It’s very common for people to feel pressured into having sex, both men and women. I think that at a certain number of partners or encounters with an individual there is no way a someone didn’t feel pressured or get pressured. If a person feels pressured or is overtly pressured then someone didn’t consent. I don’t think sexual assault or rape is done by people with lower body counts or basement dwelling serial killerish people nearly as much as people tend to think. Sexual assault and rape are most often done by people known to the victim. Also, I don’t think it’s possible to have high body counts, especially for men, without some experience with using prostitutes. I tend to be insecure or self aware enough that I need enthusiastic consent and sometimes still don’t believe women and cut things short because you know how they be.