if you show up as a guy who sees women as enemies, targets, conquests, sets or unattainable goddesses up on a pedestal that need to be impressed, you will always struggle.
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:18 AM
24

I lost my virginity early on and had a girlfriend in HS but then moved to another country and became a total social recluse and depressoid. Had a long dry streak and couldn't even look a girl in the eye. What changed for me was that I realized all the problems I thought I had were created by me. I used to blame my life situation for my depression and loneliness, but one day I realized that objectively speaking my circumstances were okay and that there were people in much worse circumstances that…
/r/seduction07/01/22 07:08 AM
1

I've heard a lot about it but never read it. All I needed to know was that the author hung out with Mystery who is a real fraud and a loser. I e read Strauss' musings when he was hanging out wjth mystery and all his ideas about women are totally wrong.
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:58 PM
2

Obviously because they hate sex and hate getting attention from men and other women. Duh!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:53 PM
-1

Becoming a man means overcoming your problems and issues. If you keep blaming others for your predicament then what can you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:47 PM
2

David X was 5'8" and he has been with over a thousand women.
/r/seduction06/01/22 04:52 PM
0

What kind of women do you like? If you like smart ones, go to the library. If you like sporty women, go to the gym. If you like stupid women, hang out at the abortion clinic.
/r/seduction06/01/22 04:49 PM
3

All women are looking for decisive men who show up as men. If you can't make a decision, let another real man have her. Or grab that space between your legs, feel if there is anything there and if there is, then make specific plans with her to hang out.
/r/seduction06/01/22 04:46 PM
1

Figure out what you want. If you want a relationship probably going to bars and taking girls home that night is not the right way to find one. If you want to eat steak do you go to a Chinese restaurant?
/r/seduction06/01/22 04:44 PM
1

If you think that as a man all you can offer is money and resources don't be mad when women act like all they can offer is a collection of moist holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:38 PM
1

Nobody is telling guys to be comfortable with being the safe option. If anything they are encouraged to change themselves so they can be sexier and more exciting, but they refuse to do that. So they have no one to blame but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:35 PM
24

Alcohol gives women plausible deniability to engage in the behavior they really want to engage in to begin with. They can always say, oh god, I blew some guy in the bathroom I met 5 mins earlier, but it was only because I was drunk. For men, alcohol helps us lower our inhibitions and neuroses so we can grow a pair of balls and go talk to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:34 PM
1

The first guy can cut his hair short, get some tats and be a total thug/gangsta type that chicks would dig. It's all about his attitude and how he presents himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:05 AM
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It means that you present yourself one way in your profile but in reality you are disappointing and you don't have any chemistry. Typically this has to do with exuding neurosis instead of sex. Try focusing only on what you want and don't try to impress the girl.
/r/seduction06/01/22 11:01 AM
2

If she allowed you to feed her with your fingers allowing you to feed her your semen is not too far off. Don't be butt hurt. It's like a dog that rejected your petting. Just wait a bit and try again. Don't take it personally.
/r/seduction06/01/22 10:59 AM
6

This ^ yes, understand that you may have low self esteem issues from your parents because let's face it, you got the idea about how to treat yourself from them first before you had any capacity to estimate your own worth. But to keep blaming your parents and childhood is unfortunately a way to keep giving away your power. Take responsibility for who you want to be, because it only depends on you, no one else. If you don't take responsibility change is impossible.
/r/seduction06/01/22 10:57 AM
7

When are going to be at your best? When you are you going to be enough? When will you be the men you expect yourself to be? When will you be satisfied with who you are?
/r/seduction06/01/22 10:51 AM
2

I think the guy confessed to one of the students they were charging thousands of dollars and then the student leaked it on the net.
/r/seduction06/01/22 10:49 AM
2

Thundercat?
/r/seduction06/01/22 08:20 AM
2

I knew they were a bunch of posers and losers but the funniest one was when one of their instructors was outted as a virgin.
/r/seduction06/01/22 07:48 AM
3

I heard SF is a sausage farm, like 130 guys for every 100 women because of all the tech jobs that are swamped by Asian geeks. But then again, maybe you won't have too much competition.
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:16 AM
0

Do you really think that is what normal guys who get laid do?
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:13 AM
1

You are not as confident as you think you are and you don't like yourself as much as you think you do. That's just an FYI. Not shitting on you, just something for you to be aware of and work on. As for asking her out, the more directly the better. Just tell her: "Hey Becky, I really like you want to get to know you outside of work. Let's go out on a proper date. How about this Thursday at 8p? Cool, meet me at XYZ, etc"
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:04 AM
15

She was ovulating and wanted to get done and you sat there with your finger up your ass. She felt rejected and now hates you. What's so hard to understand?
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:00 AM
3

I grew up in a two parent household, but when your dad is an alcoholic depressive who hates himself and has no spine, it doesn't make much of a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:50 AM
1

No, women do all the picking and choosing. You just need to dance like a monkey and perform until they choose you. Haven't you been reading PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:47 AM
2

Is it any wonder that women say "please don't approach us, we don't like to be approached in public", when the average dude does exactly what OP does. If you lack the social calibration to understand how distressing it is to a woman for a random guy to blurt out to her "hey hot pants, can I have your number", without even knowing who this guys is or why he is there, then you have no business approaching.
/r/seduction06/01/22 05:46 AM
14

Learn to deep throat. Learn to make him cum just by squeezing your pussy muscles Invite your hot friend to the bedroom. Send me the wedding invite to 123 Spooner Street, Quahog, RI 91234
/r/seduction05/01/22 09:42 PM
1

still a better life than someone who played by the rules and never got his dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:38 PM
5

Nice girls have daddy issues and they want to do everything to please a man which means they will usually get laid a lot. Nice guys have mommy issues and they will do everything to please a woman which incidentally turns most women off, hence why nice guys have trouble getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:37 PM
5

Ask away man. No need to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:36 PM
1

When I first lost my virginity I was just happy to be able to smell a pussy. After I went through a few girls the quality of sex became extremely important to me. Yet, men are wired to seek out new ass and that's what keeps us excited. A woman who may look exactly like our ex but smells and feels different is still better than the one we know and smells familiar. It's human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:35 PM
2

The men who don't get laid are the ones who sit on the sidelines or at home and never attempt to do anything. Those who take initiative and their sex lives in their own hands (pun unintended) find a way to get laid. Maybe not as much as they would like to but they won't die virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:33 PM
1

I will change your view. Yes, man had to be remarkable, but not in the way you think. He has to FEEL remarkable about himself. That's all that it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:30 PM
-1

Remember, women are the choosers, you can't be picking them. They pick you and that's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:26 PM
1

Good boys go to heaven. Bad boys go wherever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:22 PM
2

I didn't ignore anything. He is just inauthentic and boring. The anthesis of what a sexually exciting man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:17 PM
2

Well he did die a virgin so?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:14 PM
1

They just act superior and distant which makes most people want to try harder to please them.
/r/seduction05/01/22 09:13 PM
9

Have you tried being honest with them?
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:22 PM
-1

Probably over 100
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:13 PM
5

Do you expect me to try and change your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:28 PM
3

I'm now married but just like many guys I had a lot of trouble early in life. I was shy, timid and full of neuroses. Although women in my life over the years have expressed interest in me, I was too needy and weird to take advantage of it, which essentially meant that the interest was lost. My journey started by simply wanting to get a girlfriend after I had moved countries and left my first gf. Eventually this evolved to me simply wanting to have choice. I saw what's possible. I saw that I coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:26 PM
1

Outer boroughs? NYC?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:36 PM
4

