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Bitch lost

-LexXi-

February 3, 2020
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Title Bitch lost
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-LexXi-

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Date February 3, 2020 7:45 PM UTC
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I'm absolutely disgusted how can somebody be so cruel. Where's the justice? Why do stupid people win?

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November 11, 2020
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[–]VvV_Maximus 1651 points1652 points1653 points 6 years ago (135 children) | Copy Link

It just revealed her true character. That she was most likely only with her husband for either his money or she believed she had settled for him, and now that she is rich, she can do better.

[–]tophusurvivor 662 points663 points664 points 6 years ago (65 children) | Copy Link

No money could fix a face like that, though.

[–]MrChibiterasu 411 points412 points413 points 6 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

Not even Khajit has wares for that.

[–]OHoagy 227 points228 points229 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

That's ok because she doesn't have coin.

[–]_Diskreet_ 43 points44 points45 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

She should hang out with Geralt everyone is tossing him coins.

[–]assgoblin2020 57 points58 points59 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It's toss a coin to a witcher not a witch

[–]VacuouslyUntrue 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Your witcher, not just any witcher.

[–]assgoblin2020 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My mistake

[–]Vulturedoors 48 points49 points50 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

🏅

[–]dundiddlydam 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

r/unexpectedskyrim

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

is that a skyrim reference?? skyrim is so cool!

[–]Davis019 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes it is, and yes it is

[–]SteeperVirus05 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

(☞ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)☞

[–]Fusion_power 24 points25 points26 points 6 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

The face is not at all bad, the personality is a total butt wipe. You can accept a person who does not look that great so long as they have a really good personality. Bad personality takes everything else off the table. Source, was married to a very pretty woman who was a narcissist. It took 11 years for me to figure out that her good looks did not make up for me being treated like crap.

[–]hypercube33 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

She's the personality butt wipe of that half ply raspy toilet paper that makes you feel like you're a 5th decade oragami specialist at folding paper but still end up doing the Hershey melt finger poke

[–]fuzzy_winkerbean 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So I got up this morning, got the kids ready and started to make my coffee. Feeling rather bored I decide to open Reddit to see what’s going on in the world. Little did I know I was going to laugh and spill my coffee on my lap.

You sir or madam have made an enemy this day. I will passive aggressively remember your comment all day.

[–]rockynputz 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Part of the pretty girl narcissist club, damn they can be mean. With a beautiful woman now inside and out.

[–]GRMNTOY 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Same. I was married to a narc for over 10 years. Dissolution from her was finalized last month. They think they can cover their POS personalities in the frosting of their looks and pass themselves off as cupcakes. But the mask always falls and the wall is undefeated. Ugh. Good riddance. The freedom gained is pure bliss. Best of luck to you, friend.

[–]mackafat 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She's been chasing parked cars hoping to get a payout. The lotto was her ticket to freeeee!

[–]The-Sofa-King 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Brown paper bag: ¢25

[–]ShortWarrior 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ditching the bitch: priceless

[–]MaxMcCool45 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She's basically Wario sans squiggly mustache.

[–]Nightcall2049 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I feel like I've seen that nose somewhere before...

[–]mgtowolf 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

On squidward's face?

[–]enseminator 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Severus Snape

[–]whtdoiwrite 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

r/murderedbywords

[–]Smokkmundur -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She looks kinda like Anita Sarkeesian

[+]ONLY_COMMENTS_ON_GW1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (25 children) | Copy Link

This comment sucks. Her personality is ugly enough, beauty standards have absolutely nothing to do with this.

[–]tophusurvivor 21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link

Nah, I think it's ok to make fun of ugly people if they are rude and mean cunt weasels. Like, I would never make fun of a fat person for being fat... unless they were going above and beyond in being dicks. Like this lady.

[–]strandedintime 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All that thinking does is turn you into a mean cunt weasel. At the end of the day the biggest skill you've put work into in your life are slights and slurs

I'll pass on it in my clearheaded moments.

[–]Gaybopiggins -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

I think it's okay to make fun of ugly people if their dickheads as well. And it is always 100% acceptable to make fun of a fat person lol

[+]Thibbledorf_Pwent -6 points-5 points-4 points 6 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

You guys see this shit? This is the company you’re keeping right here. You can pretend it’s ok because they were dicks but you’re on the level of this guy.

[–]Gaybopiggins 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Level of what, chuckles? If you're an asshole, you get mocked. Try not being an asshole?

Methinks doth protest too much.

Lemme guess, you're a fucking douchebag and also hideous, so you don't want to people to be able to point out your biggest insecurities.

[–]R_M_Jaguar 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Oh, calm the fuck down.

[–]Thibbledorf_Pwent 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I’m calm. You ok?

[–]R_M_Jaguar 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Your heart though, is it ok?

[–]Thibbledorf_Pwent -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It’s great! My husband has high blood pressure so I’ve been eating a low sodium diet in solidarity for like a year now. Doctor says I have the blood pressure of someone half my age. 😊

[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points-1 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Soooo it's ok to make fun of you then?

[+]ONLY_COMMENTS_ON_GW1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link

What a load of crap. You're equating ugly on the inside with "ugly" on the outside, which people have minimal control over.

[–]tophusurvivor -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Ever make fun of Donald for being Orange? That's right, fuck off.

[–]ONLY_COMMENTS_ON_GW1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

No I haven't you fucking dildo

[–]ChefBoyAreWeFucked -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Trump isn't actually orange — he paints himself orange. So that's not even a good analogy.

[–]Scavenger53 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ugly

[–]8asdqw731 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

can't even point out that some people are ugly without somebody getting offended, smh

[–]Lt_Dickballs -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Dude... trump married a model, money can fix anything.

[–]mcbrite -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Good sir, a store mannequin with resting bitch face alone, a model does not make!

[–]Lt_Dickballs 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

She was literally a model...

[–]mcbrite -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Looking like a constipated cunt does not make you a model...

[–]Lt_Dickballs -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

https://imgur.com/a/lftq3CL

[–]mcbrite 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You Americans really aren't too bright, are ya? :-D

[–]GalironRunner -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's actually what most eyes could fix lol sadly no amount of plastic surgery can fix someone's soul lol

[–]KanyeWesleySnipes -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Imagine if SHE was with HIM for his money though. Freddy fucking Kruger must be her husband.

[–]Zwei_Stogram 59 points60 points61 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I remember reading about this. The fact they've left out here is that she didn't tell her husband about the lottery and wanted to divorce him and keep all the money. That is the reason why judge gave all of it to the husband.

[–]Magdog651 points 6 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

https://www.theguardian.com/world/1999/nov/18/3

Happened in England.

[–]Viswahili 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She also lost her appeal

http://www.metnews.com/articles/ross0625.htm?hc_location=ufi

[–]sprazcrumbler 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That article says it happened in California

[–]Magdog65 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

guess there is more than one instance.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Did you read the article? It says it happened in California.

[–]OracleofFl 17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

...and she filed for bankruptcy. Maybe to avoid having to pay her husband back for the money already spent.

https://www.orlandosentinel.com/news/os-xpm-1999-12-16-9912160188-story.html

[–]scaevola79 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The same happened in our street. She won a sizable amount of money and was gone with the wind. Left him and the kids and went living the life she really wanted

[–]aa_tw 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

IIRC, She divorced him, collected the winnings and he found out. It turned out she had won while they were married and so the husband was entitled to half. She failed to disclose the lottery money during the divorce process and that's illegal. So the judge ruled in favor of the husband.

[–]gogoggansgo 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If it was the other way around it would be front page news and woman empowerment lmfao

[–]Vall3y 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well isn't it true for everyone

[–]jackandjill22 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yikes.

[+]sirzack92 -39 points-38 points-37 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Or its possible she has felt trapped for year's and finally has a chance to start over new and away from an abusive husband and has now been ripped apart from a financially stable break.

Just playing devils advocate.

[–]Philletto 29 points30 points31 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

If a women can demand half in divorce, then a man can demand half too. The judge awarding 100% will probably be overturned but she was punished for a good reason.

[–]Arkhaan 16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Nope it’s been upheld for like two years now

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Why does it say humour below the headline then?

