I'm getting tired of my feminist girlfriend

UsualStrategy1955 · 2024-02-25T14:27:47+00:00

Man, I have been in your shoes. That anger she feels for every other man on the planet….you’re going to absorb that. You probably already have, at least to an extent. It’s sounds like you walk on egg shells around her?

I swear this is going somewhere:

I have had some negative experiences with women. Lots of them if I’m being honest. A couple of years ago I dated a former co-worker. The first time we had sex she was incredibly aggressive and I was uncomfortable. I went through with it, but it wasn’t much fun. The next day she told me that she was completely aware of my level of discomfort and that she had found it “empowering”.

I was really angry when she told me that. I felt betrayed. This person who purported to care for me (I had known her for about 2 years at that point) and wanted to be in a relationship with me had sensed my discomfort and - not only did it not prompt her to stop what she was doing - she had taken pleasure in it.

I was right to be angry about that. It’s a huge red flag! What I did not do - as a mature and rational adult - was expand that anger out until it encompassed every woman on the planet.

It doesn’t sound like your girlfriend has been able to be similarly mature in her dealings with men. It sounds like she feels entirely justified in holding every man in the world accountable for her individual experiences with individual men.

She might treat you like you’re “one of the good ones”(tm), but the reality may very well be that you were guilty day one, just like the rest of us.

Be careful with her, bud….

VeganSumo · 2024-02-25T14:09:34+00:00

Today no woman would be expected to stay in a relationship with someone who blame every problems on her gender and see no nuances to gender issues. You should uphold the same standard for yourself.

I’m not telling you what to do but having been in the same situation I confronted her about her feminism. I told her I’m not asking for her to change her beliefs for me but she said some concerning things that to me aren’t about equality. She acknowledged that she radicalized herself in reaction to prior abuse and made an engagement to do better and asked me to help her with that.

The thing is… feminists talk about patriarchy all the time but the dominant ideology is feminism (depending on where you live and your own circle I guess). Mainstream feminism is well accepted and even treated as a sacred cow. So keep in mind that IF she is open-minded to having more balanced views… it is still a losing battle for you.

From what you wrote it seems like she doesn’t have to maturity to take a step back about her dogmas. Know that if YOU say something wrong she will hold it against you.

JealousArousal · 2024-02-25T10:51:39+00:00

if i wasn't already with her I would stay away

This is the only thing you said that matters. Your choice.

alotofcavalry · 2024-02-25T13:41:05+00:00

You give the slightest bit of pushback, and she is still overly defensive. These people lack confidence in their beliefs because deep down they know their beliefs are irrational.

hotpotato128 · 2024-02-25T13:58:58+00:00

Break up with her. If you don't have the same views about gender it won't work out.

Too2crazy · 2024-02-25T13:49:23+00:00

That’s pretty rough. I concerned for you because these types can wear you down over time and leave you in a really bad place. I wonder if it’s worth letting her know how you feeling about the relationship or maybe even taking a break.

ERiC_693 · 2024-02-25T14:34:17+00:00

Feminists ive met are usually arrogant, intolerant, smug and emotionally underdeveloped. They cant even engage in a simple conversation without trying to control everything and mold other's views to match their own. Imo its a personality disorder.

This is all up to you my friend. The fact you're posting this means you're not happy. My advice is break up with her.

Men need to stop being pussies, we know these feminists dont care about women and the legitimate issues women face and certainly dont believe in equality of any sort. Its about themselves. They're heads are stuffed with received propoganda in gender studies rhetoric and they've swallowed it because its written by themselves (i.e. white middle-class women) . They have no reason to question something designed for themselves , their benefit and that blames men on everything. Even when women ditch their careers to raise children feminists blame men on it all or if women cchoose biology over engineering, men are to blame. Im just sick of it!

Onemoretime536 · 2024-02-25T14:16:52+00:00

If you feel your can't say your side it doesn't sound like a equal relationship also doesn't sound like she can have a discussion on these issues thats a red flag.

hippiehunter0 · 2024-02-25T14:49:29+00:00

This situation seems highly abusive emotionally and verbally, I can't deny that she sounds like a narcissist that wants everyone to pander to her and the second people give pushback they take it as an insult and an attack.

I highly suggest you leave.