Ah doy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:06 PM
1

At 20 she is it even starting to learn how to properly suck dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:05 PM
4

Men and women are extremely different. And what they are attracted to is very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:04 PM
8

I would say at 1,000 I definitely see a trend there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:54 PM
2

And yet so many people suck at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:53 PM
-4

So who is fucking all these women and pumping snd dumping snd getting into LTRs wjth them? The male/female ratio is relatively equal across countries. So who are these women fucking? And if they are fucking these guys what are these guys doing differently than you, the sexless sad sack?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:53 PM
2

She will be with her back towards the bar, scanning the crowd, more open body language, together with a less good looking girlfriend, showing off some skin.
/r/seduction05/01/22 01:14 PM
6

A high value man is someone who likes and respects himself and takes responsibility for his own happiness and fulfillment. A man like this will be attractive to any woman. A man who dislikes himself, has no self respect, is ashamed of who he is and looks up to women to make him happy and complete will be attractive to zero women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:45 AM
1

Standards are too high when your expectations do not match what you have proven yourself capable of obtaining. If my standards are that I only date blonde women with bubble butts and D cups who look like prom stars but I've never actually gotten a woman like this interested in me ever, then my standards are too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:44 AM
-1

I dont think you are very comfortable with being shorter so until you sort this out you better not go there.
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:31 AM
0

If the woman is attracted to you, 100%
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:30 AM
2

Then find the girls who want to be taken home that night. It's definitely not all of them.
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:19 AM
-7

Exactly! Wtf!
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:18 AM
1

Yes, your energy needs to be in your balls. All sexual. Women are more sexual than we are no they discard nice guys like you because you them you represent boring vanilla sex.
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:18 AM
6

If you feel the urge to impress someone it means that you value their opinion of yourself more than you cake your own opinion of yourself. No woman will consider such a man worthy of her, even the fattest slob. It's just how women are wired. The only way to solve this is to find a way to start liking and respecting yourself more. Then the opinion of others will be irrelevant, especially if those others are total strangers and know nothing about you. As for insecurities, remember that insecurity …
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:16 AM
1

You go do that bud.
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:09 AM
2

Focus only on what you want (don't try to follow the woman's lead, you want her following yours) and be honest. By honest, I mean express how you feel, don't be a crude autistic asshole. You can tell a girl you find her attractive and want to get to know her and if you end up finding her interesting tell her that you find her fascinating and would love to spend the night together no string a attached just having fun.
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:08 AM
1

You have nothing on your profile that would be a good prompt to start a conversation. Can you help me out here?
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:07 AM
3

You are boring. You bored her to death. Hell you are boring me to death and I barely even read your post. I just read the first sentence about going back and forth for 4 days.
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:06 AM
2

There are infinitely more attractive and arousing women then there are arousing men. Even gorgeous girls complain about not having been laid in months or being able to find a quality guy. You guys think women trip over dick all the time, but in reality very few men truly arouse them to them point of them wanting to have sex.
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:05 AM
2

You want us to show you how to be a creep and manipulate a girl to leave her group to go with a total stranger to his place?
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:03 AM
-32

Put yourself in the shoes of these women. Imagine enjoying a nice meal at a restaurant with a friend and some bodybuilder type with bulging muscles, 6'7", 300 lbs, barges out of nowhere and asks you for your number? Would be pretty distressing to you, no? Like who is this guy and why is asking for my number, I don't know him, should I be calling the police? This is what this woman probably experienced meeting you.
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:02 AM
-4

Just be honest with them. Tell them you like them and are attracted to them and would love to spend the night together putting a smile on each other's face. Nothing needy about this. Just speaking your truth (don't be crude).
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:56 AM
1

As long as men derive their feelings of self worth from other people especially women, they will be unworthy of female attention. It's just the way of the world. If they manage to find their own balls and derive their sense of worth internally and stop relying on others to solve their problems then they will be worthy of female attention and life will be easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:48 AM
1

Slut = a woman who is having more sex than I would like her to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:56 PM
3

Society will start killing off male babies because female babies are inherently more valuable. Their prospects of becoming educated and higher earners are statistically better than males and women are more likely to take care of elderly parents. This will also fix any male sexlessness problems because there will be too few men and a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:55 PM
3

If women have it super easy in dating then by extension so would men because they are dating men not each other or some third gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:51 PM
-3

Sounds like a keeper! How did she manage to get molested not only once but multiple times?
/r/seduction04/01/22 07:21 PM
0

Ugh
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:39 PM
1

Sure Jan
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:23 PM
3

Start with just saying hi and introducing yourself.
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:29 PM
0

You are making excuses and blaming others and external factors. Time to take full responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:24 PM
3

You are correct! Society benefits from millions of men feeling worthless because you can motivate them to work harder and move society forward by dangling sex in front of them (sex sells). But all this work benefits society and not you. Man sacrifices himself because he's taught that working hard, bing a good boy and not going against the rules will get him pussy. But it doesn't! The only thing that gets him pussy is if he throws the social conditioning, starts liking himself despite being avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:45 PM
1

They want to give to me because I am me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:28 PM
1

I do it for everything. It does make me feel better to have testosterone pumping through my veins and some meat on my bones. My erections are stronger and the wife enjoys it more. Plus, zi like being eye raped in the gym by thirsty chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:44 PM
1

Finally someone who understands men!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:41 PM
1

Not saying there aren't guys who'd fuck a one, but not happily.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:22 PM
7

As a man I know exactly what is wrong with most men who aren't getting any. It is a simple problem but sometimes hard to solve. The problem is that men have deep seated feelings of worthlessness. This drives their behavior which can take shape as either avoiding all female contact altogether (why even try when every women thinks I'm a subhuman scum) or trying very hard to overcompensate (I hit the gym bro and I'm gonna show those bitches whose boss cause I'm so cool). None of these behavior solv…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:21 PM
3

I've always been very honest that I am attracted to at best 20% of the women I come across on a daily basis. The rest are too old, too young, too fat, skinny or plain unattractive to me and for all intensive purposes those women do not exist. That's the way majority of men think. So when they say they are attracted to every single woman, they forget to add that they are really attracted to the top 20% that they even acknowledge as existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:15 PM
5

Of course she is trying to manipulate you. Stop seeing her unless she puts out. What do you need her for? Make up your damn mind and stop settling for smelling her pussy.
/r/seduction04/01/22 10:16 AM
0

Look for the women who are ovulating and out there to get laid.
/r/seduction04/01/22 10:15 AM
6

Walk in like you own the place and your shit don't stink.
/r/seduction04/01/22 10:12 AM
-2

Yep, that's it!!!
/r/seduction04/01/22 10:11 AM
1

Not what you described.
/r/seduction04/01/22 10:06 AM
0

Sure, women are clearly the enemy here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:56 AM
1

Oh vey. If you think that's direct you are hopeless.
/r/seduction04/01/22 09:56 AM
8

Beautiful women intimidate others women all the time. It's mostly in their demeanor and barely acknowledging them.
/r/seduction04/01/22 07:52 AM
15

You only get nervous when you want a specific outcome. You can't get rejected if all you want is to find out whether the girl is interesting. But if you want to achieve an outcome such as getting her interested, getting a phone number, taking her back to your place, etc., you will get nervous because now you have to perform. It forces you to put on airs and pretend to be cool and so forth. But if you just approach women with honesty and only with the intention of finding out if they are interest…
/r/seduction04/01/22 07:51 AM
6

