I didn’t give my ex a second chance, but I did answer his text after a year of him begging for forgiveness. I was bored and wanted to see if he really changed.

Here’s what happened:

— He claimed that he changed, spoiler alert: he did not. This man is still immature, manipulative, greedy, liar.

— He’s disappointed that I have changed. I’m not the same woman I was a few years ago. The non-judgmental Pick Me, who begged him for the bare minimum, is gone.

— He tried to mirror me, push my boundaries, use my empathy (by making me pity him and comfort him, reminding him he’s not such a BaD guY for what he did to me)… nothing worked. 😂

His mask dropped a few times, I could see how livid he was. It was kinda scary.

— I enjoyed calling him out on his bullshit, on his lies, on how inconsistent he was. I made it clear that he wouldn’t fool me twice, and if it was his goal (it is) he was wasting his time. He didn’t take it seriously. He never respected what I said, he always dismissed it, so it was expected of him. Not surprising.

— He tried to love-bomb me, it didn’t work. Then he pulled back, hoping I’d chase him. I didn’t. He came back a few days later (they always do). I could see right through him. Ladies, when you’re familiar with “the game” you can spot scrotes from miles afar. It’s hilarious how pathetic they are.

— He was still following the woman he was flirting with behind my back a few years ago. I guess he unblocked her when I broke up with him. 🚮

— The few times I picked up the phone, he mistook me for his therapist. He would tell me about his day, talk about his problems, his friend’s achievements etc. when I didn’t ask shit about it/them.

I always knew this man was rude and self-absorbed, but I never realized how draining it was to listen to his monologues and be interrupted every single time I tried to say something about myself.

A few years ago, I wondered why I was so exhausted after seeing/calling him, and how it was possible for him to be so “energized” (his words) by simply being around me.

Now it all makes sense.

— He tried to make a JoKe at my expense. Years ago, I told him it was hurtful and it wasn’t enough to make him stop. In fact, it’s like me being hurt made the joke even funnier to him.

The fact that he never forgot about it, and was excited to make this joke again, proved me that he didn’t change. This time, I immediately cut him off. He apologized and said he would never make this joke again. He admitted I was right when I said he was laughing at me, and not with me.

This is a reminder that low-value men perfectly know what they’re doing. They know their stupid jokes are insulting, disrespectful, hurtful. They simply don’t care about your feelings. 🤷‍♀️

— He still has the same group of low-value friends. The only friend he made recently is a scrote who is stringing along his (forever) girlfriend. I asked my ex if he thought it was ok, and he said “well, my friend’s gf doesn’t seem bothered by it, who am I to JuDgE.”

I told him someone can make peace with the fact that they were robbed, and it still wouldn’t make it ok or excuse the criminal’s behaviour.

At first he tried to gaslight me, then he admitted his friend was being kinda shitty towards his gf (for wasting her time), and he didn’t propose because he wasn’t sure she was the one.

There you got it, ladies. Again, scrotes are not clueless. They’re not stupid. They know how wrong/shitty they are.

This is a reminder to be judgmental. There’s nothing wrong with that. Scrotes expect you to be a non-judgmental cool girl. It benefits them.

See how my lvx immediately tried to weaponize that against me?

— Obviously, I ended up blocking him. It was a fun little social experiment, while it lasted. I realized how much shitty things I tolerated in the past, and I’m proud of saying it will never happen again.

If this scrote was treating me, his dream girl, like that, despite all his eFFoRtS to be the right man for me… there’s simply no hope for him.

It was never me. It was always him. It’ll always be him. Low-value men will always be LV, even with the woman they want to spend their lives with.

It doesn’t matter if he sees the woman in front of him as a Madonna or a Whore. Sis, it’s him. He’s the problem. Forget about him, let him be miserable, never look back. He’s simply not worth it. <3

Continue to level up, until you feel nothing but pity for him. Pity and disgust.

Trust me, you’ll get there.