Skirt_Douglas · 2024-02-25T15:40:09+00:00

I don’t know about you man, but when I can’t even feel comfortable saying what I’m thinking without a girlfriend getting hostile and possibly treating me like the out group, that’s where I draw the line of unacceptability. Me being able to express myself and her being able to listen with an empathetic ear is one of the minimum standards I have for a relationship.

ManWithTwoShadows · 2024-02-25T13:41:45+00:00

I can't really say my thoughts on anything related to gender or women without her getting offended. When I disagree she often thinks that I think shes not smart

If someone reacts this way to polite disagreement, you can't have any kind of healthy relationship with them.

Breaking up with her is not out of the cards.

I think you should call out her behavior if you haven't already. Give her a chance to change, and, if she doesn't, drop her like a bad habit.

theatand · 2024-02-25T16:56:02+00:00

When someone comes to the internet & says "what should I do? Maybe a break-up?" It just sounds like you're asking us to give you permission because you don't want to be the one to pull the trigger.

That said if you're not just already wanting to break-up, then sit down & write a letter of your concerns & feelings. At the very least it will let her have some self reflection & you can say your peace about how she makes you feel.

helloiseeyou2020 · 2024-02-25T17:01:13+00:00

The time to start speaking your mind was 4 years ago. You've already set the tone if this relationship as one where you're not allowed to disagree by putting up with it for so long and not being willing to challenge her.

When my wife and I were dating she threw down a few of the feminist cliches in conversation. I was willing to challenge her - politely and with good arguments- and as a result we had great conversations that allowed both of us to explore and refine our beliefs.

Can you do that 4 years later vice 4 months later? Dunno if that genie can be put back in the lamp

2024-02-25T16:08:00+00:00

You need to jump ship now! I dated one of these feminist women back in high school and it almost turned me into an incel. If I hadn’t of been as intelligent as I am I would be past the point of no return

SentientReality · 2024-02-25T15:52:01+00:00

How good is the sex?

The way you've described it here, this relationship is doomed. If you know what's good for you and you aren't seeking a painful existence then you should not look for a deep partnership with this woman. She is a bad partner. Your resentment is already starting to build up and it will only get worse and worse. Not being able to defend yourself and voice your opinion honestly is toxic and almost always destroys relationships eventually. It will inevitably lead to contempt. Do you want your future to be a contemptuous bitter relationship where you feel dismissed and unable to be honest?

On the other hand, if the sex is fantastic and she's too fine to replace, then enjoy the physical aspect of it and slowly disengage from the emotional/mental aspect and get a foot out the door. Eventually encourage her to move on as well.

You haven't indicated that she's crazy, but if you begin to detect any craziness then that is your cue to run immediately. Someone who views men as responsible for all problems is not that far away from someone who will concoct imaginary false assault allegations.

if i wasn't already with her I would stay away

That really says everything.

Tesco5799 · 2024-02-25T15:22:07+00:00

Personally I would have a hard time dealing with that kind of stuff all the time, my only practical advice is to be honest and communicate how all of this makes you feel. It sounds like your GF is just angry at the world to some degree.

Feminist nonsense aside your GF kind of reminds me of me at that age (I'm a bit less than 10 years older than you guys), just kind of mad at the world and some vague theoretical structures that I was convinced were holding me and everyone else back in life. I went down a big what we would now call alt right/ libertarian rabbit hole for a few years, for a lot of reasons. I was angry at the government, society in general to some degree, and also frustrated with my own circumstances, no money, job I didn't like, etc. In retrospect I think it was difficult to transition from being a kid/ teen where I was always told how great things are and like how great my generation was going to be, how there are all these opportunities and then adult life turned out to not be like that at all. I had been more or less lied to, got into debt to go to school only to get a shit entry level job etc etc.

It was helpful to me to realize that the things holding me back in my life weren't the things I was angry at, the government etc weren't screwing me personally any more than anyone else. Ya things could have gone better for me if I had more info when I was younger but being angry about it wasn't going to send me back in time to make better choices. Also I found that the rhetoric I was reading was a lot like this feminist stuff in that there weren't really concrete answers, and my real life experience kind of showed me that things are a lot more nuanced in reality than your average online propagandist wants you to realize. Eventually I stopped reading the alt right stuff so much as it got repetative with the same nonsense being repeated over and over.

I feel like what your GF has fallen into is essentially the same kind of thing but for women, the ideology is different but basically is the same idea.