[–]Arkhaan 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because justice served is funny as fuck

[–]Dynosmite 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nope. I've read the articles about this. Just up and left what was before a relatively normal marriage. Dude was devastated

[–]thehideousheart 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's possible she's the queen of the crab people and her minions are living underground waiting to attack.

But since there's literally zero fucking evidence of that (just as there is zero evidence of any abuse) I'll stick to what's actually reported.

[–]OhNeptune_002 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah every man these days is an abusive pos. It's not like people take advantage of divorce, alimony, and child support. Of the marriages that end in divorce 70+ percent are initiated by women. So the idea she was trapped is dumb.

[+]DiscardedWetNap -16 points-15 points-14 points 6 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link

I disagree. Even more likely their marriage faded and now that she had a way out of her marriage while also being financially stable she took it. The husband didnt have any part of buying the lottery ticket. It was in a pool with other coworkers who purchased the ticket. Its easy to think about this maliciously, in the worst ways possible like youre doing right now. Her issue was the fact she didnt disclose this to her then husband when she won. She hid it. She couldve just claimed it as seperate property- but she hid it. Which is why the judge was so (unwarrantedly) harsh with the judgement. If you actually read the article youd see this is kinda shitty all around. Wife Files for Divorce After Lottery Win

[–]R_M_Jaguar 13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

That's because the judge got mad and wasn't believing that shit. I know it's easy to read an article and instantly want to side with the party playing victim here.

Were you there during the trial/court proceedings? Do you know the real minutiae in this case? If not, I'd say that you need to practice what you preach.

Oh, and here'sanother article that doesn't depict her in the best light. Do you believe this one?

[–]DiscardedWetNap -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Not siding on either side. I believe the money should be split 60/40 since she hid it. Not 0/100. Both people have a lot yhey need to work on

[–]R_M_Jaguar 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

What did he do to warrant you saying he has a lot to work on?

[–]R_M_Jaguar 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When you lie to the court, this is what happens. She brought it upon herself.

[–]Poormidlifechoices 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She didn’t just hide it. Denise Rossi admitted that she concealed her winnings because she didn’t want her ex-husband “getting his hands on” them. I have no doubt she wanted a way out of the marriage. But she could have got out on half the winnings.

[–]Arkhaan 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

You significantly misrepresent what happened. Did you read the part where a couple of her coworkers admitted under oath that after she won she was bragging about getting a lawyer and getting a divorce so she didn’t have to share?

[–]BrainPicker3 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

In what way does that conflict with what they said?

[–]dblink 12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The wife did act maliciously to hide it.

[–]RepulsiveCrow1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Its easy to think about this maliciously, in the worst ways possible like youre doing right now.

The part where trying to say that knowingly hiding the money to avoid it being part of a divorce settlement while also bragging about it isn't malicious?

[–]BrainPicker3 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Her issue was the fact she didnt disclose this to her then husband when she won. She hid it. She couldve just claimed it as seperate property- but she hid it. Which is why the judge was so (unwarrantedly) harsh with the judgement. If you actually read the article youd see this is kinda shitty all around. 

I mean half of his comment right after that is detailing that this was the wrong course of action and shitty to do

[–]Arkhaan 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Tbh they responded faster and with exact same counterpoints I was gonna use

[–]6r15movement 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You know she's not going to jump through the screen and start sucking your dick for being a worthless simp right?

[–]Wormagenda 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Can't claim new income as separate if you gain it while in the marriage. She filed for divorce 11 days after winning, so it's 50-50, except for the fraud part, which I believe she may have got off easy. I think fraud in some states is a 3x extra punitive award. I'm happy to be corrected there, I'm not a lawyer, I just sit next to a divorce lawyer in a band.

[–]SpicerJones 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I love how you make up this theoretical alternate history take and then link an article without reading that completely debunks what you just said.

[+]BeccaBeccaboBecca11 points 6 years ago [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link

Dude, he was in bankruptcy for his failed business. She just wanted to be free of his shitty choices.

[–]Donaldisinthehouse 15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

And? When a guy divorces a woman he still has to pay up

[–]Greenzoid2 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How many successful businesses do you got

[+][deleted] -9 points-8 points-7 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Or they had a terrible relationship, or he was horribly abusive, or they should have broke up a long time ago for any number of reasons, but she couldn't leave him because she was, for the time being, financially dependant and working toward getting into a better position to break things off and now that the lottery happened that timeline was accelerated? It could be any of these. Yet you speak like you actually know. Kinda stupid.

[–]compounding 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

It is very very simple. Don’t lie to the court about what your assets are. Any of those issues can be sorted out in front of the judge and affect the distribution or settlement, but they recognize no excuses for lying to the court during the process.

[–]gotalowiq 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Victim blaming on a hypothetical. What a piece of shit you are.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm not victim blaming. The opposite, actually. I'm saying we specifically don't know what happened, and shouldn't make assumptions about people's motivations as the full story could be anything. But I'm glad you got a chance to vilify someone and scream at them. I hope it was really cathartic for you.

[–]gotalowiq 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow I actually didn’t get that far into your comment. My apologies.

[+]sickassdope -38 points-37 points-36 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Me, steady vibin like a muhhh

Your girl peep the piece n she bouty bouty

'fuccckkk now I gotta beat the pussy up'

So do

You all pathetic n comin at me with that smoke cryin n shit (lmao)

Me: 🤷‍♂️ sorry bruh

[–]Shuffonix1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

... what? Looking at your comment history, is this supposed to be a troll?

[–]AngelOfDeath771 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes, they're fishing for downvotes

[–]Beardie-Boi-420 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well I guess they got me then

[–]_Jesus_69 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

damn when did i land on instagram?

[–]Lit_Apple 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Can one of you translate

[+]lasagnaapplesauce -39 points-38 points-37 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Or maybe she was in a abusive relationship she was financially dependent on and tried to leave it when she got the chance.

[–]Dawgs000 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ah, the old "he must have done something to deserve it" line of reasoning.

Lemme ask you something. Do you apply this same way of thinking to rape victims and say that they were wearing something that encouraged the rape? No? Oh would that be victim blaming?

So how about we don't blame the victim here either? I know he's just a man, but we can be victims too.

[–]mackafat 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah. No. Someone getting rich suddenly doesn't make that person say "well now that I'm rich I don't have to be abused".

E: try reading the story, ma'am.

During his 25 years of marriage, Thomas Rossi never saw a marriage counselor, never strayed and never doubted a relationship so close that he shared an electric toothbrush with his wife, he said.

Then Denise Rossi shocked him by demanding a divorce. And she wanted it in a hurry.

... it goes on

[–]Thisisannoyingaf 15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

Lol obviously you don’t understand how divorces are paid for.

[–]momojabada 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I support where you are coming from, that phrase was almost intelligible.

[–]thehideousheart 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe she was a Martian and needed the money to return to her own planet.

Who gives a fuck about baseless hypotheticals? Comment on what actually happened and what was actually reported.

[–]some1arguewithme 682 points683 points684 points 6 years ago (103 children) | Copy Link

It's true, she lost it all because she actively tried to hide the money during the divorce.

https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1999-nov-17-mn-34537-story.html

[–]DJ_8Man 207 points208 points209 points 6 years ago (78 children) | Copy Link

Pay wall

[–]furlonium1 388 points389 points390 points 6 years ago (75 children) | Copy Link

During his 25 years of marriage, Thomas Rossi never saw a marriage counselor, never strayed and never doubted a relationship so close that he shared an electric toothbrush with his wife, he said.

Then Denise Rossi shocked him by demanding a divorce. And she wanted it in a hurry.

Now he knows why: On Dec. 28, 1996--just 11 days before she filed for divorce--Denise Rossi won $1.3 million in the California Lottery.

She told no one in her divorce case, and Monday her secret caught up with her. A Los Angeles family court judge ruled that she had violated state asset disclosure laws and awarded her lottery winnings to her ex-husband. Every penny.

Superior Court Judge Richard Denner determined that she acted out of fraud or malice. He based his decision on a deposition in which Denise Rossi admitted that she concealed her winnings because she didn’t want her ex-husband “getting his hands on” them.

“Moral of story: It pays to be honest from the beginning,” said Marc Lerner, attorney for the 65-year-old jilted husband.

Lerner said tears rolled from his client’s eyes when Denner announced his ruling in court. For her part, Denise Rossi, 49, said she was stunned and is contemplating her next legal move.

