How Radical Feminists Justify Cheating

MikeFromBC · 2011-10-25T06:21:28+00:00

The one under it is just as bad:

For my sister hets who enjoy PIV sex, consider this: men are physiological able to have an orgasm without ejaculating. Yet they all do it, every time — penis-involved sex isn’t considered ‘complete’ until ejaculation occurs. Imagine a world in which men were taught not to ejaculate unless they were specifically asked to by the person they were sexing up. Not as a birth control method, since that wouldn’t prevent pregnancy, but just because it’s messy and uneccessary. Can you hear the howls of dude protest? You have to ask yourself why.

Sure, guys can orgasm without ejaculating. I have to wonder just what it would take to teach yourself how to do that.

Plus, she makes it sound like guys do it just to piss off women.

askeetikko · 2011-10-25T08:44:59+00:00

I love how she calls it the "political decision" to cheat. People justify their asshole-behavior in many ways. This would be douchebag-asshat-person using radical political feminism as a cover for her want to literally fuck around.

zyk0s · 2011-10-25T14:01:06+00:00

But remember, when a man is unfaithful, he deserves to have his penis chopped off!

BinaryShadow · 2011-10-25T05:49:51+00:00

And the marriage rate just keeps on dropping. Keep it up, girls. You're doing more for the MGTOW movement than any neat-looking website.

canadas · 2011-10-25T06:09:49+00:00

The comment below that one is quite the gem as well. Basically it says men don't have to ejaculate to orgasm yet we basically we aren't happy unless we do and should only ejaculate if the women wants us to.

Personally I didn't know I had this skill, maybe one day ill figure it out.

dermanus · 2011-10-25T11:48:19+00:00

This is the kind of thing we need to show to ordinary women who might describe themselves as feminist without really thinking about what it means.

The complete and utter selfishness of the commenter should get any reasonable person of any gender pissed off. She clearly has issues if she has to preface "sex" with "the oppressive act of".

samarye · 2011-10-25T16:39:23+00:00

Note that the blog defines itself as "advancing the radical feminist views of" its authors (emphasis added). The blog's guide for commenting states, "In order to be considered suitable for posting here, your remarks must proceed from within a framework of radical feminist theory. ... any comment that expresses views proceeding from any discernible male-identified perspective, even if it is superficially pro-feminist, is not suitable for posting here."

These authors wouldn't consider themselves mainstream feminists. They're going as far to one side of a spectrum of beliefs as they can, and they don't tolerate comments from mainstream feminists or anyone sufficiently far from them on the spectrum to question their views.

frostek · 2011-10-25T13:18:54+00:00

Er... what is with those people making comments? Are they all insane?

Women can't withhold consent? Really?!

I must have been imagining every time I didn't get somewhere!

venereveritas · 2011-10-25T12:40:31+00:00

I like the part in the comments where she says we're oppressed either way, so having sex is still kinda permissible. There goes my comment to her and all those other radicals that they should all stop having sex, for the sake of the movement.

guess they'll be reproducing after all.

Bobsutan · 2011-10-25T08:50:24+00:00

Batshit insane. There's nothing more to be said.

frankyb89 · 2011-10-25T13:19:28+00:00

The quote you picked out was bad, it annoyed me but didn't quite make me rage. I should never have clicked the link to see the page. What the hell is wrong with these people?

My mom, that grizzled old veteran of the first wave wars, has always opined that men should be kept locked up in a wildlife preserve somewhere and loaned out for sex (to those of us who enjoy the occasional pronging) on an as-needed basis. Something in the back of my mind has always loved that idea.

That particular comment shocked me. I do like this "Emily H" though, from the few comments I've read of hers on the page it seems like she's not lost in lala land.

LallyMonkey · 2011-10-25T16:02:07+00:00

So wait, she calls sex an "oppressive act", so she chooses to get oppressed by other men as well as her husband, giving more than 1 man dominance over her?

toblotron · 2011-10-25T08:40:39+00:00

That is indeed rage-worthy, but we should keep in mind that only a small portion of the people describing themselves as feminists are This degree of insane (AFAIK!)

-Lets not bunch all feminists/women together in one crazy-pot - that's what the radfems do, and try to make others do with men/MRA's :)

MikeFromBC · 2011-10-25T06:01:29+00:00

Fuck, I wanted to leave planet Earth when I read that stupid self-masturbatory blog. Sometimes people can surprise you with how much they suck.

Roddy0608 · 2011-10-25T13:26:19+00:00

Hard to believe this is not satire.

Ma99ie · 2011-10-25T15:43:54+00:00

tl:dr - My husband cheated on me with his secretary, then left me for a young woman, so now I'm rewriting history so that I am not the victim.

ThePigman · 2011-10-25T09:43:44+00:00

It's like slutshaming in reverse!

2011-10-25T14:51:00+00:00

Why did she marry this man and have children with him if she felt she needed to play these sorts of games to be treated fairly? She even admits her relationship with him was good.

2011-10-25T15:35:03+00:00

I'm finding myself wondering what /r/feminism or /r/2x thinks about this...

Celda · 2011-10-25T16:32:40+00:00

To me consent is totally irrelevant to rape – since rape – just as slavery, prostitution, pornography et al – can very well be consented to or contracted; it doesn’t retrieve the fact a rape occured.

LOL....

iExtrapolate · 2011-10-25T16:37:13+00:00

I feel sorry for her husband.

TweeSpam · 2011-10-25T16:46:37+00:00

in a patriarchy, “consensual sex” (between women and dudes) doesn’t even exist. This is because, in a patriarchy, agency is not conferred equally upon women and dudes. This untoward circumstance creates a contingency wherein the notion of consent is, for women, entirely non-substantive, a figment, a desperate fantasy invented to obscure the true nature of women’s status as the sex class.