Talik1978 · 2024-02-25T18:39:48+00:00

If someone is broadly hostile to a group, and excludes one person, it's the "i'm not racist, I have a black friend" phenomena. Zootopia did a pretty good job of describing why "you're one of the good ones" isn't a compliment.

If you have told her that you're uncomfortable with her broadly denigrating an identity you're a part of, and she hasn't respected that, you need to either decide if it's something you can let go, or if she is someone you can let go. Nobody can make that decision for you, but it is a decision you are going to have to make.

As for the "she thinks you believe her stupid", the typical response I go for is, "if I thought you were stupid, I wouldn't be having this discussion with you." That should reassure any legitimate concern.

Whole_W · 2024-02-25T19:41:44+00:00

Having a minor in gender studies usually means a person understands sex-based issues less than an uneducated person, in my humble opinion. I got into an argument with a sociology professor once who was claiming that "men can't be victims of sexism," only "victims of an individual's prejudice." It's like they pretend that men aren't victims based on their sex at a systemic level, or that the issues they face are minor in comparison to women's. I fail to see how forced conscription and forced genital cutting are non-systemic or minor issues.

country2poplarbeef · 2024-02-25T16:29:59+00:00

Live how you wanna live, and if she doesn't adapt, so be it. It sounds like you're essentially moulding yourself to her, while she gets to wrap herself up in political extremes that you ultimately validate by sticking around.

PuristProtege · 2024-02-25T19:51:08+00:00

Hit her with the good old "Capitalism doesn't actually discriminate on gender, race or religion. It just wants money".

Curious, was she like when you guys first met? I'm in a similar position where my fiance has started espousing some radfem views here and there every few weeks, like she is testing the waters. She might say something, or link an Instagram reel, not sure how to handle it, don't wanna rock the boat too hard since we're engaged.

2024-02-25T22:49:02+00:00

I wouldn't continue to date her, just as I would never date a man who identifies as a feminist.

If you're an egalitarian or humanitarian, the feminist ideology is simply too different from us. It really cannot work out longterm, as you can see.

DevilishRogue · 2024-02-25T19:03:49+00:00

She is delusional and incapable of reason. You are dating a zealot who sees you as belonging to the oppressor class she hates. Her bigotry will prevent the relationship from ever being worthwhile. Your options are to try to get her to overcome her brainwashing, which will be hard as she doesn't want to experience cognitive dissonance, or to leave and find someone more suitable. Only you can decide which of these two choices is right for you, but there are no other choices.

MachoManShark · 2024-02-25T16:57:19+00:00

i'm not going to command you to break up, but i think you should seriously imagine what would happen if you did.

how would your life change? what improves, what gets worse? how would you feel on an average day without her, vs how do you feel most days now?

i think doing this might make the answer more clear.

Illustrious_Bus9486 · 2024-02-25T18:52:30+00:00

Decide if you want peace or drama. Then you'll know what to do..

Independent-Library6 · 2024-02-25T21:28:11+00:00

Liz Truss was just at cpac talking about how the woke transgenders ruined her time as PM.

If women were in charge or would just be more of the same.

Zenis · 2024-02-25T17:00:17+00:00

I pretty exclusively date women who identify as feminists. I identify that way too, to an extent, but I follow what they claim (equality) rather than what many of them actually believe (revenge)

The key is to ask her questions. I go into “seeking to understand” mode, where I try to figure out what the logical conclusion is (if it exists) and maybe I learn something, or establish that she’s just whining.

If she says “the patriarchy” is responsible for (bad thing), ask her to describe what a non-patriarchal society would look like. Then ask how that society would prevent (bad thing) from happening. She’ll either give up, or describe some sort of fascist policy (which you point out will take police or military violence to achieve), or she’ll come up with something that can be achieved in current society that you can both advocate for

Regarding her hostility to men, ask her if she thinks we’re all victims of patriarchy. Then ask how it’s helpful to blame victims. Ask her if any women contribute to patriarchy, like majority of white women voting for Trump. If she says yes, ask why it’s ok to blame men but not women for contributing. If she says it’s men’s fault and women are brainwashed, ask her why she respects the agency of men more than women.

Or skip all the arguments and dump her. 🤷🏼‍♂️

quantumpencil · 2024-02-25T15:12:27+00:00

Break up with her immediately. Here are 3 pieces of advice you should stick to:

1: Don't date women who blame men for their/societies problems.