“Yes, there will be an appeal,” said her attorney, Connolly K. Oyler of Santa Monica. He called the judge’s ruling “very punitive.”

But Thomas Rossi’s lawyers say they are hearing it described another way: karma.

“Maybe people will think twice about hiding assets during a dissolution,” said Lerner, of Brentwood.

Thomas Rossi could not be reached for comment Tuesday, but he weaves a compelling tale in his court papers. Before their divorce--and the fateful Lotto windfall--the Rossis were “a couple of homebodies” from the Westside who did everything together, he said.

“We shared the same bathroom, and we even shared the same electric toothbrush,” he said in court papers.

Denise, however, tells a different story in her filings and an interview Tuesday. She said she had been unhappy for many years and was looking for a way out. He was always broke, and she was always working, she said.

Her chance came when she and five co-workers in a now-defunct clothing design firm pooled resources to play the lottery and hit the jackpot, sharing $6.6 million, she said.

“I’d wanted to get out of this relationship for years,” she said in a telephone interview. She credits luck for her lottery windfall and blames her ignorance of the law for her failure to disclose the winnings.

She had her husband served with divorce papers at the little West Hollywood shop where he developed film and shot portraits of aspiring actors.

His business folded, and he declared bankruptcy in 1998. He went to work part time at a chain photo store.

Then fate struck. More than two years after the divorce, a misdirected piece of mail landed in Thomas Rossi’s mailbox. It was a solicitation addressed to his ex-wife from a company that pays lump sums for lottery winnings and big legal awards.

The May 7 letter from Statewide Funding said, in part, that the company had “helped hundreds of lottery winners like you around the country receive a lump sum payment for the present value of their future annual lottery payments.”

What lottery payments?

“I think he scratched his head for a while, saying: ‘What? This can’t be,’ ” attorney Lerner said.

The California State Lottery Commission confirmed in July that Rossi’s ex-wife had won $1,336,000--payable in 20 annual installments of $66,800.

Thomas Rossi learned that Denise went so far as to have the lottery checks sent to her mother’s address in Pleasant Hill in Northern California.

He obtained a court injunction a few days later. He said his shaky finances in the aftermath of the divorce made his former wife’s secret “even more despicable.” Had she disclosed the winnings, he would have received half under California’s community property laws.

Fighting to hold on to her winnings, Denise Rossi told the court that the lottery ticket had been a gift from a co-worker. The judge didn’t buy it.

Oyler, her attorney, said he might have had a chance during the divorce to help her keep the winnings--if she had only told him about them at the time.

“I could have argued successfully that it was her separate property,” he said. “Or we could have argued and we would have reached some adjustment. But the judge got mad and gave it all to him.”

[–]RolandFigaro 127 points128 points129 points 6 years ago (32 children) | Copy Link

Shared a toothbrush? my jesus christ that's gross!!

[–]Hitlers_LeftTesticle 95 points96 points97 points 6 years ago (21 children) | Copy Link

I'm pretty sure he mean sharing the base of an electric toothbrush. Each person has their own head and you can just put it on and take it off.

Pic: https://teethmates-com.cdn.ampproject.org/i/s/teethmates.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/How-to-Change-an-Oral-B-Electric-Toothbrush-Head.jpg

[–]Eckieflump 33 points34 points35 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I'll go with that. I mean wife and I may have had to share one on the odd night away when shes forgotten hers, but otherwise nar.

[–]Laurelisyellow 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

when she’s forgotten hers

Nice try buddy

[–]Eckieflump 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Haha. I speak only the truth there! I'm travelling all the time, Mrs a little less so. I have a wash bag with all I need for at least 7 days and if anything needs replacing it is done straight away. It sits in my overnight bag ready to be grabbed.

Wife on the other hand is a bit more lassez faire and often forgets to pop in her deodorant, perfume, toothbrush or the like.

She does have many, many other redeeming traits that far outweigh any little bits of forgetting!

[–]just_for_saving611 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

It was in 96 tho, not sure if they had gotten to removable heads at that point.

[–]FierceDeity_ 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I know they did in 98 at least, so it's not such a stretch.

Source: That's the earliest I remember having one

[–]furlonium1 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I've been poor in my life but never "share a toothbrush" poor. Gross.

[–][deleted] 28 points29 points30 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yet people eat pussy, arsehole and suck dick and make out. The irony here is unreal.

[–]furlonium1 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah solid point.

Just something about sharing a toothbrush grosses me out.

[–]FoulDill1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Wait till you hear about kissing!!!

[–]thebrownesteye 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

well kissing doesn't count cuz it turns him on!

[–]TheShtuff -3 points-2 points-1 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A toothbrush is used to clean plaque, food, etc out of someone's mouth. I'm not eating a dirty asshole or running my tongue across someone's teeth to clean them when kissing.

Would you be fine sharing the same piece of floss? Probably not. It's gross.

[–]FierceDeity_ 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Electric toothbrushes have exchangeable HEADS

[–]DoingItWrongSinceNow 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Is it? If I'm willing and eager to suck on her tongue, among other things, I don't see how sharing a toothbrush is a problem.

I mean, rinse the Oreos out first, but then go at her.

Besides, he's 65. It's just wasteful to keep a dedicated toothbrush just for that one tooth he has left.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've done it.... Really no excuse other than I couldn't find my toothbrush and the GF said we could share.

[–]Omnibus_Dubitandum 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Shared a toothbrush?

With her!

[–]BoreDominated 15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Denise, however, tells a different story in her filings and an interview Tuesday. She said she had been unhappy for many years and was looking for a way out. He was always broke, and she was always working, she said.

If that's true, why did she need to wait to win the lottery before leaving him? If he provided nothing of value financially or otherwise, what was stopping her divorcing him earlier?

[–]ShortWarrior 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Can't take half his money in a divorce if he doesn't have any money.

[–]Chaselthevisionary 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Actually I think if you have more money, regardless of gender, you end up losing when you divorce someone. Not sure tho

[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points-1 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I was in a financially abusive relationship for two years. I worked while my POS ex sat around playing video games all day. He spent my money while I was at work. He constantly pawned my stuff off for more money. I constantly fell behind on bills. It took me several months of hiding money before I'd saved up enough to make a break for it. Why didn't I leave earlier? I fucking couldn't afford to.

[–]BoreDominated 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Was he spending your money without your permission or forcing you to give him money?

[–]Cumandbump 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Was the dick that good or why did you stay lol. Just call the cops

[–]S-a-t-a 38 points39 points40 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

thanks allot, I'm sure others appreciate this too :)

[–]FitnessBlitz 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

How do you know that his name is Allot?

[–]furlonium1 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

/u/S-a-t-a and I are irl close friends, and that is indeed my name

[–]adamsworstnightmare 35 points36 points37 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

And of course she wants to appeal the decision. The guy was already struggling, he had to pay legal fees for the divorce and now he'll have to pay even more. That lotto money probably didn't even get very far.

[–]DJ_8Man 27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You know, I wouldn't care if I didn't get any of it, just so long as she didn't either.

[–]EagerSleeper 21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Legal fees are not going to cost $1,336,000

[–]smokedspirit 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I had an in depth read of the courts transcripts of this case.

Once the guy had found out, he was so broke he couldn't afford representation. He struck a deal with a legal party that if they put forward his case and won they would get 50% of any award!

So in the end the ex husband did end up with half the share

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

We shared the same bathroom

Wow, madlads.

and we even shared the same electric toothbrush

Jesus Christ, mad lads!

[–]notjustforperiods 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

woah sixteen year age difference

[–]Cracked-Princess 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

That's not that uncommon

[–]notjustforperiods -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

define "not uncommon". my gf is 15 years younger and that is certainly not the norm where I am from

[–]CFogan 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Probably meant 'not that common but common enough that someone in a similar situation happened to be in this thread and see this comment' lol

[–]Cracked-Princess 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I mean, you're not wrong. I think younger people think it's a lot more uncommon than it is. When you get in your 30s and 40s it's not that uncommon. Whenever I mention my age gap with my husband (14 years), people usually know couples with similar age gaps or sometimes are in a similar situation.

[–]Cracked-Princess 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

There's a world of difference between "no that uncommon" and "the norm".