The sweet innocent virgin trope is something that is perpetuated by society at large. Women have no intrinsic interest in behaving like this except that they are constantly slut shamed by men and women alike. This take is retarded. Women despise nice guys. What is the benefit of having 9/10 guys be totally unarousing and having to compete with other women over the top 1 guy. Why would anyone want to purposefully create a competitive situation like this? By the same logic men should want all wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:07 AM
3

Exactly how is it in women's best interest to have a male population that they actively make unattractive? Like how do women benefit from having less choices of sexy partners? Does this make sense to you?? And if it does, what drugs are you taking?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:23 AM
31

As a newly single guy you probably give off some neediness. When women sense that you want something from them, a specific outcome, whether that's their number, them liking you or going to bed with you, to them it signals neediness which is a turn off. Try to focus on finding out if the girl is interesting instead of focusing on making her interested.
/r/seduction04/01/22 06:20 AM
-1

Ugh
/r/seduction04/01/22 06:18 AM
2

Maybe you were just being yourself which is always the most attractive option and what women want you to be?
/r/seduction04/01/22 06:18 AM
14

All my approaches have been direct. You need to show up as a man though.
/r/seduction04/01/22 06:16 AM
0

No, it has never worked for me to approach random women. Now, women who were strangers to me and who I thought looked receptive and friendly and were giving off signals that they would like to be approached - sure! That's how I met the majority of my girlfriends and sexual partners, including my now wife. But just approaching random women, no.
/r/seduction04/01/22 06:15 AM
1

Oh brother
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:12 AM
3

Except for one tiny little detail you got wrong. Confidence and neediness are not about how others feel about you. It's about how you feel about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:11 AM
2

That's a bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:10 AM
4

On the contrary, I think guys' biggest problem is they severely undervalue themselves. Although I do agree that harping on about being a good provider is barking up the wrong tree. There is nothing sexy about being a provider and it has been proven over and over again, so I have no idea why men keep latching on to this idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:04 AM
0

Typical. Never take responsibility for your own life and success. As long as you blame the faceless others who have wronged you, you will always be in the same miserable place you have always been.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:54 AM
1

Excitement and safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:15 PM
-1

And it's going to be two more years of not dating the way this is going.
/r/seduction03/01/22 09:21 PM
-2

Young girls her age wants excitement and adrenaline, not boring. You are boring. Even your post bored me to tears.
/r/seduction03/01/22 09:20 PM
1

Do you have a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:48 PM
2

Ugh negging someone just telegraphs what a loser you are. Be better dude.
/r/seduction03/01/22 04:58 PM
116

Just relax and stop treating women like a collection of moist holes you want to stick it in. Treat every woman like sex is just a matter of time and there is nothing for you to worry about or try to make happen. Let it happen naturally.
/r/seduction03/01/22 04:57 PM
-1

It's just that your kind are so neurotic and fucked yo mentally that you are EXHAUSTING! Even people who you have no sexual interest in (your mom and other men), find you hard to put up with for more than 15 minutes at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:52 PM
5

As I said, you believing you have a problem makes it real for you and women sense that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:35 PM
0

Okay bro. Do you have a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:05 PM
5

You don't need more stuff or more improvement. If anything you need to remove stuff. Your issue is the neurosis that you are holding on to, specifically the belief that you are not good enough as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:00 PM
9

Yes, I was ignoring them.
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:22 PM
16

Women approach men all the time just not in the "hey hot stuff how you doin'?" type of way. Usually they will smile, glance over, hover around you, dance in your line of sight or do something that is attention getting such as get loud when talking to her friends or breaking out her mirror and make up and freshening up when a hot guy is around them.
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:10 PM
2

Is it any wonder that men have trouble getting women? You can go out and get laid right now, just proclaim loudly on the street that you will go to bed with anyone who wants and for sure some homely dude will come out of the shadows and be willing to do you. Probably not a great turn on for you though? Well, that's how it works for women. A lot of takers, but not many men who truly turn them on. And the ones that do have their dance cards full
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:32 PM
-12

So you think being a wimp is normal? What other shit behaviors have you normalized?
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:24 PM
-1

Have you tried being normal?
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:20 PM
6

Your dick doesn't get as hard at 30 and you lose all your patience for garbage women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:20 PM
8

I haven't been a virgin for as long as you have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:18 PM
5

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:18 PM
16

Hey mens, what would you choose, a hot blonde with 90-60-90 measurements who swallows and never goes outside with out high heels and make up or a an average, frumpy, librarian looking chick who smells of cat piss, but will cook and cleaning up for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:25 AM
3

This figure out what you want and what you want these women for and act accordingly. Don't try to mould yourself into what you think they want you to be.
/r/seduction03/01/22 10:57 AM
4

A man who likes and respects himself, likes and respects women and is able and willing to lead. It's not rocket science. While a good looking guy may get a 60 second audition, by and large women will always look at your behavior to determine if you are a high quality guy. If your behavior communicates neuroses instead of oozing sex, then you will never be truly a high quality man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:55 AM
1

What does that have to do with my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:53 AM
3

It's just an expression. You can easily substitute it with nature or evolution. And I'm not so sure about female libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:45 AM
1

So being a total bore doesn't get you laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:12 AM
1

Security is an illusion. It is a feeling. Steve Jobs died a billionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:08 AM
4

I don't see the outrage here. Women judge men based on their behavior and how other women react to said men speaks a ton about that men's quality. It's the same as wanting to work for a company that everyone wants to work for (do you think Google has trouble finding employees willing to work for them). Do you want to work for a company no one wants to work for? By the same token no company wants to hire someone that no other company wants to hire.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:07 AM
6

Are you sure?? Do this experiment. Tell your buddies you just slept with a woman who has had more than 2,000 dicks. They would probably throw tomato's at you and tell you you are a loser. But then tell them that the girl was actually Sasha Grey (or any other pornstar they would be jerking off to) and watch them all pat you on the back and buy you shots. Men in a nutshell. We all crave approval from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:04 AM
6

No, the ideal space is where you accept and like yourself and believe you are enough.
/r/seduction03/01/22 08:08 AM
-1

You don't understand. We cannot be honest with you about what we want. We have to find a way to pretend to be something we are not because we think this is what you actually want, so we can deceive you into getting what we really wanted in the first place which happens to be the same thing as what you want.
/r/seduction03/01/22 07:41 AM
0

It's a figure of speech.
/r/seduction03/01/22 07:29 AM
1

Not any girl but enough girls to keep him happy for the rest of his life. Inwill also add that as long as you feel something is wrong with you, so will women. So whatever your excuse of the day is.
/r/seduction03/01/22 07:14 AM
-12

Lol reread your post again. You are thinking about what she is thinking.
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:31 AM
2

Just send her a text "you are right, you probably can't handle me". Always agree with them when they come back with shit like this.
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:19 AM
2

Who cares about what she wants. Care about what you want. You are already in the mode of "I need to please this girl and prove myself to her so she likes me", which means you have already lost. She should be the one wondering "am I worthy of dating an older accomplished guy who has forgotten more about life than I know, who will be able to teach me stuff and lead me on adventures guys my age can't even imagine and who is probably way more experienced in bed than I am?".
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:14 AM
6

Can I ask you something? Do you spend half of your paycheck on cosmetics and clothes? Do you spend 3 hours in the bathroom before you go out? If you do what do you do there? Comb your pubes to all face the same direction? I can confidently assume that you do none of these things because you are not a woman. Then how exactly are you going to relate to what goes on in a woman's head? How do you think that you will be able to figure out what they are thinking? YOU CANT! Don't even try to figure out…
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:10 AM
-3

Dude you spend hours with her on a date, made out numerous times and still had to check what she felt about you by texting her right after the date? And now you are obsessed with getting her in bed because you are so insecure that she likes you? Relax. Those desperate needy vibes will turn her off for sure.
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:10 AM
3