These women are ideologically antagonistic towards men and it won't take many slip ups on your part to become part of her imaginary group of villains.

2: Don't date women who talk about their ex-lovers like they were awful people who treated them poorly and they were just an innocent victim.

It's easy to fall into this trap because men don't get taught that we need to have each others' backs, but MOST LIKELY, her ex was a normal dude and perfectly fine boyfriend just like you -- and the way she talks about HIM to you is how she will come to feel about you in the future. Not to mention this shows an inability to take responsibility for how her actions contribute to bad outcomes.

3: Don't date women who don't love their father, even if they recognize his flaws and shortcomings.

Women who don't like their dad will see their dad in you and come to resent you for any superficial similarities you guys may share, and there will always be some.

You will become the enemy to any women who do these things.. And it will make your life hell.

Sakebigoe · 2024-02-25T21:07:06+00:00

I can't tell you exactlywhat you need to do but you can't just bottle these feelings up if you want the relationship to continue (or even if you don't). Try to find a good time to have a conversation with here when neither of your emotions are high, find a way to explain how the way she talks about men as a group makes you feel but try to phrase it in a way that doesn't feel like an attack. No matter what this'll be a challenging conversation but it's one that clearly needs to happen.

safestuff987 · 2024-02-26T23:42:09+00:00

I dunno about you, but I could personally never be with a person like this. Forget her feminist beliefs for a second, she clearly has a victim mentality. I've dealt with a lot of people like this before and from my experience, this is where it ends up:

She will blame everything and everyone but herself for her problems and shortcomings, even when she only has herself to blame. There will be zero accountability on her part.
You'll feel like you have to walk on eggshells because you never know what's going to trigger her
If she hasn't done this already, every little disagreement will always be your fault in her eyes no matter what.

Don't expect that she is going to change, and assume that this will probably be the same or get worse over time. Be honest with yourself: could you see yourself marrying or spending the rest of your life with her?

She sounds exhausting AF.

trowaway123453199 · 2024-02-26T00:11:25+00:00

why do you think that her hatred towards men wont turn towards you sooner or later?

do you think that your opinion of men has worsened since you started dating her?

Motanul_Negru · 2024-02-27T18:21:06+00:00

I only know about your feminist girlfriend from your post and I'm tired of her already.

If breaking up with her is not out of the cards, and you trust yourself with the loneliness if you don't find anyone else, and you can reasonably proof yourself against her ruining your life (career, relationships with other people, siccing the authorities on you), my take is to just do that.

2024-02-28T20:20:25+00:00

It will only take one small mistake on your part for you to suddenly be "just like the other men" and all her hatred towards all men that aren't you will suddenly be targeted at you.

This woman resents a large part of your identity. It's only a matter of time until the facade slips.

2025-07-28T18:43:06+00:00

I feel you on this, brother.

I know this post is a year old, but felt I needed to share my own path down a similar road.

Now, we're all individuals, I don't know anything about you or her beyond this post, but I can't help but see myself from 13 years ago when I met my now ex-wife extreme feminist.

The signs were always there, but I overlooked them. After all, I shared all her same beliefs, and that was always good enough for past partners who were feminists. I always thought I was an exception. I was more effeminate than most other men, I cooked, I did the house chores, I contributed what I could financially (she always out-earned me), I always voted liberal, I joined her at marches/rallies, I always showed respect to other women (minded my personal space, treated them like people, made eye contact, didn't expect anything for my kindness, etc.).

Then, she convinced me to move to her home state of California. I went in with an open-mind, but quickly realized that just being a male liberal who supported feminism was never going to be good enough. Nothing I could possibly do was. I noticed the glares from women for doing absolutely nothing wrong other than existing, noticed how female wait staff would constantly cater to my ex, but begrudgingly "serve" me. I noticed how my ex totally transformed from the loving, supportive, caring, equal, and sometimes vocal and angry, to this full-blown hate-filled, resentful, man-hating, total monster I didn't know anymore.

Before I knew it, she was dominating everything. She insisted I didn't pay any bills directly, only through her. She constantly undermined anything I was confident or felt an achievement about (that I worked hard for). She belittled all my hobbies and passions (physical and creative hobbies too, like musical instrument, acrylic painting, cooking, gardening, house projects, pursuing a degree in a field I enjoyed that would make us more money, etc.).