Common enough that at least two people in this thread have similar gaps (you and your GF, me and my husband). Whenever I talk about it with people, almost everyone knows couples like that around them or is in one, especially as I get older.

I think depending on your age it varies a lot how common it is (couples in their 30s & 40s seems more common)

[–]notjustforperiods -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Fair point. I'm mid forties so perhaps more common as you get older. Though I do worry about the relationship at 65 haha, fifty is young!

[–]Cracked-Princess 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm 34 and my husband is 48. Tbh, 65 isn't as "old" as it used to be.

8% of marriages in western cultures have an age gap greater than 10 years, so you're definitely not alone.

[–]notjustforperiods 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

wow, I'm surprised it's that high. maybe it's where I live, or my social circles, that makes it seem unusual. thank you for the context!

[–]HerrTriggerGenji21 -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Ehhh. It ain’t common

[–]Cracked-Princess 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Not that uncommon" doesn't mean the same thing as "common".

It's still uncommon, but not all that much. At least a couple of people in this thread are in similar relationships and I know a few in my day to day life too. It's less uncommon the older you get.

[–]myotherhnstaccount1 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The hero that we don't deserve

[–]TinyWightSpider 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

We shared the same bathroom, and we even shared the same electric toothbrush

Yooooo that's filthy

[–]thehideousheart 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wait till you find out about oral sex.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You mean he opened her mail? I thought that was illegal?

[–]furlonium1 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, it's still illegal but he could very easily say he opened along with all the other mail that day and opened it by accident, which isn't illegal.

[–]Sclubness 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

thank you

[–]furlonium1 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You're welcome

[–]Sclubness 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

hey if u ever wanna smooch I’m here

[–]furlonium1 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

if you ever wanna swap toothbrushes I'm here

[–]KhandakerFaisal 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Next thing you know, she's suddenly pregnananet with "his" child so he has to pay child support

intentional typo not a typo

[–]rg4rg 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Even in the 90s $2 million isn’t a whole lot of money. Game changer and most of us would be happy with it sure, but I wouldn’t think it’s all suddenly I can buy yachts and mansions, and live in Beverly Hills type of rich. It more like, I can actually buy a house a new car and live comfortably now. Just goes to show you how greedy and/or manipulative she was.

[–]furlonium1 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

it was 1.3 in Dec '96, which would be worth 2.1 in Dec 2019.

Properly invested that's life changing money for 99% of Americans.

Properly invested. As we all know most people who win the lottery squander the money and end up in the same, broke financial situation they were in before winning the money.

[–]rockynputz 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Honesty is the best policy.

[–]Pinkamenarchy -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

that's stupid as fuck. he doesn't deserve half let alone all of the random luck she had.

[–]some1arguewithme 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

https://youtu.be/W647gDp-u-s

[–]notjustforperiods 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

haha at first I thought you said this as a joke re: her attempt to not pay her husband by hiding the money

[–]QuilleFace 17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Okay this actually makes sense to me, a lot of the top comments are straight up unnecessary and not constructive lol.

Like without context you could easily just assume that the woman was stuck in a bad marriage she couldn't get out of because of her own financial stability until she won the lottery.

Either way I hope everyone gets what they deserve.

[–]EarthRester 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah that's what I was thinking too.

I had a bunch of questions about her prior financial and occupational status. Did she buy the ticket herself? A bunch of stuff.

But when you lie about money in a divorce it's going to bite you in the ass...and you'll have earned it.

[–]Gopracticepractice1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (10 children) | Copy Link

they shared the same toothbrush??? That's nasty!

[–]sylpher250 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I assume it's the electric toothbrush that you can swap heads?

[–]ListeningFeet 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Why?

[–]chocolateandjam1 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link

It's crazy how much this grosses people out. Yet they happily put their tongues in each others mouths.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Some people find both gross. :p

[–]Gopracticepractice1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

So if you spit into a cup you gladly drink it right back up?

[–]chocolateandjam1 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

That's a bit different?

You wash and clean your toothbrush after use.

[–]TheNightWatcher02 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You wash and clean run your toothbrush under water after use.

[–]ListeningFeet 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You uh, ever kiss someone with tounge?

[–]ListeningFeet -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Right? There's couples that will happily put their tounges in each other's assholes but God forbid you share a toothbrush?

[–]Bobthemime 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ah its the same story as the one i remembered from ages ago.

Weird to have OC for a repost THAT old. still good though.. she got what she deserved

[–]SmooveTrack 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

It's illegal to hide money or something?

[–]Armadillo_Duke 22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

In a divorce yes. When you initiate divorce you have to fill out and serve your financial disclosures on the other party and the court. This includes your income and expense declaration, and your schedule of assets and debts (which is where the lottery winnings should have been). Although in most divorces the final disclosures are waived, you are required to fill out your preliminary disclosures.

[–]b0w3n 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah most judges don't smile too fondly on people hiding money in divorces. I've seen it end badly for dudes who hide entire checking accounts worth of money from their wives.

[–]ZaviaGenX 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What's the difference between final and preliminaries?

[–]Armadillo_Duke 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Preliminary is done in the early stages of divorce, right after filing for divorce. Final is before you get your judgment, but at least where I live (SF) you can check a box to waive your final disclosures if your spouse does as well.

[–]Poopypants413413 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Only from the IRS and a judge. Other than that... I don’t believe so.

[–]MuggyFuzzball 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

In a marriage yes. You cannot legally hide assets from your spouse.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You can hide it all you want during marriage. You can't hide it during the divorce.

[–]SkylerHatesAlice 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmao, its hiding your assets while your assets are being split up

[–]potatocakesssss 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She said she divorced him cause he was always broke and she's working. But why wait till she wins the lottery? Obvious lie.

[–]UnfilteredRedditor 1004 points1005 points1006 points 6 years ago (32 children) | Copy Link

This is what happens when greed overtakes you. She could’ve just given half and still walk away with a lot of money.

NOW SHE GETS NOTHING.

SHE LOSED.

GOOD DAY MADAM.

[–]Northern-WALI 174 points175 points176 points 6 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

The immortal Willie Wonka

[–]mingilator 26 points27 points28 points 6 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

He's dead though!

[–]Northern-WALI 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Nope

[–]mingilator 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

But he is! Gene wilder died in 2016

[–]Northern-WALI 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Willie Wonka the character is an idea, he’s a moral, he’s a life lesson.

Gene Wilder (a phenomenal actor) was a person who died

[–]mingilator 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I wasn't being literal, Willy Wonka as a live action character died with Gene Wilder, Depp brought his own take for sure but Tim Burton's version was too dark without the light hearted elements imho

[–]Yonefi 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I just read Charlie and the Chocolate Factory with my daughter. I was surprised when I realized that the Burton/Depp version was actually truer to the book.

[–]Northern-WALI -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

To each their own

[–]mingilator 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Indeed

[–]Elrando_ 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nope

[–]BaxterCash 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

?

[–]mingilator 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Gene Wilder who played Willie Wonka died in 2016

[–]Okichah 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Fuck you 2016 you bastard!

[–]Jimijam_Flimflam 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

r/fuck2016 lives on

[–]jarious1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

The other one died too, well at least his career , even if he is vindicated no one will hire him

[–]MementoMori_37 12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You mean Johnny Depp? It literally just came out yesterday how his ex lied about the allegations and was in fact the one doing the abusing. But since it was a woman abusing a man no one seems to give a shit.

[–]mingilator 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yup, turns out she was the abusive one, of course it's completely unheard of for a woman to make up lies to make herself out to be the victim

[–]Capatown 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He was immortal till he died to death

[–]originalnamecreator 41 points42 points43 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I SAID GOOD DAY.

[–]DM_ME_CUTE_PICS_PLZ 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Cmon Fez

[–]CryptoOrchid 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I SAID GOOD DAY!

[–]lacucamatada1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

Lost?

[–]illuminatipr 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Loosed

[–]Zephyrasable -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Looosed

[–]mackafat 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

GOOD DAY MADAM BITCH

Ftfy

[–]NCatP_returns 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She got what she fucking deserved

[–]vaccuumrolls 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

WRONG MOVE BROTHER. Y O U L O S E.

[–]powersola 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In Italy she can sue you and have everything back because of "insert any fantasy abuse motivation here".