You are close but you get some things extremely wrong. A top quality guy is always going to have more options available to him than even the most attractive women. It's not just shooting your shot. There just aren't enough arousing men to go around for every pretty girl out there. You hear women say this all the time "I haven't gotten laid in months, I can't meet a guy" and you look at them and think, "if I were a girl and as good looking as her, I would be able to get laid on the street every t…
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:02 AM
11

As long as you base your self worth on what women think of you, you will be struggling.
/r/seduction03/01/22 05:52 AM
-3

You sound way too needy.
/r/seduction03/01/22 05:50 AM
26

You sound like a nice guy. Nice guys suppress their sexual energy because they think it will creep girls out. Somehow though, for millions of years men and women have managed to procreate and didn't happen by holding hands. You are not comfortable with who you are and what you are. What do you need a woman for? To hold her hand and look at her on her pedestal? What do you need her for if not to fuck her brains out? Do you feel lonely and incomplete as a man because you don't have a girlfriend? I…
/r/seduction03/01/22 05:48 AM
5

The city with most single women per capital is NYC.
/r/seduction03/01/22 05:44 AM
2

Jesus Christ man, the self hate in this thread is astonishing.
/r/seduction03/01/22 05:43 AM
4

If she replies "I'm not looking for a hookup" it means she is definitely looking for a hook up. And you are an idiot to ask. Do you think they are all looking for Prince Charming on Tinder?
/r/seduction03/01/22 05:43 AM
-5

One is too many.
/r/seduction03/01/22 05:41 AM
0

When sense of humor is one of the top qualities women say they find attractive over and over, doesn't it all make sense that so few men on PPD have any?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:59 PM
3

That's always my favorite. And then there is my relatively attractive coworker who can't find a guy to casually fuck (who turns her on).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:54 PM
-1

Not worth it. Even if she is having sex, they are typically so inhibited and weird about it it won't be a great experience.
/r/seduction02/01/22 09:52 PM
3

If I ask you to post your messages here I am pretty sure I will get blocks and blocks of text that goes on for days with the end result being that you bore the girl to tears.
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:31 PM
-11

Do you think that a woman's boobs and ass become smaller the second she crosses a country border or gets off the plane? Do you really think you willl become more enticing to women in another country too?
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:29 PM
7

You seem to value what total strangers say to you more than you value what you believe.
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:26 PM
1

Like what else could they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:10 PM
-1

So the guy in the comic only faked being strong and tough and beneath it all he was just a neurotic loser with no life and then you wonder why this ends up in rejection? Would you like a girl more if she confined in you that she cuts herself and binges on food and then throws up?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:09 PM
3

Because they go on to commit acts of terrorist and kill innocent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:00 PM
2

No one will respect you unless you respect yourself which you don't seem to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:00 PM
0

Cause it's retarded and wrong.
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:19 PM
14

Ninja just stay home and jerknoff to hentai.
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:18 PM
-2

Lol, your loser thoughts translate into loser behavior.
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:17 PM
5

Exactly. But in the op example it seems like someone who doesn't know what they want and what they want a woman for. What's the purpose of 3 dates if you are not making a move? Are you training her for a food critic?
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:16 PM
0

Nice guys finish last.
/r/seduction01/01/22 07:14 PM
-1

A couple of days every month.
/r/seduction01/01/22 07:13 PM
4

It's a great book but guys never like the message of it, which is the most attractive version of you is just being yourself.
/r/seduction01/01/22 06:07 PM
1

The two are indistinguishable. Women only fuck guys they respect. And no, that doesn't include YOU!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:54 PM
1

But when a std ridden stripper takes you for all your money it's her fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:51 PM
0

What's the alternative? Cut off their balls and turn them into an average PPDer?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:49 PM
3

Lol. Nobody is forcing you to listen to random hags on Twitter. The reality is you can't get that young pussy even if you tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:48 PM
2

Feeling sorry for myself has always gotten me a ton of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:47 PM
-2

It's retarded. It teaches men to be fake con artists trying to scam women out of sex and bring absolutely nothing to the table. It was written Abby a dweeb who didn't lose his virginity until his late 20s. How can a man like this know anything about women?
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:45 PM
1

None of that is going to make a difference if you don't genuinely accept and like yourself.
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:44 PM
2

Don't need a wing to talk to your sister bud.
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:43 PM
1

What else are we going to do on a Saturday night? Try and get laid? Lol, dream on.
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:43 PM
1

Women approach men all the time (maybe not you), just not in the "hey hot stuff" type of way you may wish to be approached in. But they will smile, hold eye contact, hover around you, dance in your line of sight, or make an excuse to ask you something totally irrelevant. Yes, it happens all the time.
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:41 PM
14

Let's go out. Anything other than this is a pussy move. And by go out, I mean grab a drink by your apartment and then go home and fuck.
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:33 PM
3

David X Toronto seminar.
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:32 PM
2

Accept and like yourself. That's all you need.
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:31 PM
0

Accept and like yourself. That's all you need.
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:31 PM
0

Accept and like yourself. That's all you need.
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:30 PM
14

Honestly, all this childhood shit is super dumb. I spent years agonizing over why my childhood was like this and like that and how different things would have been if my parents instilled self confidence in me. Guess what? You can't change your past and being so attached to what could have been is just another way to avoid taking responsibility for your life
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:30 PM
124

Women judge men's sexual fitness based on their behavior. If your behavior signals that you are a shy, timid guy, then it is the equivalent of a chick being fat and gross, ie unattractive. Women are turned off by men who don't make moves. Like literally turned off. They think something is wrong with them and they are either being rejected or that you are a pussy and they don't want a pussy because they already got one.
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:29 PM
2

I have yet to meet someone who pretended to be something he is not and have long term success with women.
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:26 PM
2

Ugh? I feel fucking old. No wonder young guys don't get laid these days.
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:00 AM
2

Just be yourself dude. For fuck sake.
/r/seduction01/01/22 09:59 AM
0

You are right. Women don't want to be bothered. They want to be hot and bothered.
/r/seduction01/01/22 09:59 AM
1

Oh yes the Shrodinger HVM. Simultaneously so rare and fickle with his commitment that you have to use mind games to keep him and so abundant and available that he will be there in 5 mins after you text him "U up?".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:52 AM
1

You are white and have a full head of hair? The sky is the limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:46 PM
2

If women listen to the advice that their dads gave them, which comes down to "don't listen to a word this guy says, he is just trying to get into your pants", we would have died out as a species long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:45 PM
1

Who says women don't actually enjoy this treatment? You assume it's all bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:44 PM
0

They lose out on having sex. Duh. She ain't getting any younger and her tits any less saggy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:41 PM
1

"I don't want to be part of a club that would have me as a member". In other words, if a woman has such low standards that she would want to fuck ME, it means that she will fuck ANYBODY! What a slut!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:34 PM
0

You keep telling yourself that.
/r/seduction31/12/21 10:30 PM
7

Nope, you would be the first guy on this sub to actually have sex.
/r/seduction31/12/21 09:55 PM
2

The more you like yourself, the leas you care what anybody else thinks of you.
/r/seduction31/12/21 09:55 PM
13

Yea, huge turn off. I was just commenting on another thread, but I work with a young girl, cute/pretty type, raging hormones and out of control libido. Talks about sex 24/7 and thinks about it even more. She is struggling to find a man. Why? We went over her dating app. 90% of guys on there are either too homely looking or the too smiley, too nice type of guys. They would make great dads and husbands one day, but for a young girl who is starved for sex and adventure, they are a total turn off. L…
/r/seduction31/12/21 09:53 PM
25