She cheated several times, and next thing I knew, she served me divorce papers. Kicked me out of the house, took custody away because all women in California need is to simply say they're "uncomfortable" with it, and poof, gone. Have to "prove yourself" again through supervised visitation, court fees, paying an amount of child support you can't afford (which goes into an arrears balance if you don't pay the full amount monthly), take a parenting class, and able to afford a 2-bedroom living space for the child.

I went through all that hell, got custody back, stepped it up more than I've ever stepped up in my life, and it's STILL not good enough. I'm now stranded in one of the worst states for hoping to ever date again (California), where even one wrong look is considered "harassment", and single fathers, no matter how much you're there for your kid, you're seen as a walking red flag, except with an expendable wallet.

Dude, I hope you've saved yourself the trouble and ended things. There's simply NO logic, no reasoning with them. You might as well date a wall covered in barbed wire.

I just hope for your sake, you aren't in California. You at least have a chance of finding someone more level-headed elsewhere.

And no, I didn't "switch sides", much as my ex likes to accuse me of such. I vote liberal on principle to my beliefs, not who kisses my ass more. I just have to be super vigilant around most women, now. Funny thing is, many respond better when I'm very neutral and dismissive of them, rather than being uber-respectful.

yoshi_win · 2024-02-25T14:12:46+00:00

Sounds like you both have some talking to do. Maybe you can express your thoughts in a way that will click with her - for example any progressive/lefty should understand that dehumanizing people is bad, that negative views of a demographic group look (and are) a lot like bigotry. It may help to identify common ground - for example maybe you both agree that capitalism hurts people and that patriarchy contributed in some ways? Issues like police & judicial discrimination, conscription, circumcision, homelessness, worker safety, these are easy areas of agreement. Others like pressure to earn, reproductive / family planning rights, and hiring discrimination may be easier to discuss if you acknowledge that some aspects of the issue also hurt women. My GF is feminist and we generally agree on economic & election issues. When she says something that I disagree with, I try to express partial agreement while also saying whatever seemed wrong or made me uncomfortable.

Good luck!

TopBlacksmith6538 · 2024-06-08T09:59:15+00:00

If you feel you can't be honest, and you have to walk on eggshells around her this is only going to get worse overtime. Also do you plan on having kids? Do you plan of having sons? I can tell you that a boy growing up hearing that men are basically trash isn't healthy, everyday you hear stories of men dealing with trauma being raised by feminist mothers treating them as such, and ironically enough, a lot of men following people like Andrew Tate are also reacting out of this type of resentment, and your son could easily fall into this trap.

Also another question to ask is does she actually want equality between the sexes or is she the pick and choose type? The kind who will say men should cry, until it doesn't suit her and then she'll make fun of him for crying? I notice a lot feminist don't want equality, they want revenge, they want to win.

Zealousideal-Wind303 · 2025-03-13T18:12:00+00:00

That relationship is broken. Break up with her. Sometimes i thank god i am gay. She is of those people that hates men so much that makes them be in rage always. You better go now that you cam before she manipulates you and leave you in a dark corner where you will have no voice and be like a pet to her to laugh in front of her feminist friends. They are like that bro, run, go away. She does not deserves you. Feminists are crazy as hell and blame men always that is exactly ehat your GF is doing. Broke up now or after she will be a maniac and freak and if you break up when she reach the maniac feminist state she will accuse you of many things that always hace been gold against men. I am a man too and all feminists that i have known get angry when i say i like being a biker and going to gym. They call it trash and they behin hating. So go nooow

2025-03-22T07:13:15+00:00

Corta con ella imediatamente . Te mereces una mujer que te ame por los que sos y te trate como un igual algo que jamás vas encontrar en un feminista

2025-03-23T09:11:34+00:00

look at my story

Gmin7b5 · 2025-04-22T23:44:55+00:00

Leave her asap bro

2025-04-24T14:29:09+00:00

Any update on this?

Dangerous-Ask-8111 · 2025-04-27T08:15:44+00:00

I hope you are out of that relationship. Sounds so exhausting.

Zealousideal-Wind303 · 2025-05-30T18:36:28+00:00

She is misandrist, not feminist.

