This post is for those of you, queens, who are going through a breakup.

Feelings of deep grief, anger, even resentment — all of them start to consume you. Maybe, you also start entertaining the possibility that the two of you can get back together, hopeful to see him once again.

The thought of him getting together with another woman (victim) only adds to the heartache. You can’t imagine him moving on with someone else, even though your intuition is telling you that he’s exactly the type — to move on immediately and leech off of someone else.

So, I am here to tell you: NO.

Your ex will not grow to be a better man. He will not level up. He will not treat the other woman better (he will manipulate her to believe that he’s the prize, at first). He will stay addicted to drugs, porn, alcohol, fucking — because that is who he always was.

His life will only continue to go downhill. After all, he can’t escape his true nature. You did not miss out on the “best version” of him, unlike his last “the one who got away” ex, — she likely got the same treatment as you.

So, pick yourself up, make you sure you keep him blocked everywhere (or grey rock that mf until you’re safe to block), and remember to stay vigilant.

Best of luck, love 💗 You can do this!