A girl at work was showing me her dating app. Like 90% of the guys on there had this nice guy vibe about them. Way too smiley, good boys who would make great husbands one day. But definitely not the type this 24 year old with raging hormones and out of control libido craves. Her and another girl at work told me that basically they want a guy who looks like he can give them rough sex and who will be dynamite in bed. The smiley, nice guys don't give off that vibe. There is a reason girls go for th…
/r/seduction31/12/21 09:49 PM
-1

Sex wasn't good for her.
/r/seduction31/12/21 09:44 PM
4

You have already talked yourself out of getting laid.
/r/seduction31/12/21 03:55 PM
1

Yes, it is true as long as being a provider is all you bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:33 PM
1

Women also masturbate to the likes of Tony Soprano and Ed Sheeran. Two diametrically opposite types and none of them are classic beauties. Once a man is arousing to a woman, he quickly becomes her type physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:42 PM
4

Who cares about what women think. Think for yourself buddy.
/r/seduction31/12/21 11:14 AM
2

You don't understand the difference between an attractive looking man and an arousing man. Yes, a woman will look at some eye candy and hope he can be someone who arouses her, but that's not always the case. An arousing man can be someone who doesn't look like much psychically speaking but his masculine energy is what arouses women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:13 AM
1

Single men are too needy which is what keeps them single.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:12 AM
-6

You are retarded, being good with women is about who you are, not some silly techniques you do.
/r/seduction31/12/21 08:59 AM
2

Women go out knowing exactly what they want. I want a tall guy, with blue eyes, with a dick this long and who makes money and who treats me like this and fucks like a pornstar. Guys go out and they are like "I wonder what kind of guy this chick wants, probably some 6 ft 6 pack dude, and I not that so I wonder how else I can impress her". Wrong wrong wrong!!!! Focus on what you want. Don't try to get on with a woman's program. Let them get on with your program.
/r/seduction30/12/21 09:04 PM
1

Don't be so desperate for one old wrinkly pussy.
/r/seduction30/12/21 09:01 PM
3

Don't make her opinion of you more important than your own opinion of you.
/r/seduction23/12/21 08:59 AM
-4

Don't waste your time with anyone but David X. RIP.
/r/seduction23/12/21 08:58 AM
0

It sounds like an excuse. Drop it. Don't make excuses for why you are talking to a woman. She will respect you a thousand times more because of it.
/r/seduction23/12/21 07:04 AM
55

Wow, I dated a girl for a year and she managed to keep this shit together for about a couple of months before she unleashed that beast. Just like this girl, she would get all psycho on her period. It was insane and she was saying very similar things. I broke up with her the first time this happened and she showed up at my place to pick up her stuff that she had (strategically) left. She was all dolled up, high heels, short skirt and of course she knew my weakness so we ended up fucking and she a…
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:54 AM
-1

Not sure why you have to mention your friends. Do you feel self conscious and insecure that you are there alone? Don't signal your insecurities so early on. Just go up to a woman and compliment her on something you find attractive about her. Think about all the work she put into looking like this. Don't be the guy complimenting her shoes or aura or her eyes. If she has a nice ass, compliment her on that.
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:49 AM
1

I loved NYC when I lived there. Sooo much pussy!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:47 AM
1

Only one person can wear the pants in a relationship and you really want it to be you, the man. Every single time I've let a woman drive a relationship, it has ended with it crashing. Maybe it's sexist and misogynistic and not very woke, but I don't believe relationships are a democracy. The man must always maintain a certain degree of dominance and leadership. Anything other than that is asking for trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:45 AM
-2

Part what it means to be a man is to overcome your problems. Being a shy, introverted over thinker is not sexy. It's a losing proposition and the more you cling to personality traits that are not getting you what you want out of life, the more miserable and alone you will be. I just don't see why men don't get that. Women instinctively know that being fat, unkept and shy will result in zero guys wanting to date them, so the majority do their best to change these or keep them in check as much as …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:43 AM
3

The most attractive thing a man can is to just be - normal! It's rarer than you'd expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:38 AM
7

Jesus, who has time for this shit. When you take her out tell her that there is no kissing on the first date and that the date will only last 30 mins. If she asks you wtf, tell her that you wouldn't want to impose yourselves on each other for a whole evening in case there isn't chemistry. But if there is a spark, you can move in straight into the second date. This way you can have 3-4 dates before you take her home.
/r/seduction22/12/21 08:49 PM
3

I have some bad news for virgin lovers. I've played around in my time and although I don't have triple digit counts or anything close to it, I will tell you that I ever came across one virgin. This means that most girls fuck and lose their virginity in their teens. So good luck finding one!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:09 PM
2

If you marry a virgin. Man you are slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:46 PM
3

You may want to reread it buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:39 PM
2

You assuming that a woman will run out on you. Way to have confidence of your sexual and relationship skills. What a clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:36 PM
3

Reread your comment. It speaks tons about your own low self esteem issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:18 PM
3

lol. If you are so afraid don't go out of your house bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:55 PM
6

Nikkuh please!!! The virginity requirements is because societies have always treated women like property and so are you. Don't pretend otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:38 PM
5

The only reason you think you need to be someone else is because you don't genuinely like yourself. You are enough as you are so give yourself permission to be satisfied with the man you are. Unless there is something you genuinely don't like about yourself that you also don't like about other people, then change that. An example may be that you are a bullshitter and a liar. If you don't respect that in others, then stop being a bullshitter.
/r/seduction22/12/21 03:12 PM
0

Look at you asking the right question and talking yourself and every other woman out of sleeping with you.
/r/seduction22/12/21 02:50 PM
10

The desire to marry a virgin comes from a man's total insecurity in the sack. If she hasn't had anyone before him she wouldn't be able to distinguish between good and bad dick. Until she decides to find out the difference 5 years into the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:49 PM
0

Not sure I understand what you are saying. Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:14 AM
1

Ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:11 AM
2

I'm not sure your rationale is exactly correct, would love to see sources though. However, I do know that women store a specific fat in their butt and hips that is crucial for the healthy development of a baby's brain, which explains why men often prefer curvy women. Same with wider hips. It's easier to pop out a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:09 AM
-2

What sarcasm? That I said "grown ass woman"? You don't find someone who is supposedly an adult playing with dolls weird? I implied that someone like this is a little girl and not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:23 AM
0

I didn't say motivations, I said they can sense of a man feels good about himself. Just because you consider someone a loser by society standards, doesn't mean that he doesn't feel good about himself and is self satisfied. And no, I don't see women fawn over tall depressed losers. Only in your imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:11 AM
-13

If you refer to a woman as a plate, please go away.
/r/seduction22/12/21 06:08 AM
2

Lol. Happens all the time. Maybe not daygame but night game? Lol. And none of these guys are pickup artists or anything just guys who have confidence and balls to go for what they want instead of finding excuses.
/r/seduction22/12/21 06:08 AM
2

You need some social intelligence to approach women successfully. Most men think it's about running up to a girl and blurting out "hey hot stuff can I get your number?" Or something else stupid. If you want high chances of success go to places where women go out to socialize and meet men. Such as clubs, bars and cocktail lounges, but also outdoor concerts and festivals. If you really want to maximize your chances, look exclusively for women who are ovulating and out to get laid. They are the one…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:05 AM
-1

Unless he was walking around shirtless and parading his money, I doubt any women knew that he had a six pack under his shirt or how much money he was making. Women by and large go for men who feel good about themselves, or at least they believe that those men feel good about themselves (men can fake it successfully for a short time). They have evolved to notice such men from a distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:58 AM
0

