This isn't me sitting on women and their desires of dating who they want. In fact I think men think of it in the wrong way. I'd much rather know where I stand in terms of my attractiveness with women, then have someone marry me out of societal and economic pressure.

Tinder , and economic freedom allowed women to date men that they actually find physically attractive. Thr problem with this and I'll admit is thst very few men out in effort when it comes to this. I can go to a bar and for every 10 women I see that put in effort, there's maybe 2 guys that look alright. A lot of men are still operating under the system that our ancestors parents utilised in which if you were just a nice normal stable guy, then at some point you'd find someone relatively around your perceived level.

This isn't the case anymore because being a provider instead necessary. Women can go in an app now in her pajamas and order dick like dominoes, and the best dick at that, completely discreet. Women didn't have this , there may have been trulyno attractive guys in her social circle at the time in the past, so many women due to the natural desire to seek intimacy and love got with who was the best option .

I'm not saying thst there isn't some extreme delusional bullshit and standards on the female side of things , but as men we can be just as delusional. Many on here will complain saying they want a traditional wife, society this and society that, not realising its probably better to be single, to be in a dead bedroom marriage with a wife that views u as a utility. Argue on