Being nice is a bare minimum requirement, NOT a shining, redeeming, rare, heroic quality.

Saying that someone should like you because you’re “nice" is like saying that someone should like you because you have two lungs and breathe air.

What most nice guys usually don’t realize is that this is the same exact thing morbidly obese women with legs that look like sacks of flour stacked one atop the other say about themselves in relation to their lack of dating options too: “Why don’t men want to date me? I’m so nice! Clearly, men are just shallow pigs."

Put more energy into improving your appearance, a non-needy aura of confidence & your social status than you do into being “the nice guy” and your interactions with women will get better.