You have no idea. A girl I work with was showing me her dating app. #1. 90-95% of men on there looked like total dweebs. I mean no edge, no roughness or anything a woman would deem sexually exciting. You could see they are total nice guys just from they present themselves and if you hear my female coworkers talk about the sex they like, let me tell you, it's not the slow and gentle type. And #2. Even the ones she matched with, all conversations devolved into "so how are you", "how was your day",…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:56 AM
-3

No, that was the only time you felt good about yourself which is what attracted women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:42 AM
-5

The correct analogy is a grown ass woman who plays with dolls. Guys who play video games are BOYS. Only child molesters want to fuck boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:42 AM
1

Women were never into providers other than wanting to be guaranteed security. There is nothing sexy about the provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:35 PM
8

Try hard poser is what comes to mind.
/r/seduction21/12/21 09:34 PM
1

Obviously your goal is not to get laid, so you can get ready in 15 mins if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:23 PM
2

You do you. I don't mind a little hair. It helps hide the hook.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:35 PM
1

They come like this out of the box? Or do they spend a few hours at waxing salon to get it removed?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:26 PM
2

I mean it's just a guess. I have no idea what women do in the bathroom for so long? Can you help me out here?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:21 PM
5

Focus only on what you want and don't try to get on the woman's program. Let them get on yours. Your only thought when going out should be "I WANT to get my dick sucked by a woman who is competent in bed and not annoying" (I know this eliminates 90% of women but whatever). Focus on that and make it your mantra. Never think about how to please them or get them to do anything. Just worry about what you want relentlessly.
/r/seduction21/12/21 07:02 PM
-2

The second sentence totally discredited whatever this study might be saying. In nature men choose women. Just go to any club and see who is wearing colorful clothes and performs dances in order to impress the other. It ain't men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:45 PM
0

Women love to take care and fuck their alpha male, but only if he's an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:27 PM
1

You are telling me women prefer to be the dominant one in a relationship? For a guy who has fucked hundreds of women you should know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:00 AM
1

First article contradicts what you claimed. The second one is not a peer reviewed published study and furthermore it seeks to discredit an overwhelming amount of evidence which it says right in the abstract. I will go with previously peer reviewed papers as opposed to a self published paper that has not been rigorously peer reviewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:14 PM
1

Lol, sure Jan. If women ticked their brothers and dads we'd all be retarded. And ovulation is very much a scientifically proven thing. Unless you consider the Bible your source of scientific insight?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:43 PM
1

It means nothing if men are intimidated by her. No woman wants to have more power than her man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:39 PM
2

I think the correct way to say it is "That's a bingo!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:36 PM
10

Because they don't get approached as often, guys treat just like you, pump and dump. They feel used because some insecure loser like you treats them like a cum dumpster so their defenses are up.
/r/seduction20/12/21 07:05 PM
4

I have a Botox place down the street from me. It's literally only attractive women who go there. I've never seen uggos go for procedures. Is it any coincidence? What do these women do there? Inject chemicals in their young skin so they can match whatever the latest Instagram fashion is? Put silicone in their tits and rubber in their asses? What normal human being would subject themselves to this unless they were insecure as fuck. What do women do for 5 hours in the bathroom? Comb their pussy hai…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:03 PM
6

Ugly women are harder to pick up. Also if they are only fucking your once and don't come back it means you suck in bed. Which is what a lot of women are used to. They see a good looking guy and know that he's never had to learn how to fuck good.
/r/seduction20/12/21 06:58 PM
3

Women fuck strangers all the time especially when ovulating because that's one way to ensure they are not mixing genes with family. They specifically avoid anyone who looks, smells and behaves like what they are used to. But with every single guy looking, dressing and behaving exactly the same, to a woman it looks the same as if he was her brother or close relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:26 PM
2

I have found that most women don't think very highly of themselves. Men seem to think very highly of a lot of women to the point of idealizing them. This is a very typically behavior for someone who doesn't like themselves very much. To such a person everyone else "has it figured out" and is better than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:25 PM
2

Chaaaaaaddddd!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:22 PM
2

Dating apps are a visual medium and therefore give an advantage to women. Asante threads here wjll attest to it, women are rarely aroused by the sight of an attractive looking man and need more in order to get turned on. So when they go an app that literally only showcases a guys looks and nothing else, it is natural that they will swipe only on the very good looking guys because that's all they have to go by.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:05 PM
57

Boys are raised to believe that approval is the most important need. A boy becomes a man when he gives up his fear of disapproval.
/r/seduction20/12/21 03:02 PM
1

You should see some of the homemade video and photo collections people keep. And they are not typically men btw.
/r/seduction20/12/21 03:02 PM
3

Talk about your feelings and emotions. Horniness is an emotion by the way.
/r/seduction20/12/21 11:42 AM
7

You do sound like a loser.
/r/seduction20/12/21 11:41 AM
16

High value doesn't mean a guy who has a high net worth. Status doesn't mean the guy who is a lawyer or a business man. High value means valuing yourself highly. Considering yourself to be "worth it". You can make a lot of money and have zero internal value and self worth. Status simply means that no one else can subject you and make you his or her bitch. You don't even have to be some leader of men, just a guy who doesn't let others disrespect him and call the shots when it comes to his own life…
/r/seduction20/12/21 11:40 AM
22

"Husband material" implies a well behaved, boring, vanilla man who sparks no excitement between the sheets. He has everything else ok paper, such as a good job, decent looks, bright future, etc., but literally no woman fantasizes about him in bed. "Wife material" is what men imagine they want in a woman, until they get her and then figure out she is boring and unexciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:36 AM
7

I've been trying to explain to men that male and female arousal work very very differently. Men can become aroused just by a woman's looks and whether she appears willing (a picture of a woman striking a sexy pose will do it for us, but the same woman sitting normal probably not). For women, they need to be charmed by someone with playful confidence who makes them feel safe, helps them lower their guard and eventually gets them turned on with their character and personality (showing up as a man)…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:51 AM
3

First things first. Female arousal works differently than male arousal and typically a woman wants a confident guy who will charm her, make her feel safe and accepted and only then will she open up and get aroused. This is why many women will say they can look at a man and appreciate that he is an attractive looking man, but it doesn't do anything for them, because they are not aroused simply by looks but also by how the man behaves towards them and how he makes them feel. Guys always skip this …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:45 AM
13

Treat her as if you are already sleeping with her.
/r/seduction20/12/21 06:37 AM
2

You really need to check this video out: https://youtu.be/JpyVMzaBqzQ
/r/seduction20/12/21 06:37 AM
87

The only reason you consider someone out of your league is because you don't like and respect yourself enough.
/r/seduction19/12/21 09:37 PM
9

Women need men more than the other way around. They always want to attach themselves to a strong man and dig their claws into him. It only appears to be the other way around due to social brainwashing, because it is very easy to control men through their sex drive. Harness their sex drive and you can make young men go to war, build cities, slave away at office jobs, all in the name of building some self worth so they can ask out that hot girl who lives down the street. Think about it. If men wer…
/r/seduction19/12/21 09:30 PM
0

:p
/r/seduction19/12/21 09:27 PM
2

Well better get to work
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:17 PM
16

They can be found under "Mom" on your phone's contact list.
/r/seduction19/12/21 09:16 PM
-1

Almost never. But they get to sleep with me, so they are the lucky ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:25 PM
0

So you do take care of him. Good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:22 PM
1

My women have loved taking care of me. Cooking for me, cleaning my apartment, getting groceries, treating me to vacations. Maybe you should try that sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:15 PM
-5