[–]misspussy 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I SAID GOOD DAY!

[–]Rooshba 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You losed your damn mind

[–]Thordaddy77 250 points251 points252 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

He's in for an upgraded wife no doubt...

[–]down_vote_magnet 81 points82 points83 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Probably went home and ordered 3 on the Internet.

[–]AngelOfDeath771 84 points85 points86 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No cost. He won the lottery and lost a toxic person in his life. In the wise words of Snoop Dogg: "Fuck that bitch"

[–]mickcheck 38 points39 points40 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So satisfying

[–]KrombopulosPhillip 23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

now that's a throwback , this is a repost from 20 years ago

[–]-LexXi-1 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link

I think this is original, if even that wasn't reposted

[–]Friendlyrat 25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

This story is from 1999;) I imagine the money (1.3 million in California )is gone by now. Whoever ended up with it.

[–]ThomasSowell_Alpha 48 points49 points50 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

According to the story it was 1.3 mil to be paid in 20 installments of 66,000 over 20 years. So the money would have only stopped last year

[–]hungo_mungo[🍰] 21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Unsure why you’re getting downvoted this is factually correct based on the article.

Edit: not insure. Unsure.

[–]Darkstar197 25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If properly invested he could have had a 60-80k annual salary just on the interest alone after taxes

[–]VoyantInternational 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Apparently it's delivered by 66000 annually, see full story. I didn't do the math

[–]carbonx 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I found this update from 2001. Wouldn't be surprised if lawyers got a substantial portion. She really should have just taken half moved on with her life. Oh well.

[–]sakanabozu 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The appeals court also rejected Denise Rossi’s claim that her ex-husband’s own unclean hands overcame the statutory penalty. She argued that her former spouse battered her emotionally and physically and that he also kept some assets hidden from the court.

classic

[–]ontogeny1 15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Jesus Christ! They need to start a reality show where they prank someone into thinking they won some money, and then see how quickly they leave their spouse. Hell, have people betting on each side, and have relatives involved.

[–]Epicon3[🍰] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The winning hand!

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

This idea is so awful it hurts. Best case scenario, someone gets their hopes smashed on TV.

[–]mcbrite 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I believe that's the dictionary definition of "reality TV"?

[–]smellslikefeetinhere 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well yeah, isn't that the best case scenario of any reality TV?

[–]EbrithilUmaroth 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I love it when greedy people get their just desserts. Schadenfreud for all!

[–]LeakyThoughts 30 points31 points32 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It's because she redeemed the winnings before the divorce.. so... he got the whole lot due to her being a cunt

He should have got half

And even in retrospect, if you win the lottery and then divorce, then cash in... It's blatant that you lied

[–]lIllIlllIl1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

She broke the law so he should have more than half.

[–]ecodude74 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That’s what he’s saying, legally he would’ve only been entitled to half, since she broke the law he’s able to get so much more.

[–]FortunePaw 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yup.

She broke the law, the judge got mad, gave every penny to him.

[–]thecasperboy 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Almost r/antimeme

[–]Bobthemime 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I am reminded of that case from a decade or so ago (could be longer) where a wife won the lottery, kept it secret from the lawyers when she filed for divorce and hid the win.

When the husband found out she won, he sued her.. and won 60% of the winning, and she had to pay his lawyers fees and a fine. Basically soaking up all that was left from her win.

It is great when a PP lines up and a judge smacks the bitch back down.

[–]12inch_Juicy_Burrito 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I feel this is why most states you have to claim it publicly.

[–]lynchypoopoo 17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Women deserve money more than any man baby. Men are pigs and should be service slaves to women.

FACT: Women’s brains are 3x larger than men. FACT: Our bodies are more scientific by our ability to make more humans FACT: We are born stronger then men but cannot compete as adults because of gender suppression FACT: You are slightly retarded for still reading this.

[–]AizenSousuke92 23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

got us in the first half.

thankfully we are men and we read till the end before making decisions.

[–]Exemus 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

winning lottery judge

I have no desire to be a judge, but I'd settle to just be a winning lottery person.

[–]Qrpheus 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Never trust a Denise

[–]zacktivist 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Where the fuck was this advice ten years ago?! Do you know the pain you could have saved me?

[–]Qrpheus 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sorry I could only save myself, now we just have to spread the word out

[–]Stonn 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Karen is dead. Denise, you're next.

[–]KhandakerFaisal 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

you mean a DE NICE

[–]lllkill 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He won a hotter new wife AND a bunch of money

[–]keepitcivilized 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This pleases me

[–]taco_truck_wednesday 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Courts don't take kindly to either spouse trying to hide assets during the divorce and you will lose the assets hidden if the court finds out.

Are the consequences harsh? Yes; that's the point. Courts do not want to incentive the behavior by making it into an "Ah shucks, I got caught" thing and want to punish the party because they're actively insulting the court and the judicial system. Hiding assets during these proceedings is illegal.

[–]mcbrite 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

Wouldn't that ruling just get overturned by the next court up the ladder? Wait: This happened 20 years ago? How did it end? EDIT: Found an article from 2001 that mentions an appeals court upholding the ruling!

[–]thekarmabum 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She was still married when she won the littery, so he would at least be entitled to half. Even today that would stand in any trial, not sure what the circumstances were to entitle this person to all of it though

[–]fruitynoodles 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He should have just gotten his last check for $66k then.

[–]xDGx 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good fucken cunt

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago* (12 children) | Copy Link

Thats fucked up

edit: that she tried to leave him after getting money

[–]NoDreamsss 14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah lmao

[–]thefudmaster 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

That he got it all?

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

No that she tried to leave him just because she got money

[–]thefudmaster 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Gotcha

[–]latent_source1 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

What’s wrong with that? Maybe he was a bad or abusive husband, and she finally felt like she could get away and be financially independent?

[–]ecodude74 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Or maybe she simply didn’t love him and she felt like she was stuck with him. The divorce isn’t the shitty part here. The shitty part is that she was greedy, and tried to rob him of what he was legally entitled to.

[–]latent_source1 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

I guess I don’t know the laws around marriage and lottery tickets. How was he legally entitled?

[–]ecodude74 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In a divorce case, all income and assets are to be clearly laid out to both parties and the judge generally speaking, and the case proceeds from there. This is equivalent to hiding a loaded bank account with the purpose of keeping your income hidden from the judge. The fact that it’s a lottery ticket doesn’t change anything, it’s still an asset that shouldve been disclosed for a fair ruling.

[–]ProfaneBlade 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There is no "her" and "his" money in the eyes of the law when you're married. As far as the state is concerned, they bought lottery tickets with their money, she just didn't tell him when they won.

[–]TheRealSoro -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

she also sounds like a stay at home wife with no job that depended on him her whole marriage then once she got money she dipped

[–]Cracked-Princess 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She played the lottery with her coworkers so... No.

[–]PM-ME-YOUR-PETDOG 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You had us in the first half...

[–]Novice_Trucker 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Man I hope mine works out this way.

[–]Dallysmacker222 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This makes me happy.

[–]Lurkingnopost 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He actually hit the lotto twice, all the money and no longer married to that bitch.

[–]smokedspirit 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I had an in depth read of the courts transcripts of this case.

Once the guy had found out, he was so broke he couldn't afford representation. He struck a deal with a legal party that if they put forward his case and won they would get 50% of any award!

So in the end the ex husband did end up with half the share

[–]deontay3579 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A family court judge who's not a white knight? I think I've found a unicorn.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Holy shit, 1996? Dusty.

[–]DUBSWAG02 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Uno reverse card

[–]implodingzebra 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

r/comedyhomicide

[–]Assasin2gamer 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Bitch.

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(Also, this looks affordable.

[–]SiotRucks 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is neither r/pussypassdenied nor is it a good post. Seems like this subs votes for anything that's bad for women. Next post: "woman slips on street - 4 broken bones" 11k upvotes.....

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Not that I am unhappy about the outcome, but doesnt giving him all the money seem a bit harsh/excessive?

[–]12rjc12 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

She would have ended up with it all, doesn't that seem a bit harsh/excessive?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

It was her ticket wasn't it?