... i can't even fathom this. Apparently women cannot give consent to sex? WHAT world is she on? ALL SEX IS RAPE!

robotrock1382 · 2011-10-25T17:08:27+00:00

There's no arguing with a non rational person.

DarthOvious · 2011-10-25T18:12:52+00:00

"I went on a sex strike for five years after our kid was born, as a way to maintain my autonomy and agency once I realised the kid thing really did economically trap me into my (reasonably happy) marriage with a (reasonably egalitarian, yet clueless) guy. I just couldn’t give up that last thing of myself – if I had, then he would have owned all of me, not just my free childkeeping and house labour.

Translation: "Wah, my husband has stopped having sex with me because he finds me unattractive after giving birth, so I'm going to have sex with the first loser who will even look at me."

Well, thats how I read it.

rantgrrl · 2011-10-25T22:29:06+00:00

Wow. Complete moral bankruptcy.

hardwarequestions · 2011-10-25T05:15:16+00:00

edit your prompt so it will properly display the hyperlink.

el_chief · 2011-10-25T06:57:15+00:00

feminists are liars, only out for themselves, and should not be listened to.

VapeApe · 2011-10-25T13:36:14+00:00

Yeah cause sex is totally a political decision.....

Some people don't understand where politics ends and social rules of basic civility begin. She'll realize how political it is when her husband finds out, snaps, loses his rational mind, finds them both and kills them in the bed they're fucking in with a shotgun.

They call it a crime of passion, not a political assassination for a reason.

emoprairiedog · 2011-10-25T14:15:19+00:00

Hah! Free childkeeping and house labour? Without the husband working, she wouldn't even have that! She would have to go out and work and pay someone to do it!!

I see this too many times, women justifying their cheating on men claiming it is an oppresive male ruled society, by having "oppresive" sex with them? Come on! When men cheat, they don't need to come up with shit like that! You want to fuck someone else? Do it and accept the consequences!

shadm81 · 2011-10-25T14:13:05+00:00

Wow! I think blood vessels in my brain exploded......

mercer22 · 2011-10-25T14:35:41+00:00

Man, these women scare me.

Lothrazar · 2011-10-25T15:06:44+00:00

Oh, I am sure if he decided exact same thing , she would be fully supportive. Dont worry. Women are never hypocrites its impossible.............:S

2011-10-25T15:22:29+00:00

Does... her husband know about this blog post?

purrit · 2011-10-25T16:06:42+00:00

"clueless" is a lot like "loser" - it doesn't really mean anything, except to shame men.

FreddyDeus · 2011-10-25T17:25:21+00:00

Wow, it's like the 70s and 80s all over again.

NoSalt · 2011-10-25T17:35:38+00:00

Rage commencing ...

bluthru · 2011-10-25T17:46:33+00:00

I can't even believe I'm the same species as this despicable person.

What kind of upbringing does one have to be so self-centered?

ENTP · 2011-10-25T18:23:38+00:00

When one's mind is far removed from reality by feminist lies, it is easy to justify just about anything.

2011-10-25T19:59:33+00:00

Ugh, even her writing style is annoying. I hate how she (keeps throwing stuff and) adding parentheses throughout her (idiotic and baseless) message. Further, the vocabulary she (spews) uses feels so contrived and forced.

so as to expand the boundaries inherent in the system of non-consent.

*lolwut? You so smart! Who are you trying to convince, again? *

ZzardozZ · 2011-10-25T20:10:09+00:00

Why would you even marry and attempt to procreate with something like that? Who would want that disaster?

Liazabeth · 2011-10-25T20:48:15+00:00

I had no idea there where people so stupid out there. Seriously why is she married? I love my husband and my children, I would never in a million years even think of abstaining from sex because it is an 'oppressive act' and then cheat on my husband because having sex with him means he 'owns' me - this woman needs help and all others just like her

seal_raider · 2011-10-25T21:50:49+00:00

Wow. I can't wait until the "AMA guy who put his wang into pure crazy"

rockidol · 2011-10-25T22:05:51+00:00

Radical fundies can justify anything. Fundies usually do not operate on logic so that's how they justify it.

2011-10-26T01:45:23+00:00

Poor guy. He was either madly in love, fiercely loyal or a complete idiot. Note that this crazy has mated and brought more crazy unto the world.

ketamin · 2011-10-26T02:05:52+00:00

"Ok honey I will stop opressing you that much. I'm going out to opress some bitches, byeee"

interestingtimes · 2011-10-26T06:41:05+00:00

Ouch! I read this after seeing everyone's outrage and really wish I hadn't. That blog is filled with women who are completely awful!

malagrond · 2011-10-25T14:42:50+00:00

This is why I joined this subreddit.

Offensive_Brute · 2011-10-25T12:34:11+00:00

Then he Dexters her ass and everyone treats him like the bad guy. What is this world coming to.

millertime73 · 2011-10-25T13:14:55+00:00

Look, liberals tell me that feminism does not hurt men or children and is not anti-family. People who think that are paranoid crazy cis white guys trying to hold on to male privilege. Therefore, this blog does not exist on the internet.

jahesus · 2011-10-25T18:32:58+00:00

you call it feminist, i call it femnazi cunt...

LAMFF · 2011-10-25T17:10:48+00:00

Hopefully, he was cheating on her the whole 5 years she was withholding her wifely duty of having sex with her husband. I would probably divorced her after about 1 month of that nonsense.

cattypakes · 2011-10-25T21:20:47+00:00

this is what every feminist wants, agreed

How Radical Feminists Justify Cheating

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Title	How Radical Feminists Justify Cheating
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