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Best response to "I was thinking about you"

raikii · 2015-05-05T12:21:11+00:00

Witties, or just simply the best response for this...

raikii

May 5, 2015

164 upvotes

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Title	Best response to "I was thinking about you"
Author	raikii
Upvotes	164
Comments	126
Date	May 5, 2015 12:21 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/34xmg3/best_response_to_i_was_thinking_about_you/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/best-response-to-i-was-thinking-about-you.1387715 https://theredarchive.com/post/1387715

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I actually told her I don't do notes. I want black marker. That's my usual method of operation. She was told as much.

You find them everywhere. Probably on your bus right now or next to you in class or at work. Most women fall comfortably into the submissive category. Whether they've been with a Dom like me before doesn't really matter. This particular girl is new to this but she has fallen into the roll quite naturally.

You know how you can imagine a pretty girl saying something like "you can do whatever you want to me" and it turns you the fuck on? Like, raging wild? Well believe it or not, she has the same reaction when I tell her "when you come over you're going to be my good little girl and do what the fuck I tell you, understand?"

You don't start with this kind of talk immediately but you should start creating that dynamic right away. You're in charge and that's it. No questions. Be disappointed with her sometimes. Critique everything and don't be kind about it. This particular girl said to me "I love making you happy. I really want you're approval and it makes me happy when you like the things I say or do." Verbatim. She would never say that if I liked everything she said or did. Cultivate that dynamic of father/daughter, teacher/student etc. Create a tension of uncertainty so that she needs your approval to know that everything is ok.

Don't be an asshole though. Tell her how much you love that pic, that blowjob or her effort in general. Tell her she's been a good girl when she's been one.

Don't even get me started on how to fuck her right cuz I ain't got the strength right now.

Overall, allow yourself to behave naturally as the dominant man you are inside, if that's who you are. Don't be afraid that you're perverted or being too rough or whatever. Over time and with practice this will just be your everyday method of operation.

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I don't care how many women I have been with, as I do not see my self worth based on the number of them I have been with.
I do have a girlfriend of 5 and a half years, she was my first real girlfriend and we are both extremely happy.
I do not care if people are texting me, I have no social networks like Facebook, or Instagram or Twitter. I have a small group of close friends.

It seems that you assumed I am someone looking for a girlfriend, trying to learn how to swoon people over, don't assume everyone here is trying to game on girls for the sake of it, some people are here just to learn how to keep their relationships fun and light (which is why I am here). Don't be so quick to label people because you are resentful.

You sound angry and honestly a bit depressed, you will not make friends that way. Cheer up and try getting out and being active sometime, go for a run, a swim, climbing or hiking; possibly even some therapy.

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