[–]fish_with_legs1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

That was bought using their money.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I suppose if that's how its looked at. Are all bank accounts considered shared accounts in married couple? Is all money one spouse makes considered shared assets? I dont know anything about that stuff so I'm genuinely curious

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Pretty much, but there are differences depending on your geographical location, so you would need to look at the laws where you live.

[–]mcbrite 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

As it was her marriage with joined assets...

[–]DrZoomerREBORN 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Look at that nose, greedy Jewess 👃

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

A lot of men would have done the same as her. Men get divorced and before they do they start hoarding their cash, hiding it.

[–]strandedintime 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

A lot of women would have done the same thing as her, too.

That's 1-1 Men Vs Women. What else do you have to help us break this tie?

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[–]hook_electric427 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She looks burnt

[–]meetmypuka 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I just noticed this happened in 1999.

[–]urmumbigegg 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

On next episode of Bitch, He Sleep!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow one of those rare times where there ugly on the inside matches the ugly on the outside

[–]HunterSaboo 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He probably bought it

[–]TrueStory_Dude 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Bitch mittens, you mean like what they do?

[–]oxyoxyboi 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Its a Phyrric Pussy Victory

[–]asssuffocation23 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Feels so good to know that we will sometimes since we rarely see it in tv. Good for him.

[–]JayFrizz 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's because she kept it from him when that breaks the contract that is a marriage, right? It was his as well, and she would have only had to give half, but breaking contract means none. I think

[–]HNutz 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

BWAHAHAHAHAHA!

[–]thephant0mlimb 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wasn't there a similar story like this but the guy won and she divorced him and he had to give her half?

[–]beersnob11 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

As queen of the gypsies, she should know about bad karma curses.

[–]DrunkRedditBot 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The "Bitch" in your flair seems about right

[–]DrunkRedditBot 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The "Bitch" in your flair seems about right

[–]Milkman127 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All is a bit much half seems just

[–]UberDuperDrew 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow this was back in the 90s.

[–]bruh_moment-bruh 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Damm she ugly

[–]BalalaikaClawJob 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She lost-and-a-half.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Get bitched bitch

[–]armalavi1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't understand why people are so quick to judge this. The only reason my mom is with my dad is because of my school education, there's no work in her country and we live internationally.

Winning a lottery would not only save my mom's life but also the family who lives in her country.

Idk

[–]thedragonturtle -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

there's no work in her country and we live internationally.

  1. How can there be no work in a country?
  2. If you live internationally, she should get a job in the other country

Winning a lottery would not only save my mom's life

If your mum is in danger you should try and help her get out of the abusive relationship.

[–]Draelix 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fake

[–]Chaseccentric 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's not fair to the woman. Why would her decision to remain with or leave her partner have anything to do with her personal bank account?

[–]8PotPrimo 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"If I had a million dollars..."

"... I'd be a bitch"

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

r/comedyhomicide

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[–]MidAirMan 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The irony well is full after this one. lol

[–]JayGeezz 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Seems like a boomer joke gone wrong

[–]CameronDemortez 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Haha now he’s rich and single.....

[–]sincerelyhated 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Link please

[–]-LexXi-1 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

One guy posted it here already, right above you

[–]sincerelyhated 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks, it wasnt displaying while on mobile and in the subway.

[–]einsibongo 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why would he get it all? Isn't this just some BS?

[–]theruley 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly half would have been fair.

[–]Privateaccount84 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't think he should have gotten all of it, half would be fair.

[–]Lefty517 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Need more context. There is literally nothing wrong with this unless she just mooched off her husband for money. If she was contributing equally, and wanted to leave but just didnt have the financial freedom to do so, then this is actually kind of sickening.

Edit- just read the article, lmao she deserved that shit

[–]h70541 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I mean all is kinda bullshit. Should'a been 50-50 unless she was like "Nah fuck you I am keeping all of it!"

You get married. Half your shit is theirs. That is your ball and chain. Don't like it please don't get married. And prenups are like saying "I don't trust you but I am going to marry you anyway" which never ends well.

[–]TR8R2199 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

We don’t know the whole story. He coulda been a piece of shit and she didn’t have a means to support herself and felt trapped. This sub is so typical jumping on stories that don’t have a clear ppd or have nothing to do with the gender of the people in the story

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She tried to hide the winnings from the court. That’s a huge no no regarding divorce. In all honesty she probably could’ve walked away with most of it if she didn’t try to pull a fast one on the courts.

[–]Handiinu 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You get what you fucking deserve

[–]two100meterman 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Okay, what she did was bad, but taking away all her winnings seems... illegal? I would just expect them to give him half. She's the one that won, legitimately, so the money is hers, then she had what could be millions stolen from her? This doesn't seem right at all.

Maybe this is an unpopular opinion, but this doesn't seem right either.

[–]optionsanarchist -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If she bought the ticket with "their" money, the prize is both theirs as well. Half seems appropriate, by law.

PSA, never get married.

[–]ChriskiV 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In the context of the lottery though, is this really justice?

Sure she's a piece of shit for leaving her husband over this, but the basis of splitting assets during a divorce is that the co-person contributed to those gains. It was literally random chance in this case.

[–]hoddap 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Downvoting and telling you why. This has nothing to do with the female gender. It's not her leveraging her sex to take advantage of a situation. This is just someone doing something shitty. Arguably, because what if she was in a shitty marriage, but did not have the financial means to file for divorce, or was already on the edge of divorce? I'm not saying she should not be penalized for what she did. But gender has nothing to do with this. This is more a "ha ha, a woman got fucked over"-type of post.

[–]thedragonturtle 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I dunno man. The pussypass part is her presumption that the judge would side with her and the worst case scenario, if caught, is that she'd lose half because women normally win in divorce cases. Or at least, that's the perception.

On top of that, she tries to smear him with false allegations of emotional and physical abuse in the appeal and failed, a common tactic from women against men when money and spite are involved. (see Amber Heard + Johnny Depp)

[–]PuckeredRaisin -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Is the judge able to do that? Seems like she didn't hire a good lawyer?

[–]SamCarter_SGC 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The judge can definitely do that if she tried to or succeeded in hiding assets during the divorce proceedings.

[+][deleted] -40 points-39 points-38 points 6 years ago (51 children) | Copy Link

That's not a pussy pass. This is actually fucked up imo. She won fairly. If anything he deserves half not all

[–]Rifneno 54 points55 points56 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I was with you until I read the whole story. She hid the winnings and lied to the court about not having anything. Her lawyer even said he probably could've gotten her all the money if she'd just disclosed it. But instead she broke the law and paid the price for trying to screw him out of anything. She has only herself to blame.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I vaguely remember another story where a couple divorced. The man bought a lottery ticket and won. The ex wife tried to take it from him and was denied because he bought it and won AFTER the divorce was finalized.

[–]Stirfrymassacre1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

My name is Earl

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Is that what it’s from? I haven’t seen the show.

I tried to google, but of course found nothing.

[–]-LexXi-1 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (39 children) | Copy Link

But immediately divorcing him after she found out she won? THAT'S fucked up

[–]NotAMetaUsername 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yet, you'd cheer for a guy trying the same thing.

[–]randonumero 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It is and it isn't. One of the biggest reasons people stay in bad marriages is fear of being ruined financially. In some cases it's because one person earns significantly less and in others it's because one person fears loosing most of their income to the wombo combo of child support and spousal support. While I think she should have given him say 20% or so, I see no reason she should have had to stay just because she got lucky

[+][deleted] -27 points-26 points-25 points 6 years ago (36 children) | Copy Link

How is it any different than any other divorce? Sure messed up but nothing illegal or wrong morally imo.

[–]cowworshipper 30 points31 points32 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

You're right. But iirc, she tried to divorce him without telling him of the lottery money. She wanted to keep it all for herself and hid the fact that she won a lottery

[+][deleted] -7 points-6 points-5 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

She fucked up by redeeming her ticket prior to the divorce. I feel he should have gotten half if anything. If she didn't say anything or redeem it until after the divorce was final she would have been fine

[–]cowworshipper 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not familiar with the law, but i think if the husband came to know about this somehow and sued her, she'd still be considered guilty and would have to split at the least. Cuz legally, even if she hadn't redeemed it, this was guaranteed money for her, which i believe can be considered her asset

[–]mcanyon 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not likely since the winnings were prior to the divorce.