TemperaturePresent40 · 2025-08-05T00:28:53+00:00

A degree of gender studies as some sort of authority to know what she is talking about is the equivalent of using a chocolate medal as proof of being an olympic athlete, is one of the most pointless degrees ever, its pure midwit cope

Outside_Bet2902 · 2025-08-24T02:07:18+00:00

Idk why you aren’t suggesting solutions about how to fix the problems. It sounds like you need to listen to her instead of bitching to Reddit about how “annoying” she is. If you were a good person, you’d have the same thoughts she has about the reality of the world and wouldn’t have had to be confronted with the reality from her for the first time in your life. Idk why you’d disagree with her feminist points unless you were sexist. She deserves someone better

Complex-Word-5897 · 2025-11-25T18:40:02+00:00

Bro of you wanna live on this earth while being misérable... So be it. Leave for your life, your sanity and mental health

free-thinker-1234 · 2025-12-07T20:52:46+00:00

Dude. I've been there. I consider myself very moderate, so I thought that we would find a middle-point between the 4th-wave feminist ideas of my girlfriend and me. Unfortunately, after 6 years the disagreements were increasing and I started to be really pissed off. I was considered "masculinist" only to say that "not all man are rapist". My advice: stop talking about feminism with her. If feminist ideology starts to filter in your everyday life (ex: sex life) then just quit. It won't get any better and you will be unhappy. Many people go through this nowadays.

Emergency-Disk694 · 2025-12-28T05:33:03+00:00

you need to leave that feminist woman she will break you mentally n emotionally she will used it against you also she withheld intimancy feminist are not good partners at all they will choose there ideology over relationship if i am you would start planning ur exist strategy n do not let her have access to anything of urs

Plenty-Jelly-1509 · 2026-01-30T23:46:58+00:00

I just left my feminist fiance, leave now man. They will claim to be the most intelligent beings in the world, it’s the polar opposite. They want to be feminists but will expect you to still be the man in the relationship. Get away, now. There’s nothing worse.

Mexican_Kiddo · 2026-02-02T12:58:32+00:00

Sometimes we forget that even the people closest to us may be radicalized, at that point you can't reason with them unless you're on their side. It's not worth it, take care of yourself, King.

Emergency-Disk694 · 2026-02-02T22:06:37+00:00

break up with n move on you dont need a relationship with a feminist also feminist only want to control the relationship also she will break u down mentally n emotionally you dont need that stuff

Every_Spirit3715 · 2026-02-06T01:20:40+00:00

break up with her and find someone that respects you and your beliefs

hotpotato128 · 2024-02-25T19:24:21+00:00

I think most women who identify as "feminists" just believe in equality. Some feminists are misandrists. They are the loud minority on social media.

Reasonable-Path1321 · 2024-02-25T23:54:59+00:00

She might just be a bit sucked into politics rn. I am a feminist (lurker) but also have strong socialist values. I generally place my class politics above the identity politics, there are some horrifying female monsters out there. Unfortunately she's not incorrect in saying that men have set up the God awful system were all subject to. But I'd argue it's not inherently due to their gender and far more to do with the fact that women didn't really have the oppertunity to rule or lead in any sense on that level until 30ish years ago.

As always with these types of posts you need to have this conversation with her. Expressing that you feel alienated by her narrowed perspective isn't a crime. You'll need to meet her half way and acknowledge that alot of the chaos has been caused by prior rulers (men) but there is room for a neuanced discussion about why it isn't down to gender. Ideally I would hope within that conversation she might surprise you with her own neuanced takes.

As I said it sounds like she's a little lost in the sauce rn. Maybe a break and an effort to minimise the amount y'all are talking about this stuff could be helpful. There's nothing wrong with being very invested in this stuff but if it's started to take a toll on your relationship then something is wrong.

Intergalacticio · 2024-02-25T20:38:47+00:00

I probably can’t give very good advice about this because I haven’t dated. But looking at the comments I think I’d be wary of the advice that is given here.

I do think breaking up, hopefully amicably, would be the right move. But I think telling her why you want to break up with her might be the murky question.

AssistTemporary8422 · 2024-02-26T05:17:54+00:00

I think she had some very negative experiences with men which has created an emotional bias where she blames men for everything. So getting into a debate with her about gender is just counter-produce and you are better off avoiding that topic entirely.

BCRE8TVE · 2024-02-26T22:18:25+00:00

If it's not going to get any better in the future, are you ready to bear this forever, when you could instead be in a relationship where you don't have this problem to deal with?

BigMagnut · 2024-02-28T16:06:37+00:00

Consider going on Seeking arrangement, where you can find a new girlfriend. Or adopt feminism and learn to love your girlfriend.

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