When will men understand that every single woman worth fucking doesn't want to be the prize. She wants to be with the prize. Women want a dominant man who they can take care of and fuck. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:52 PM
2

The biggest gift you can give a woman is unconditional and non-judgmental acceptance. Every woman that I have done this for has turned into the pornstar little slut that she has always wanted to be. Women are way naughtier and dirtier than we are. Our sexual fantasies are a PG movie compared to their XXX stuff. The issue is most guys can't do that. They can't help themselves and judge women who enjoy sex, who have sex with lots of men just because they want to, or women who might enjoy kinks or …
/r/seduction19/12/21 06:50 PM
3

Don't bother with any of this shit. Look up David X and don't ever come back here asking questions.
/r/seduction19/12/21 06:46 PM
2

Would you go to a dentist who has never worked on anyone's teeth? Or a car mechanic who has only worked on one car in his life?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:40 PM
21

Stop caring about what women think. You can't relate to the shit that goes through their head. You will never spend 5 hours in the bathroom combing your pussy hairs and applying make up so you can talk to some guy for 10 minutes. Stop trying.
/r/seduction19/12/21 05:29 PM
10

Sounds like your own advice is working out so well for you.
/r/seduction19/12/21 07:49 AM
2

Talk something dirty in their ear.
/r/seduction19/12/21 07:48 AM
-2

Focus on what you want and only on that thing. Don't think about what women are thinking about what they may want. That's the trap guys always fall into. They are trying to get on a woman's program and try to figure out what good deeds they must do in order to earn sex. You want women to get on your program. You know how they go out and they say "I want a guy who is this and that and treats me like this and that and does this and that"? Well, you have to do this for yourself. What do you want? W…
/r/seduction19/12/21 07:45 AM
1

Why did you change our answer? I liked it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:36 AM
3

Maybe try being honest with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:23 AM
19

Texting is the surest way to bore the shit out of her. If you can't make your mind up about fuckimg her, someone else will.
/r/seduction19/12/21 02:42 AM
0

I'd rather blow my brains out. I can barely take working from home as it is. My country is entering third year of lockdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:38 AM
0

Male, 40, lost it at 16 to my 17 year old high school gf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:37 AM
-21

As I'm actually vibrating so we can stimulate your clit? Or carrying a vibrator around with us? Can you clarify?
/r/seduction19/12/21 02:33 AM
2

Why can't you be a sexual being and express that you are naughty and want to bang but also get to know the person for who they are and not as a collection of moist holes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:10 PM
2

I seriously want to do the drugs that you are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:08 PM
1

Women are fine with telling you to go pound sand if they are not interested. They are used to it. Plus it's not your job to make that decision for them. A bit misogynistic to do their thinking for them, now isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:07 PM
2

Five years and you still haven't had sex? Damn!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:05 PM
2

That's also the reason that women don't approach men in real life. It's not that you can't, or are afraid to face rejection. You are big girls and can deal with it. The issue is if the guy you approached turned out to be annoying, dumb and uninteresting, you wouldn't be able to get rid of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:05 PM
8

It's your choice to listen to Reddit randos and take someone else's opinions as gospel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:47 PM
1

You have no idea how any of this works. Stop projecting your male experience onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:30 PM
2

Please don't listen to self defeating losers like the guy above. Although, you certainly suffer from the Groucho Marx syndrome as well. The Marx syndrome is "I wouldn't want to be part of a club that would have me as a member". You mentioned that this woman was starved for physical affection, implying that she slept with you not because she liked you for who you are but because she was desperate and needy. Do you see how self defeating this attitude is? To believe that you always have to work ha…
/r/seduction18/12/21 02:23 PM
1

Yes. And even beyond that, freedom comes when he stops feeling the need for external approval. All men are slaves to their need for approval. They look up to their buddies, to the woman at the bar, to a total stranger they will never ever see again, imagining what the other person must be thinking about them. Living in fear they will be disapproved of and vanished from society. Only when the fear of disapproval is overcome can a man actually call himself a MAN.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:17 PM
6

The worst offenders are though guys like this . Believing women have it all figured out snd easy on the dating and sexual department. That's not only dealing in absolutes but delusion central.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:15 PM
-1

What do you want her for if not to fuck her? Would you buy a car that you could never drive? Or that you could only drive once a month. Fuck this. You ain't getting any younger and her tits are not going to sag any less the longer you wait. Call her over to your place have a drink start kissing and whip your dick out. Tell her your election is not going to go away by itself.
/r/seduction18/12/21 01:03 PM
5

You ain't getting any younger and neither is she. Her boobs are not going to sag less a week from now that's for sure.
/r/seduction15/12/21 07:33 AM
1

Dude please don't do this shit. Can't you just be normal?
/r/seduction15/12/21 05:54 AM
9

I don't know how to tell you this, but women do something called ovulation, which is the same as animals going in heat. It means that for 2 days out of the month they want to fuck anything that moves and sometimes that includes you. Now, this girl wanted to get done. But since looking cool and not needy was more important to you than getting laid, you lost your chance by being indirect, slow and non specific. You didn't show up as a man to take advantage of a situation that was presented to you …
/r/seduction15/12/21 05:51 AM
2

I should elaborate on this so it is not misconstrued. The first part about knowing what you want is simply this. I focus on what I want, not what women want, not on what I think they want, not on impressing them, making them interested, entertaining them, etc. You see, whenever we see a stunning woman, we start thinking, jeez, how can I impress a woman like this, how can I please her so she will want to be with me, gosh I'd be so lucky to have a shot with her. It is so easy for us because it's h…
/r/seduction15/12/21 05:45 AM
2

Jesus sorry to hear about this. My condolences.
/r/seduction14/12/21 11:11 PM
3

Women will say this when you reject them because it's the only way they can deal with it by having a plausible excuse. When a woman is horny and wants to fuck and you can't get the job done, god help you. She will hate you forever. Women are raised to think their sex is the most valuable thing they have and if you reject that you are basically calling them worthless. Just good for thought. Btw your friend needs help.
/r/seduction14/12/21 10:45 PM
-4

Oh shut up already making excuses for pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:29 PM
0

Lol so many things wrong in one post it's not even funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:23 PM
2

I watched a guy talk himself out of sex. A girl I work with wanted to hook up with him. She straight up told him next time we are having sex. She hit him up and he was like "oh yeah, a friend and his girlfried are at my place right now, then on Sunday I'm watching formula 1". What a fucktard. Now she hates his guts and won't talk to him again. He was so busy with his head up his ass that he couldn't find time to get laid. Then he will post on some black pill sub about how only Chads get casual s…
/r/seduction14/12/21 05:30 PM
0

Focus only on what I wanted (I'd go out thinking "I want a bj right now") and became honest with women.
/r/seduction14/12/21 05:27 PM
6

This! I've worried more when I've been in ltrs because the condom is the first thing to go when you are exclusive.
/r/seduction14/12/21 05:27 PM
6

You have no understanding of what direct game is. Zero. It's not about blurting out something about her snap or Insta. What the fuck are you going to do with an Instagram account? Can you fuck it? Can you talk to it? Can it cuddle with you? Direct means you walk over to a woman because you find her attractive and you tell her so. Then stay long enough to find out if she is someone who is interesting and impressive to you. If you can't be bothered to talk to them why would they be bothered with f…
/r/seduction14/12/21 05:25 PM
2

Why do t you focus on what you want and not on what you think she thinks she wants? Every guy thinks women want a guy with a career, a car, a house, this and that, but none of them worry about what they want. Women evolved to take care of and fuck their man. It that man is not the one that is worried about what they want which is god knows what. Instead worry about what you want and focus on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:21 PM
-2