[–]Quantainium 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Even if the divorce went through fully because she owned a winning ticket at the time they were married he would still get half.

[–]_Niel_ 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Unfortunately divorce is a legal proceeding.

What she did was illegal AND morally wrong.

She tried to hide marital asserts ........ she committed a criminal act in doing so ..... she got her reward.

[–]-LexXi-1 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (27 children) | Copy Link

I think she wouldn't even wanna divorce him, if she didn't win the lottery, she was just greedy and wanted everything for herself

[+]cursed_deity -16 points-15 points-14 points 6 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

as is her right

same thing if the genders where reversed.

the winner shouldn't have to pay a single red dime imo

[–]-LexXi-1 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (15 children) | Copy Link

Look, that was a shit move. I think she should've gave him half. Both wouldn't have to work till the rest of their lives anyway, so why would she want more?

[+]ethmer25 -17 points-16 points-15 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

I think your just assuming things hard core. For all we know she was in a very abusive toxic relationship, but she had no financial way out. With her winning the lottery, she finally had a way to start a new life but then lost it. Yeah it looks like I am assuming things too. But that shows how much information we don’t know.

[–]-LexXi-1 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link

How do you know? Send me some link or something to it, I didn't do any research

[–]cursed_deity 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

For all we know

[+]ethmer25 -8 points-7 points-6 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Neither did I. I was just calling you out for how stupid it is to assume a situation and a persons intentions without doing any research. Maybe read my whole comment next time

[–]-LexXi-1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

But she was on the court, I think of she said something like you assume and somehow proved it, she surely would've had some of it

[–]ethmer25 -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I didn’t get a word you just said from that comment

[–]-LexXi-1 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah well my English isn't very good, so I'll try to explain it differently: if it was the way you assume and was proven in the court, she surely would get some of it

[–]strandedintime 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"I think you're just assuming things hardcore".

Proceeds to immediately assume things hardcore.

[–]ethmer25 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol dude. I was literally just making a point of how we don’t know why she did what she did. That was a hypothetical. And if you actually read what I wrote you would know that

[–]loudtoys 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I am fairly sure I read about this before(could be another story). She lost it all because she tried to hide it from the court, not because she filed for divorce.

[–]ThomasSowell_Alpha 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Jow can something be 'messed up' and not also at least be morally ambiguous.

[–]TheXanderp 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It was because she attempted to the money, violating state asset disclosure laws. Here.

[–]KrombopulosPhillip 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

lying to a judge when he asks if you have anymore undeclared assets , she is lucky she didn't get thrown in jail

[+]cursed_deity -11 points-10 points-9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

he doesn't deserve shit because he didn't win

what is this, russia?

[+]OptimalBarley -24 points-23 points-22 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You're forgetting that this sub has been taken over by incels who want so badly for the woman to be the bad guy.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Except she truly messed up. She attempted to hide the winnings. That’s why she lost it all. So yes, in this instance, she is the bad guy.

[–]PM-ME-YOUR-PETDOG 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You sound retarded..she lost bcoz of her sick personality

[–]IHopOnNbaLiveMobile 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She messed up tho it's her fault

[–]kittykat7210 -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I wonder how it would work if she won the lottery then HE filed for divorce knowing he’d get half? Morally I’d like to think the court would judge that she would keep it but I don’t think unfortunately that’s how it would work...

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

It would be 50-50, no different to when a gold digger marries someone for their money, then gets a divorce soon after, look at what happened to Paul McCartny for example.

[–]mon0theist -3 points-2 points-1 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I mean, I'm not a white knight or anything but I don't see the problem here. It's not like she took advantage of him or stole from him or used shady tactics to take advantage of him in some way. She won fair and square, why can't she get divorced if she wants to?

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She can get divorced all she wants,BUT what you don’t do is withhold information and lie on official documents about your assets. She’s a shitty human. She gets what she deserves.

[–]claytonfromillinois -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Judge steals lottery winnings from woman who no longer wished to be married.

[+]SurplusOfOpinions -6 points-5 points-4 points 6 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

Denise, however, tells a different story in her filings and an interview Tuesday. She said she had been unhappy for many years and was looking for a way out. He was always broke, and she was always working, she said.

"the judge got mad and gave it all to him"

I guess I'm having an unpopular opinion again, but this isn't justice. Of course you'd want to keep the money for yourself if you're stuck in a sucky marriage. If a men would do this, it wouldn't be news. I bet it happens all the time. It should be 50/50 and maybe a fine or other punishment, but this is just overreach.

I'd go so far and say the judge is sexist.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

You bet it happens all the time, then it will be so very simple to back up your statement with an example, am looking forward to seeing it.

[–]SurplusOfOpinions -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

You mean throw anecdotal evidence after bad investments?

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

I guess you couldn't find one so easily then.

[–]SurplusOfOpinions -3 points-2 points-1 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Well not an expert and you'd need a scientific study to really answer this, and I doubt this is easy with probably many settlements being sealed or something.

But do you really doubt that either men or women would be liable to cheat? I doubt there is much of a difference.

I found this: https://info.legalzoom.com/penalty-hiding-assets-divorce-25071.html

Although it is not uncommon for a spouse to try to hide assets in a divorce, there are steps that a vigilant party can take to try to uncover this. Also, it is risky to try to hide assets in your divorce because there can be very serious penalties, including monetary sanctions.

A judge could also force you to give up your entire share of a remaining asset to your spouse to make up for the assets you hid.

Nothing here about loosing all of the assets. My point is this case seems extremely punitive, possibly sexist and this post by virtue of selection bias sexist as well.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

I guess you gave up looking. So what you are saying is, that despite making claims that men do this and it happens all the time, you are in fact unable to provide even one example to support your accusations, why does this not surprise me?

I guess we can throw your claims of judicial anti female sexism into the same garbage bin as your other claims.

[–]SurplusOfOpinions 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

What would finding one example prove? That is what I mean with "anecdotal evidence".

OP title is sexist either way. It's also unlikely this would be a headline if a man did this, which makes it sexist media bias. If the judge is sexist or not is speculation, but statistically speaking likely.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

It might prove that statements you made had some credibility. Look at title of this forum, and no you probably wouldn't find any mention if a man did this nor should you expect to, but there are other forums that would. Statisically speaking in most western countries when it come to the family court, judges give verdicts that favour females.

[–]SurplusOfOpinions 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You have any studies to back those claims up?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

Look up any statistics on child custody and you will see sexism within the family courts. In Australia they are currently reviewing the family court because of bias. The judge that originally wrote the legislation back in the day actually admitted that it favoured females. New Zealand govt released a report last year that showed discrimination against men occurs across almost every facet of their judicial system.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She tried to hide the winnings as well. I’d say that’s a huge reason why she lost it all.

[–]taco_truck_wednesday 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Courts don't take kindly to either spouse trying to hide assets during the divorce and you will lose the assets hidden if the court finds out. What she did was illegal and even admitted to hiding the assets from him. She is legally obligated to report all assets.

Are the consequences harsh? Yes; that's the point. Courts do not want to incentive the behavior by making it into an "Ah shucks, I got caught" thing and want to punish the party because they're actively insulting the court and the judicial system.

The judge did not "get mad", the judge enforced the rule of law and existing case law. If the husband had assets that he did not disclose during the asset disclosure phase, he would also be subject to losing everything not disclosed to the court.

[–]SurplusOfOpinions 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Total forfeiture? I doubt it. At least not according to what I looked up.

[–]taco_truck_wednesday 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Not of all assets, but of hidden assets when they can prove intent, that is very much a real thing.

[–]SurplusOfOpinions 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Link I posted in the other comment implies otherwise. In any case, not always, and this just reeks of sexist bias.

[+]KD_Konkey_Dong -6 points-5 points-4 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

This subreddit is a cesspool.

[–]Crash_the_outsider -3 points-2 points-1 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Yeah it is. The incels had to go somewhere when their subreddit was taken from them.

I cringe every time I come here but you can have a few laughs at these dorks' expense if you prepare for the loser mentality.

[–]JackHoffmanTheWise 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Haha, “you called out a woman so you must be an incel”.

Take your toxic feminist bs away from the memes.

[–]Crash_the_outsider -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"Called out" he says.

And how did she respond To this brutal tongue lashing you so valiantly bestowed upon her?

Oh, she still doesn't know you exist?

You sure told her.

[–]JackHoffmanTheWise 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I never explicitly mentioned that I called the said woman in the meme. The meme calls her own on her actions hence the quotations.

Jesus, head back to niceguys. You aren’t going to get laid for defending a lying woman.

[–]PM-ME-YOUR-PETDOG -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Feminazi spotted

[–]Crash_the_outsider -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Virgin spotted

[–]PM-ME-YOUR-PETDOG -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Haha both me and my wife laughed at your comment. Try harder the next time whiteknight

[–]Crash_the_outsider 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol I'll get right on that.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yay! The "justice" system at it's finest.

[+]floodums -10 points-9 points-8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This story is 20 years old and still gets brought up by the incels daily.

[–]PM-ME-YOUR-PETDOG 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I saw this for the first time.. And I think many others too. That's why it is on r/all

[–]181cm -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good morning

[–]Presidentcheaux -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

that’s gotta be one hurtful ass feeling man..

[+]Sostontown1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (9 children) | Copy Link

Judge has no.right

[–]-LexXi-1 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

Is this a joke or are you a troll?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The latter I would suggest.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

z

[–]ItsyaJP 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Did you right this after your bedtime? Shall I tell your wife's boyfriend you're on the Wii-U after 7pm?

[+]zodar -30 points-29 points-28 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

This subreddit is just "I hate women" now

[–]-LexXi-1 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link

How is this thing "I hate women"? I think people have a right to hate this girl, but not girls are the same. I like girls how they are, but if they wanna be greedy, act like morons or be misandrists, I think I have right to hate people like these, and I believe I'm not the only one.

Also there's a chance you didn't understand anything I said, because my English isn't good. For that I apologize

[–]autoeroticassfxation 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That was pretty well articulated. Respect.

[+]zodar -11 points-10 points-9 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It has nothing to do with a "pussy pass" being denied. This is just a shitty person being shitty, but for some reason, because she's a woman, it now belongs in this subreddit. And you added the title "Bitch lost" as a cherry on top.

[–]-LexXi-1 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

Oh, sorry for that mate, I just couldn't find a different subreddit for that, so I added it to one of the subreddits I know, where I think it most relates to, and you're right, I think I've overdone it by giving it that name, but I don't wanna delete it now and give it different name

[–]zodar -4 points-3 points-2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

/r/JusticeServed

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Except she attempted to hide the winnings which is a big no no with divorce cases.

[+]siegure9 -20 points-19 points-18 points 6 years ago (30 children) | Copy Link

Dang that’s messed up. She won she deserves some of it

[–][deleted] 22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (25 children) | Copy Link

Yea but after she won she hid it from her husband, then tried to get a divorce while hiding the fact she won. Thats messed up. Her lawyer even said if she had disclosed that she won, he couldve had the court rule in her favor. Greedy ass bitch gets what she deserves.

[–]TheGardiner 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I dont think this would hold up on appeal. It's satisfying to read, but not legally sound.

[+]cursed_deity -14 points-13 points-12 points 6 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link

why is that messed up? she won, he didn't

and yet the loser goes home with the winnings

sounds like an age old story that all of us here detest, yet we cheer when the genders are reversed

[–]Mythandros 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When you are married, you share in the good times and the bad. Winning the lottery is one of those good times, but she took it too far by trying to hide assets that should be shared in a marriage. She got greedy. That's why she lost. It's simple.

[–]Tutsks 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Nuh huh, sounds like justice.

Also, you are incorrect, "she" didn't win anything, legally, the funds she spent on the ticket belonged to both of them.

It was never her prize, it was always theirs.

She got punished for attempting to steal it, that's all.

To put it another way, lets think you and I have a savings account where we agree that X money is going. Instead of putting my part of the X, I buy a ticket, it wins. So, did I win, or did we win?

Answer is we did, the money was never solely hers.

[–]cursed_deity -4 points-3 points-2 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

so she tried to steal her own winnings? lol

and if you win, you win. as long as you pay back the price of the ticket

[–]ThomasSowell_Alpha 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Lol.

It was both their money, because they are married. That is how marriage works. Thats why you shouldn't do it. You lose half of your shit.

But then, during the divorce, when you list all of the assets and the judge decides how to 'evenly' split them, she did not declare a asset which she was hiding away, and was against the law.

The judge in this instance got mad at the woman for being a petty bitch, especially considering their marriage was fine other than a lack of money. So he awarded the lotto winnings to him. Its not like she walked away empty handed though.

[–]cursed_deity 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

That is how marriage works.

is it tho?????

[–]ThomasSowell_Alpha 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes. You jointly own your assets. Unless you sign a mutual agreement stating otherwise

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Youre confused - it would be like Jeff Bezos hiding the fact that he owns Amazon during divorce proceedings to keep all of his money. When youre married everything you own is shared. This is a pussypassdenied entry because of the denial of implication that the husbands money is shared by the wife but the wifes money belongs to her only. Plus he didnt "lose" the lotto, how is the loser getting the winnings

[–]cursed_deity 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

When youre married everything you own is shared

LOL you honestly believe this? because it's NOT true

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Well specifically assets gained during the message that are not from inheritance or personal gift ARE shared.

Yes that is how it works this is pretty basic property law.

[–]darby-dev 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Just the 12

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah even in most divisible property states general income after you are married would still get split up. Even in non shared states they have equitable division principles.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

LOL where do you live? In the US there are some variances in marital property rights from state to state but the general gist is that it is legally enforceably shared.

[–]cursed_deity 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

europe

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yea it might be different over there

[–]OptimalAdhesiveness 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Do you feel the same way when a man is the breadwinner then divorces and wants to keep all the money made during the marriage? You’d certainly have to be ok with it by your logic...

[–]cursed_deity 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

yes i 110% feel that it would be fair, he was the breadwinner, he earned the money so nobody should be able to touch it, not the state and not his ex

[–]LanZx 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

so if you have a good job which allows the wife to stay at home and take care of your kids and home related stuff. You should be able to keep all your money and kick the wife out after the kids are grown up. Really thats your idea of a good divorce

[–]cursed_deity 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

yes

[–]matrixislife 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If she had not attempted to conceal the winnings from the divorce court then she would have got at least half of it.

[–]claytonfromillinois 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

She deserves all of it. It's her fucking property.

[–]LanZx -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

She brought it using their money, The winnings are shared by the married couple.

On a divorce you need to show all of your assets and share it(unless you have agreed contract saying otherwise, even then it depends).

If you try to hide your assets in a divorce hearing, you will get fucked by the law.

[–]claytonfromillinois 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Newsflash that's all the law is capable of doing. Explaining the situation a second time for me isn't going to magically change my opinion on it, man.

[+]neofiter -6 points-5 points-4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Shouldn't have been ALL. 75% is more reasonable

[–]LanZx 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It would have been close to 50% if she didnt try to hide it from a divorce hearing.

[–]501ghost -5 points-4 points-3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

r/MensRights rejoice!

[–]Mammoth-Acadia -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

This is a funny post, I think this is a really cool scenario and she is an asshole, and if you might look into my search history I am kind of berating this sub cause I found it and I personally dislike it, I think this post would fit really awesomely into a sub that doesn't focus on gender, but I don't see how this relates to gender at all, if it was:

Man wins lottery and files for divorce, judge awards wife all his winnings.

It doesn't change the scenario at all. I really don't see the point of loads of posts on this sub.

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Please don't take offense I think the content on this sub is good it's just mostly doesn't make sense and seems like a bunch of people that think anything that includes women is a "pussypass"

[–]-LexXi-1 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

I'll try to post it to r/justiceserved, but you'll see It won't get to hot or anything

[–]Mammoth-Acadia -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That's most likely completely true, but I think it is a better example of that subreddit anyway.

[+]Practical-Raise1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

Fuck this fucked up judge. She won it and it should be all her... WHY is that even a problem?? She is an individual and all that she owns belongs to her. Fuck the judges

[–]LanZx 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

you cant hide assets when getting a divorced. Thats a good way to lose that assets .

[–]themightyJG 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

one of the richest woman in the world got her cash through divorce, woman win money that way 80% of divorces.

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