If men were just to be honest they would actually get laid a whole lot more because no woman hears honesty from men. And if women were honest that they just want to have no strings attached fun and if the guy wants to stick around it's up to him, they would have way more guys lining up wanting to wife them because all we are used to is women trying to pressure us constantly into committing to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:45 PM
4

Well beats a dead bedroom for sure. How is that "normal"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:44 PM
0

No woman goes out to get a ONS. They always hope they will find someone who is good enough to invite to their bed again, so if your so called Chads are only getting ONS, they ain't that good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:40 PM
4

Men assume that what they think a hot looking guy is to them should be the exactly same to women. So their brains fry when they see a guy who doesn't look like much hooking up with hot women and they assume he must be rich, a drug dealer or a record producer. And that a guy who is attractive looking might actually be boring and a whimp that no woman wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:15 PM
11

Treat a whore like a queen and a queen like a whore.
/r/seduction14/12/21 01:03 PM
1

This study is not explaining certain nuances. When when are ovulating (I.e. when they are in heat and their brains tell them "MUST HARVEST SPERM"), they tend to go for males who exhibit sings of high testosterone. This doesn't necessarily mean attractive or nice looking, it means a man who is a man. Testosterone makes a man a man. So hit the gym and behave like a man and you are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:36 AM
17

Well no one said women were easy. If you want a job, you are kind of expected to show up and work. If you want to enjoy female company, you are kind of expected to pay attention to them.
/r/seduction14/12/21 07:08 AM
1

Sorry to hear for your loss! As a 40 year old man who is married I can tell you that there are plenty of 20 somethings who find guys our age attractive. You have to understand that you have a ton of advantages over a guy their age. You have a more established career, you are less tolerant of bullshit, you have more life experience and can teach her stuff, you have been in relationships which means you know women better and are likely much better in bed than some young buck who pumps and dumps. T…
/r/seduction14/12/21 06:08 AM
6

Please don't do that. That's weird and creepy and desperate. Try to at least flirt a few times and get some kind of conversation going. Never ask a woman out because she looks good. Ask her out because you find her interesting or charming. Otherwise you are just another loser.
/r/seduction14/12/21 05:59 AM
535

If she is asking you how many guys you have slept with she is thinking you are gay.
/r/seduction14/12/21 05:57 AM
1

But how can I be happy and constant if women don't want to fuck me waaaah waaaah
/r/seduction14/12/21 05:56 AM
17

lol, it doesn't work for them and girls make fun behind their needy boyfriends backs all the time. They also dump them when a better option comes along. At one point this needy guy faked it enough that he didn't come across this way and got the girl somehow. Then his true side came out, but it was not the neediness that attracted her. Also, some women just settle.
/r/seduction14/12/21 05:55 AM
-1

What does that have to do with guys wanting to bang her?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:45 AM
-1

I've met girls in all kinds of places, but I didn't hang around like a desperate weirdo. Women notice the vibe and they know what you are doing and they find you weird and creepy. Hence why op is not seeing any success. Otherwise he'd have a gf by now, lol.
/r/seduction13/12/21 09:06 PM
-1

Just say it's a sub for creeps.
/r/seduction13/12/21 07:54 PM
2

I do think it's a physical and emotional need. So is having food and shelter. We all learn how to go out into the world and earn our food and shelter. So I can't understand why these guys don't go out and learn how to earn sex? I know I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:10 PM
3

Confidence is the belief you are enough. It takes virtually zero successful outcomes to feel this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:33 PM
3

Expecting women to make you a complete man is a futile game. No woman wants to attach herself to a man who feels incomplete without having a woman in his life. It's about taking responsibility for your own fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:06 PM
3

Yeah that's not how it works my friend. Expecting a woman to give you confidence and validation because you can't be bothered to do it for yourself is not going to fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:16 PM
-5

As I said, get a life, go find stuff to do and when you see a girl you like then go up to her. Hanging out at the mall to do that is predatory.
/r/seduction13/12/21 03:00 PM
11

Read this post as if you were a woman and ask yourself "would I want to date someone who wouldn't want to want to date himself".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:57 PM
-7

That's total bs because it is totally counter productive to be running around harassing girls and being the awkward weirdo. You are lowering your chances of getting girls interested and wil just end up depressed and sad because of all the rejections.
/r/seduction13/12/21 01:27 PM
15

I don't hate TRP, I just have contempt for anyone following their philosophy. To me, the philosophy is reactive. It claims that it knows the truth about women (it doesn't) and that puffs itself up as a solution to some evil conspiracy where all women banded together and decided to fuck only 10% of guys who are total Chads - ripped, rich and above 6'. It constantly contradicts itself by saying that any woman above a 3 rides the cock carousel and has gang bangs every other weekend, but at the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:43 PM
1

Are you autistic?
/r/seduction13/12/21 12:34 PM
2

Wtf does reattracting mean? You are either attractive or not. It's who you are not what you do.
/r/seduction13/12/21 12:27 PM
1

Trust me, been there done that. Started getting laid way more when I stopped going out with the purpose of getting laid and started going out with the purpose of enjoying myself. Women don't want to attach themselves to a desperate predator trolling the local mall for poon. They want to attach themselves to a guy with a fulfilling and fun life, who is not desperate and weird.
/r/seduction13/12/21 12:08 PM
0

No, you are wrong. There is nothing genuine about the Mr Nice Guy. He is also the same guy who tries beta game to get laid and then gets mad when it doesn't work. They are the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:52 AM
-2

Don't approach the group. Just whisper on your girl's ear "tell them that you know me from work and it's okay to leave you alone" and she will tell them to go away. If she likes that is. If not, she will let them drag her away. No point in wasting time speaking with a group.
/r/seduction13/12/21 06:47 AM
9

Think about how ducking creepy and weird it is to go out for the purpose of harassing girls at a mall all day. Do you think that's how normal guys get laid? Day game means going about your day, doing whatever you have to be doing with purpose and if you see a woman you want to meet you go over and talk to her. It doesn't mean spending all day at a place harassing women.
/r/seduction13/12/21 06:44 AM
0

Because even if you find a woman to fuck you, she won't be fucking you because she likes you for who you are, but only for whatever money/security you can provide her with. You are still a beta loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:41 PM
1

If you are unsuccessful romantically as a guy 1. Why do you still identify with providers/betas/losers? 2. Why do you keep doing the same thing (being a provider/beta) and expect different results? Why not change your behavior to be closer to what women find sexually attractive, the same way women change their appearance to make themselves more sexually attractive to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:30 PM
4

Someone married this creep?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:52 PM
1

If women truly only choose the top 10% of men then they have very little choice (do the math).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:33 PM
-2

Who has time for this.
/r/seduction12/12/21 05:10 PM
-1

My nigga stop texting and start making moves. Women want to fuck as much as we do but they can't find fuck worthy guys because they all behave just like you. Endless texting and beating around the bush until their pussy dries up.
/r/seduction12/12/21 04:59 PM
1

Unless she is throwing my herself at him, at which point a rejection is saying "you are worthless to me because I don't want your sex".
/r/seduction12/12/21 04:53 PM
1

It's something men never have to worry about, but women are extremely worried about incest on an evolutionary level, because incest means a retarded baby. A guy that looks like her brother or dad, who smells like them, who behaves the same, watches the exact same sports, drinks the same beer, who smells like her, could for all practical purposes be her brother. Therefore, when a woman ovulated and her body is primed to get pregnant she seeks out strange men. Men who remind her nothing of her fam…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 04:52 PM
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